Get Happy With It! By the People . . .
For the People Serving Central Connecticut
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December 2009 • Volume 10, Issue 122
STRESSES OF CHRISTMAS SEASON ARE WELL WORTH
IT ON BALANCE
By Phyllis S. Donovan
With Thanksgiving now behind us, still warmed by memories of that special family day of con-
viviality and thanks hosted this year by our daughter and son-in-law, we reluctantly turn our atten-
tion to the next fast approaching holiday season.
Looking at it from this prospective, we wonder if we will ever get through the next few weeks
of stressful activities. I'm telling you right up front I am definitely NOT a shopper, never was. I
would be the last person you'd find camping out from the wee hours in front of a store where I'd
have to risk being trampled by a madding crowd just to get in the door and race around searching
for bargains.
In the first place, technology has long since bypassed me. I see my grandchildren immersed in
hand-held video games, texting their friends on their phones (what ever happened to just dialing a
number and talking in person?) and dancing around with a wii wand in front of a television set. (At
least in the latter instance, they are getting some exercise!)
Frankly, that's all beyond my ken. I will leave the purchase of electronic gadgets to their parents
and opt to keep them supplied with more old fashion pleasures….like BOOKS, for instance.
Always a voracious reader myself, I am still delighted that, in the face of all those modern-day
distractions, all of my grandchildren love books. They actually seem pleased to unwrap the books
they know they'll be getting from me each Christmas. It's become a family tradition. My greatest
pleasure is picking out the perfect book for every one of the 22 people in our immediate
family…including "the middle generation" as my daughter suddenly realized at Thanksgiving and
reminded her siblings.
At the moment, I am having the seasonal argument with myself as to whether I really want to
take on the chore of sending out 100 Christmas cards again this year. It's one of those tasks that
has become an obligation from which I derive little pleasure on my "Bah, Humbug" days. And yet,
we are always pleased to hear from distant friends we've met along the way in our seven decades
plus lifetime.
Our very first Christmas card this year came from a Welsh gentleman and his wife whom we
met on our trip to the Galapagos several years ago. A Barry Fitzgerald lookalike with a personality
to match, he has become a favorite email correspondent ever since, giving us a candid look into
how the US is viewed by citizens of the UK. Not sending Christmas cards is a good way of ending
Wallingford Flower
& Gift Shoppe
190 Center Street. 203.265.1514
Photo by Ernie Larsen
cherished friendships like his…and so we get out the list, check it twice and settle down to the
chore at hand.
On a mild day last week, my husband decided we should get the outdoor lights down from the
attic and put them up while it was still warm enough that our fingers didn't freeze doing the job.
Reluctantly, feeling that we were rushing the season, I agreed and we spent a whole day hanging
icicle lights from the back deck and fastening web lights to our front shrubbery. That meant I had
to put the candle lights in the front windows and the artificial wreath between the garage doors. I
still have to get a live wreath for the front door and we must remember not to wait too long before
picking out a live tree. Last year we were late and there weren't many great specimens to choose
from.
There is nothing messier than a live Christmas tree dropping needles all over the place and it is
an enormous chore to put it up, decorate it and take it down again in two weeks. And yet, we
absolutely MUST have a live tree. One year we were going on a trip shortly after the holiday so
sprung for an artificial tree. It was a really handsome (and expensive) tree but lacked the presence
and scent of a real tree. We never put it up again. Our daughter now uses it as a second tree in her
home, placed where it can be seen in its glory from the street on which they live while their "real"
tree is in their cozy back family room. And I have to admit, once we put the undecorated live tree
out on the back deck with treats for the birds, it is the center of feathered activity all through the
winter.
And let's not forget the parties! So far we have four marked into our appointment calendars…all
taking place in the course of two weeks. I don't care how good my intentions are for not
overindulging in empty calories during the holidays, I can not resist new and unusually delicacies
laid out in front of me at these festive gatherings. Why can't it be as easy to lose those excess
pounds as it is to gain them? It usually takes me to late spring to shed what I gain in those two
weeks. Oh well, the camaraderie of those parties is priceless.
All in all, I guess I can psych myself up to enjoying the holiday season. It's not the same as
when we were kids and everything about it was simpler and geared to the real reason for
Christmas. In those Depression times, it wasn't all about parties and gifts. It was about the birth of
Christ. Our public school Christmas pageants revolved around the coming of the Christ Child. Our
songs were all the classic Christmas carols about silent nights, angels and Bethlehem…no
Rudolph, no Frosty the Snowman. Our only party was put on by the church and when we were old
enough, we stayed up to attend midnight Mass. Christmas was a quietly holy and happy time of
family love and devotion.
Times have changed, and reluctantly, so must we. But I still want to wish everyone…
A MERRY CHRISTMAS!
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The Wallingford Family YMCA wishes you and yours Happy

Holidays and a New Year filled with Health & Happiness!

WALLINGFORD
FAMILY
What’s New At The Wallingford Family Y!
New Cardio Equipment * New Programs * New Promotions * New YOU!
Health and Wellness sions. Subjects range from Math to English,
Coming by January 1st: brand new Life Fitness
and Precor cardio equipment and some serious
Hammer Strength free weight equipment!
Israeli Krav Maga training will be offered on
Friday evenings from 6:00pm to 7:30pm starting
January 8, 2010. Get in wicked shape, learn how
to defend yourself, make new friends, have fun!
Purchase a punch card at the Welcome Center
and come as often as you choose.
Want to get the new year off to a great start?
Join the Wallingford Family YMCA by January
31, 2010 and receive a free 2 session Get Me
Started program with a trainer (normally$129). In
this program you'll assess your fitness level for
cardio vascular fitness, flexibility, muscular
endurance and strength relative to your age
group. Your trainer will provide you with a written
report on your fitness level and will use this to
develop a personalized fitness program base on
your needs and goals. On the second session,
your trainer will walk you through your program
to make sure you are comfortable with each
exercise technique.
New Teen Programs
Art Club--Monday nights at 6:30pm. Teens will
explore different styles and artists each week,
then try their hand at that particular style. Art
that is created will be shared with the group, and
may be displayed at the YMCA. Art Club is free,
and you don't have to be great at art to have a
great time.
Private Tutoring--Tutoring is now available at the
YMCA! Our tutor has over 8 years experience
tutoring subjects in both private and group ses-
from History to Science, and almost everything
in between. Contact Cassandra Bromley at 284-
7448 for more information.
New Youth Sports Programs
Lacrosse--(ages 6-8)This program is designed to
give your youngster an introduction to the won-
derful game of lacrosse. Participants will learn
proper stick handling techniques with emphasis
on throwing and catching. Thursdays at 4:45pm
or Fridays at 5:30pm.
Little Kicks Karate--(ages 5-9)Introduces kids to
Shotokan Karate, a traditional Japanese karate,
in a fun and supportive way. Focus will be on
balance, coordination, endurance, and building
self-esteem. Wednesdays at 4:45pm.
New Adult Leagues
Adult Racquetball League--Begins January 11th,
2010
Adult Co-ed Volleyball League--Wednesdays
beginning January 13th, 2010
For more information regarding Adult Leagues,
please contact Mike Cristaldi at
mcristaldi@wallingfordymca.org.
Aquatics
Wallingford Family YMCA- Swim Lessons for all
ages and skill levels! New classes begin
January 4th. Small class sizes.
Also Water Exercise classes Monday through
Friday at 10:30AM, also Monday & Wednesday
at 5:30PM. Try one! A great way to stretch and
exercise with less pressure on your joints.
Call 203 269 4497 to register. Check
www.wallingfordymca.org for class times and
fees.

