Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery

by Somraj Pokras

The Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to Premature Ejaculation:

The Tantric Approach to Making Love For As Long As

Your Partner Wants, While You Experience More Ecstasy Than You Ever
Imagined Possible

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The bad news first. According to some estimates, about 30 percent of American
men reach orgasm earlier than they'd like to. Decades ago Alfred Kinsey, one of
the early famous sex researchers, found that 75% of the men he tested ejaculated
within two minutes of vaginal entry. Pretty quick, don't you think? Yeah, well, I
can remember when I regularly beat that record.

The good news is that this sad situation motivated sex therapists to develop
successful solutions to premature ejaculation. And it spurred us Tantric folks to
study the ancient texts for powerful secrets of mastering our orgasms. I've tried
them all and some work tremendously. So I wrote an electronic book to share
my experience with others who want to last longer.

But there's more bad news. These traditional techniques of male orgasm mastery
concentrate on control. Control requires always being careful. This puts you on
guard and under constant tension. That kind of therapy is decidedly non-Tantric
because you end up wound tighter than a spring. If you know anything about the
ancient art and science of sacred sexuality, you must be aware that Tantra
teaches us to relax, enjoy, and not resist. Besides, springs easily pop off if you
tweak them, right? That's what we want to overcome.

Let's Change Your Life Forever

When I set out to learn to last longer myself, I sought a pleasure-positive method
that worked Tantrically. That's what started me reading, practicing, and
developing Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery. This volume is really my story about
my love relationship with vajra (Tantric for penis), about creating more and
more pleasure, and mastering vajras' ups and downs. I wrote this book so that
you can become an orgasm master too. It's about how you can be at choice about
cuming when you want to, or not. It's about you enjoying undreamed of pleasure
for amazingly long periods of time.

As I say in Chapter 1:
"The first thing you need to believe when you embark on the path of Ultimate
Ejaculation Mastery is that there's nothing wrong with you. Cuming is a good
thing. OK, it doesn't always happen when you want it to. Just consider it a
timing problem. In the overwhelming majority of cases, you can change your
timing with training. I know because I did.

"If you choose this path, you're going to discover (if you don't already know)
that ejaculation doesn't always have to accompany orgasm. That's how those
who've learned these techniques have multiple orgasms, pleasurable spasm after
spasm that go on and on without the squirting that for most of us ends the
playtime."

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery goes into depth about the ten major causes of
premature ejaculation. But for most of us, it's simply a learning gap that we can
easily correct. We've been conditioned so that when we get turned on,
something inside takes over and convinces us to just let go. I call that the "urge
to cum." You can easily master this urge if you do the practices in my book.

For a microsecond I don't want to give you the idea that there's anything wrong
with this urge. The craving for pleasure is how we celebrate life in Tantra.

Inner Orgasm, Really?

Chapter 1 continues:

"As a result of over 30 years helping people change their behavior, I'm
convinced that few succeed at stopping something they want to do, like cuming.
The secret is to replace what you don't want with something better. Fortunately,
Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery teaches something so much better that once you
develop the knack of inner orgasm from the exercises in this book, you'll never
want to go back to spraying your seed outside indiscriminately.

"Inner orgasm, is that anything like inner tennis or golf? No, not really."

You're familiar I'm sure with the outer explosive orgasm: the very pleasurable
ten-second involuntary muscle contractions accompanied by releasing semen to
the outside world. Believe it or not, it's quite possible to make those involuntary
muscle contractions respond to your power of choice. So you get the fun without
the wetness.

Regardless of what's causing your desire to make a change in your lovemaking

skills, energy is at the root of it. When Tantrikas refer to energy, we mean the
nervous stimulation and physical excitation that feels like an electric current or
magnetic field running through your body. Tantra practice is all about how to
conjure up sexual energy and circulate it. Why bother learning how to channel
energy? Because if it all stays in your cock, the easiest place to move is
outwards, and it makes you cum. Disperse it and you feel great all over without
a sudden big gush.

