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CHAPTER 1
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE
INTRODUCTION
Ever since the publication of Daniel Goleman’s first book on the topic in
1995, Emotional Intelligence has become one of the hottest buzzwords in the
corporate world. For instance, when the Harvard Business Review published an
other article published in that periodical in the last 40 years. When the CEO of
Johnson & Johnson read that article, he was so impressed that he had copies sent out
important to understand what it really means. Thus, briefly laying out the history of
the concept as an area of research and describing how it has come to be defined and
measured.
When psychologists began to write and think about intelligence, they focused
researchers who recognized early on that the non-cognitive aspects were also
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global capacity of the individual to act purposefully, to think rationally, and to deal
factors. Furthermore, as early as 1943 Wechsler was proposing that the non-
intellective abilities are essential for predicting one’s ability to succeed in life. He
wrote:
abilities, are admissible as factors of general intelligence. (My contention) has been
that such factors are not only admissible but necessary. I have tried to show that in
addition to intellective there are also definite non-intellective factors that determine
cannot expect to measure total intelligence until our tests also include some measures
Wechsler was not the only researcher who saw non-cognitive aspects of
another example, was writing about “Social Intelligence” in the late thirties.
Unfortunately, the work of these early pioneers was largely forgotten or overlooked
until 1983 when Howard Gardner began to write about “Multiple Intelligence.”
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Other strands of research and theory could be cited, but it is clear that by the
early 1990s, there was a long tradition of research on the role of non-cognitive factors
in helping people to succeed in both life and the workplace. The current work on
When Salovey and Mayer coined the term Emotional Intelligence in 1990,
they were aware of the previous work on non-cognitive aspects of intelligence. They
ability to monitor one’s own and others’ feelings and emotions, to discriminate among
them, and to use this information to guide one’s thinking and action”. Salovey and
Emotional Intelligence inorder to explore its significance. For instance, they found in
one study that when a group of people saw an upsetting film, those who scored high
on emotional clarity (which is the ability to identify and give a name to a mood that is
being experienced) recovered more quickly. In another study, individuals who scored
higher in the ability to perceive accurately, understand, and appraise others’ emotions
were better able to respond flexibly to changes in their social environments and build
In the early 1990’s Daniel Goleman became aware of Salovey and Mayer’s
work, and this eventually led to his book, Emotional Intelligence. Goleman was a
science writer for the New York Times, whose beat was brain and behavior research.
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who were becoming concerned with how little traditional tests of cognitive
a type of social intelligence that involves the ability to monitor one's own and others'
emotions, to discriminate among them, and to use the information to guide one's
emotions, and to reason and problem solve on the basis of them," and it involves "the
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accurate appraisal and expression of emotion in oneself and in others, the effective
regulation of emotion in self and others, and the use of feelings to motivate, plan and
Knowledge.
4. Emotional Management
• The ability to perceive and identify emotions in faces, tone of voice, body
language.
• The capacity for self-awareness: being aware of your own feelings as they are
occurring.
• The capacity for emotional literacy. Being able to label specific feelings in
yourself and others; being able to discuss emotions and communicate clearly
and directly.
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• The potential of your feelings to guide you to what is important to think about.
3. Emotional understanding
emotions, thoughts and behavior. For example, to see cause and effect
relationships such as how thoughts can affect emotions or how emotions can
affect thoughts, and how your emotions can lead to the behavior in yourself
and others.
• The ability to understand the value of emotions to the survival of the species.
4. Emotional management
• The ability to take responsibility for one's own emotions and happiness.
• The ability to turn negative emotions into positive learning and growing
opportunities.
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• Ability to stay open to feelings, both those that are pleasant and those that are
unpleasant.
contribute to a person’s ability to manage and monitor his or her own emotions, to
1. Self-awareness
2. Self-management or self-regulation
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3. Self-Motivation
4. Social Awareness
5. Social skills
1. SELF - AWARENESS
Emotional Awareness: Recognizing one’s emotions and their effects. People with
this competence:
• Realize the links between their feelings and what they think, do, and say.
Accurate Self-assessment: Knowing one’s strengths and limits. People with this
competence are:
Self-Confidence: Sureness about one’s self-worth and capabilities. People with this
competence:
• Can voice views that are unpopular and go out on a limb for what is right.
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• Are decisive, able to make sound decisions despite uncertainties and pressures.
2. SELF - REGULATION
competence:
competence:
competence:
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Innovativeness: Being comfortable with and open to novel ideas and new
3. SELF - MOTIVATION
this competence:
• Are result-oriented, with a high drive to meet their objectives and standards.
Commitment: Aligning with the goals of the group or organization. People with this
competence:
• Use the group’s core values in making decisions and clarifying choices.
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• Cut through red tape and bend the rules when necessary to get the job done.
Optimism: Persistence in pursuing goals despite obstacles and setbacks. People with
this competence:
4. SOCIAL AWARENESS
Empathy: Sensing others’ feelings and perspective, and taking an active interest in
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Developing others: Sensing what others need in order to develop, and bolstering their
this competence:
can thrive.
• Accurately read key power relationships & detect crucial social networks.
• Understand the forces that shape views and actions of clients, customers, or
competitors.
5. SOCIAL SKILLS
Influence: Wielding effective tactics for persuasion. People with this competence:
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• Use complex strategies like indirect influence to build consensus and support.
competence:
message.
fully.
• Foster open communication and stay receptive to bad news as well as good.
Leadership: Inspiring and guiding groups and people. People with this competence:
• Lead by example.
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• Handle difficult people and tense situations with diplomacy and tact.
• Spot potential conflict, brings disagreements into the open, and helps
deescalate.
Collaboration and co-operation: Working with others toward shared goals. People
Team capabilities: Creating group synergy in pursuing collective goals. People with
this competence:
• Draw all members into active and enthusiastic participation and share credit/
• Build team identity, commitment and protect the group and its reputation.
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Stankov, & Roberts concluded that there was nothing empirically new in the idea of
measures purporting to measure Emotional Intelligence at the point in time when they
wrote that paper. However, most of those measures were new, and there was not yet
much known about their psychometric properties. Research now is emerging that
suggests Emotional Intelligence, and particularly the new measures that have been
developed to assess it, is in fact a distinct entity. However, there still is not much
research on the predictive validity of such measures, and this is a serious lack. Here is
a brief summary of what is really known about the most popular ones.
