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Contents
DECEMBER 2020/JANUARY 2021
LOOK
8 Unseen elements
Neutral essentials paired
with leather and gold
18 Accessories
Impeccably designed
must-have handbags
22 Pan-African fashion
Featuring Selfi
36 Shopping
Butter yellow and one-
piece swimsuits
28 The ones to watch
A fashion film
series celebrates
Black excellence
56
FEEL
32 Alexa, time to party
All the beauty inspo for
the holiday season
38 What’s on our
beauty radar?
44 What the collagen?
Here’s what you need to
know about the latest
beauty beverage
52 Pan-African beauty
Finally, a proudly South
African natural hair- and
body-care range!
LIVE
56 Nomzamo Mbatha
On natural beauty and
taking on Hollywood
62 Gift guide
For him, her, the kids and
the homebody
70 Summer on a budget
Wallet-friendly ways
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to have fun
74 It’s OK to hit pause
on your goals
Hint: stop trying to plan!
76 Should you be
living according to
your period?
THINK
84 Natural healing
90
Can fresh air help you
beat the blues?
90 Who runs the world?
The artists and
designers to know
102 Our favourite collabs
6 creatives putting
SA on the map
108 104 A new outlook
Make wellness your
top priority
108 Bread and wine
An indulgent recipe
and a pinot to match
38
ON THE COVER
PHOTOGRAPHY: Simz
Mkhwanazi, creative direction,
production and styling:
Jason Alexander Basson,
photographer’s assistants:
Mondli Madondo, Njabulo Khazi,
hair: Kudakwashe Mhlanga at
Kudatot, makeup: Rea Ngwenya at
ModaByRea, videography:
Mel Mthembu, location:
The Oyster Box, Durban
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the entertainment world and has acquired several endorsements deals with global brands. Now based in Los
Angeles, she’s a regular feature on the red carpet, as well as on stage hosting prominent awards and events. She
talks to Glamour about a young Nomzamo who had big dreams, how she’s surviving in a competitive industry
and being a humanitarian. We photographed the cover story in her hometown, Durban, where it all began.
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AT ONE LEAGUE CREATIVE MANAGEMENT; MODEL: ININA HENRY AT BOSS MODELS; VIDEOGRAPHY: CORINE STIJEN
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DESIGNED HANDBAGS YOU’LL WANT TO BE SEEN CARRYING.
P22 HOW A PANDEMIC BECAME AN INDUSTRY BLESSING.
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Silk slip dress Stefania
Morland, tie apron dress
Merwe Salt, gold earrings
Lorne, leather sling bag
Verse, coin purses
Thalia Strates
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Linen top and trousers
Lazuli, Belter and Philo bags
Verse, rings Lorne
OPPOSITE PAGE
Coat Stefania Morland,
gold earrings Lorne
THIS PAGE
Top, trousers and ankle boots
Hannah Lavery, gold
earrings Lorne, bucket bag
with rouge strap and Lola
bag Thalia Strates
OPPOSITE PAGE
Linen wrap dress Judith
Atelier, sea urchin stud
earrings and ring Kinkel
Jewellery, springbok hyde
coin purses Thalia Strates
THIS PAGE
Linen spring coat and bag
Hannah Lavery, top and
trousers Museá, shoes
Valerie Domínguez,
gold earrings Lorne,
bucket bag with springbok
strap Thalia Strates
OPPOSITE PAGE
Coat Stefania Morland,
gold rings Lorne,
bucket bag with shearling
strap Thalia Strates
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LEAGUE CREATIVE MANAGEMENT; MODEL: ININA HENRY AT BOSS MODELS; VIDEOGRAPHY: CORINE STIJEN
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Salt, shoes Valerie
Domínguez, gold earrings
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coin purses Thalia Strates
leather belt Verse,
leather bag Matsidiso
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gold earrings Lorne
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handmakes with
love: baskets,
beads and
all-natural
accessories.
Working with
weavers from
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to create
authentically
African weaved
products is a sign
the brand truly
supports local.
These beautifully
beaded
handbags are
made by
Bronzed
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and her
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L’UNFM
In response
to consumers
seeking rest
from the chaos
who gravitated
towards
simplified
beauty,
L’uniforme
has released
considered,
beautiful,
wellmade pieces
designed to last
forever.
fashion survive
sales have increased, so too
has the demand for content.
As a brand, we’ll invest
the pandemic?
more into online, not only
from a content creation
point of view but also from a
functionality perspective.
We look to sustainable-design brand
Selfi for answers and inspiration. G: Have you changed
the way you market and
WORDS BY JASON ALEXANDER BASSON produce your products?
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CA: I think the main content creation, as well as mentioned, aspects of that consumers to our brand.
takeaway here is the shift in online brand awareness. We will include brand story – We must also ensure that
focus to brand storytelling don’t need a physical store that’s what sets apart many we, as a brand, can continue
in the context of selling a presence to run our business. brands who’re strengthening selling online without
product. These days, people their position online. The compromising our access
want to know who you are, G: What can we expect other one is designing. We to fabric.
what the bones of your from Selfi in the future? have to be that much more
business are, and why they CA: We’re looking at creating selective with fabrications G: What did you have to
should invest in your brand. a stronger brand story, and availability. There are let go?
In terms of production, perpetually reinforced by a still shortages of fabric, CA: The entire structure
we’re focusing on direct lifestyle that complements it. specifically new fabric, on we knew, but that was was
sales or orders. We’ve Our pillars have, and always the market. While that’s probably not the worst thing
stopped over-producing, will be, self-empowerment, easing up, we have to be that could’ve happened.
pulling out of stockists who self-care and sustainability, resourceful by finding ways Many brands, including
themselves have had to points we want to reinforce to marry conceptual items ours, are focusing on one
close. Interestingly, we’ve more thoroughly. As I and fabrications that’ll draw collection a year that’s
seen an increase in the season-less, as opposed to
demand for international two, four or even six. It’s
wholesale orders during the idea of slow fashion,
the height of the pandemic “The pandemic has allowed which is ironic as these are
– from places such as
Hamburg, Dubai and New
businesses to fast-track their the ideals the industry has
been toying with for years
York. We’ve also seen solutions to the problem of now. Essentially, we have to
consumers participating on industry-wide excess” accept this as our new reality.
platforms such as Mercedes- The normal functioning of
Benz in Russia and panel several internal systems is
discussions at ZEITZ also bound to change. Due
MOCAA. to the pandemic, customs
operations are slower,
G: Is this the way things will meaning there’s a constant
be from now on? shortage of supplies. So,
CA: The face of retail has we’ve become agile, able
changed. We have fewer to think on our feet. Who
overheads, and we’ve closed knows what could happen
our flagship store as it next. You have to be ready
wasn’t feasible to keep it and willing to shake a leg,
open anymore. I think the creatively and authentically.
less-is-more approach has For example, we’ve resorted
been a long time coming to making more fabrics
for most businesses. This ourselves and collaborating
PHOTOGRAPHY: EUNICE DRIVER
Dripping
in gold
We have a major
crush on local
jeweller Henriette
Botha’s minimal
and mod pieces.
For chunky rings Stylish doccies to binge-watch
and paperclip -House of Cardin
chains, each one -Martin Margiela: In His Own Words
dipped in gold, visit -Salvatore: Shoemaker of Dreams
henriettebotha.com -Helmut Newton: The Bad and the Beautiful
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The founding members meet
virtually every Friday via
Zoom or phone to discuss
new initiatives and provide
mentorship to those whose
companies are still in the
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releases a fashion film series Members include stylist Black. Titled Film Noirs and
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BEAUTY
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NOMZAMO MBATHA
The actress and Neutrogena ambassador
often travels the world, but all that flying never
seems to affect her skin. Nomzamo Mbatha
talks no-makeup confidence and everything
in between.
travelling?