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery teaches you to separate ejaculation from orgasm

by infusing your whole body with that glorious energy. When you learn the
orgasm mastery formula, you can avoid the contractions that initiate the
emission of semen. When you're super turned on, you can still have those pelvic
muscle contractions that feel so wonderful. That's what causes a dry or energy
orgasm, a long series of slow pleasurable spasms with a rush of energy without
ejaculating. I call these inner or implosive orgasms because you pump the
energy back inside, circulate it over and over again, and reach higher and higher
peaks.

Now, here's the best news of all. When I have an inner orgasm, my arousal
decreases dramatically. On the other side of that peak, I'm suddenly less
sensitive. So I can stroke faster and pump vigorously while my excitement
rebuilds slowly. By circulating my energy while I'm peaking, my love stamina is
lengthened tremendously. And by repeating this cycle over and over, it becomes
virtually unlimited.

The Ultimate Approach

The secret formula of orgasm master presented in detail in Ultimate Ejaculation

Mastery is RAMPER which stands for..

• Relax
• Awareness
• Measure
• Pace yourself
• Energy circulation
• Ride the wave

Relaxing in high states of arousal is the foundation. Tantric lovemaking is

typically much slower than the fast pumping you see in porno flicks. Just by
going slower you'll be more relaxed, and relaxation lets you open your
awareness, heighten your senses, and focus your mind. Focus on what? Why, on
pleasure in the moment, of course. If you can appreciate how great your vajra
feels now, you'll be more willing to relax and go slow.

Chapter 2 explains:
 "RAMPER requires you to tune in to your senses and
sensations. So what do you do with this sharpened
awareness? The M in RAMPER means to monitor and
measure your level of arousal. If you know where your
excitement level is, then you can play with it while
stretching out your enjoyment and your partners'. The
forces that turn us on aren't always obvious, and change
from time to time. M is all about learning to read
yourself so you know where you're at precisely. As you
practice, you'll learn to measure your level of arousal as
it climbs towards the point of no return.

"P stands for Pacing yourself. It also stands for Pleasure.

If your focus is on pleasure not orgasm, then you won't
be rushing headlong towards a destination. You won't be
in a race towards the finish line. You won't have a schedule to meet. You'll just
slow down and enjoy. That's a big part of pacing."

The key to pacing is peaking. Peaking means adjusting the stimuli that give you
sudden surges of arousal so you come back down without going over the top. If
you graphed peaking, it would look like a steep ascent and then a steep descent.
Which is where it got its name.

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery is all about learning to ride the edge of the cliff,
that fine line between absorbing all the pleasure you can take, and taking too
much all at once and cuming.

The E of RAMPER stands for energy and circulating it away from your genitals.
Chapter 2 continues:

"So here's a vital part of your initiation, you lucky stiff. Instead of shooting for
the Big O, as your arousal builds, redirect your energy up, around, and
throughout your body, allowing it to carry you to higher and higher levels of
pleasure. Some say it will fuel your brain with cosmic energy and give you
psychedelic visions. Whatever. Not only will it feel ecstatic, but since you won't
be depleting your energy, you'll be able to last and last and last."

It's All About Riding The Wave

The last R of RAMPER is about Riding the wave of ecstasy. As Chapter 2

explains:

"That's why the acronym RAMPER is so apt, describing how your pleasure
ramps up. Most of us who cum quick never experience these escalating plateaus.
We never develop our capacity to absorb more and more pleasure. When you
do, it feels like ecstatic waves surging inside."

Once you've experienced a non-stop whole-body inner orgasm, you can

understand how the typical male's fascination with squirting a big load pales by
comparison. This is why we call Tantric lovemaking sexual meditation.

I hope this brief overview of the Tantric approach to orgasm mastery helps.
Unfortunately, in my experience, just reading about RAMPER won't change
your life forever. Tantra requires practice to change your habits and energy
patterns. That's why Chapters 3 through 7 of Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery are
primarily made up of exercises that you do in the privacy of your own bed.
There's no room to include them all here, but a sample follows.