Bar-On’s EQ-I - The oldest instrument is Bar-On’s EQ-I, which has been
around for over a decade. This self-report instrument originally evolved not out of an
occupational context but rather a clinical one. It was designed to assess those
personal qualities that enabled some people to possess better “emotional well-being”
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than others. The EQ-I has been used to assess thousands of individuals, but less is
known about its predictive validity in work situations. However, in one study the EQ-
I was predictive of success for U.S. Air Force recruiters. In fact, by using the test to
select recruiters, the Air Force saved nearly 3 million dollars annually. Also, there
Multifactor Emotional Intelligence Scale (MEIS). The MEIS is a test of ability rather
than a self-report measure. The test-taker performs a series of tasks that are designed
to assess the person’s ability to perceive, identify, understand, and work with
Competence Inventory (ECI). The ECI is a 360 degree instrument. People who know
the individual rate him or her on 20 competencies that Goleman’s research suggests
are linked to Emotional Intelligence. Although the ECI is in its early stages of
development, about 40 percent of the items come from an older instrument, the Self-
Assessment Questionnaire that was developed by Boyatzis. These earlier items had
executives, and leaders in North America, Italy, and Brazil. However, there currently
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Map. Although there is some evidence for convergent and divergent validity, the data
Self-Report - One other measure that deserves mention, even though it is less
well known than the others is the Self-Report. Schutte, Malouff, Hall, Haggerty,
Cooper, Golden, & Dornheim have developed a 33-item Self-Report measure based
on Salovey and Mayer’s early work. There is evidence for convergent and divergent
with first-year college grades and supervisor ratings of student counselors working at
various mental health agencies. Also, scores were higher for therapists than for
There are at least two good reasons to work on raising Emotional Intelligence:
You will be happier because you will learn to spend your time more
efficiently. You will avoid activities and situations which don't feel good, and you
will seek and create situations which do. You will learn to take responsibility for your
emotions and your happiness. You will attract more positive people, and you will
enter into more meaningful relationships. You will begin to value your time more and
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People around you will be happier because they will feel more accepted, more
Here are a few suggestions if you want to raise your Emotional Intelligence
level.
Study feelings.
Write down your feelings to increase your recall of the feelings and their
surrounding circumstances.
Work on raising your self-esteem, by taking courses, listening to tapes, and taking
Track your feelings in a written journal. Your feelings can change from minute to
minute. Practice identifying even subtle changes. The sooner you can spot trends,
Begin expressing your feelings accurately. Neither exaggerate them nor minimize
them. One reason people exaggerate is to get attention because they do not feel
they are being heard. When you are comfortable with your feelings, and you
surround yourself with people who validate your feelings, you won't need to
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exaggerate them any more. Neither will you feel the need to minimize them, so as
When you feel defensive, ask yourself what you are defending.
Try to anticipate your feelings. Don't do things which will bring you negative
feelings.
Invest more time on activities that have lasting, not just temporary, positive
feelings.
Try to understand their feelings. Ask them to explain their feelings so you can
Ask others how they would feel about possible future events. In other words, start
Take some risks by sharing more true feelings and get a group of close friends
together & talk about feelings in a supportive way. Share your deepest fears &
desires.
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Attend some of the existing support groups and just listen while others talk about
their feelings.
Don't defend yourself if you hear things you disagree with, or you will stifle their
Work on becoming less defensive, more open, and easier on yourself. Ask others
to let you know when they perceive you as defensive, insecure, rigid or hard on
yourself.
Set some emotional improvement goals and share them with the one you trust.
Ask others for feedback on how they perceive you and your emotions.
with the basic message that success is strongly influenced by personal qualities such
as perseverance, self-control, and skill in getting along with others. They could point
to "super sales persons" who had an uncanny ability to sense what was most important
to the customers and to develop a trusting relationship with them. They could point to
customer service employees who excelled when it came to helping angry customers to
calm down and be more reasonable about their problems with the product or service.
And they also could point to brilliant executives who did everything well except get
along with people, or to managers who were technically brilliant but could not handle
stress, and whose careers stalled because of these deficiencies. Business leaders well
enterprise.
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But what about the many workers who lack these important emotional
competent? Many business leaders are less certain about this question. For instance,
the dean of a major business school, when asked about the importance of Emotional
Intelligence at work, enthusiastically agreed that it was crucial. But when asked as to
how his school attempted to improve the Emotional Intelligence of MBA students, he
said, "We don’t do anything. I don’t think that our students’ Emotional Intelligence
can be improved by the time they come here. They’re already adults, and these
On the other hand, there are those who seem to claim that they can raise the
consultants now are selling workshops and seminars designed to help people become
more emotionally competent and socially skilled. Some of these programs are quite
good, but others make unrealistic claims. The worst ones are those that involve a
else.
So who is right – the skeptics who believe that nothing can be done to improve
emotional competence after the age of 15, or the hucksters who claim that they can
turn emotional dunces into emotional Einstein’s in an afternoon? As usual, the answer
suggests that it is possible to help people of any age to become more emotionally
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between cognitive learning and emotional learning, but such a distinction is important
for effective practice. For instance, consider the example of the engineer whose
career was stymied because he was shy, introverted, and totally absorbed in the
technical aspects of his job. Through cognitive learning, he might come to understand
that it would be better for him to consult other people more, make connections, and
build relationships. But just knowing he should do these things would not enable him
Emotional incompetence often results from habits deeply learned early in life.
These automatic habits are set in place as a normal part of living, as experience shapes
the brain. As people acquire their habitual repertoire of thought, feeling, and action,
the neural connections that support these are strengthened, becoming dominant
pathways for nerve impulses. Connections that are unused become weakened, while
those that people use over and over grow increasingly strong. When these habits have
been so heavily learned, the underlying neural circuitry becomes the brain’s default
option at any moment – what a person does automatically and spontaneously, often
with little awareness of choosing to do so. Thus, for the shy engineer, diffidence is a
habit that must be overcome and replaced with a new habit, self-confidence.