Glamour: What is it about NM: I use Neutrogena Hydro
bare skin that makes you Boost Serum twice a day, and
feel confident and alive? when I travel I lather it on
Nomzamo Mbatha: my face – so a bottle doesn’t
Not wearing makeup is last me long! I use Hydro
liberating, self-assuring, Boost City Shield SPF25 to
comforting. You don’t G: Which part of the invite them to ‘See what’s protect my skin, especially
have to put on a show to process of being a part of possible’. We champion during the summer season.
feel confident because the Neutrogena team have skin positivity: we don’t
you can do it just as well you enjoyed the most? call it anti-ageing, we call G: Tips for not melting in
in your natural state. I feel NM: I love being part of the it pro-ageing. It’s been an front of harsh camera lights
most beautiful when I’m family, how we’ve built such incredible journey and daily aggressors?
barefaced, to be honest. a large community in South seeing people resonate with NM: I take good care of my
Africa for Neutrogena lovers the brand. skin. If you’re going to be
G: Which essential beauty – it’s a feather in my cap. I under harsh lighting, invest
items do you never leave believe in the integrity of G: Your most used beauty in a hydrating eye cream, and
the house without? the brand and its products. or self-care item? a moisturiser that protects
NM: Mascara, lip gloss, and I’ve seen the results, and NM: It’s between the barrier of your skin and
sunscreen for my hands, it’s always so beautiful to Neutrogena’s Spot has hydrating properties
especially when I’m driving see how women, young and Controlling Facial Wash to quench your skin. You
because I find the sun always old, have seen themselves and Hydro Boost Water should wear sunscreen
hits my hands, which can reflected in a positive light Gel Cleanser. I always every day, but it also helps to
lead to discolouration. when we as Neutrogena decant these and take them minimise scarring.
p
because its herbal and woody hints
give perfumes a cologne-y quality.)
And Calvin Klein’s CK Everyone is the
brand’s first fragrance to contain 77%
‘naturally derived’ ingredients (ones
that contain raw materials the brand has
tweaked in a lab).
But what about the sustainability
erfumes may smell like raspberries or perfumes. It’s not that natural notes are question? You can’t over-harvest geranyl
jasmine but, paradoxically, fragrances better than synthetic ones, per se, but acetate, but you can over-harvest
are the last frontier of natural beauty they are another tool in the perfumer’s its muse, the rose. “The challenge is
products. Unlike skincare, hair care, kit and one that appeals to the having enough of the natural material
and cosmetics – which chemists can consumer’s appetite for more natural to produce perfumes,” says organic
formulate entirely with botanically products. chemist (and founder of the fragrance
derived ingredients, rather than But “it’s tricky to formulate perfumes blog Colognoisseur) Mark Behnke.
synthetics – the perfume industry has with natural ingredients. They don’t last “One of the most famous sandalwoods,
been fuelled by the opposite: synthetic as long on the skin, and if you’re paying mysore, was sold in India, and the
mimicry of natural ingredients. When for a fragrance you want it to last,” says industry harvested it into oblivion.”
you smell lavender or rose in a perfume, Aerin Lauder, founder of Aerin. She’s But innovative materials are offering
maybe 90% of the time what you’re proud of the real and enduring notes she a more sustainable way forward.
smelling is a linalool or geranyl acetate uses, like lilac in her Lilac Path. Bioengineers are designing yeast strains
compound, lab-made replicas of the One high-tech solution: perfumers that can be fermented into a handful of
flowers in bloom. are using artificial notes, including
It’s been that way since the late 1800s intelligence (AI) peach, mango,
when the industry introduced synthetic to measure how coconut and rose.
aromatic molecules. For the first time, intensely you’ll “...it’s in Botanical waste is
precious scents were available at prices smell a scent over environmental being repurposed
that the rising middle class could afford.
“The artificial products were stronger,
time. They can
then increase the
and social to create essential
oils, such as using
longer lasting and cheaper,” says concentration of respect” apple pulp that
Mandy Aftel, a perfumer and author of an ingredient or would otherwise
Fragrant: The Secret Life of Scent (R475, pair it with one be disposed of at
loot.co.za). “With the move from natural that makes its food-processing
to synthetics, the great perfumes were effect more powerful. Rose may be set off plants, says Stephen Nilsen, senior
born – Chanel No. 5, Shalimar.” by other natural or synthetic notes, that perfumer at Givaudan.
But chemical replicas of the real don’t compete with the classic floral, but IFF distils discarded turmeric leaves
thing aren’t exactly trendy right now, so make it smell headier. into the oil with hints of pepper and
the big fragrance houses – Firmenich, And new distillation techniques can citrus (it developed the ingredient
Givaudan, International Flavours & make natural fragrances as complex as this spring, so you can expect to see it
Fragrances (IFF) — are hard at work anything a perfumer could dream up in in fragrances next year), and it takes
innovating ways to create more natural a lab. oakwood extract from wood harvested
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Fat freezing is exactly how it handle on your target area, up on sleep or enjoy a good and be willing to make other
sounds: a therapist applies the fat freezing begins, book.) minor changes (especially if
a cold temperature to your leaving you with a slimmer, you aren’t active). You’ve got
targeted area, which causes smoother and tightened THE to play your part to achieve
fat cells to crystalise and body. The recommended EXPERIENCE the best results. One of
expire. Your lymphatic system time between treatments Before you go for your the great things about this
eliminates these fat cells is 30 days. You may require treatment, keep in mind it’s experience is the fact that
naturally and permanently. only one treatment on a not as simple as freezing you don’t need to do much
Each treatment decreases specified area, or you may your fat, then continuing before your treatment. But
the number of fat cells in a need more. (Regardless, you to make the same lifestyle your therapist will advise
targeted area. Once your can use the time you spend choices. You need to be you not to overeat as it may
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wet-wipe-like sheet called changing your lifestyle, it’s THE PROCESS ĺ Inner and outer thighs
an antifreeze membrane to doable. If you’re looking for a As crystallised fat cells take
protect your skin. Then, a treatment that delivers fast between 30 and 40 days THE RESULTS
pod or handle is placed over results due to an upcoming to leave your body, you’re You may notice a difference
the area, which acts as a engagement such as a required to increase your on the day of your
vacuum that sucks up your wedding, work commitment, water consumption, increase treatment, but it takes
fat and freezes it at subzero birthday, or you’ve just given physical activity and change 30 to 40 days to see the
temperatures. You may birth, then this is for you. your eating habits slightly. full results. Some people
experience initial discomfort, After your treatment, your are happy after just one
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and Lewis Hamilton, we scared. Young girls living in
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MCing and performing. so she was overprotective
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addressed at the 75th seating Cracking Hollywood acting agent said, ‘You can
of the United Nations Nomzamo’s move to LA send a tape, but I think you
General Assembly and, landed her a role in the should be in the room.’ I felt
of course, hosted Miss American comedy film demotivated at the time, but
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relationship with the brand million. “That means I’m in
has been beautiful, ever a billion-Rand movie. I don’t
since the beginning, when know what that means right
we launched the ‘See What’s now, but I will one day.”
Possible’ campaign as a How’s life in LA? “It’s
global message. Seeing what’s different from South Africa,
possible has been the theme but I love it. It was initially
of my life. The relatability of hard because it was a big
the tagline’s so much deeper. culture shock – I tried not to
Look at me: the probability get hit by a car while crossing
of a girl from KwaMashu the street! Overall, it’s been
getting to where I am now is such a great experience, and
less than one per cent. That I’ve learnt so much about
in itself is a promise of a new myself. I’ve learnt that I’m
dawn, of possibility. It’s also brave. It’s brave to leave
an invitation to each other your comfort zone to travel
as women or people. I invite to a foreign country on your
you into my story. Besides own without your family. It
skincare and technology, I takes courage, opportunity
believe in the integrity of and lots of hard work. You
Neutrogena products.” also need a thick skin – I
She’s also a UNHCR always say that’s the formula
Goodwill Ambassador. “I to surviving in LA. In South
feel most fulfilled when I’m Africa, you need a thick skin
travelling in Africa visiting for social media. Elsewhere
refugee camps, when I’m in in the world, you need it for
rooms that people don’t even professionals, experts, and
know about, rooms that offer the people who sit on the
me opportunities. I say, ‘let’s “I’m in a billion-Rand movie. other side of the table, those
take these opportunities, who can decide your destiny,
turn them into money and I don’t know what that means whether you get to keep the
use it to change the world.’” right now, but I will one day” lights on or not.”