Chapters 3 and 4 are about solo practices you can do to learn about your own
energy, arousal, and sexual patterns. The second half of the book, beginning
with Chapter 5 relies on a partner to develop orgasm mastery. After all, it takes
two to Tantra, right? I've included one of the exercises from Chapter 5 where
you begin applying these joint skills. This exercise is based on a fundamental
Tantric practice, sexual breathing. This is slow rhythmic deep belly breathing
accompanied by the sounds and movement you experience during orgasm.
Learn this and you'll understand why the breath is such a dominant force in
running sexual energy.

Exercise: Partner Breath Peaking

In this practice, you're going to use sexual breathing to spread your excitement
away from your hot spots like you did in the solo Breath Peaking exercise.

1. Use a comfortable position for both of you.

2. After preliminaries like talking, relaxing, breathing, and full body sensual
massage, ask your partner to begin stroking vajra and your testicles
slowly. You decide whether you want your partner to start with a dry or
lubricated hand, depending on how sensitive you feel and how well
you've been doing with previous mastery exercises.
3. While receiving pleasure, be sure to continue sexual breathing: inhaling
slowly and deeply in the belly, rocking your hips, undulating your body,
squeezing your sexual muscles, and pumping the energy up your body.
4. When you reach a medium level of excitement, instead of stopping
stimulation like you did in earlier exercises, ask your partner to slow
down slightly. Open your eyes wide, inhale more deeply into the belly,
but this time through the NOSE, and hold your breath.
5. Relax completely as you exhale, visualizing your sexual fire streaming
out of vajra, and moaning with pleasure to release energy.
 6. Inhale again through the nose, visualizing that pleasurable energy moving
up vajra through your pelvis to your heart and higher. Use one long or
several short pumps of your pelvic muscles to help you shoot the energy
upwards.
7. Can you feel your excitement lessen simply by slowing your breath? Play
with it until you can. See how long you can maintain a high peak while
you adjust your breathing. Use some of the techniques from Chapter 4 to
interrupt ejaculation if you need to. Guide your partner to stop and start
stimulation and use subtle adjustments as required.
8. Repeat the exercise five more times at this level of excitement, and then
repeat the cycle at increasingly higher levels of arousal.
9. As you practice and get closer and closer to cuming, see if you can back
off your arousal level just by slowing and deepening your breath without
your partner changing anything. When you can balance on the very edge
of the point of no return, you're bound to experience implosive orgasms,
where you vibrate inside and stream the energy upward without squirting.
10.Exchange roles and manually pleasure your partner, carefully following
the guidance you receive.

Tantric Mastery

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery culminates in you mastering the ability to ride the
wave of Tantric lovemaking. As Chapter 7 explains:

"It's a wave of orgasmic energy, of love bliss, of ecstatic delirium, of spiritual

rapture. Once you experience it fully, it will transform your life. Let me warn
you, you won't be satisfied with pure animal lust anymore. When you taste your
connection to the divine, you will want to stay home in bed, basking in the
mindless serenity.

"The moment of orgasm is the closest most people come to communion with
their inner being and God. Tantra teaches that this experience is a brief glimpse
into our true divine nature: ecstatic in the body, compassionate in the heart,
empty in the mind, blissful in the spirit. To get a taste of this exalted condition,
just imagine the powerful experience of prolonged and multiple orgasms.

"Tantric Love Play is more like sensuously sipping an expensive Cabernet than
chugging a six-pack of brew. It more resembles sampling the delicacies at a
gourmet buffet than inhaling a pepperoni pizza during Monday Night Football.
It's certainly more like a twilight stroll through a perfumed garden during Spring
with your beloved on your arm than running a hundred-yard dash.