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because they draw on different brain areas. But with social and emotional
competencies, additional brain areas are involved, mainly the circuitry that runs from
the emotional centers – particularly the amygdala – deep in the center of the brain up
to the prefrontal lobes, the brain’s executive center. Effective learning for emotional
Cognitive learning involves fitting new data and insights into existing
corresponding neural circuitry. But emotional learning involves that and more – it
requires that we also engage the neural circuitry where our social and emotional habit
Motivational factors also make social and emotional learning more difficult
and complex than purely cognitive learning. Emotional learning often involves ways
of thinking and acting that are more central to a person’s identity. A person who is
told, for instance, that he should learn a new word processing program usually will
become less upset and defensive than if he is told that he should learn how to better
control his temper or become a better listener. The prospect of needing to develop
greater emotional competence is a bitter pill for many to swallow. It thus, is much
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What this means for social and emotional learning is that one must first
unlearn old habits and then develop new ones. For the learner, this usually means a
long and sometimes difficult process involving much practice. One-day seminars just
won’t do it.
A better source of guidance comes from research that examines social and
emotional change processes more directly. This research suggests a set of guidelines
for the design of effective social and emotional learning. These guidelines point to
components that are additive and synergistic; to be effective, social and emotional
learning experiences need not adhere to all of these guidelines, but the chances for
The guidelines for social and emotional training are presented schematically in
Figure 1. They are arranged in the form of a flow chart that describes the optimal
process for helping individuals to increase their Emotional Intelligence and Emotional
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Organizations
The flow chart suggests that there are four basic phases to the training
process. The first occurs even before the individual begins formal training. This
initial phase, which is crucial for effective social and emotional learning, involves
preparation for change. This preparation occurs at both the organizational and
individual levels. The second phase, training, covers the change process itself. It
includes the processes that help people change the way in which they view the
world and deal with its social and emotional demands. The third phase, transfer
experience. The
final phase involves evaluation. Given the current state of knowledge about social and
learning
and the great unevenness in the effectiveness of existing programs, evaluation always
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learning can be challenging for adults who already have established a way of relating
to themselves and others, and people need to be strongly committed to the change
process for an extended period of time. So what can managers and trainers do to
increase learners’ motivation prior to the start of the change process? The first set of
assessment. For social and emotional training, there are two particular challenges that
must be addressed at this point in the process. First, many people in the organization
will be skeptical about the link between Emotional Intelligence and the bottom line. A
systematic and rigorous study can help show that such a link exists. The second
identify all of the particular competencies that are important for success. Sometimes it
2. Assess Personal Strengths and Limits - Two challenges confront those who
wish to assess the social and emotional competence of individuals. First, people
usually are less aware of skill weaknesses in the social and emotional domains.
the best approach usually involves ratings by those who interact with the person.
However, the beliefs, motives, and feelings of the rater influence ratings of social and
emotional competence.
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when people are given feedback on the assessment results. However, there are many
pitfalls in giving people feedback on their social competence. These competencies are
closely linked to a person’s identity and self-esteem. And in social and emotional
atmosphere of safety. The understood purpose of the feedback also affects its
when they freely choose to do so. In social and emotional training, however, choice is
particularly important. Because these competencies are so close to the essence of what
makes us the people we are, it is better if we are free to choose whether or not to
viewed, as "soft" and thus, somewhat suspect, employees will tend not to choose to
endorses it. The words and actions of supervisors are especially important. Trainees
that they support it. In a large financial services company, a training program in
emotional competence was popular in part because several regional vice presidents
encouraged their management groups to participate and then attended the program
with them.
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to learn and change if they believe that doing so will help them achieve goals that they
value. Often the most salient personal values will be work-related, but they need not
be. Trying to motivate learners by showing them that training will contribute to career
fulfilling prophecies. People who are confident that they can succeed in a training
program will tend to be more motivated and, not surprisingly, more successful.
Unfortunately, in the case of social and emotional learning, many people are skeptical
that Emotional Intelligence can be improved. And people who find social and
improve.
programs suggests that people go through several stages of readiness for change
before they are ready to make a true commitment. In the first stage, they deny that
they have any need for change. In the next stage, people begin to see that they need to
improve, but they are not sure that anything can be done about their problems and
they put off making a decision. In the third stage, the individual recognizes that there
is a problem and also that there are ways of dealing with it, but the person has not
made a concrete plan to act. It is not until the fourth stage that the person is ready to
act. People at this stage have a concrete plan, and they put it into action. Before
training begins (or toward the beginning), the training staff should, ideally, assess the
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readiness stage of each potential participant. They then would design an appropriate
intervention based on that assessment, which will differ for people at each stage of
readiness.
during the training phase. The amount of time, effort, and potential threats to one’s
self-esteem that occur during social and emotional learning suggest that trainers
continue to monitor the individual’s motivation and intervene to bolster it. One of the
most important factors influencing motivation during the training phase is the
social and emotional learning, the relationship between the trainer and learner is
critically important. Several studies have suggested that trainers who are empathic,
and they are more likely to be successful. Trainers who use a directive-confrontational
emotional competence when they decide which competencies to work on and set their
own goals. Training for emotional competence also benefits when the trainer adapts
the training to match the person’s needs, goals, and learning style preferences.
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3. Set clear goals - Social and emotional learning benefits from specific, clear
goals. Specific and challenging goals help support social and emotional learning
because they maximize self-efficacy, mastery, and motivation. The most effective
trainers are able to help the learners set clear and challenging goals without infringing
4. Break Goals into Manageable Steps - For many people, trying to bring
Although challenging goals are more motivating than simple ones, it also helps if the
goals are attainable. Thus, when people reach a goal, their self-efficacy increases,
social and emotional learning, there often must be more practice than in other types of
learning because old, ineffective neural connections need to be weakened and new,
more effective ones established. Such a process requires repetition over a prolonged
period of time. And learners need to practice on the job, not just in the training
situation but for transfer to occur. The most effective training programs include
change process as a way of indicating whether the learner is on track. It also can help
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useful in social and emotional learning because the learners often have trouble
methods, such as role plays, group discussions, and simulations, usually work better
than lecturing or assigned reading for social and emotional learning. In order to
reprogram neural circuits connecting the amygdala and neocortex, people need to
individuals and small groups. Such support is especially valuable for people who are
trying to improve their social and emotional competence. Social and emotional
training programs usually are more effective when they encourage the formation of
groups where people give each other support throughout the change effort.
in social and emotional learning. Learning is further enriched when trainers encourage
especially productive for social and emotional learning, insight also can play a useful
role. Insight serves as a natural link between situations, thoughts and feelings. It
paves the way for meaningful behavior change. The most effective training combines
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mentally to encounter slips, to recognize at the outset that setbacks are a normal part
likely to encounter many setbacks as they attempt to apply new behaviors on the job.