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L ow-kilojoule alcoholic
drinks may sound like an
oxymoron, but they are a
thing – and they can be
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number of kilojoules you’re consuming
from alcohol. In one of the more unfair
your sanity). But if you’re trying to be
mindful of the kilojoules in your alcoholic
beverages, there are a few things to
keep in mind.
about 400kJ,” she says. And remember, 1. A BLOODY MARY, juice adds enough flavour but keeps
that’s before you start adding in mixers. EXTRA SPICY the kilojoules in check.” – registered
Gentle reminder: tonic water is not the “I especially love it when they come with dietician Dawn Orsaeo
same as soda water. “A 330ml can has pickles, olives, or other fun garnishes.
about 520kJ and 32g of sugar,” says I prefer Bloody Marys to sweet drinks 5. A MOSCOW MULE WITH
Rachel. “Even if you’re not drinking a because the extra sugar in most A TWIST
full can, that’s still a lot of sugar and cocktails gives me a terrible hangover. “My absolute favourite for the summer is
kilojoules where soda water has none. Also, when a drink’s super-spicy, it slows a Moscow mule with ginger beer, vodka,
Unfortunately, wine isn’t much better down my drinking and encourages me lime juice and lots of ice, skipping the
kilojoule-wise. “A glass of wine, which to have a sip of water between each simple syrup. It’s so refreshing, and
is usually up to a 250ml pour, has sip of alcohol.” – Abbey Sharp, when you don’t use simple syrup it’s only
approximately 545kJ to 585kJ, and a Abbey’s Kitchen around 335kJ.” – Molly Morgan, owner
light beer will contain anywhere from of Creative Nutrition Solutions
500kJ to 630kJ, depending on what 2. A GLASS OF PINOT NOIR
kind it is,” says Rachel. If ordering a low- OR CHAMPAGNE 6. SILVER TEQUILA ON THE
kilojoule alcoholic drink is your primary “I rarely pick a mixed drink, as the ROCKS, OR WITH SODA
concern, go for a simple liquor-based added sugar and kilojoules aren’t worth PLUS LIME JUICE OR AN
drink such as vodka soda with a squeeze it for me. I like a glass of red wine, ORANGE SLICE
of lime, she suggests. “You’re not getting preferably a pinot noir, as it has a high “Silver tequila usually has less sugar in
the kind of nutritional value that you get concentration of antioxidants, including it than brown tequila or other brown
from red wine, which has antioxidants, polyphenols, flavonoids, and resveratrol. liquors. I skip the sugary mixers and
but it has fewer kilojoules,” she explains. And, of course, I appreciate the drink it straight or with no-kilojoule soda
In general, a good rule of thumb when occasional glass of French champagne and a little flavour from a splash of
ordering a cocktail is to keep it simple because life’s too short not to.” citrus.” – Sarah Rueven, owner of Sarah
and ask the waiter to skip the sugary – Denise Julia Garbinski of Botanical Rueven Nutrition
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Rachel, who’s a fan of antioxidant-rich 3. A JOHNNY WALKER BLACK LEMON OR LIME
pomegranate juice over cranberry juice. AND DIET COKE “There’s a common misconception that
She also loves kombucha as a mixer with “I’ll get flack for this – many whiskey- tonic water is the same as seltzer water,
vodka: “It has a delicious apple-cidery lovers make fun of me for mixing the but it actually contains a lot of kilojoules
taste, and half of a large bottle of good stuff with Diet Coke, but that’s and sugar. I opt for seltzer instead,
kombucha (about 235ml) is only around just my taste preference. I also ask which is just water with bubbles. A
105kJ,” she says. Keep reading to learn the waiter to use a jigger, so I know squeeze of either lemon or lime gives
which low-kilojoule alcoholic drinks how much alcohol is mixed in.” – Toby the drink a healthy (and sugar-free)
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f you feel like you squander all your money as soon as the sun starts to shine, Fruit picking
that’s because you do. Summer’s the season of frivolous spending. There Blueberries, cherries, strawberries, figs
are holidays to take, parties to host, balmy late nights to enjoy. Who wants – fruit tastes so much sweeter if you’ve
to cook a meal at home when it’s much nicer to enjoy a happy hour with picked it yourself. Many South African
friends? Thankfully, you don’t have to empty your bank account to make farms are open to visitors, allowing them
good memories. Here are a few suggestions. to get their fill of whatever’s in season.
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dating is
pandemic – and recognising that it’s always been potentially
brilliant yet usually crap can help us stay grounded during
this incredibly chaotic time. The Pew Center for Research
hard – but
in Washington surveyed 4 860 people in October 2019, and
found that, well, people thought dating was hard back then
too. More specifically, the survey revealed that 47% of the
hasn’t dating
respondents say dating’s harder than it was 10 years ago. And
while technology’s made aspects of dating easier for many, 67%
of those surveyed described their dating lives as going ‘not too
always been
well’ or ‘not well at all’. The research highlights all sorts of other
interesting pre-pandemic tidbits, such as varying attitudes on
topics like sending nudes, breaking up over text message, and
difficult?
whether or not you can date someone with differing political
beliefs. The stats are compelling – people have strong (and
conflicting) views on dating and relationships – but they
highlight what most single folks already know. It’s hard to find
It’s weirdly reassuring, TBH. people with whom you connect and even harder to maintain
WORDS BY PATIA BRAITHWAITE the connection long enough to start a relationship. Dating
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disappointment when you find out that annoyances, well, they’re consistent too. from someone who monologued for
the person you like is at an indoor party The good news? If dating wasn’t great 13 minutes, while you contemplated
(their profile said they were ‘into’ social before the pandemic and you were doing whether or not you’d wasted a ‘perfectly
distancing) adds to the overwhelming it anyway, you’re probably still equipped good outfit’ on that date. Remembering
shittiness involved in dating during the to do it now (if you want). “This is a great the good and the bad reminds us that
pandemic. There’s also the increased time to turn inward and get clear about we’re still here surviving, and we can deal
pressure that letting someone into your who you are, what matters to you, and with the triumphs and disappointments
personal space has health implications what type of partner you’re looking – in dating and beyond.
I’ve pulled my hair out trying to decide what are all the ways things could work
what my next book should be because out for me?’ At this point, aren’t we just
who knows what’ll be helpful or obsolete torturing ourselves? There’s no way
by the time it comes out? I’ve toiled that trying and failing to figure out the
away in therapy sessions trying to piece unknowable isn’t leading to lots more
together a plan for how to move forward anxiety, stress, hopelessness, anger and
in any realm of my life with even a shred pain.
of confidence. So, I don’t know who needs to hear
I’m clearly doing great. this (I do, I need to hear it) but it’s
But OK. You don’t have to be as type-A OK to hit pause. It’s OK to decide to
as me to be feeling stuck and miserable revisit certain goals or future plans at
amid this pandemic. People don’t do an unspecified date down the line. It’s
well with uncertainty, as therapists have OK to accept that you’re not going to
told me countless times over the past accomplish very much or do very much
six months as I’ve reported on mental or change very much for the foreseeable
health and the pandemic. Whether you future. It’s OK to tell your brain to shut
consider yourself a ‘planner’ or not, up when it starts to wonder things like,
i
it’s unlikely that the pandemic hasn’t ‘What if my life never looks the same
left you feeling uncertain about at least again?’ It’s OK to embrace a sense of
some aspect of your future, whether it’s tunnel vision where you only look as
planning a wedding, making a career far ahead as the next month, or the next
change, having kids, or just fearing for week, or the next day, or the next hour.
the state of your relationships, finances, Tunnel vision, I think, is our friend right
or mental wellbeing. now.