Winter Program Registrations

December 7th- Current participants in swim lessons
who are facility members
December 14th- Facility Members
December 21st- Community Participants
The Wallingford YMCA All Day Kindergarten
in Now Accepting 2010 Applications!
81 So. Elm Street, Wallingford 203-269-4497 www.wallingfordymca.org
 MAYOR'S CORNER WALLINGFORD
Dear Friends:
We thank the Public Celebrations Committee and the Parks and Recreation
Department for the wonderful Season of Celebration planned for December
5th. The Town is so fortunate that these organizations and employees are
able to host and plan a fun filled time for all. We also thank Wallingford
Center Inc. for the wonderful holiday decorations throughout the downtown
area and our Public Works Department for all their help. Just think, out of
169 cities, towns and villages, we have Santa Claus, Mrs. Claus, Frosty,
Rudolph, and Toy Soldiers all in Wallingford! Think of all the places they
could be and we have them here with us. Incredible!
Barbara Bruce Wins a Blue Ribbon
Barbara Bruce, Vice President of the Wallingford Garden Club won a First
Place Blue Ribbon for her floral design at the Madison Garden Club flower
show. Her design was entitled "Trick or Treat" and used bright orange Bird of
Paradise flowers as well as black spider web and a treat bag. The show, enti-
tled "Autumn in the Air", was held on Saturday, October 17, 2009.
Bruce's primary interest lies in design and she has entered many flower
shows. She is also the chairwoman of Flower Show School for the Federated
Garden Clubs of Connecticut and teaches design classes at the Wallingford
Garden Club. Bruce plans on having a flower show in Wallingford in the fall
of 2010.
The Wallingford Garden Club is a member of the Federated Garden Clubs
of CT and National Garden Clubs Inc.

This is a special time of year. We have so much to be thankful for that it is Christmas is the gentlest, loveliest festival of the revolving year - and yet, for
important to share our good fortunes with others. Whether in the forum of all that, when it speaks, its voice has strong authority. ~W.J. Cameron
a gift or a smile, sharing is the key for everyone. To qualify as nice, you
must share. So when the list of who is naughty or nice is completed, you Celebrations of
can really add points for nice by sharing. Life and Home
Jonathan,
Please have a very healthy holiday season, Merry Christmas and Happy Hanukkah. I can't believe how fast you have
grown. You are so amazing, creative,
Sincerely, funny, and caring. Happy birthday to
William W. Dickinson, Jr. our wonderful son and terrific big
Mayor brother.
Love, Mom, Dad, and Joshua
MAYOR'S CORNER MERIDEN
You Can Help!
As the Holiday Season approaches, we are reminded of our own experiences of
past holidays. Being the eldest of 4 children, I remember the excitement and
suspense of all of us awaiting Christmas morning. Would Santa find us this
year? Would we get our special wish? We were fortunate that in our household,
we were never left disappointed. We were always blessed with an abundance
of gifts and treats. That's why my siblings and I carry such fond memories of
our past Christmases as children.

But, there are many children and families today who will not experience joy but
rather sadness and disappointment. They are not in the fortunate circumstances
to be recipients of gifts they have longed for. Unless...generous individuals step
up to put a smile on a child's face by donating a toy or gift to a needy child and
family. Please consider donating to your favorite charity this Holiday Season or
contributing to the Meriden Spirit of Giving Program, c/o Hunter's Ambulance,
450 West Main St., Meriden CT 06451.

Thank you and may you and your family have peaceful, satisfying, and healthy Holiday.
Also, please take the time to visit the spectacular Holiday Lights display at Hubbard Park featuring over 300,000 lights
and wondrous animal displays and other high"lights" throughout the park.
Mike Rohde, Mayor
Christmas waves a magic wand over this world, and behold, everything is softer and more beautiful. ~Norman Vincent
Peale
Chanel and PJ have been waiting and waiting for a long time to find their
forever homes. They can't understand why no one has come to adopt them.
Both of PJ's sisters have gone to live in a nice home together and now it is
his turn. He is only 6 months old and is still considered a kitten. Chanel is
about a year old and would love a quiet place of her own. Both are alteredm
up-to-date on vaccinations, tested for feline aids and feline leukemia and
have been treated for fleas, mites, worms and ticks! Please call Friends of
Feral Cheshire Cats at 1-866-811-CATS for more information!

Don’t Go Over Empty Handed!

Torrone, Christmas Stollen, Struffuli, Panettone, Cookie Baskets, Miniature Pastries,