Without preparation for these setbacks, they can easily become discouraged and give
up before the task of neural relearning has reached the point where the new, learned
and emotional learning. When learners return to their natural environments, there are
likely to be many cues and reinforces that support the old neural pathways that
training was designed to weaken. Further, there may be significant barriers to the use
of some of the new social and emotional competencies that still have a fragile neural
organizational system in which they are rooted is not supportive of the training goals.
Recent research has pointed to several aspects of the organizational environment that
1. Encourage Use of Skills on the Job - There are many different ways that
supervisors, peers, subordinates, and others in the work environment can encourage
learners to apply what they have learned. The best methods involve either reminding
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new skills on the job and to continue doing so. Supervisors can reinforce the use of
transfer and maintain what they have learned. It can be particularly helpful for
supervisors to set aside some time periodically to help learners reflect on what they
have done to apply the skills, and to consider what have been the barriers and
competence, reflection can be especially valuable during the transfer and maintenance
phase.
competition influence these perceptions and expectations. The climate of the work
the job.
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promoting effective training. Research suggests that many training programs do not
fulfill their promise. Only through evaluation can poor programs be improved and
improvement rather than just a "pass-fail" test in which individuals associated with a
program win or lose credibility. When an evaluation suggests that a program falls
short in achieving its goals, it should not be used to punish an individual or group.
Rather, it should be used as a guide for improving the training that is offered.
making evaluation an integral part of the process, training programs will gradually
Not all training programs in social and emotional competence follow these
guidelines. How much money currently does training that does not follow these
guidelines lose? The estimated figure is between 5.6 and 16.8 billion dollars. One
arrives at this estimate by starting with the commonly quoted figure of $50 billion
spent on training each year. It is then assumed that the average cost per worker for 1
week of training is $1500. Dividing this figure into the $50 billion total gives an
It is next assumed that only a quarter of these workers receive training related
conservative side in this estimate). The rest receive technical and cognitive training.
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Thus, it is estimated that adopting the guidelines would improve training for about 8
million workers.
that follow the guidelines and those that don’t. The data from a recent study of
training programs in one large corporation was used, which found that programs
adhering to most of the guidelines improved the impact of training over those that
didn’t follow the guidelines. To be conservative, it is then assumed that only about
half the workers who now are trained (the lower half of the distribution) would do
better by that amount if the guidelines were adopted. Thus, it is estimated that if the
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It is possible for people of all ages to become more socially and emotionally
competent. However, the principles for developing this type of competence differ
greatly from those that have guided much training and development practice in the
past. Developing emotional competence requires that one unlearns old habits of
thought, feeling, and action that are deeply ingrained, and grow new ones. Such a
process takes motivation, effort, time, support, and sustained practice, as the
guidelines presented in this article make clear. The guidelines also suggest that the
However, the guidelines presented here apply to any development effort in which
personal and social learning is a goal. This would include most management and
relations, etc.
elements we have identified here, but one realizes that it often will not be practical to
synergistic: the more guidelines that trainers can follow the greater and more lasting
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Seligman and his colleagues found that new salesmen who were optimists sold 37
percent more insurance in their first two years than did pessimists. When the
company hired a special group of individuals who scored high on optimism but failed
the normal screening, they outsold the pessimists by 21 percent in their first year and
57 percent in the second. They even outsold the average agent by 27 percent.
freshman class at the University of Pennsylvania. He found that their scores on a test
of optimism were a better predictor of actual grades during the freshman year than
Emotional Intelligence that has been found to be important for success. A study of
store managers in a retail chain found that the ability to handle stress predicted net
profits, sales per square foot, sales per employee, and per dollar of inventory
investment.
express emotion as it does with controlling it. For instance, consider an experiment
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that was done at Yale University by Sigdal Barsade. He had a group of volunteers
play the role of managers who come together in a group to allocate bonuses to their
subordinates. A trained actor was planted among them. The actor always spoke first.
In some groups the actor projected cheerful enthusiasm, in others relaxed warmth, in
others depressed sluggishness, and in still others hostile irritability. The results
indicated that the actor was able to infect the group with his emotion, and good
fact, objective measures indicated that the cheerful groups were better able to
distribute the money fairly and in a way that helped the organization.
that differs from cognitive and technical training. These strategies can be used for
people positively instead of avoiding them, listening without judging, giving feedback
skillfully, and so forth. They are strategies that can be used to motivate learners to
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• Help the learner to assess personal strengths and limits when dealing with
• Link the learning goals to personal values, making them specific so that
learners can see how they can improve their emotional processing.
feedback on performance.
groups where learners can support and encourage each other through the change
• Incorporate reflection into the learning process, helping learners to think about
how they have applied the skills they are learning, the barriers they have faced,
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if it is clearly linked to a business need. People in the organization need to see it not
as just a “nice” thing to do that makes people “feel good,” though this may be
important and desirable. In order to gain the level of support needed for successful
political protection and financial backing can make the difference between success
and failure.
initially operated by a self-managed team that has an “open ticket” to innovate. The
team should have less formality, more flexible roles, and more open flows of
way of achieving this type of setting is to establish a “skunkworks team,” which was
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the name of the famed R&D team at Lockheed that sequestered itself and produced a
number of innovations.
Emotional Intelligence activities that are not based on solid research are highly
vulnerable. Emotional Intelligence training, even more than other types of activity,
objective analysis. Both qualitative and quantitative research has value in securing
support.
5. Make sure that the program’s quality is so high that it is beyond reproach.
is important to insure that training efforts meet the highest standards. If an Emotional
it will increase further. Opponents of such training need few excuses to kill it.
different groups. Multiple infusions help to normalize and generalize the concept. It
also creates a culture in which people are repeatedly reminded of what they have
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often is a challenging task. Even with the support of powerful sponsors and good
timing, one is likely to encounter much resistance. Success depends on the Emotional
At certain times in the life of any organization, the conditions will be more or
organization need to ask themselves whether the timing is right. Sometimes, it may
Listed below are general characteristics of people with high and low EQ.
These however, are generalizations, but are helpful as guidelines. These lists include
general signs of high and low self-esteem, as well as other variables which have not in
Salovey.
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SIGNS OF HIGH EQ
Expresses his feelings clearly and directly with three word sentences
Does not disguise thoughts as feelings by the use of "I feel like...." and "I feel
that...." sentences.
Is not dominated by negative emotions such as: Fear, Worry, Guilt, Shame,
Tends to feel optimistic, but is also realistic, and can feel pessimistic at times.