As a mental health writer, one of my Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying
In the six or so months since the new first instincts is always to find answers. it’s easy. But the first step is permitting
coronavirus pandemic began, I’ve gotten And as much as I’d love to be able to yourself.
kind of used to a lot of what some are write an article like 9 Useful Tips for I once wrote about the importance
calling the ‘new normal’. I’ve more or less Anyone Trying to Plan for the Future of lowering your expectations: ‘We’re
embraced WFH life. I’ve begrudgingly Amid a Pandemic, what I’m realising is simply not going to be at our best right
accepted Zoom therapy. I now own a that for many of us, the best thing to do now, or our healthiest or most well-
large collection of fashionable animal is to just stop planning. At least, for now. adjusted, and pretending otherwise will
print masks. But one thing I haven’t Taking things ‘one day at a time’ is only add insult to injury.’ And honestly,
adjusted to, no matter how hard I try, is common advice that I’ve often found it’s been difficult to accept that I need to
how impossible it still feels to plan for cheesy and hard to implement. But embrace this sentiment for much longer
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the future – or to even imagine what my I think I’m finally getting it. Because than I first anticipated.
future might look like. a therapist will But many of us need
As someone with entire spreadsheets tell you to focus to keep on committing
dedicated to mapping out present and on what you can to self-compassion and
future plans and goals, I’m struggling control to deal “We’re simply loosened expectations –
with this. A lot. I can’t stand not being with uncertainty, even if it means pushing
able to decide whether I should see my but what about not going against your urge to
family over the festive season this year. the future? Plus, to be at our plan ahead and instead
I’ve gone back and forth a million times it’s easier to fall best right take things one day at
on whether to postpone my plans to into a worst-case a time. We can figure
apply to university, not knowing what scenario than it now, or at our everything else out
the world will look like next summer. is to think, ‘Hey, healthiest...” later.
eriods. We’ve always had them, but There’s also a huge list of tracking apps: Clearly, menstruation’s affecting us – we
we’ve never been more aware of them Natural Cycles, Flow Health, Eve and need to channel it. How? I decided to get
- in a good way. From the heightened Laura Weir’s, Moody Month. Most myself a period coach. Yes, that’s a thing.
awareness around period poverty to are like Clue, a doctor-recommended Claire Bake is a certified health and life
breaking down taboos in everything app with over eight million users, that coach trained at the UK’s Red School,
from blood-stained images on Insta to tracks your mood, energy and cramps, which offers courses on harnessing the
visible tampon strings in adverts, the or Period Diary, an app that records over power of your cycle. “Understanding
shifting perspective means women 50 symptoms, which sync with your it can be empowering, as it gives you
aren’t trying to hide their flow anymore. phone’s calendar. Useful if you want awareness of how your mood and energy
It no longer feels like we’re living life to keep track of your womb’s lining. levels will change,” she says. Claire broke
despite periods, but actually embracing However, the lucrative nature of this my cycle up into four ‘seasons’: winter,
our natural cycles and maybe even growing industry is leading many to spring, summer and autumn, lasting
looking for new ways to make them work believe that tracking your period and roughly a week. Each one comes with its
for us. This is the latest evolution in our changing your schedule around it may traits (from low productivity in winter to
interest in self-development and the be more of a marketing ploy than a good summer’s high sex drive) dictated by the
idea comes with all the gear. There are health exercise. Experts have pointed rise and fall of hormone levels and dos
books such as Emma Barnett’s, Period, out the differences between each and don’ts – if I want to let my cycle run
bleed-proof underwear by brands such woman’s flow may make general advice the show. It’s hard enough to get a day
as Wuka and Thinx, cramps buster redundant, and let’s not forget a large without waiting until a high-libido week,
machine, Livia and even NextGen Jane, number of women in South Africa are and I couldn’t just start rearranging
a device that can spot endometriosis. using pharmaceutical birth control and meetings based on when I was ovulating.
therefore living without a natural cycle. Or could I?
Yet in her new book, In The Flo, Alisan
Vitti claims we should be living our WINTER DAYS (1-7)
life by our period. I wonder how that’d What’s happening? Menstruation. Your
apply to me. Could I somehow avoid levels of progesterone oestrogen have
my monthly sensitive moods and hit rock bottom. How do you feel? Low,
oily skin – or build my life around withdrawn, less active and less social.
them? So, when Glamour challenged What to avoid? Too much exercise, work
me to literally go with the flow for a or social commitments. It’s never fun
month, I was intrigued. But first, some when you have your period, but now
THE RESULTS
Marketing ploy or not, understanding
these simple things we take for granted,
or experience without examination, has
made a difference. After one month of
living by my period, I haven’t drastically
changed my life (let’s not forget, women
my winter – there’s no way I would’ve you feel? Anti-social, irritated, tired, sad, have been managing their periods
had the energy to do that. Another low-libido What to do? Admin, gentle without tracking them for, well, ever),
thing I love about summer besides the exercise and indulgence – treat yourself. but understanding more about my
energy? My skin. I’d never noticed it, but What to avoid? Confrontations or hormones means I can stay in control
ovulation’s better for my skin than any negotiations (you’ll probably be tetchy). of my body throughout my cycle. I
face mask. My summer energy’s wearing off and, no longer feel guilty about my mood
Charlotte Ferguson, the founder of with it, any enthusiasm I had to go to swings, or my inability to wake up for a
skincare brand Disciple, explains that the gym. I’d been working out more than 7am gym class when I’m menstruating.
a rise in oestrogen actually makes your usual – armed with my new menstrual Instead, I’m more accepting of my body,
skin glow. “When you’re ovulating, know-how. Claire explained the female treating myself the way I should have
use Vitamin C products to keep that body’s particularly good at building ever since I first got my period 19 years
oestrogen glow going for longer,” she muscle in the first half of the menstrual ago. The downside? I started to get a bit
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advises. She also recommends salicylic cycle because oestrogen is at its obsessive – only scheduling meetings
acid for those post-period breakouts highest, meaning the body can recover and dates for my high-oestrogen weeks,
due to a drop in progesterone. I’ll admit, faster from high-intensity workouts. and I did use my period as an excuse to
changing my entire skincare routine was During those ‘warmer’ seasons, I’d get out of doing a few things I definitely
a financial step too far and (spoiler alert) tried intense exercises such as circuits, could’ve done (such as cleaning my flat
I did get my post-period breakout the dance classes and resistance training and making that deadline). But the best
day I was hosting a party. But, instead and found Claire’s advice worked. My thing about living in sync with your
of doing what I would’ve done before body felt acclimatised to these high- period is it’s about your period, not
(crying and feeling insecure), I use my energy activities in a way it suddenly someone else’s. Advice that works for
hormones as a scapegoat to take the doesn’t in my autumn. That’s because, one person might not work for you, and
pressure off, and book in for a facial and in contrast, autumn and winter are the idea is to get to know your cycle.
a hair appointment. best for going slower – long walks, yoga, Only then can you make adjustments
and a few gym-free days. Once I crawl to help you be kinder to yourself, ditch
AUTUMN (DAYS 17-28) towards winter, Claire suggests rest. unnecessary guilt, and make sure
What’s happening? You’re premenstrual That gives me permission to ignore the you’re living for you, according to you.
– progesterone levels are falling. How do PE teachers of my youth and listen to Period.
Be authentic
Don’t parade around, acting like you’re
Hey,
it’s OK...
... To reinvent yourself
... To go against
the grain if that’s
what it takes.
... If you’re not
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... To feel
anxious about ... To get excited
change. about your life.
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P84 THE MOOD-BOOSTING BENEFITS OF SPENDING TIME IN NATURE.
P96 IF YOUR CURRENT JOB DOESN’T JIVE WITH YOUR PERSONALITY,
HERE’S HOW TO CHANGE IT. P102 THE COLLABS PUTTING SA ON THE MAP.
P104 PLUS, HOW TO MAKE WELLNESS YOUR TOP PRIORITY.
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ave you ever felt stressed at work, only
to feel better after you’ve left your office
for a walk outside? Perhaps sitting in
the sun and fresh air has restored your
energy and stopped you from feeling
blue? Maybe you find it easier to exercise
focuses on the belief that if you spend
time in nature, it can have a positive
impact on both your body and mind.
Nature has calming effects on the mind,
its beauty and serenity creating a sense
of peace you’d be hard-pressed to find in
mood disorders). So, spending time in
nature’s one of the most effective ways
to reduce everyday stress and fatigue.