Cannolis - Freshly Filled to order! Christmas Cookies, Pies and so much more!
Call to place your order today! Open till 4pm on Christmas Eve!
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year from all your friends at
Marianna’s Belltop Bakery
212 West Main Street in Meriden 203-238-0159
Hours: Monday.- Friday. 7-6; Sat 7-4; Sun. 7-2
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Christmas - what has it become?
By Ernie Larsen
Every year the 'Christmas Season' begins earlier and earlier - this year I was in a CVS pharmacy
the day after Halloween and lo and behold, a display of Christmas chotzkie. I thought that was
early and suddenly remembered a display of some holiday items at one of the big box stores -
almost a month earlier - just after school started.
And then the mystical "they" are predicting a less than bountiful retail sales forecast for the holi-
day period. You know 'they' say that it is going to be a flat season for retailers. Didn't 'they' say that
last year, also?? And now it seems that 'Black Friday' soon will become a recognized holiday. I've
actually seen ads for the day and heard of people already planning to get out early to garner some
of the 'bargains' offered by certain retail outlets. This week, in which falls Thanksgiving there have
been TV and print ads touting the sales on the 27th. I think I saw mentioned that Radio Shack
would be open at 4:00 A.M. WHY????????
Here it is a couple of days after turkey day and all that has been on the tube are reports and what
seems to be critiques of how 'good' Black Friday was, well, no one is reporting on sales figures in
dollars, just that everything went smoothly and some got a lot of bargains and some didn't. There
were some eye-opening stories - a person claimed a place in line at a retail outlet at 10:15 AM on
Thanksgiving Day. Let's see, right about then the Macy's parade was an hour old and I was prep-
ping some turnips for dinner. The fellow in line would be the first one allowed in the store at 4:00
AM, well, whoop-de-do. Then again I guess we all have our own agendas.
I had to work on Black Friday, took a few hours vacation in the morning and came in for noon.
The person I was relieving was also up at 4:00 AM but didn't stay up all night for the privilege.
She did get some good deals, purchased a major appliance and some things that were only on sale
for a limited time that morning. And then my supervisor was another 4:00 AM shopper, must run in
the department - she hosted a houseful of guests for T' Day dinner and said after clean up it was
quite late so she just stayed up and met her shopping partner at the store and got her fill of bar-
gains.
Then there were the downsides of the whole B.F. experience, line cutters - people not getting
discount fliers and an outright 'mugging' where some lowlifes driving by a line waiting to get into
a store were relieved of their wallets and cash. But the good news was no one got killed - last year
a retail worker was trampled by people rushing the doors of the store to get their bargains. And still
today in between all the football games and other news - Black Friday still is being mentioned. I
myself went shopping on Friday evening - when I was leaving work at 5:00 PM, I mentioned to
the boss that I was going to be a Grey Friday shopper, well at that time of day - wouldn't it be
somewhat grey? And even today, Saturday, a store where I was purchasing an item for my grand-
daughter has 50% off coupons from noon til closing - can't beat that, eh?
So, is shopping and getting a "deal" the real 'meaning' of Christmas - not really! To save you the
time and trouble of doing your own research I pulled out the 3rd Edition of the American Heritage
College dictionary which offers this definition:
Christmas (kris'mes) n. 1. A Christian feast
commemorating the birth of Jesus,
usu. celebrated on December 25.
How many of those people in line waiting to buy that Wii could give this definition or really
care about the same? If you watch Jay Leno and you see him on the street asking common ques-
tions about general information it would amaze you how uninformed people are and that's putting
it mildly. Christmas has become and is getting more commercial - let's face it organized religion in
this country is not what it used to be. I really believe if you are a good person, have a good family
life - do your best at what you do, are willing to help others in any way you can - that's what really
counts. And I know I share these views with some of my family - and let's leave it at that.
The religious aspect of Christmas exists in our in house via several Nativity scenes; all have
special meaning; the oldest is carved from wood, purchased in Oberammergau, Germany during
our honeymoon trip in 1969. We were looking for a certain sized scene and found a woodcarver's
workshop, among the many in town, saw the set we wanted, talked with him for a while and made
our purchase. The next set is by M.J. Hummel the figurine artists; it too is special and both of these
sets are displayed in wooden stables hand-crafted by my father who was a whiz with wood. It is
also quite striking. And the last scene is from Ireland is Waterford crystal; I remember the day I
bought it at the Waterford factory store - while my wife was shopping I made my way to the mail-
order desk and placed the order - it was a surprise Christmas gift that year. These three scenes rep-
resent our religious link to Christmas.
As for the holiday itself we'll spend Christmas Eve at my brother's with my wife's side of the
family - then Christmas Day at my daughter's with my son-in-laws parents and again my brother
and sister-in-law, who by the way is my wife's sister. And maybe some unannounced guests - you
never know who might show up.
Did you ever notice how long the prelude to Christmas seems and then it's over in a flash?
So, however you celebrate your December 25th - if you can, be with your family - remember
we're not here on this earth for that long of a time and every moment spent with loved ones is pre-
cious (for the most part). If there are young ones about it makes it even more special - my grand-
daughter is 6 and some of her reactions during the season are priceless.
If you are a shopper, churchgoer or just plain folk celebrating the holiday season, do it with a
smile on your face with a good word for all.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year.
'Season's Eatings'
'Season's Eatings' - 4 Sweet Holiday Ideas
Few people can resist the decadent temptation of chocolate. Because this treat has universal appeal,
it can be used as a cornerstone in your holiday theme this season - whether in baking, gifting or
entertaining.
While you may need no added excuses for indulging in chocolate heaven, here are a few others to
satisfy your sweet tooth.
1. Season's Eatings. Express your holiday sentiments in more than words. Chocolate bars can be
customized with stylish wrapping, embossed with a greeting of your choice, and shipped to eager
recipients.
2. Take a dip. You may have seen champagne and punch fountains that add panache to social gath-
erings. However, a new trend is the chocolate fountain, where warm chocolate cascades ready for
dipping. Cubed pound cake, cookies, fresh fruit, and scores of other treats can be enhanced with a
coating of chocolate.
4. Snack for Santa. Santa may be a little bored with the milk-and-cookie routine. Why not leave
out a dish of chocolate-laden brownies and a warm mug of hot chocolate with fresh-whipped
cream? Who knows ... you just might find more gifts placed under the tree as a result.
Happy, happy Christmas, that can win us back to the delusions of our childish days; that can recall
to the old man the pleasures of his youth; that can transport the sailor and the traveller, thousands
of miles away, back to his own fire-side and his quiet home! ~Charles Dickens, The Pickwick
Papers, 1836
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MAX E. MURAVNICK I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round,
as a good time; a kind, forgiving, charitable time; the only time I
MERIDEN SENIOR CITIZENS' CENTER know of, in the long calendar of the year, when men and women
The Max E. Muravnick Meriden Senior Citizens' Center is open to all Meriden residents age 55 and over. Membership seem by one consent to open their shut-up hearts freely, and to
is free of charge and new members may sign-up any weekday between 9:00 a.m. and 5:00 p.m. by presenting a driver's think of people below them as if they really were fellow passen-
license or other proof of age. New members receive an information package about senior services and a coupon enti-
gers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound on
tling them to one complimentary lunch in our Senior Community Café. Sign-up today and find out about all that is
offered for Meriden seniors at the Max E. Muravnick Senior Center! other journeys. ~Charles Dickens
Our 2009 Senior Center Holiday Fair and Bake Sale will be held on Wednesday, December 9 from 10:00 AM to 1:00 Celebrations of
PM in the main hallway of the Senior Center. Handmade items will be available for sale by the knitting, sewing and Life and Home
ceramics classes and bake sales and raffles will also be held. The fair is open to the public and people of all ages are
invited to attend!
Be sure not to miss the Red Hat Follies Holiday Show on Monday, December 7 at 1:30 PM in Willene's Place. Enjoy Junie:
holiday music, variety acts and a salute to Pearl Harbor Day all rolled into one! The Silver City Red Hatters have I can’t quite see.
worked hard to put the show together so please join us for the 5th annual Red Hat Follies!
Is it Christmas yet?
On Wednesday, December 16 from 10:00 AM to 1:00 PM ProShred will have their paper shredding truck parked in the
Hanover Street Parking Lot for a free paper shredding event open to the public. Protect your identity and the security
of your old records by disposing of old bank statements, bills, financial documents and other personal papers at this

$25 Off
free paper shredding courtesy of ProShred. It is not necessary to remove clips or staples, the heavy duty shredding
truck can handle it all! Just drive into the Hanover Street Parking Lot and look for the big truck to safely dispose of
those unwanted papers you no longer need!
On Thursday, December 10 at 10:30 AM we will offer a "Home Adaptations Workshop" designed to give you tips and
suggestions for making your home safer and more user friendly as you age. The Rockfall Company will be here in the Any Remote Starter or
first floor meeting room to provide information to help you continue to live at home as long as possible with a few
modifications. Learn how to improve your home with a few simple changes to make your life easier, safer and more
secure and stay in your own home as long as possible! The program is open to all interested people and refreshments
Combo Package!
will be served.
The Meriden Triad will sponsor another mini-bus to the Department of Motor Vehicles in Wethersfield for people who
Seat Heaters only $225
need a Non-Driver's License Photo ID on Friday, December 11 at 10:15 AM. The cost of the ID card is $22.50 in cash
and you must bring a certified birth certificate or valid passport plus one additional form of identification like a Social per seat - Save $35.00.
*With This Coupon - Can not be combined with any other offer - Expires 12/31/09
Security card. Triad members Sgt. Darrin McKay and Sgt. Glen Milslagle will accompany the mini-bus and provide
assistance at the DMV. The first 12 people to sign-up with Mini-Bus Coordinator Becky Racine in the Mini-Bus
Office or by calling (203) 237-3338 will be able to take this trip to get the Photo ID card so sign-up today!
Holiday entertainment at the Senior Center will include performances by Middi & the Country Gentlemen on Tuesday,
December 22 at 10:30 AM for our Holiday Celebration Luncheon and Jill Riggles for a Holiday Sing-a-Long on
Wednesday, December 23 at 11:00 AM. The Holiday Celebration Luncheon will feature roast turkey and stuffing with
gravy, cranapple juice, cranberry sauce, mixed vegetables, dinner roll and holiday ice cream for dessert. To sign-up for 584 West Main St.
the Holiday Celebration Luncheon please call our Senior Community Café at 235-8052 by December 17. Meriden CT 06451
Our Holiday Dinner Dance will be held on Thursday, December 17 from 5:00 to 9:00 PM. Entertainment will be pro- Tel: (203) 639-8168
vided by the Vinnie Carr Band. The dinner menu, served from 5:00 to 6:00 PM, will be fresh fruit cup, chicken Fax: (203) 639-8178
marsala, baked potato with sour cream and chives, peas, dinner roll and strawberry layer cake. Tickets are available
now at the Senior Center for $6 per person for Meriden residents. Get your ticket today and join us for our Holiday
Dinner Dance!
Our friends at the Meriden Kiwanis Club generously donated 100 free tickets for senior citizens for this year's Kiwanis
Kapers Show at Maloney High School on November 6 & 7. We distributed the tickets to Senior Center members and,
on their behalf, I would like to thank the Meriden Kiwanis Club for this outstanding donation - we appreciate your sup-
port!
During December please consider being An Angel for a Needy Child by providing a Christmas Gift for a child through
the Meriden Salvation Army. We have 15 cards with boys and girls names, ages and wish lists for Christmas gifts. If
you would like to help out see me in the front office, pick a card of your choice, buy a gift by December 15, return it to
the Senior Center and you will make a child happy this holiday season!