SIGNS OF LOW EQ
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Doesn't take responsibilities for his feelings; but blames others for them.
Can't put together three word sentences starting with "I feel..."
Can't tell why one feels the way one does, or can't do it without blaming
someone else.
Tries to analyze others, for example when they express their feelings.
Sends "you messages" disguised as "I feel messages" For example, "I feel like
you ."
Lets things build up, then they blow up, or react strongly to something
relatively minor.
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Is insecure and defensive and finds it hard to admit mistakes, express remorse,
or apologize sincerely.
Avoids responsibility by saying things like: "What was I supposed to do? I had
no choice!”
negative emotions
Locks himself into courses of action against common sense, or jumps ship at
Rigidly clings to own beliefs because of being too insecure to be open to new
facts.
Can tell the details of an event, and what they think about it, but can't tell how
Uses intellect to judge and criticize others without realizing feeling superior,
others' feelings.
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Does EI predict success more strongly than IQ? In one sense, this question is
interplay. But in another sense, it has practical implications for significant workplace
decisions.
providing a scientific rationale for making more balanced decisions in hiring and
promotions.
EQ, may actually predict success more accurately than IQ. EQ has a friendlier feel to
it - nice guys finish first at last - but it’s far from warm and fuzzy. For one thing,
other than IQ, that helps us get ahead in the world. The term Emotional Quotient,
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which conflates EQ with IQ, is fictitious in the sense that no accepted test has been
performance. Hunter and Hunter estimated that at best IQ accounts for about 25
percent of the variance. Sternberg has pointed out that studies vary and that 10 percent
Sommerville, Massachusetts. Two-thirds of the boys were from welfare families, and
one-third had IQ’s below 90. However, IQ had little relation to how well they did at
work or in the rest of their lives. What made the biggest difference were childhood
abilities such as being able to handle frustration, control emotions, and get along with
other people.
battery of personality tests, IQ tests, and interviews in the 1950s when they were
graduate students at Berkeley. Forty years later, when they were in their early
seventies, they were tracked down and estimates were made of their success based on
resumes, evaluations by experts in their own fields, and sources like American Men
and Women of Science. It turned out that social and emotional abilities were four
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success in science. One needs a relatively high level of such ability merely to get
admitted, however, what matters in terms of how one does compared to ones peers
has less to do with IQ differences and more to do with social and emotional factors.
simply to get a doctorate and a job. But then it is more important to be able to persist
in the face of difficulty and to get along well with colleagues and subordinates than it
is to have an extra 10 or 15 points of IQ. The same is true in many other occupations.
It should also be kept in mind that cognitive and non-cognitive abilities are
very much related. In fact, there is research suggesting that emotional and social skills
“marshmallow studies” at Stanford University, four year olds were asked to stay in a
room alone with a marshmallow and wait for a researcher to return. They were told
that if they could wait until the researcher came back before eating the marshmallow,
they could have two. Ten years later the researchers tracked down the kids who
participated in the study. They found that the kids who were able to resist temptation
had a total SAT score that was 210 points higher than those kids who were unable to
wait.
IQ, then, mainly predicts what profession an individual can hold a job in—for
instance, it takes a certain mental acumen to pass the bar exam or the MCATs.
Estimates are that in order to pass the requisite cognitive hurdles such as exams or
required coursework or mastery of technical subjects and enter a profession like law,
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That means that once one is in the pool of people in a profession, one
competes with people who are also at the high end of the bell curve for IQ. This is
why, even though IQ is a strong predictor of success among the general population, its
predictive power for outstanding performance weakens greatly once the individuals
individuals’ career success in studies of large populations over the career course
because it sorts people before they embark on a career, determining which fields or
professions they can enter. But when studies look within a job or profession to learn
which individuals rise to the top and which plateau or field, EI should prove a more
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CHAPTER 2
RESEARCH &
METHODOLOGY
2.1 SCOPE
activity could be; it would certainly have its emotional background. In other words,
everything in life may not just be how we think about it, but also, how we feel about it
and long committed to leadership, education and development, I decided to assess the
This project covers the Emotional Intelligence practices of Tata Infotech Ltd.
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study. These practices are applied not only to the corporate Head Office, but are also
2.2 OBJECTIVES
1] To study the Emotional Intelligence concept in learning about the role of emotions
2] To analyze the various policies and recommended ways to help the employees of
3] To gain an insight into the actual practice of Emotional Intelligence and understand
the implications of it, which I believe will prove beneficial to me, during my
2.3 LIMITATIONS
Even though this study attempts to discuss Tata Infotech Ltd. company’s
complete justice to the discussion, due to the nature of the confidential information
involved.
practices of the company and does not cover any other Emotional Intelligence policy
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Both primary and secondary data has been used to gain information relevant to
this project.
2] Interview Guide.
1] Books
2] Websites
The data collected from the above mentioned sources has been processed by
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employees when depressed, expressed their feelings when asked by a friend about
how one was feeling. It also helped to depict the number of employees who did not
want to express their feelings when asked and tried to give excuses. 60% of the
(Fig 5)
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employees when upset, expressed their feelings when their partner did something
unacceptable to them. It also helped to depict the number of employees who did not
want to express their feelings when asked to do so. 40% of the employees were
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employees who expressed their feelings when a mistake was pointed out by thanking
the person doing so. It also helped to depict the number of employees who did not
want to express their feelings but instead tried to defend themselves and find
something wrong with the person pointing out their mistake. 80% of the employees
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NON - EXPRESSIVE
Results
probability of fears coming true and began focusing on the options available to
overcome the situation. It also helped to depict the number of employees who did not
want to express their feelings by trying not to think about it and hoping that it will go
away. In this situation 100% of the employees were expressive, thus indicating that
the employees at Tata Infotech Ltd. are challenge and goal oriented. (Fig 8)
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EXPRESSIVE
NON - EXPRESSIVE
Sayings
Results
employees who expressed their feelings when someone reacts strongly to something
said by apologizing and asking them what bothered them about the things said to
them. It also helped to depict the number of employees who did not want to express
their feelings as they were too sensitive. 70% of the employees were expressive
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communicating with people at a social level and spend much of their time looking to
extend and deepen their relationships with others. The other 10 employees did not like
to connect with others at an emotional level and mostly enjoy relationships where
feelings are open and known and outcomes and task goals are secondary.