It has ancient roots in indigenous
peoples’ knowledge of the healing
powers of nature and practices of
outdoors or feel your stress levels a busy urban environment. honouring the Earth, while its modern
decrease when you stop and smell the Recent studies have shown that roots are in the interface of ecology,
flowers? You may not have known it, but experiences in natural settings (such as environmental activism and psychology.
you’ve indulged in ecotherapy. a walk outside) can have a positive effect Ecotherapists generally focus on mental
Ecotherapy, also known as nature on individuals suffering from stress, health and relationship issues as does a
therapy, is a therapeutic practice that anxiety and depression (as well as other traditional therapist, but they consider
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their clients’ relationship with their Wilderness: spending time in the wild The Earth naturally has an endless
environment. and doing activities together in a group, supply of negative electrons that pulse
It offers simple yet powerful such as making shelters and hiking. out in a pattern. Natural rhythms of
techniques you can easily fit into your radiation from the sun, lightning and
daily routine to help lift your mood and Grounding the Earth’s orbit recharge this supply in
boost your energy. Outdoor ecotherapy It’s one of the main types of ecotherapy, a cycle. Your day-to-day activity builds
in a beautiful setting helps you to access which involves having direct physical up a positive charge in the body. Until
a calm, well-resourced state of being. contact with the Earth. Its pioneer, CEO the last few hundred years, people
That may allow for better healing than of EarthFX Inc. Clint Ober, stipulates spent a lot of time in contact with the
indoor psychotherapy. Being in nature, that connecting to the Earth’s natural Earth, either walking or sleeping on the
or even looking at natural scenery, energy – via direct contact with grass, ground without anything blocking the
reduces anger, fear and stress, and sand, dirt or rocks – can diminish transfer of electrons. That was a natural
increases pleasant feelings. Exposure to chronic pain, fatigue and other ailments mechanism for getting back to neutral
nature not only makes you feel better that plague so many people today. throughout the day and while they slept.
emotionally, but it contributes to your Walking barefoot outside has been We don’t get that these days.
physical wellbeing, reducing your blood shown to help regulate your nervous Things like wearing shoes and walking
pressure, heart rate, muscle tension and system, strengthen your immunity and around in buildings prevent you from
your production of stress hormones. reduce feelings of stress and anxiety, discharging the energy you’ve built up
Nature also helps you cope with pain referred to as earthing or grounding. into the ground.
because you’re genetically programmed If you’re anything like me, talking When your skin comes into contact
to find trees, plants, water and other about electrons and positive charges with the Earth, your body draws free
natural elements engrossing, which may give you PTSD flashbacks to physics electrons. Think of them as Nature’s
distracts you from pain and discomfort. classes, but bear with me as we delve into antioxidants, helping to neutralise
Time in nature, or viewing natural the science of it all. excess free radicals that can lead to
scenery, improves your attention span, inflammation and disease in your
providing respite for your overactive body. The Earth conducts free electrons,
mind, refreshing you for new tasks. so do all living things on the planet,
including you. Your body comprises
Ecotherapy programmes mostly of water and minerals. When
can involve a wide range of combined, these conduct electrons
activities, including: from the Earth, providing your skin is
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group, such as rafting, rock climbing or The Earth’s energy upgrades your
caving. physiology by allowing your body to
Animal-assisted: building a cope and repair, thereby promoting
therapeutic relationship with animals, wellbeing, vitality and better sleep. It
such as horses or dogs. also harmonises and stabilises your
Conservation: A mixture of physical body’s biological rhythms.
exercise with protecting and caring for Your modern lifestyle has meant
natural spaces. It’s sometimes referred you’ve become disconnected from
to as a ‘green gym’. nature. Grounding is necessary to return
Green-exercise: exercising in green your body to its natural state. Being
spaces, such as walking, running or outdoors is not only fun; it’s good for
cycling. your brain, body and soul. So get outta
Horticulture: gardening in places bed, lose your shoes, and get up close
such as allotments or community and personal with the one individual
gardens, or inside buildings such as you don’t have to socially distance from:
village halls or libraries. Mother Nature.
Are we
the next one within the
designated time, you lose.
It’s ingrained in all of us, in
obsessed?
one way or another, and the
stronger these beliefs are,
the more unyielding our
expectations become. And
worst of all, as the inevitable
Is putting pressure on ourselves to achieve gap between reality and
certain life milestones detrimental to our expectations grows, the more
health and self-worth? stressed you’ll feel.
The idea of milestones is
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of life. Each of us is living other random person. This your energy on bringing that you always have to keep
a diverse life, and we’re all invariably leads to low self- them down instead of in check because it can falter
unique. So, the expectation esteem, jealousy, envy and elevating yourself. under pressure. It also isn’t
for us all to follow the same disappointment. No matter linear; instead, it’s achieved
path is farfetched. Yet, we where you are in your career, The search by staying determined and
continue to allow the pursuit there’ll always be someone for success consistent despite perpetual
of life milestones to influence who looks like they’re more Every day, you’re told to be failures and setbacks, and
us. It’s not that these events successful, happy or wealthy the best you can be. Your overcoming obstacles until
aren’t important, but such is than you. friends, family and society you reach a place where you
the scale of the importance Reaching markers is easy push you, all under the guise feel like you can stop. You can
we place on them that the when you’re young; your of a single belief: success measure it in moments that
path between two milestones whole life’s structured so breeds happiness. You make you feel good. It could
becomes almost irrelevant. that you hit each of life’s believe successful people be achieving that promotion
Upon achieving one, it’s major milestones at the same are the happiest people. The at work, but it could also
on to the next one. Got your time as your peers: walking, media shows you wealthy, be waking your kids up to
degree? Next is a successful talking, starting a new smiling faces, telling you see them smiling when
career within five years. school, going to university. stories of their success, fame yesterday they were too
Started dating someone But when you leave school and fortune, making you feel sick to go to school. It could
new? The words ‘settling
down’ and ‘marriage’ explode
around you. Get married, and “Breaking free from these expectations
the noise to have kids hums
louder. There’s barely any
takes time and involves ditching guilt and
time to enjoy achievement. redefining what success means to you”
Sooner or later, you start
comparing yourself to
others, feeling as though or university, it all becomes like you too need to achieve be cooking your partner a
everyone you know, even more complicated. Suddenly, that to be the happiest you breakfast so good that he or
people you don’t know, have you have multiple life goals can be. For your life to be she texts you later to tell you
reached an enviable stage in to achieve, and there’s no fulfilling, you need to try how much they loved it. Or,
their lives – and it’s only you clear path to getting there. Is your best at everything you getting up early one day for a
who can’t seem to catch up. it any wonder so many of us do. For some reason, the run after being too depressed
Where do these milestones begin to feel like failures? world’s under the impression to leave the house for a week.
that are making us all feel so You can be anything, but that only the best can create Don’t allow yourself to
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crap come from? you can’t be everything. happiness. Only once you’re be overwhelmed by what
When you compare yourself at the top can you face the you think you’re supposed
Comparison to others, you’re often world and say, I’m successful. to have, want, need or
From an early age, you feel comparing their best features Breaking free from these achieve. Balance your mind,
pressure to compare yourself with your average ones. Not powerful, often unrealistic, the flow of pressure, your
to others. You measure only do you naturally want expectations takes time desires and your energy.
your success and self- to be better than them, but and involves ditching guilt, Define success based on
worth relative to someone the unconscious realisation readjusting your world view. your criteria, draw the line
else’s. You aren’t taught to that you don’t can be self- and redefining what success between determination and
compare yourself today to destructive. At worst, when means to you. unhealthy obsession, and,
who you were yesterday. The you compare yourself to Success, which comes in most of all, give yourself
benchmark’s against some others you end up focusing many forms, is a mindset a break.
The
Wedding
Nothing says festive
season cheer like a
romantic comedy with a
captivating storyline that
instils lots of belly laughs.
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A
into production on Mnet. Then there’s
Blood Psalms, which I also did this year.
Being part of How To Ruin Christmas:
The Wedding is incredible. It’s been an
incredible year, in fact. I’m fortunate
considering the year it’s been.
G: What is it about?