"Tantric Love Play is leisurely, savoring every delicious morsel of pleasure,

instead of rushing headlong towards maximum turn-on now. Tantric lovers
move so slowly, stopping frequently to settle deeply into the rising tide of
pleasure, stretching the experience out as long as possible. Releasing tension and
giving in to the urge to cum gets replaced with continuous streaming vibrations
of ecstatic energy. When we enter the altered state of consciousness that comes
with repeated implosive orgasms, we simply want to float in a cloud of bliss
together."

Final Words

Well, that's my story and I'm sticking to it. My sex life is certainly transformed,
and I hope yours will become too.

As you're well aware, there are many paths of transformation. Of course, the one
I recommend is explained in detail in my electronic book, Ultimate Ejaculation
Mastery. More details follow if you want the whole sales pitch.

Regardless, I'd appreciate your feedback at Somraj@TantraAtTahoe.com.

Electronic Book Objectives

By learning what's in Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery, you'll master...

• modern and ancient proven secrets of prolonged lovemaking for men,

• how to have S.E.X. (that's Subtle Energy eXchange)
• a smorgasbord of techniques to stop you from cuming when you choose,
• how to direct that powerful urge to cum inward instead of outward,
channeling ecstatic energy to your pleasure centers, and
• the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution to premature ejaculation.

The heart of Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery is proven to be 95% successful if

you're willing to practice with your sex energy. And hey, that's lots of fun, right?
It contains...

• A complete summary of the best techniques from all over the world.
• A 150 page personal training program containing 50 exercises for sexual
muscle building and a way to choose the right ones for your situation.
• A fun way to learn to have different kinds of orgasms than you're used to.
• Multiple answers to every possible question in a pragmatic way.
• The Tantric path of love on multiple levels, including sex, heart, and spirit
• How to be the kind of lover that women crave.
• A personal training program using a gradual step-by-step teaching
method.
Since it's an electronic book, your purchase and participation remains
confidential, though of course you can print a copy for your own private use.

Electronic Book Contents

Ultimate Ejaculation Mastery contains...

• the causes, solutions, mechanics, and anatomy of orgasm

• graphic stories of erotic play
• 30 solo exercises that help you prepare for partner work
• surefire ways to learn pacing, peaking, and plateauing
• a smorgasbord of physical techniques to interrupt ejaculation
• 18 partner exercises based on everything you learned solo.
• 33 sexual positions and how they affect arousal
• methods to recruit and brief sexual partners, and
• actual advice from Tantric Goddesses experienced in teaching orgasm
mastery..

Chapter 1, Introduction, explains how the book's contents actually address the
major sexual challenge of orgasm mastery.

Chapter 2, Mechanics, describes the anatomy and causes of premature

ejaculation, the 10-point scale for measuring arousal, the RAMPER secret
formula in depth, and where Tantric sacred sexuality fits in.

Chapter 3, Solo Prep, contains 17 solo exercises to prepare you for greater
sexual stamina, including pelvic muscle exercises and guidelines about how
often to ejaculate at your age once you gain mastery.

Chapter 4, Solo Mastery, includes 13 solo exercises to master orgasms using

peaking, plateauing, sexual breathing, and channeling energy.

Chapter 5, Partner Prep, presents 9 dual exercises to develop longer lovemaking

skills, including guidelines to finding and working with a love partner, giving
sexual feedback, and manual and oral techniques.

Chapter 6, Lovemaking, focuses on 9 partner exercises to develop supreme

patience for greater sexual stamina, including 5 main sexual positions with 33
variations.

Chapter 7, Tantric Mastery, presents the Ultimate Ecstatic Solution for total
Tantric orgasm mastery with detailed instructions on how to practice the 6 stage
Heart-Centered Love Ritual which culminates in riding the wave of orgasmic
energy, love bliss, ecstatic delirium, and spiritual rapture.
Chapter 8, Final Thoughts, contains summary advice and continuing
recommendations, resources to answer any remaining questions, a modern and
ancient bibliography, 27 music recommendations, and the Glossary of Tantric
and sex terms.