Organized
In the Organized Style, 16 employees value the world with certainty in which
people can interact simply, fairly and therefore, purposefully seek to establish sound
processes that others will find helpful to follow. To do this they will approach new
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organized world in which people can operate in a calm, familiar and well ordered
climate. The other 4 employees interviewed were not predominantly interested in the
Conceptual
In the Conceptual Style, all of the 20 employees interviewed achieve their goals
designed to push people's thinking to new or different horizons thus, incorporating the
Reflective
that they can logically analyze and weigh up carefully in their mind before they
decide or act. The other 6 employees achieved their goals in a different style where
Primary Data on “Emotional Intelligence” was also collected with the help of
the Interview Guide (Annexure 2), wherein the HR Manager of Tata Infotech Ltd.
was interviewed. Information sought with the help of this Interview Guide has been
described below.
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Emotional Intelligence at Tata Infotech is called as the `Survival Skills for the
New Millennium.' The term New Millennium is crucial here. Because a quick action
replay of the corporate setting of the 1960s and 1970s will reveal that there was a
clear distinction between the technical employee and the non-technical one. It
followed that the technical employee was under no great pressure to possess any kind
With the growth of the people-based economy, there has been an overhaul of
sorts in the kind of employment skills a person should possess. There is nothing called
the right ratio of skills. Picking the right person for a job is not a science, but an art. It
they warn HR managers against the halo effect. It follows that managers should have
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There cannot be a definite ratio that can be affixed to these critical attributes.
For instance, the attributes required for hiring an R&D Head and a Project Manager
are different because the job content is different. One needs to be creative and good at
problem solving skills as an R&D Head. A good project manager also needs to have
The mapping of behavioral skills is done on the Y-axis and the technical skills
on the X-axis, the ideal candidate would be one falling in the second quarter where
the person scores high in both skills. This is the `select situation.' On the other hand,
the third quarter would indicate a clear reject because both the skills are low here.
Areas of difficulty are quarters one and four. If a person's skill sets fall in
these regions, then the HR person has to examine whether the person is being selected
for a technical role in which case, his individual contribution would be high. In a
managerial role, demand for technical skills is relatively less while behavioral skills
are high. It is obvious that the so-called ideal mix changes as one progress in a career.
Managers in the middle management level are presumed that the behavioral skills
The higher one climbs the ladder of management, it is possible that there are
technical (functional) experts working and hence, the weightage of behavioral skills to
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Technical skills are important in the early years of a career. As people are
important to keep in mind the number of years of experience when giving weightage
which does much better than providing only good technical people. Even customers
prefer people with better behavioral skills even if they have to compromise a bit on
technical skills, but not vice-versa. Thus, a minimum threshold of technical skills
skills are essential at all levels. The technical skills or the business skills are the ones
When the company acquires talent, people with valved technical skills are a
no-no. It looks at whether the person understands the subjects, whether he has the
creative bent of mind. References are very important. A good reference means a
person has been tried and tested and half the selection job is done.
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Talking in the same vein, attitude should be given 100 per cent weightage
find it difficult or consider it high-risk to hire a person who does not fit into the
culture.
Technical skills are critical in hiring decisions but one cannot over-rule the
softer issues involved in the hiring process. This is more so in case of hiring managers
If the job demands high technical skills, how long a rope could be given in the
behavioral skill area while recruiting talent? Either the candidate has the right attitude
Tata Infotech believes that anybody with the `learning attitude' can be trained
in the technical platform. The rate at which technology is changing makes the person
obsolete anyway unless he's willing to learn newer platforms and languages. So,
ultimately, it boils down to a choice between `willing to learn' and the `learned'.
One way is to segregate the job into two, with different people being
responsible for the technical output and the people-management side of it. Another
way is to have strong people-oriented processes built into the system itself to ensure
that the manager has no choice but to be fair with people irrespective of the technical
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A `job fit' should be made based on the requirement of the job. The more
technical the job, normally it demands more individualized technical skills which
should be catered to rather than diluting the job. However, all jobs will demand a
Training is the answer. Take the case of an employee who shows exemplary
technical skills, but fails miserably in the behavioral skill area. Is it possible to train
and upgrade him? One should remember that the tools are measuring softer issues and
one can only find out the degree of the required attribute in a prospective candidate.
Tata Infotech believes that anyone can be trained to improve on the basic
behavioral skills. This can be done through various methodologies, including process
and constant coaching. The new economy guys of course look for evolved career
practices.
practicing it in daily life. A programmer may have poor interpersonal skills, and to
become a team leader, he or she needs to acquire this skill. In addition to the training,
the project manager should provide guidance and counseling to ensure that the skills
Tata Infotech believes that companies of the future will be the ones who invest
senior management time in training their employees. From the CEO all the way down,
everyone has to invest time in training and building their people. External trainers will
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development.
helps individuals and groups assess their current level of performance and receive
competency, and to share results of the leadership study. These sessions also
served as the launch for the newly enhanced leadership model and survey.
ongoing. Board members and their teams have begun assessment and skill-
throughout the organization have initiated programs and processes to enhance the
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Social and Organizational Skills; all considered part of the Emotional Intelligence
domain. A strategic cycle of assessment, learning, practice and feedback over time
will enable organizational members to build the competencies that can drive personal
success and develop high performing employees for the organization. Thus, the
commitment and systematic approach taken at Tata Infotech is consistent with the
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CHAPTER 4
SUCCESS STORIES
contributes to the bottom line in any work organization. Based on data from a variety
1) The US Air Force used the EQ-I to select recruiters (the Air Force’s front-line HR
personnel) and found that the most successful recruiters scored significantly higher in
Emotional Self Awareness. The Air Force also found that by using Emotional
report to Congress, which led to a request that the Secretary of Defense order all
branches of the armed forces to adopt this procedure in recruitment and selection.
Emotional Intelligence competencies plus three others. Partners who scored above the
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median on 9 or more of the 20 competencies delivered $1.2 million more profit from
their accounts than did other partners – a 139 percent incremental gain.
3) An analysis of more than 300 top-level executives from fifteen global companies
showed that six emotional competencies distinguished stars from the average:
times more productive than those at the bottom and 85 percent more productive than
managers), a top performer is 127 percent more productive than an average performer.
that about one-third of this difference is due to technical skill and cognitive ability
competence sold $91,370 more than other salespeople did, for a net revenue increase
63% less turnover during the first year than those selected in the typical way.