TT: It’s a story of acceptance; accepting EIGHT THINGS TO KNOW ABOUT
yourself and others just as they are. And HOW TO RUIN CHRISTMAS: THE WEDDING
the fact that nobody’s perfect because
people make mistakes . Sometimes, they 1. IT’LL BE Busisiwe Lurayi, who plays integrated according to
lie to protect other people. AVAILABLE TO Tumi Sello, and Thando ‘bubble zones’. Also, we
STREAM on Netflix Thabethe who plays her adhered to the set rules
G: How will you spend the globally in December, in perfect sister Beauty. of no more than 37 people
festive season? over 190 countries. 4. THE WEDDING on the shooting floor, and
TT: I’ll be spending it with friends and 2. SERIES LOGLINE: WAS IN PRODUCTION observed social distancing
family as I do every year. It’s a time for When family rebel, Tumi from 17 August until 14 protocols.’
togetherness. Sello, begrudgingly joins September, and was 6. EXPECT GUEST
her dysfunctional family shot on location at The APPEARANCES
for the first Christmas Four Seasons Westcliff from Mpho Popps,
holiday in years, it’s not Hotel during the global Langa Mavuso, Katt
the merry return of pandemic. Ramaphakela and
the prodigal daughter 5. THE SERIES WAS A DBN Gogo.
everyone was hoping COVID-CONSCIOUS 7. LANGA MAVUSO
for. She manages to production. The cast and PERFORMED THE
ruin her younger sister’s crew quarantined for two wedding song ‘Mvula
Christmas wedding before weeks before production (Rain)’ live on set. His
it even takes place, and began, and lived in the touching performance
spends the next few days same venue for the entire moved the cast and crew.
frantically trying to get duration of the shoot. In 8. EXPECT TO SEE
things back on track. Rethabile Ramaphakela’s BRILLIANT FASHION
3. IT’S AN words, ‘We were tested from some of South
ALL-AFRICAN upon check-in and were Africa’s top designers,
PRODUCTION with an isolated to our rooms until including Bryant Moore,
all-African cast and crew. medical professionals Orapaleng Modutle, Rich
The three-part holiday released our test results. Mnisi and Indoni House of
special’s cast includes Then, we worked and Fashion.
Who
Nardstar amassed her experience in
a time before street art was acceptable
or had infiltrated the mainstream. The
runs
streets were her classroom, and her
teachers hailed from a generation of
artists, most of whom were considered
the
vandals.
She’s since worked tirelessly to
elevate its reputation, always pushing
world?
the idea that a street artist deserves
pride of place on building walls, in
gallery spaces, under bridges and in
boardrooms.
What’s on our radar? Her work, which focuses on women
Phenomenal women, of colour, and local fauna and flora, has
always. Here, we shine featured at the Nike Head Quarters and
our spotlight on women The Obama Foundation Summit. She
you need to know on collaborated with Woolworths on its
South Africa’s art and ReLOVEolution campaign.
design scene.
Find Nardstar at nardstar.com or
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Fazlin Hoosain
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FAZLIN HOOSAIN
Hotel
award-winning
property that has provided
guests with memories for
on
beachfront,
The Oyster
curries, grills and fresh
seafood.
Inspired by the Hotel’s
original architecture, with
chandeliers from the
Savoy Hotel in London,
the Palm Court serves a
decadent, traditional High
For something a little
more laid-back, the stylish
Oyster Bar is an essential
pre-dinner or sundowner
stop where you can enjoy
chilled Champagne and
freshly harvested oysters
from the Hotel’s oyster
over 65 years. Tea daily, accompanied beds, or indulge in a
The Oyster Box was by a live pianist. Served selection of seafood at the
voted the number-one tableside on individual Oyster, Salmon & Sushi
resort hotel in Africa tea stands, the menu Bar.
in Travel + Leisure includes both sweet and The award-winning
magazine’s World’s Best savoury treats suitable Spa celebrates KwaZulu-
Awards 2020 and Winner for a variety of dietary Natal’s rich culture,
of South Africa’s Leading preferences. ensuring the highest
Hotel 2020 category in For a more intimate level of personal care
the World Travel Awards dining experience, the by dedicated, trained
2020. It’s renowned for Chef’s Table, in the wine staff equipped to deliver
its generous hospitality, cellar or the kitchen, is exceptional levels of spa
passionate service and ideal for private dinners, therapy and pampering.
excellent cuisine, offering corporate functions and A range of venues
guests a wide choice of unique celebrations of up makes The Oyster Box
venues for wining, dining to 10 guests. A sommelier a premier wedding and
and relaxing. The Bistro is on hand to offer advice honeymoon destination,
menu served at the Ocean on food and wine pairings as well as being sought-
Terrace includes freshly and has assembled an after for conferences,
prepared pizzas baked in extensive list of fine workshops, the corporate
a wood-fired oven and local and international sector and business
an incredible selection of vintages. travellers.
and watermelon — as well as legumes, If you’ve also noticed that certain conditions that require treatment. Left
processed meats, wheat, rye, high- foods make you feel bloated, consider untreated, ulcerative colitis can lead to
fructose golden syrup, and nuts like limiting them in the days leading up rectal bleeding, joint inflammation, and
cashews and pistachios. FODMAPs don’t to your period (within reason – as we inflammation in deep tissue layers of the
affect everyone equally, so while certain mentioned, the idea is not to just cut large intestine, while Crohn’s can lead to
FODMAPs may make you feel bloated, out every food group you think could ulcers, intestinal obstructions, fissures,
you may be able to process others just be behind your bloating). To help and abscesses. Other medical conditions
fine. The intention isn’t to permanently reduce water retention, the Mayo can cause persistent, painful bloating,
stop eating every kind of FODMAP Clinic recommends steps like curbing including irritable bowel syndrome
because you think some may be behind your salt intake if sodium is a factor. (also known as IBS, this describes a wide
your bloating – it’s best to check with range of symptoms with no observable
someone like a doctor or registered Talk to a doctor if you think physical cause) and celiac disease (a
dietician before trying any kind of a gastrointestinal disorder is chronic disease in which the immune
elimination diet for health purposes. causing your bloating system attacks the small intestine when
Fibre is another food substance that and distension it detects the presence of gluten). If
our bodies aren’t good at digesting, If your bloating doesn’t follow a neat you’re regularly experiencing any
with potentially bloating consequences. pattern, you can’t pinpoint a factor uncomfortable symptoms in addition
You mainly break down fibre in your behind it such as hormonal changes or to your bloating, including pain and/or
colon, where it produces gases including lactose intolerance, and you experience diarrhoea, talk to your doctor. They may
carbon dioxide, hydrogen, and methane. additional bothersome symptoms, you recommend investigating with blood
These cause bloating until you literally could have a gastrointestinal condition tests such as a C-reactive protein (CRP)
“break wind”. The US National Institute such as ulcerative colitis or Crohn’s test, which can show whether you have
of Diabetes and Digestive and Kidney
Diseases (NIDDK) says that doing this 13
to 21 times a day is considered normal –
so let it rip. As the Mayo Clinic explains,
“If your abdomen is physically distended
eating adequate amounts of fibre helps and doesn’t return to where it was
your digestive system function more before, that’s concerning”
smoothly.
bloating. A 2014 study in BMC Women’s the bowel. Centres for Disease Control says. They can also offer guidance on
Health asked 156 women about their and Prevention explains that ulcerative other diagnostic tests you may need, like
gastrointestinal symptoms before and colitis affects consistent stretches of an endoscopy, in which a doctor uses a
during their periods. The results showed the large intestine and rectum, while flexible tube to examine your digestive
that bloating was the most common Crohn’s disease can affect any part of system. Based on the issue in question,
GI-related symptom pre-menstruation the digestive system, with inflammation treatment follows from there. Most of
and the second most common (behind usually occurring in patches. In addition the time, bloating indicates nothing
abdominal pain) during menstruation. to bloating, here are symptoms that may more than your digestive system doing
Unlike bloating due to digestive issues, indicate IBD: abdominal pain, diarrhoea, its job. And now that you know how to
bloating related to your period could blood and/or pus in your stools, fever, determine if it’s potentially serious, you
happen because of fluid retention rather unexplained weight loss and fatigue. can tell the difference between when
than gas. Bloating that’s connected to People with Crohn’s or ulcerative you may need to see a doctor – and
your menstrual cycle is pretty normal. colitis can go for long periods with no when it’s time to change out of your
But that doesn’t make it much fun. symptoms. But these are serious, chronic uncomfortable jeans.
y
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in the industry, and pick their brain your new company. Find out its core and
about how they learned to demonstrate ancillary businesses, and where your
the skills necessary to succeed in that new position fits in the scope of services
field. Chances are, you already possess and products.