Save the date for our next Weather Show with meteorologist Art Horn, "Weather Dominates our World" on Wednesday,
January 13 at 10:30 AM in the First Floor Meeting Room at the Senior Center. Art will discuss how everything we do
is affected by the weather. He always has terrific slides to go along with his informative presentation so don't miss Art
Horn in January!

Best wishes for a happy holiday season from the members and staff of the Max E. Muravnick Senior Citizens' Center!

John F. Hogarth
Senior Center Director

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People’s Press Crossword by Ruth Gordon
Look for the answers in this issue.
ACROSS
1. "The _____ the limit!"
5. To the same extent or degree;
equally
7. Made a map showing coastlines,
water depths, and navigational info
13. Close by
14. Shipboard greetings
16. Astonishing, breathtaking,
extravagant, greatest: slang
17. Most famous Boston Bruins
player
19. An index reflecting Wall Street
activity
20. Large, broad, endless
21. December 21st , the shortest day
of the year: 2 wds.
25. An elevated railway
26. In or near the position of
27. Pallid, colorless
29. Totaled
32. Denver is the capital of this state
33. International Falls, Minnesota,
USA (Airport Code)
34. ____ Temelkovski, Canadian
member of Parliament first elected in
2004
35. An African-American cultural
festival, celebrated from Dec. 26 to
Jan. 1.
37. A long narrow inlet of the sea in
Scotland
40. Actor who received "best actor"
Academy Award in 1996 for
"Leaving Las Vegas"
41. To glide on ice
43. A large commercial ship
45. Gambino crime family boss, he
was known as the "Teflon Don"
46. She was married to John Lennon
48. A series of motions and steps,
usually performed to music
50. A wild, shaggy-haired ox of the
mountains of central Asia
52. Opposite of off
53. Abdominal muscles: slang
54. Broccoli ____ , a vegetable plant
related to the turnip and grown for its
pungent leafy shoots; also called rap-
ini
56. Section of hospital containing
specialized equipment, medical staff,
and monitoring devices to provide
concentrated care
58. Goes with Boo to make a crying
sound
59. Iwo ____, site of famous WW II
American flag raising
60. To place in a grave
62. Small units of weight
64. Top officer of a Corp.
66. City located in Andrew County,
Missouri, total population of 56.
67. Direction on a compass
68. Jewish Festival of Lights cele-
brated during 8 days in December
Down
1. To grow rapidly in significance,
importance, or size
MERIDEN SOUP KITCHEN FUNDRAISER
Twenty-six years ago, the Meriden Soup Kitchen was founded by Jane Goodstein, the organist at the Main Street
Baptist Church on Crown Street, in downtown Meriden. She made the suggestion to the pastor of the church that a
2. ____ Lewis is the husband of
soup kitchen be started at his church. He gave her $200 to start the MSK. At first, soup and sandwiches were served
Toni Braxton
two days a week.
3. A tall tale
Today the MSK serves a principle meal at the mid-day, five days a week. No longer is soup and sandwiches the
4. Not a Jr.
menu. An entrée is served along with soup and a salad, dessert and a beverage.
6. A cartoon soldier character
In 1983 7,030 meals were served. In 2008 35,897 meals were served and for the first ten months of 2009 29,527 meals
invented by George Baker in 1942: 2
have been served.
wds.
During the 26 years the MSK has been constantly growing and evolving into the institution it is today, In 1999 the
7. Simon ____ , seen on "American
MSK finally had all five days of the week covered by a group. Currently groups based in St Rose, St Joseph, St
Idol"
Andrew, Holy Angels and First United Methodist Churches as well as an ecumenical group and Bonnie's Angels cover
8. ___ Averback, director of the
the five days of the week.
1960's & 70's, directed many MASH
The original MSK was housed in the Main Street Baptist Church in downtown Meriden. It is now the guest of the
episodes
First Baptist Church on Broad Street, its home for over seven years.
9. To the same extent or degree;
Twenty-six years ago there were a handful of volunteers making the soup and sandwiches. Today there are over 150
equally
volunteers who show up faithfully to mix, chop, stir, clean, wipe, serve, bake, dry and cut following a philosophy to
10. An extremely small amount.
make a meal "that you would serve your family".
11. A state of rest, relaxation, or
Financing the MSK is called "wing and a prayer". The financing has also evolved. For the year 2009, there has been
leisure
funding from the federal government (EFSP), a bonus from the stimulus package, the city of Meriden (CDBG), the
12. The widely used pesticide which
Napier and Farid Foundations, a small group of citizens, organizations and churches who send us a check monthly and
was banned in the U.S. in the early
random contributions from the generous citizens of Meriden.
1970's
The MSK benefits from "in kind" donations from both Stop and Shops in Meriden, Panera Bread in Meriden, BJ's
15. Large nocturnal predatory bird
in Wallingford, the Middlesex Fruitery in Middletown and, of course, the First Baptist Church.
found in Eastern United States and
For our silver anniversary the MSK missed a great opportunity for a fundraiser. It was missed because we didn't
Canada
realize it was our 25th. So the MSK is going to have a 26th year fundraiser in tribute to Jane Goodstein.
18. Term for displays of players
The MSK is asking for donations of 26. Make a contribution to the MSK in categories-------- 26 cents for a cookie,
cards in Pinochle
$2.60 for a bowl of soup, $26 for an entrée, $260 to pay for a day. Or a $2,600 corporate sponsor can buy new tables
20. Dec. 5th South Meriden will
and chairs.
hold it's annual, "Christmas In The
Checks can be made to the Meriden Soup Kitchen, PO Box 2138, Meriden, CT, 06450.
_______", a celebration which is free
and open to all!
22. A small peg used in golf
23. Actor Michael J. Fox starred
with Barry Bostwick and others in
this ABC TV sitcom
24. A republic in eastern Africa
28. All the copies of a specified
issue of a newspaper
30. Twosomes
31. Mayor of Wallingford
36. Air, atmosphere: prefix
38. Word to express surprise or tri-
umph
39. Note on musical scale
42. Digit on a foot
43. Police officer one rank below a
Capt.
44. Boise is the capital of this state.
45. A metric unit of mass equal to
one thousandth of a kilogram
47. Capital city of New Caledonia
49. Approximately; nearly
51. A packaged set of related materi-
als
54. To get out of bed
55. German composer, Johann
Sebastian ______
57. Largest county in Ireland
59. Prior to Brad & Angelina, it was
Brad & _____
60. An indefinitely long period of
time
61. Part of Scrooge's favorite phrase
63. Initials of American tennis player
who won women's singles titles at
the U.S. Open (1975-1978, 1980, and
1982) and Wimbledon (1974, 1976,
and 1981).
65. Being one of two or more consid-
ered individually: abbreviation
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christmas & Happy new year
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"Maggie's Corner"
Words from my Mother are words well taught.
By: Maggie Griffin
There are places I remember through my life, although some memories have
been lost and other memories live in my heart and mind forever. But all those
places and those moments I have lived, heard, spoke and seen with family and
friends, I reflect on them all. Through the years, I have lived to see some of my
friends and family pass away and grateful to be a part of the friends and family
that are still living. But regardless, if living or dead, I love them all.
One especially of all the family and friends I have, nobody compares to my
Mother. She makes sure special memories never lose their meaning. And when I
think of my Mother, I think of love as something new every day. She is one per-
son that will never lose love and affection for people and things that became a
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me when I was 22 expecting my first child:
There was a baby who was born in an obscure village. As he grew, he worked in a carpenter shop and was an itiner-
ant preacher. He never wrote a book, he never held and office. He did none of the things one usually associates with
greatness. Several years have come and gone and today he is the central figure of the Human Race. But my Mother did
not tell me the name of this baby; she said I knew the baby's name and to use the brain God gave me to figure out the
name of this baby that I know.
My mother is a very smart and wise woman. She knew I was going to figure out the name of the baby in this true story
in a short time. Just like she knew I made copies of all her famous Italian recipe's before I moved out of my parents
house (how she found that out, I'll never know).
You see, I can understand why my parents worried so much about me. Maybe it had something to do with me being
like the kids I complain about today when I was in my late teens and early 20's. Now that I think about it, it's no won-
der my Dad took my driver's license away one time, then in my wedding video he just had to say to my husband "Good
Luck Tom, you are going to need it". Those were good memories. Dad always had a way to make everyone laugh. And
when I drive his Formula that was given to my son after my Dad passed away, I still hear him tell me "Don't drive on Hamden
the sidewalk" like I did with the Camero. There is more, but I won't dare write anything I don't want my kids to see. $238,900. Lovely 2 BR Bi-Level, just ad your own personal touches to
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Following this story, My Mother kept me seated and said to me; "Margaret Mary, you are about to become a mother
now, it's not about you anymore, it's about the life God is putting His trust in you to care for. And being a mother is a
lifelong job that comes with love, attention and affection. Appreciate and thank God for this child. Protect this child.
Care for this child. A child is a gift, a gift that comes with NO conditions.
As I was in labor with my first child, thinking about that true story my Mother told me, I suddenly knew the name of
the baby my Mother was telling me about that was born in an obscure village. His name is Jesus. As I was in labor
with my second child, remembering that same true story, got me through the pain of labor with a smile, knowing I was
blessed with another gift of life, another miracle.
You see, Christmas is a day that we celebrate God's greatest gift of all, the birth of Jesus, the gift of Life. And if some
of you think I am "crazy" for writing this TRUE story, may I suggest you pick up a Bible and remain off the glue you
are sniffing?
Having God in your life WILL bring you peace, happiness and joy. If you don't go to God, He can't help you. Sort of
like if you don't go to your hair dresser, you can't get your hair done and you may feel like blah. What I am saying is
understand the importance of God, Life and Family.
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Happy Holidays.