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with an average premium of $54,000. Those who were very strong in at least 5 of 8
7) In a large beverage firm, using standard methods to hire division presidents, 50%
left within two years, mostly because of poor performance. When they started
leadership, only 6% left in two years. Furthermore, the executives selected based on
emotional competence were far more likely to perform in the top third based on salary
bonuses for performance of the divisions they led: 87% were in the top third. In
8) Research by the Center for Creative Leadership has found that the primary causes
primary ones are difficulty in handling change, not being able to work well in a team,
competencies such as how to listen better and help employees resolve problems on
their own, lost-time accidents were reduced by 50 percent, formal grievances were
reduced from an average of 15 per year to 3 per year, and the plant exceeded
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received similar training, production increased 17 percent. There was no such increase
different organizations.
11) Another emotional competence, the ability to handle stress, was linked to success
as a store manager in a retail chain. The most successful store managers were those
best able to handle stress. Success was based on net profits, sales per square foot,
New salesmen at Met Life who scored high on a test of "learned optimism" sold 37
percent more life insurance in their first two years than pessimists.
13) A study of 130 executives found that how well people handled their own emotions
determined how much people around them preferred to deal with them.
14) For sales reps at a computer company, those hired based on their emotional
competence were 90% more likely to finish their training than those hired on other
criteria.
15) At a national furniture retailer, sales people hired based on emotional competence
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16) For 515 senior executives analyzed by the search firm Egon Zehnder
International, those who were primarily strong in Emotional Intelligence were more
likely to succeed than those who were strongest in either relevant previous experience
or IQ. In other words, Emotional Intelligence was a better predictor of success than
either relevant previous experience or high IQ. More specifically, the executive was
the failures. The study included executives in Latin America, Germany, and Japan,
17) The following description of a "star" performer reveals how several emotional
competencies were critical in his success: Michael Iem worked at Tandem Computers.
Shortly after joining the company as a junior staff analyst, he became aware of the
market trend away from mainframe computers to networks that linked workstations
and personal computers (Service Orientation). Iem realized that unless Tandem
responded to the trend, its products would become obsolete (Initiative and
mainframes was no longer appropriate (Influence) and then develop a system using
new technology (Leadership, Change Catalyst). He spent four years showing off his
new system to customers and company sales personnel before the new network
managers had not. During the year following training, the advisors of trained
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managers grew their businesses by 18.1% compared to 16.2% for those whose
19) The most successful debt collectors in a large collection agency had an average
goal attainment of 163 percent over a three-month period. They were compared with a
group of collectors who achieved an average of only 80 percent over the same time
period. The most successful collectors scored significantly higher in the Emotional
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CHAPTER 5
CONCLUSION
up for what one believes in, in a tactful and respectful way. It is not about jumping to
conclusions, but getting the whole picture before one reacts. It involves an extensive
It’s how to stay positive during tough times, and motivate oneself and others around
Goleman has never claimed otherwise. Emotional Intelligence for many years has
been an impressive, and growing, body of research suggesting that these abilities are
important for success in many areas of life as the pace of change increases and the
physical resources.
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CHAPTER 6
Emotional Intelligence as traits - offers insights into how one filters and directs
measure.
purely cognitive abilities, modes of learning that work well for academic subjects
or technical skills and hence, it is well suited for helping people improve an
emotional competence.
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Intelligence based capabilities, there is a clear need to integrate that valuation into
Organizations need to hire for Emotional Intelligence along with whatever other
criterion, particularly to the extent that a position requires leadership. When those
with high potential are being selected and groomed, Emotional Intelligence should
be a major focus.
the power of emotions behind them. Emotions are a leader's greatest source of
energy, connection and influence. In these dynamic times, leaders need all three:
sustainable client relationships, and influence to inspire those around them. The
conclusion must be that when choosing leaders we must focus more strongly on
finding persons with conscious and constructive values and high Emotional
Intelligence.
Given the new understanding of the crucial role emotional competence plays in
life skills. There are already numerous school-based programs in the basics of
(SEL). But when it comes to preparing young people in the essential Emotional
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Intelligence skills that matter most for their success in the workplace, for piloting
their careers, and for leadership, there is a serious gap. The SEL programs cover
the early school years but not higher education. Only a scattered handful of
pioneering SEL courses exists at the college or professional level. And yet the
data showing the crucial role Emotional Intelligence skills play in career success
make a compelling case for envisioning higher education in order to give these
Given that employers themselves are looking for Emotional Intelligence capacities
in those they hire, colleges and professional schools that offered appropriate SEL
training would benefit both their graduates and the organizations they work for.
The future, I hope, will recognize the importance of Emotional Intelligence not
just for the students, not just for the students' employers, but for the vitality of an
economy as a whole.
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Heart Rending
Emotionally engaged teams are more productive, more loyal, create higher levels of
profitability and higher levels of customer satisfaction – in other words, it’s about
Want to double your revenue growth rates and triple your profit growth rates? This
was the question posed to a roomful of CEOs of large companies at a recent Gallup
seminar. After a moment of stunned silence, one CEO, a 60 year old legend in
corporate America stood up and said: “yes, I do – and while I am at it, I also want to
be the next Miss Universe.” The room cracked up in laughter. Both the question and
answer tickled the audience pink. When the mirth subsided, Curt Coffman, global best
– selling author and the Gallup consultant driving the session said, “Joe, you are
incredibly funny – but the truth is that, there is a way. And some companies have
started to experience this even as they run their earlier stagnant, often declining
companies. They have unleashed the power of what we call the emotional economy.
Today we are going to share their secret with you – and the best part about it is that it
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So what were the things spoken about on that landmark day – the day that 50
giddy CEOs left a room, transformed. They left the room believing that it is still
skullduggery that has become the norm rather than the expectation in recent times.
Before probing the emotional economy, lets talk about its much-practiced
Companies have long treated people (customers and employees) as rational beings –
appeal to their rational, logical self, and you are bound to succeed. Hence to retain
employees, pay them more, give them better designations etc., to retain customers,
advertise or build loyalty programs. And yet, across the sectors, pretty much across
the world, growth rates are stagnant, profit growth is anemic and to kill competition,
companies are slashing their own wrists by cutting prices. Obviously, it does not seem
to work too well, does it? Lets move on to the emotional economy and see how it can
Great companies have realized one thing – that many of the elements of the reason
driven economy – great products, value for money, pricing, extensive media
promotion, loyalty programs, etc., are simply tickets of admission. They simply
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reason. Neural pathways from the brain structure commanding our emotional
responses to the brain systems that control our thoughts are wider and stronger than
the pathways the other way around. In essence, emotions are a more important aspect
to address than reason alone. This is something that great organizations have started to
realize and to address. They have realized that emotional engagement is the fuel that
drives the most productive employees and the most profitable customers. Great
employees and customers. And the bets way to achieve this is not through technology,
but through human interaction – the fastest and the most powerful trigger of
emotional states.