some of those qualities, so look at your
résumé and determine the ones you’ve Rework your online
already demonstrated in your previous presence
jobs. Identify specific examples of how Since you’re selling your skillset
you demonstrated those strengths, and and yourself to a new audience,
rework your résumé to include those you’ll need to tweak your online
details. When you reframe your past presence accordingly. Revamp it to
experiences into ‘relevant skills’ for your reflect your new career goals. Gradually
new industry, all those projects, clients, pivot your tweets to include news
and achievements from your old job and updates about the field you want
might feel useless – or like a complete to work in. Follow industry leaders
mistake. But don’t write those seemingly on Twitter and connect with them
‘unrelated experiences’ off; they may set on LinkedIn. Like company pages
your brand apart from everyone else’s in on Facebook, noticing the types of
your new industry. information they share. Rework your
LinkedIn bio to reflect your new career
Rewrite your story goals. Employers are highly likely to
Put yourself in a recruiter’s shoes. Google you when they receive your job
Your brand acts as your cover letter – application, so pay close attention to
it should already tell the story of how this step. Social media is an excellent
your core values, skills and professional way to showcase your dedication to
experience have prepared you for your your work.
current job. Now, you need to write a Depending on how dramatic
new chapter: one that ties your values your switch is, you mightn’t have to
to your changing desires, new goals and change your current online presence
relevant skills. drastically. Going from journalism to
Your story must answer three marketing might not take much more
questions: what are your core values and than emphasising different projects
core values and beliefs that defined your beliefs, and how in your portfolio,
brand. These qualities should still be do they shape you as an example.
part of your brand. But something’s as a person and in However, if you
changed; you’ve swopped industries
because something about your current
your profession?
What are the skills
“...your current want to move from
finance to freelance
job doesn’t
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job doesn’t jive with your personality you already have writing, that may
anymore. You’ll need to tap into your that’ll help you to jive with your require you to add
why. succeed in a new
industry? Does the
personality” colour and photos
to your portfolio,
Identify and leverage your industry align with switch your social
transferable skills your passions and profiles to public,
This is the first step toward your professional interests? and engage in your field of expertise
successful rebranding effort. First, more often. Once you understand the
identify what skills and abilities are Gain additional expertise general rules of your new field, you’ll
required in your new field by doing Get up to speed on industry standards. be better prepared to establish
your homework. Consider conducting Take courses in your new career, and add credibility, make connections – and land
an informational review with someone them to your online identity. Research your dream job.
meditate
TO MEDITATE, there’s a good chance
it’s because you’ve heard all sorts of
things about how good it can be for you.
when you
People love to suggest meditation for a
variety of reasons: to reduce stress and
anxiety, to ease depression, to put
have no
you to sleep, to make you feel more
present, to magically transform you into
a better, more grounded human being.
idea where
The claims go on and on. And while the
benefits of meditation have been greatly
exaggerated in a lot of ways, plenty of
to start
people find it to be a worthwhile practice
– we agree. With everything going on
in the world, it’s a good time to explore
meditation and whether it might be
Even if you’re a fidgety overthinker. useful for you too.
Meditation may seem simple – and
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in many ways, it is – but people are often
unsure where to start and whether
they’re doing it correctly. To help you
learn how to meditate and integrate
it into your life, we asked meditation
experts some of your most common
meditation questions.
01 What is it?
For this article, we’re going to
focus on mindfulness meditation. Like
meditation, there’s no single universal
definition of mindfulness, but experts
generally agree on the gist: focusing on
the present moment with openness and
without judgement. “If you check in on
your mind at any point during the day,
you’ll probably notice you’re thinking
about the past or thinking about the
future, or you’re generally planning,
obsessing, worrying or catastrophising,”
says Diana Winston, the director of
mindfulness education at the UCLA
Mindful Awareness Research Centre
and the author of The Little Book of
Being. “Mindfulness is getting in the
practice of pulling your mind away from
these places to come back to the present
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moment.” Mindfulness meditation is sit down in a comfortable place where isn’t turning off thoughts but rather
the practice of cultivating mindfulness. you won’t be disturbed and bring your learning to meet them with awareness
attention to your body,” says Diana. “See and curiosity,” says Laurasia Mattingly,
04
as long as you don’t buy into meditation meditation. The only thing you need
as a magical cure-all. People find How do I start? to do is make an effort. “If you sit down
meditation very worth doing for many Despite how simple the and ignore your guided meditation
different reasons. “People report more above example sounds, a lot of people completely and decide instead to use the
connection, more gratitude, and more understandably find it hard to do on their time to think about your to-do list for a
appreciation of life when they practice own without getting bored or restless. day, you’re not really meditating,” says
mindfulness,” says Diana, who’s taught That’s where guided meditations come Diana. “But if you take a moment in the
mindfulness for health and well-being in in. “It’s helpful to have guidance because course of thinking about all the things
a variety of settings since 1993. people get discouraged when they sit you have to do to bring your attention
down to meditate,” says Diana. “So many back to your breathing and try to be
think you have to sit in a certain way, specific meditations beyond focusing when it comes to judging whether or not
like cross-legged on the floor, which is on your breath, such as loving-kindness meditation is working for you: checking
absolutely not true,” says Diana. “You meditations (which involve sending in with yourself and sticking it out for a
can sit in a chair. You can sit on the positive thoughts to others) or body scan while. “Don’t try it once. Try it over time
couch. You can lie down. However, you’re meditations (which involve tuning into and then investigate how you’re feeling,”
comfortable.” Diana notes that people the sensations of your body head to toe). says Diana. “Am I seeing the effects? Am
also think they have to do it for a certain I noticing that I’m a little bit calmer? Am
amount of time – often a long time – but
that’s another misconception. A few
minutes is fine.
05 How do I quiet my
thoughts and keep my
mind from wandering?
I being a little bit kinder to myself and
others? Am I enjoying it?”
And remember: there are all sorts
To give you an idea of what This is the most common misconception of types of meditation. If mindfulness
mindfulness meditation looks like in about meditation. Despite popular meditation doesn’t work for you, you
practice, consider this basic example: belief, the goal of meditation isn’t a don’t have to swear off meditation in
“A very simple way to meditate is to completely blank mind. “Meditation general.
“You must be
clear about
who and what’s
important to you,
so you can invest
your time wisely” Total Meditation,
Deepak Chopra
(R566, loot.co.za)
Looking back
at our favourite
collabs
Local creatives continue to inspire, and some have even
managed to capture the attention of brands, putting SA
on the map. Here, we round up six of our favourite collabs
between local creatives and brands.
WORDS BY THOBEKA PHANYEKO
02 Karabo Poppy x
Rich Mnisi
The renowned illustrator joined
During Heritage month, the
much-loved South African coffee
brand invited local creatives to
forces with the luxury giant to bring its produce #ProudlyMe Heritage
‘Running Errands’ capsule collection to tins to showcase their talent and
life, which celebrates the creativity and
diversity of our people through the use of
different artistic designs.
04 Black Crown G&T x
Palesa Mokubong
As the first South African to have
celebrate our country’s cultural
diversity. Innovative art by three
aspiring designers, Tanya van
partnered with the Swedish clothing Deventer, Morena Moletsane
retailer H&M, Palesa used the Heritage and Lindi Joubert, captured the
campaign #OwnYourCrown, to further attention of coffee lovers. We
cement herself. The campaign, which look forward to more exciting
kicked off in September, celebrates collaborations in the new year as
cultural diversity, featuring the stories we continue to show love to our
of South African kings and queens, local creatives.
documented through a fashion lens.
03 Esther Mahlangu x
Rolls Royce
An acclaimed artist, Dr Mahlangu’s
also features her signature self-portrait
photography.
year, Rolls Royce displayed her work on The model and TV personality
its Phantom. This iconic car was unveiled wowed audiences in her lead role on
at the opening of her solo exhibition, Netflix’s first original African series,
‘Disrupting Patterns’ at the Melrose Queen Sono. The collab between Pearl
Gallery in Cape Town. At the age of 84, Dr and MAC Cosmetics is one for the books,
Esther Mahlangu’s the first South African which saw Pearl make history as the first
commissioned to display her work on a South African to partner with the beauty
Rolls Royce Phantom. brand.
A new outlook
Experts in wellness, fitness and health reveal how to make your mental
and physical wellbeing your top priority.