Our Christmas Tradition

By Bonnie Kent
Every year my daughters and I spend Christmas Eve at the Wallingford Emergency Shelter and watch Christmas hap-
pen from a different perspective. It seem that with everyone having family events that night someone is always looking
for coverage and my daughter and I never have said no except last year and let me tell you we missed it. There was a
time when a group used to make shoe boxes filled with everyday needs and a little something fun thrown in and we
would hand them out to the clients and watch their faces as they open their gifts. For some this was the only gift they
would get for this season of giving and their eyes have always expressed their gratitude.
We love opening the door that evening because you are welcomed in and it is always festive inside and kind of like
family. Those who came to drop off food, gifts, and cookies or just to wish everyone Merry Christmas are welcomed
and wished a Happy Holiday as they arrive and leave. Some years we baked or brought in a Christmas movie to watch New Haven
and one year we had caroler's come to sing with us. One of my fondest memories is of a family who came in to drop $329,000 Morris Cove across the street from water. Lovely water
off a donation and asked what the clients were to be served for breakfast and I told them cereal, coffee, toast. Well this views, newer windows and furnace, updated 1.5 baths, refin. HW
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else you could think of for breakfast. I was amazed at the giving of this family and they have continued this tradition
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since that year and every Christmas Eve delivers breakfast to our Shelter.
It seems that this time of year the giving spirit is upon everyone but we all need to remember that giving and caring for
each other needs to be year round. We need to remember that everyday some family is deciding between electricity,
heat, food and shelter. What can I live without and the decision should be none but as we all know that is not the case.
A majority of our society is only a paycheck away from homelessness that can result from an illness, loss of a job or
other life events. Please remember to give of yourself whether it is time, food, money, or one of the many other ways
that you can help others.
I hope this year my family will be at the shelter on Christmas Eve but if we are not they will be in out hearts and we
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Comfort Keepers celebrates the
season of giving….
While interviewing prospective caregivers our agency discovered a local lady
looking for a job, who stated to us, that she would take any hours available
because with her husband out of work she could barely afford food for her 5
children. Then another employee expressed a great concern about her ability
to by Christmas gifts for her children. Carol Carbutti, the owner of Comfort
Keepers (which is an agency in Wallingford that provides homemakers and
companions for the elderly) wanted to show the spirit of giving by adopting
these local families for the holidays.
Carol then enlisted the help of her children who also own local businesses in
Wallingford. Attorney Mark Carbutti, of Carbutti Law Firm, Jonathan
Carbutti, of Carbutti & Co Realtors, and Peter Carbutti of RCI Property
Appraisal Company. After the gang was all here we discussed the situation
and decided to adopt these two families who are in need of some holiday
help. Our offices pooled our resources and went out to purchase groceries
and a Thanksgiving dinner for the family of 7. When our car arrived in front
of their apartment the whole family came down to greet us to help carry up
the grocery bags. Their smiles, tears and hugs reinforced our efforts. As we
departed we promised to be back for Christmas which will include these com-
panies buying and wrapping toys for eight children and also providing a won-
derful holiday meal for the families.
We all are thankful for our blessings that we experience in our daily lives. By
joining together to help others we are given an opportunity to share our bless-
ings with others who are less fortunate …..
In the old days, it was not called the Holiday Season; the Christians called it
'Christmas' and went to church; the Jews called it 'Hanukkah' and went to
synagogue; the atheists went to parties and drank. People passing each other
on the street would say 'Merry Christmas!' or 'Happy Hanukkah!' or (to the
atheists) 'Look out for the wall!' ~Dave Barry, "Christmas Shopping: A
Survivor's Guide"
Christmas is not as much about opening our presents as opening our hearts.
~Janice Maeditere
Celebrations
Congratulations to the Meriden Raiders Cheerleadering Squad (Small Red
10 and under) for a Spectular Season and advancing all the way to
Regionals. We love and are very proud of you!!!
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South Meriden Volunteer Fire Department is its 101th year of service to the Village of South Meriden and the City of
Meriden. The Officers and Members wish all of our friends and family member's health and prosperity this holiday
season. We thank you all for your continual financial support over this past year. We look forward if necessary to serve
you any way we can this up coming year.
Now its time for a several safety tips for our neighbors. We hope you all have working smoke detectors in your
home. Working Smoke detectors save lives. Please make sure that you changed your batteries in the detectors. The best
time to remember to change the batteries is when day light saving time comes. When you change your clocks back or
forth change the batteries for safety.
Also if you do not have carbon monoxide (CO) detectors in your home please purchase them. CO is a colorless,
odorless, highly poisonous gas that is produced by inefficient burning and incomplete combustion of fuel products in
heating appliances, furnace, hot water heaters, and stoves. If you do not have efficient burning appliances in the home,
over a period of time CO could be building up in the home which if unchecked could lead to medical conditions and
even Death. Having your furnace cleaned and serviced each year will help keep the units running more efficiently. CO
is the silent killer, please protect your family and yourself and purchase CO detectors for your home. CO is also pro-
duced by normal operation of your vehicles and comes out of the vehicles exhaust systems. Running your vehicle in
the garage could cause CO to seep directly into the home.
With winter right around the corner we are asking for your assistance with a little maintenance item. If you have a
fire hydrant near the front of your property we need your help. When it snows it would be helpful; if you could clear
the snow and ice away from the hydrant. In a fire emergency it is very important that we can hook our hoses to the
hydrant as quickly as possible in case we need additional water to extinguish a fire. During and after snow storms we
do try to get out and clear hydrants, but we do not always have time to get to them all. It would be very beneficial to all
our neighbor to have clean and clear fire hydrants. If you can help us out with this maintenance item we would appreci-
ate your assistance.
Another health Tip. We urge all our residence to be careful during the winter months with shoveling snow. (That's if
we ever get any) Take it easy do not over do it. Use a good shovel and do not over load it when you lift it. Also for
those of you that have snow blowers please be extremely careful not to put your hands near the blades of the blower
unit while it is running. You might say who would do that, but each year Meriden's emergency service responders
respond to several of these calls each year and it isn't a pretty sight so please take precautions.
If you can and have the time and the energy may be you can help a neighbor who is a little older or might be ill,
give them a hand clearing away the snow from their walkways or driveway. It feels real good to be able to help them
out during the winter months. Each year we lose friends and neighbors to heart attacks during the winter months from
over exerting themselves shoveling snow.
And one more health tip. If you are under a doctor's care and take certain medications keep a list of these medica-
tions handy just in case you have the need to call 911 for during a medical emergency. Also with this list you might
want to give a little history of any medical conditions that you also might have. These are important things for emer-
gency responders to have just in case you are unable to respond to our questions when we arrive at your home. A good
place to keep this information is in an envelope on you refrigerator and note that it is Medical Info.
Information about Membership Application Process:
We are currently accepting applications for membership for individuals who live in Meriden over the age of 18 in good