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In the past, sexual exercises were not merely a way to enhance sexual pleasure
or become more attractive. These exercises were a means to enjoy a more
vigorous and healthy body, a way to become sensitive to deeper and more
intense emotions and to cultivate spiritual energy. The Taoists believed that the
body would stay healthy and youthful as long as it was able to reproduce. When
the reproductive energy was in a decline, the body would retaliate with sickness
or emotional insecurity.

In the East as well as in the West, exercise is a crucial way to keep the body
healthy. But when it comes to increasing sexual energy, the teachers of the East
have taken exercise to a higher level. To strengthen our sexual energy and thus
strengthen the senses and the whole body, the Eastern traditions have developed
exercises that focus specifically on the sexual area. By strengthening the sexual
organs through exercise and massage, we actually affect the rest of the body and
senses.

It is believed that the sexual organs are the strongest reflex points in the body
and when stimulated in the proper way can have a powerful healing effect on the
senses and internal organs, making you healthier and more sexy. There are
pelvic exercises that greatly strengthen the reproductive organs and the complex
network of tendons in the surrounding area. Strength in this department is of
great importance; it is the root of both a man's and a woman's health. Leading
into the pelvis are a vast number of nerve endings and channels for the veins and
arteries. Here are located tissues that communicate with every square inch of the
body. All the major acupuncture meridians that carry energy between the body
and the vital organs pass by this area. If it is blocked or weak, energy will
dissipate and the organs and brain will suffer.

These exercises are designed to charge the brain with energy, increase
circulation, stimulate nerve flow, strengthen the urogenital diaphragm, and
tonify the energy of the sexual organs. Because they focus on enhancing the
strength and energy of the sexual area, we have called this workout "sexercises".

In the Taoist view of sexual health, it is important to cultivate our sexual energy
rather than needlessly wasting it. For men this means regulating and controlling
ejaculation. For women it means working with and balancing the female
menstruation cycle.

If men ejaculate too often, it depletes the source of vital energy, not allowing the
water of life to spread to the rest of the body. The importance of a man's
retaining semen is emphasized over and over again in Taoist literature, which is
dramatically different from the religious idea of celibacy. In the Tao, regulating
and managing ejaculation does not mean becoming a celibate. The basic purpose
of these methods is to increase, as much as possible, the quantity of the life-
giving, age-retarding hormones secreted in a man's body during sexual
excitement while at the same time decreasing, as much as possible, the loss of
semen and its related hormones through ejaculation. All schools of Taoism agree
that semen retention and proper regulation of its emission are indispensable
skills for male adepts.

To understand more about this concept, I recommend reading The

MultiOrgasmic Man by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abram and Taoist Secrets of
Love by Mantak Chia.

Breathing Exercises

There is one way of breathing that is shameful and constricted. Then there's
another way: a breath of love that takes you all the way to infinity.

The first step to becoming a more sexually powerful person is to learn how to
breathe properly. Many of the sexercises require a certain level of breath control,
and when you learn to breathe properly, the exercises become much easier and
much more powerful. Breathing exercises are a direct way to control stress.

For example, think about how you breathe when you are in a terribly stressful
situation. The breath gets jammed up in the chest with short, shallow gasps that
barely allow oxygen into the lungs. Under extreme circumstances the breath
might become almost nonexistent. With this type of breathing, life-enhancing
oxygen does not flow freely through the body. This creates stress and tension,
lodging it in the body rather than allowing it to be processed and released.

Long ago in Chinese medicine it was discovered that the breath is a direct
reflection of the emotional state of the body. When someone is sad, the person
breathes in short, inhaling gasps, locking the air in the upper chest. When
someone is angry, the breath is usually long, contracted exhales, with
desperately short inhalations. Even when we are not feeling very emotional, the
breath will still reflect the general overall feelings in the body, which are often
not very empowering.