WORDS BY SHANNON MANUEL
THINK
a programme to your needs. A check-in good about your body and meditation to
session, every now and then, is all connect to the best version of yourself
you need thereafter. This year’s been in all aspects of your life. With as much
uncertain, meaning you may be feeling clarity as you can muster, allow your
stuck in a negative mindset, worrying mind to experience the best version of
next year will be just as bad. My advice yourself. That person already exists;
for 2021 is to commit to a regular, this exercise helps you to focus on your
home-based yoga routine that includes positive goals for 2021.
meditation. Use physical exercise to feel adhikasingh.yoga@gmail.com
Dr Nicola
the Covid-19 pandemic, my practice you out? Is there a better way to manage
helped me to navigate anxiety and stress or mitigate it?
amid the chaos. Every morning, I’d s4MFFQ Adequate shut-eye boosts
run through my physical yoga routine,
then, using breathing techniques,
still my mind to focus on the things I
Buchan your immune system and reduces
inflammation.
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Functional medicine
was grateful for. That simple exercise doctor stress, minimises inflammation, and
allowed me to disconnect from the lowers insulin, blood sugar levels and
world and stop feeling overwhelmed. COVID-19 HAS FORCED US ALL blood pressure.
Most people are hesitant about trying to consider the state of our health. s4VQQMFNFOUTThese should meet
yoga because they think you need to be Integrative and functional medicine your individual needs. Consult
flexible. Surprisingly, that’s the reason is holistic, using integrated, evidence- a functional medicine doctor.
you should try it. If you want to start a based therapies to help people achieve s5PYJOTRemove all toxins entering
home-based practice, it’s crucial to work optimal wellbeing by attempting to your body via the food and drinks that
with a yoga teacher (even virtually) who understand and treat the root causes you ingest and decrease the chemicals
understands your fitness level and the of symptoms. Studies have shown our used in your skincare and household
amount of time you have to practice. response to the coronavirus depends cleaning products.
That’ll help your teacher to tailor on our physical health, not how potent nicolabuchan.com É
Gwande
shop instead of driving or exercise while high blood pressure and diabetes. If you
you watch TV. Crank up your stereo and haven’t been physically active in a while,
dance to your favourite tunes, or join it’s not too late to get back in action.
Personal trainer your kids on the trampoline or playing Having a fitness goal can help you focus
games outside. The trick is to keep your mind and provide you with much-
moving. Start slowly, building strength needed positivity and motivation.
Claudia
I help people to observe their way of being: the perceptions and attitudes that shape
how we see ourselves, our place in the world and the possibilities open to us. To be
human is to have concerns, meaning the things that matter to us. Having aspirations
and goals enables us to take care of these concerns and build our lives around them.
By taking care of them, we can lead meaningful and fulfilling lives. During times of
stress, such as during the ongoing pandemic, connecting to our greater purpose can
Boers
Life coach
create a sense of stability. It can also be a source of inspiration, generating energy
and agility that supports us as we navigate the complexities of the pandemic as best
we can. It’s a life coach’s job to help people see and access their potential, so they can something we cannot change is one
create the lives they want. I love seeing people overcome fear, become unstuck and of the most powerful actions we can
embrace new possibilities. take. It enables me to focus on the
After a 20-year career in corporate retail, I realised it was the human-relational things I can control, such as my mood.
and team-development aspects of my role that I enjoyed most, which inspired me to By cultivating optimism and curiosity,
follow my heart and become a coach. It turned out to be one of the most empowering I’m able to consciously seek out new
decisions I’ve ever made. Now, I can focus on what interests me most and what I possibilities, and keep my professional
genuinely enjoy. I love sharing what I’ve learnt as a coach; I consider it a privilege and personal momentum going during
to be a part of my clients’ journeys. During the pandemic, I’ve taken care of myself this trying time.
by accepting there are things beyond my control. I believe that totally accepting claudiaboerscoaching.com
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Davis
a healthier lifestyle isn’t that difficult. home – get dressed in the morning, and
It may take some initial planning and allocate set time to work and leisure.
practise, but the long-term rewards far Plan regular activities you enjoy. Try to
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outweigh the taste of any unhealthy Registered counsellor and limit the time you spend reading about
treat. Experts advise an 80:20 principle, programme coordinator at Covid-19 and watching the news. Find
meaning you make healthy food and the South African College of a balance between keeping informed
Applied Psychology
beverage choices 80% of the time, and avoiding becoming overwhelmed.
with the remaining 20% allocated to MONTHS INTO THE PANDEMIC, Take care of yourself emotionally.
the occasional indulgence. How to get many of us are still learning to live in Self-care encompasses everything you
started? As a dietician and personal an environment of elevated stress, do that involves being good to yourself;
trainer, I believe that any approach to anxiety, fear and anger. Brain fog it’s about being as compassionate to
a healthy lifestyle should be simple, and inattention have been collateral yourself as you would be to others. Some
affordable, practical and sustainable, damage, especially for those who are practical advice for those consumed by
but it should also be fun. Here are a few recovering from the virus or juggling Covid-19 anxiety is to do as much as you
useful tweaks that I try to implement work and childcare. A few simple tips realistically can to protect yourself in
daily: for staying motivated and focused on terms of sanitising and social distancing.
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colourful veggies and fruits, one-quarter small, daily milestones, find a healthy living. Engage in activities and hobbies
with high-fibre carbs, and one-quarter work-life balance, prioritise your you find meaningful and fun, and try
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and pulses – help to control blood sugar to allow a fresh start in the new year, pandemic, I’ve learnt about the power
and cravings, lower cholesterol and be mindful not to carry the stress of of communication and to not be too
improve bowel movements. 2020 with you, and make a conscious proud to ask for help.
oven to 195°C. serrated knife or a single-variety Viognier. Sharing Creation’s spirit of innovation,
2. Combine all the scissors. Janko’s inspired by things he finds
above ingredients 5. Bake for 20 G: What’s your winemaking in nature, which he reinterprets and
and knead until minutes. Then, philosophy, and what are you trying to transforms in his sculptures, cast in
soft and well- turn the bread achieve with your wines? resin and bronze, with unexpectedly
combined. over, baking CM: Jean-Claude’s philosophy is to rich and unusual patinas to blend in
Prove to double for another 10 ‘enhance the beauty of nature’ by spectacularly with the surrounding
in size. minutes. working hand-in-hand with it to Creation Fynbos Garden.
Fully
benchmark service interval at the start of each journey,
of two years or 34 000km connecting to Apple CarPlay
– much longer and further and Android Auto.
charged
than any petrol or diesel-
powered offering.
By nature, an electric
motor can deliver 100%
Why you should consider buying of its torque from a
standstill. The I-Pace can
an electric car.
put 696Nm straight into
WORDS BY WENDY ROBINSON the ground through all
four wheels, pretty much
instantaneously, resulting in
W
ith a range of filling station where you can blistering acceleration from
up to 470km, recharge your battery each 0-100km/h in 4.8 seconds
the attrac- night – imagine waking up to (Jaguar claims).
tive Jaguar I-Pace SUV is an a full tank every morning! Recharging at home isn’t
all-electric vehicle (EV) that Load shedding tends to possible for longer journeys,
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can cover average commute happen in blocks of between but there are currently
distances on a full charge two and four hours when over 100 public charging
comfortably. In most cases, the electricity demand is stations in city hubs and
it can handle a full week’s high. In other words, power along frequently travelled
worth of commuting, or outages in the middle of the routes in South Africa. That
more, before you need to night, when most EVs will number is growing and is
recharge it. be charging, are unusual. likely to rise as more electric
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M Y M OT H E R
She’s the main reason I take being
independent so seriously. Another
important lesson she taught me
was to treat everyone equally, with
humility and respect. She’s my
biggest supporter.
N TO M B E N H L E
K H AT H WA N E
I met Ntombenhle when I
represented her brand Afrobotanics
as an influencer. I go to her for
business advice because, to me,
she’s a selfless, amazing and
intelligent woman.
C A RO L I N E H L A H L A
She’s my online big sister, my biggest
fan, the kickstart I needed to become
an influencer. She taught me how to
build an online brand, take care of
my finances and invest wisely.
Women who
Thina taught me to be myself, that
it’s OK to want all the good things
that life has to offer, and that I have
it in me to get those things. She also
made me
changed the way I look at friendship.
do the talking