health and have a clean police records and can pass the application process.
We are also accepting application for those individuals who might all ready be certified as a State of CT
Firefighter/EMT and do not live in Meriden but are willing to fill night crew positions at our station. These individuals
will need to meet our by-law requirements for drills, weekly night crew and duty crew assignments.
We are one of the only Volunteer fire stations in the State that have sleep-in crews at our fire station we presently
cover 6 out of 7 nights. Our nightly in-house status allows us to service our customers you our neighbors quicker.
Being a volunteer fire fighter takes a lot of commitment and time.
Our members make a lot of personal sacrifices to belong to our department, but they get great satisfaction of being
part of terrific tradition of saving lives and property. We train and work hard but we love serving and protecting our
friends and visitors.
Applications can be picked up at our station at 31 Camp Street, South Meriden in the evenings. We are a DRUG
FREE Department and we TEST all applicants.
Good-bye for now, talk to you soon
Stay Safe and healthy
Keith Gordon, Chief South Meriden Fire
GIFT CERTIFICATES NOW AVAILABLE AT
HELPING HANDS THRIFT STORE!
Stop by at 22 No. Turnpike Road in Wallingford. Our regular hours are Tues.- Sat. 9a.m.- 5p.m.. Pay with cash, debit,
m.c. or visa for all your shopping needs.
New gift items, Christmas decorations for your home or tree, artificial Christmas trees are available for your Holiday
needs. Kids bring in your Christmas list and place it in Santas special mailbox at the store and watch at the store for
when Santa will be there to pick up your lists! Pick up a picture to color for ages up to 10 years old and return it before
Dec. 15th to enter our coloring contest. Winner will be notified by phone on Dec.22.
Remember Seniors ages 55+ get 20% off their total purchase EVERY TUESDAY!
$5.00 BAG DAY IS EVERY WEDNESDAY(fill a bag we provide with CLOTHING ONLY!)
EVERY THURSDAY THERE IS A "IN STORE SPECIAL SALE" such as Half off prices or a per centage off certain
items,or Buy 1 get 1 Free.
SPECIAL SALE GOING ON RIGHT NOW- ALL COATS HALF PRICE!!
A VERY SPECIAL SALE DAY TO THANK ALL OUR CUSTOMERS WILL BE DEC.18TH WHICH WILL BE 20%
OFF ANY 1 ITEM IN THE STORE(1 DISCOUNT PER ADULT).
DEC. 22 ALL CHRISTMAS DECORATIONS AND TREES WILL BE 50% OFF.
PLEASE NOTE THAT THE STORE WILL BE CLOSING AT 3 P.M. ON DEC. 24TH AND WILL NOT REOPEN
UNTIL DEC. 29TH.
THE STORE WILL AGAIN CLOSE AT 3P.M. ON DEC. 31ST AND WILL NOT REOPEN UNTIL SAT. JAN. 2ND.
COME CHECK OUT OUR CLOTHING, SHOES, LINENS, HOUSEHOLD ITEMS, KNICK KNACKS, JEWELRY,
NEW PORCELAIN DOLLS, NEW GIFT ITEMS, TOYS AND SO MUCH MORE TO HELP YOU SAVE MONEY!
THE STAFF AT HELPING HANDS THRIFT STORE WOULD LIKE TO WISH EVERYONE A MERRY CHRIST-
MAS AND A SAFE, HEALTHY HAPPY NEW YEAR. OUR THANKS TO ALL THAT SHOP, DONATE AND
OFFER THEIR HELP SO THAT WE CAN CONTINUE TO HELP VICTIMS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AND
FAMILIES IN THE COMMUNITY.
Wallingford Junior Woman's Club
WALLINGFORD JUNIOR WOMAN'S CLUB ANNOUNCES DECEMBER HOLIDAY MEETING
The Wallingford Junior Woman's Club will hold its monthly meeting on December 16 at 6:30 p.m. at the home of Lisa
Ryan, WJWC Publicity Chairwoman. This is the club's holiday meeting, and members are reminded to bring an appe-
tizer, dessert and/or drinks to share, and a grab bag gift. In addition, all toys, clothes, and other items for the
Wallingford Youth & Social Services Adopt-a-Family and the Covenant to Care for Children, Inc., stockings are due
that evening to WJWC members Lisa Hoover and Ann Whitman.
WJWC is open to women with a desire to improve the Wallingford community through volunteering their time and
talents, and provides opportunities for personal enrichment, and improve leadership skills and form new and lasting
friendships. For more information, please call Jaime Bowen, Membership Chairwoman, at 294-0017.
Instead of being a time of unusual behavior, Christmas is perhaps the only time in the year when people can obey their
natural impulses and express their true sentiments without feeling self-conscious and, perhaps, foolish. Christmas, in
short, is about the only chance a man has to be himself. ~Francis C. Farley
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DECEMBER EVENTS AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY ST. ROSE HISPANIC CHOIR TO PRESENT "THREE KINGS PRO-
GRAM" JANUARY 9
MERIDEN-GIVE THE GIFT OF READING
The Meriden Public Library will host a Three Kings Day Program on
Bring In Your New Or Gently Used Books To Help Children Who Are Less Fortunate For The Holidays At The
Saturday, January 9 at 2:00 pm in the Griffin Room. The St. Rose Hispanic
Meriden Public Library.
Choir will present a holiday concert for people of all ages.
The Meriden Public Library will be sponsoring our "Story Book Tree" which was established more than 20 years ago.
The St. Rose Hispanic Choir will present traditional Puerto Rican "aguisnal-
These books will be given to various agencies that will be distrubuted to needy families.
dos" or Christmas carols, followed by a visit from the Three Wise Men.
Drop off location will be the Meriden Public Library Children's Library by December 11th.
Donations of unwrapped gifts, suitable for boys and girls up to the age of
For more information call us at 203 630-6347.
10, will be collected at a specially marked box inside the library during the
WINTER WINE, CHOCOLATE, AND FOOD PAIRING SEMINAR DECEMBER 2 AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
month of December.
Join Klassic Kreations Gourmet on Wednesday, December 2 at 6:30 p.m. in the Griffin Room of Meriden Public
The event is free, but seating is limited. Contact the Community Services
Library as they focus on wine, chocolate and food pairings to enhance our holiday table. They will highlight the histo-
Department at 203 634-0524, email comsvc@hotmail.com, or log onto our
ry of chocolate, conduct a fun trivia quiz, have samples of a wide variety of Belgian chocolates to taste, and discuss
homepage at www.meridenlibrary.org and click on "Adult events" to reserve a
fruit, cheese and food pairings.
seat.
This program is free and all are invited. Reservations are requested. Contact the Community Services Department at
(203) 630-6349 to reserve your seat. People’s Press Crossword December 2009
"FOOD FOR FINES" MONTH AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY Answers. Puzzle by Ruth Gordon.
Meriden Public Library will hold its annual "Food for Fines" month beginning Friday, November 27 through Thursday,
December 31. You may "pay" for your overdue fines by contributing one non-perishable food item for each dollar you
owe in fines. For example, if you owe $3.00 in overdues, you must bring in 3 items. Food donations do not cover lost
or damaged library materials. Bring in those long overdue DVD's cd's, books, etc. and clear up those fines. Borrowers
must visit the Circulation Desk in person to take advantage of this opportunity. Please do not donate out-dated food
items. All food collected will be delivered to local food pantries. Food items most needed are tuna and other canned
meat, dry milk, canned vegetables and fruit, rice, dry and canned beans, canned soups and stews, boxed pasta products,
tomato items, juices and cereals. Contact the Meriden Public Library at (203) 238-2344 or (203) 630-6349 if you have
questions.
WANTED: LEGOS FOR MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY
Meriden Public Library is looking for donations of new and used Legos to start a Lego club this winter for children of
all ages and their families. We would like to have enough Legos for everyone who wants to join, so if you have Legos
your children no longer use, drop them off at the library. Donations can be brought to the Children's Room of the
Meriden Public Library. Your generosity will help ensure the success of this new program. If you have any questions
about this program, contact Melissa in the Children's Room at (203) 630-6347.
CENTRAL CONNECTICUT CIVIC YOUTH ORCHESTRA DECEMBER 12 AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
The Meriden Public Library presents the Central Connecticut Civic Youth Orchestra (CCCYO) on Saturday, December
12 at 2:00 p.m. in the Griffin Room. The CCCYO is comprised of young musicians in grades 5 through 12 from towns
in the central Connecticut area including Meriden, Southington, Wallingford, and Cheshire. Students meet weekly to
rehearse mostly classical repertoire. This group, now in its seventh season, is a project of the Meriden Arts Trust. This
concert will include works by Beethoven, Bach, Greig, and Offenbach. In addition, anyone who is interested in joining
the musicians to play in the final number, which is a compilation of holiday favorites by composer Leroy Anderson, is
encouraged to do so. Copies of the music are available for free at J.C. Music on West Main Street. Please join us for a