Just as correct diet enhances the body's store of nutritional essence, so correct
breathing enhances the body's supply of vital energy. Proper breathing is
performed by the diaphragm, not the rib cage and the clavicles. Because of
laziness, ignorance, smoking, pollution, constipation, and other factors, adults
these days invariably become shallow chest breathers rather than the deep
abdominal breathers that we are meant to be. All true martial arts and meditation
practices use the breath as the gate to control the body.

Breathing abdominally is the most natural thing; it is just that we have forgotten
how we used to breathe. Have you ever watched a baby breathe? Notice how the
stomach or abdomen does the breathing, not the chest. This is the natural way,
the way we have to return to.

Chest breathing employs the intercostal muscles between the ribs to forcibly
expand the upper rib cage, thereby lowering air pressure in the chest so that air
enters by suction. However, this leaves the lower lungs, which contain by far the
greatest surface area, immobilized. Consequently one must take about three
times as many chest breaths in order to get the same quantity of air into the
lungs as provided by a single diaphragmatic breath.

Deep Abdominal Breathing (for Men and Women)

A complete, deep, abdominal breath should employ three areas of the lungs in a
smooth, unbroken expansion that begins at the bottom, in the abdomen, and not
in the upper chest. One first inhales air slowly into the lower lungs by letting the
diaphragm expand and balloon downward into the abdominal cavity. When the
diaphragm is fully expanded, the intercostal muscles come into play to open the
rib cage and fill the middle lungs with air. As the rib cage reaches full
expansion, the breather utilizes the clavicles so that air flows into the narrow
upper pockets of the lungs.
Exhale in the reverse manner, releasing air from the upper part of the chest,
downward through the ribs, finally expelling the air out the lower lungs by
slightly contracting the abdomen.

Breathing with the diaphragm in this manner reduces the number of breaths per
minute by more than half, greatly enhances respiratory efficiency, saves the
heart from strain, and conserves vital energy. This type of breathing has many
benefits for the body and emotions. When we are able to breathe in this manner,
the body automatically takes it as a sign to be relaxed and calm. This is one of
the best ways to combat the stress of everyday life.

If you can practice deep abdominal breathing whenever you have a few extra
minutes, driving the car, standing in line, waiting for the dentist, or anywhere
else you can imagine; great benefits will result. With practice, your body will
soon automatically start breathing deeper without conscious intention.

Deep abdominal breathing activates the cranial and sacral pumps, movement of
minute bone structures that keep the spinal fluid moving in the joints and
cranium. Spinal fluid and seminal fluid are very similar in nature. Deep
abdominal breathing is a wonderful exercise for increasing sexual energy. It
sends energy down through the urogenital diaphragm, loosening and relaxing
the whole pelvic cavity.

Without deep breathing, the lower abdomen has a tendency to become tight and
contracted. This leads to low sexual energy or uncontrollable sexual energy.
With this tightness in the abdomen, there is inevitably an imbalance throughout
the sexual area. For men, tightness can cause premature ejaculation, nocturnal
emissions, impotence, or sexual frustration. For women, this tightness can cause
menstrual cramps, frigid sexual energy, PMS, and other more complicated
emotional problems.

Energy Breathing (for Men and Women)

The energy breath is performed by rapidly expelling air out of the lungs and is
designed to create efficient circulation, strengthening the energy of the lower
abdominal area. Imagine that there is a small fire right behind the navel. To
build this small spark into a vibrant fire requires air. As you perform the
exercise, the breath should sound like a bellows fanning a fire.

Start by forcefully expelling all air from the lungs with a strong contraction of
the abdominal wall. Immediately after the expulsion of air, let the lungs fill
naturally without effort, about halfway. When the lungs are half full,
immediately contract the abdominal wall again to forcefully expel another gust
of air. The exercise should consist of about twenty to thirty rapid expulsions of
air. This strengthens and energizes the lower abdominal area (Sexual Palace and
Lower Tan Tien).

from the book:

Sexual Reflexology - Activating the Taoist Points of Love
by Mantak Chia & William U. Wei