And lest this appear simply interesting, but untested hypothesis, let that thought be
quickly dispelled. The ‘Emotional Economy’ has backing from data gathered from
over 10 million customers, 3 million employees and over 200,000 managers – studies
So what is the learning or set of learnings that great companies have made that most
companies are still struggling with? There are six things that they have realized, one
Employees who use their natural talents in their jobs produce significantly
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outcomes.
This emotional reaction builds a bridge between employees and customers that
creates engagement.
This engagement becomes the key factor that drives sustainable growth.
Sustainable growth is the route to profits and, ultimately, higher stock value.
This path up the emotional economy is branded as The Gallup Path. In a nutshell,
and customers, emotions are indispensable, because they drive the best in both of
them. The emotional economy makes use of a chemical reaction inside the brain to
Inherent to the success of companies walking the Emotional Economy path are three
clear points. To begin with, recruit for talent – cast people according to their
strengths. Second, engage your employees by making them a part of great teams. And
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In this article the primary focus is on the first two elements – ‘casting people right’
and ‘engaging them’ in the roles they perform. The third element ‘engaging
all of the above aspects have to work together, in perfect harmony. Doing just one or
Give the big focus on ITES in india today, lets take a look at two employees working
in the call-center business in india – lets call them ‘She Cann” and ‘He Cant’. They
are both employed in a call-center operation for one of the largest banks in the world.
Both have similar academic background, had been through the same training process
and have received the same amount of training. And yet, while She Cann loves her
To quote She Cann,”I have a great time talking to people and figuring out what is or
isn’t important to them. When I make a connection, I hear it in their voices, and it
makes me feel good.” And now lets look at what the unfortunate He Cant has to say,
‘I try to sound friendly and courteous, just as I was taught to be. But for some reason I
can’t fathom, when I pick up the phone, everything falls apart. I forget the client’s
name. Somehow I naturally lose the person as soon as I say hello. Its terribly
demoralizing”. The difference is clear. She Cann is able to connect with her
customers emotionally, unlike He Cant. And the reason is obvious. While the
demographic profile and training of both is similar, the truth is that She Cann is in a
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role that is playing to her strengths, while He Cant is trying to salvage something out
The above example is not fictitious – our global research shows that across the world,
a mere fifth of the worlds working population is well cast in roles – roles that utilize
their potential to the fullest extent, that draws from their strengths.
Is the problem with the employees? No, it is with the way they are cast. Does this
have a business impact? Yes, id does – logically it should and the data proves it as
well. Coming back to the call-center case, heres what we see in of the largest call-
center operations in the world – the top1% performers create engagement among
almost each and every customer they talk to. The bottom performers on the other hand
completely.
So what do companies do to retrieve the situation – they train these miscast people
more and more to deliver better. But can they truly – can you train a rabbit to swim?
Perhaps, but would you ever make it a world-class swimmer – definitely not. One big
issue is the faulty assumption that anyone can excel in anything if they receive enough
training and try hard enough. Nothing can be further from the truth.
As you walk the path of emotional economy remember that world class performance
comes when people are in roles that utilize their talents best – building on talents
leads to world class performance. Weakness fixing, at best, only helps reduce failure.
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All our work tells us that there are typically three types of employees in every
company. The ‘engaged employees’ who are completely committed to the role that
they perform and typically deliver superior results. The ‘not engaged ‘ employees
who do pretty much that they are supposed to do but are susceptible to overtures from
competition. The third band, the ‘actively disengaged’, is employees who have
completely lost their link from the job that they are supposed to perform and the
As you read this article, think about yourself – which of these three groups do you fall
under? And why? Think of your co-workers. Almost certainly you will be able to
categorize all the people that you work with into one of these three groups.
Companies have attempted to work on this issue for a long time now. They have
relied on employee satisfaction surveys to provide them inputs about what needs to be
done to create employee engagement. And yet a survey with the CEOs and HR heads
of the Fortune 500 companies revealed an alarming situation. The vast majority of
respondents opined that far from giving them inputs to increase employee satisfaction
in the company, the entire process actually worsened things within the company with
So what is the cause of ‘disengagement’? And what could be going wrong with the
Obviously miscast employees are not going to feel engaged. But another problem
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exists too, a very significant one. All action arising out of the survey was driven by
the top management of the organization, but in a sense that’s the equivalent of using a
Band-Aid to cover a bullet wound. As the path breaking book ‘first break all the rules’
organization. Hence, any survey that does not lead to action being taken at the level of
the manager and team will aggravate, rather than improve a situation.
At the heart of the emotional economy is the ‘manager’, the leader of a team. Without
a great manager, the talents of employees are like sundials in the shade – present, but
useless. The manager makes or breaks the journey that the company makes on the
road to emotional engagement. It is interesting to see that great managers do four key
things, aspects that could be called the four keys of great management.
Select for talent. Great managers are very careful about their choice of team
members and make sure that there is a clear talent role match.
Set clear expectations. Great managers define outcomes and let each employee
Develop people based on their fit, instead of simply moving them up the
hierarchy.
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And all this works – and works dramatically. Emotionally engaged teams are more
productive, more loyal to the company, create higher levels of profitability, safety in
the work place and higher levels of customer satisfaction – in other words, it’s about
business success, not just about creating a great work place to work. Unfortunately,
research tells us that in every company, only 25% of the teams are operating at peak
When you, Mr.CEO are thinking about how to do this, remember these two bits of
research. The Pryor report shows why companies lose customers – 68% of customers
defect because they are turned off by rude/indifferent employees. Research at the
Gallup organization carried out across a host of products categories revealed the
presence of a 5th P of marketing, that’s a lot more important today than any of the
traditional 4 P’s. It’s the ‘people’ piece that today is significantly more important in
So, how do you get your people to build customer loyalty – elementary – not by
paying them more, or by giving them fancy titles, but by executing the first and
second element mentioned above in your company, one employee and one manager at
a time.
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