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wonderful afternoon of community music making. Contact Katrina Axelrod at (203) 235-7445 or see the CCCYO web-
site at www.teacherweb.com/ct/cccyo/online for further details. We hope to see you there!
FREE COMPUTER CLASSES IN DECEMBER AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
The following free computer classes will be held in December at Meriden Public Library.
Learn Microsoft Word on Saturday, 9:30 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. - December 5
Email Class on Saturday, 9:30 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. -December 12
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Internet Class on Saturday, 9:30 a.m. to 10:15 a.m. -December 19
Class size is limited. Contact the library at (203) 238-2346 or (203) 630-6349 to register for any class. Native Apples & Pears
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JOB SEEKER PROGRAM AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
Meriden Public Library has a drop-in program to assist those who are out of work and need help using the internet for
job searching and creating resumes. A skilled volunteer will assist library patrons on a first come, first serve basis each
Tuesday from 1:00 to 5:00 pm in the Seminar Room. A sign-up sheet will be provided on Tuesdays - no pre-registra-
tion required. Depending on the need, a computer will be available for use by the volunteer and patron. Knowledge of
a computer is required. The library offers separate computer classes to take prior to the job seeker program. Contact
Fresh Baked Pies
the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349 if you have questions about the library programs.
WRITERS NETWORK MEETS IN DECEMBER AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
Meriden Public Library will host a Writers Network group on Wednesday, December 16 and December 30 at 7:00 p.m.
in the Friends Room. We invite anyone who is serious about writing fiction or nonfiction, wants to learn the process of
getting published, or needs support for writing a book proposal or query letter to attend. The Writers Network is for
anyone who is looking for a support network to keep the motivation going, is interested in sharing their writing with
others and is longing for the camaraderie of others who share a passion for writing.
The group will be run by Roberta Dolan, a Meriden resident who is trained in group facilitation and is in the process
of writing her first book. The Writers Network group will meet twice a month and will occasionally invite editors, pub-
lished authors and people versed in the publishing process to speak to the group.
If you are interested in joining the Writers Network, contact the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349
or email us comsvc@hotmail.com.
All of your favorites!
FREE SCRAPBOOKING WORKSHOP CONTINUES AT MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY
Meriden Public Library will host the final part of the free scrapbooking workshop series on Monday, December 14
Order now for the holidays!
from 5:00 to 8:00 p.m. in the Griffin Room. Come have fun and learn about an exclusive page demo, organizing your
photos, digital, and work on creating an album to share with your family and friends.
Call 203-269-3817
Preserve your photos and get them out of the attic, out of boxes, display them and ENJOY them. They make great
gifts for any occasion and Christmas will be here soon. There will be free handouts and demonstrations. Gather your All of your holiday needs!
supplies and come use some of ours. Please call or email to reserve your table at 203 630-6349 or comsvc@hot-
mail.com.
ONCE BANNED, NOW CLASSIC BOOK DISCUSSION SERIES AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
Meriden Public Library and Connecticut Humanities Council will begin the book discussion series "Once banned, now
Poinsettias
classic" in January 2010. A book, it is often said, reflects the society in which it was written. This may be especially
true when the society denies the reflection and censures the book. The four works in this series, all banned at the time
Cemetary
of publication, are now accepted as classics of American literature. Join moderator Marsha Bansavage on Tuesdays in
the Griffin Room from 6:30 to 8:00 p.m.. to examine questions about changes in attitude, what led the authors to create
Boxes
these works, censorship, rights and creativity.
The schedule will be: Christmas
January 26, 2010 - "The Catcher in the Rye" by J.D. Salinger
February 23, 2010 - "The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn" by Mark Twain Trees
March 23, 2010 - "Native Son" by Richard Wright
April 27, 2010 - "The Awakening" by Kate Chopin
The books will be available at the library. The program is free and all are invited. Contact the Community Services
Wreaths
Department at (203) 630-6349 or email comsvc@hotmail.com to sign up for participation in the book discussion
series.
SCRABBLE AT MERIDEN LIBRARY
Support Your Local Farmers!
The Meriden Public Library will be holding Scrabble sessions on the following Mondays at 2:00 pm in the Friends
Room:
Eat Local - Shop Local
December 14 December 28
January 11 and 25 Open Daily Till Christmas Eve 9am-5pm
February 8 and 22

Come to practice or learn the game. Everyone is invited. If you have any questions about this or other programs at the
413 Barnes Road
library, contact the Community Services Department at (203) 630-6349, email us at comsvc@hotmail.com or stop by
at any session. Wallingford
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Craft Fair Dear Housewives - Central Connecticut's Know It All Gals

Curves of Meriden will be holding a Holiday Craft Fair & Open House on
Saturday December 12th
9am-4pm 477 South Broad Street Meriden, Blockbuster Plaza
Our members amaze themselves everyday, come and let us amaze you with
our hand-made items. Wreaths, Country Crafts, Cards & Magnets, Scarfs,
Hats, Children's Sweaters, Rice Warmers, Jewelry,and more....
PLUS refreshments, raffles & a free gift just for stopping by! See you
there!
Perhaps the best Yuletide decoration is being wreathed in smiles. ~Author
Unknown
Celebrations
Dear Readers, Do you have a question regarding family life, budget-
ing, customer service issues, DVD or book reviews, or home organiza-
tion? We will give you our candid advise from a family perspective.
Contact The Peoples Press by e-mail andy@peoplespressnews.com or
phone with your confidential question and we will answer it in the
next issue.
Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year
Sincerely,
June and Flora
Dear Housewives, Holidays are here again. My husband is Jewish
and I am Catholic. This is the first year we are married and I
want a Christmas tree and he does not. How can we make a deci-
sion and stop fighting? Signed, "Oy Christmas Tree" in Cheshire.
JUNE: Dear OY, I can't believe two people from different faiths did not discuss these types of issues before you got
married. If and when you have children it will only get worse. I don't see why you can't do both. I think you can cele-
brate Hanukkah as well as Christmas in your house. Everyone is so uptight about offending other faiths this time of
year that we incorporate all so I think you can do the same in your household. As far as I know, it is not against any
religions to be near items of other faiths. Good luck when it comes time to raise babies.
FLORA: My friend grew up with a Hanukkah Bush. See if that idea will fly with your Jewish husband. If not, let him
have his way. You may be pleasantly surprised....

Christopher Michael Farrell, of Wallingford, recently received his Eagle
Scout Award. Eagle Scout is the highest rank attainable in Boy Scouts. He
was recognized for this achievement at his Eagle Scout Court of Honor at
St Paul's Episcopal Church in Wallingford on Saturday, November 7th.
Chris is the son of Michael and JoAnn Farrell, and is a member of Troop 4
in Wallingford.
His Eagle service project was the restoration of Lyman Hall Memorial
located on Elm Street across from Pat Wall Field. Lyman Hall was a sign-
er of the Declaration of Independence. Chris, his family, friends, and fel-
low Boy Scouts landscaped the memorial area making many improvements
such as scraping and painting the fence and flagpole, installing a new sign,
bench, flag, and brick walkway plus planting new shrubs and grass.
Chris Farrell, a junior at Lyman Hall High School, began his scouting
adventure as a Tiger Cub with Pack 26 at Highland Elementary School. On
his way to Eagle Scout, Chris earned 29 merit badges and held leadership
positions in Troop 4 including Den Chief, Historian, Patrol Leader, and
Assistant Senior Patrol Leader.
Through Chris's scouting life, he has camped numerous times at Deer Lake
and Camp Sequassen as well as other Connecticut State parks. In addition,
he has been recognized with the Paruvei Dei Religious Award and the
Hometown USA Award for the beautification of the YMCA Teen Center in
Wallingford.
Chris and his family would like to thank the members of Boy Scout Troop
4 and all those who helped support him throughout his years in scouting.
Congratulations, Chris, on your advancement to Eagle Scout!
Dear Housewives, I have so many presents to wrap for family members. My nine year old daughter want to
help me but I don't like the way she wraps. I feel like a bad mother to tell her I don't want her help but I want
the gifts to look nice. What can I do? It's a wrap in Meriden
FLORA: If you asked me five years ago, I would have her do another task. Today, I say, let her wrap and who cares
how uneven or odd it looks; it was wrapped with love.
JUNE: You don't have to let her wrap adult presents but if you want to let her help you can have her wrap the other
kids' presents. If she had cousins you buy for or her friends she can wrap theirs. You can give her a different job like
finding matching ribbons and bows too. It is okay to want your packages to look nice but at the same time she can
help with other things to feel like she is contributing. Merry Christmas!
JUNE: Hi Flora, I hope you have a Merry Christmas (dare I say it?). As always I recommend watching all of the
Christmas favorites: "The Grinch", "Frosty", "Rudolph". Also, you should go to the movies to see "Scrooge" with Jim
Carey, I hear it is great.
FLORA: Hi June. I wish you a very Merry Christmas. I will see "Holiday Inn", "Elf", and "It's a Wonderful Life".
The plan was to see It's a Wonderful Life on Thanksgiving but it never happened. This month I will see "The Best
Christmas Pageant Ever" at the Thomaston Opera House.
Merry Christmas, Happy Holidays and Happy New Year to our Dear Readers. We love receiving your questions and
answering them. Thank you for another year. Thank you Andy, Dawn and the most wonderful People's Press.
Winter Session at the
Meriden YMCA
The Meriden YMCA's winter session
begins January 4th and continues
until February 21st. Registration
begins December 14th for swim
lessons, swim team, gymnastics
lessons and team, basketball, karate,
racquetball, children's dance, hip hop
dance, ballroom dancing, youth the-
atre, golf, adaptive sports, middle
school strength training, hatha yoga,
The deadline for our January pilates, parent and child yoga, aqua

issue is Dec. 29th! Don’t forget aerobics, and more. For more infor-
mation please call (203) 235-6386 or
to send a story about your holi- visit www.meridenymca.org
About the Meriden YMCA
days or winter. Since1866 the Meriden YMCA has
helped build strong kids, strong fam-
If you have an upcoming event ilies, and a strong community. The
in the months ahead send it in - Meriden YMCA is located at 110
West Main Street in Meriden.
it would be our honor to help
you AND we will send out each Wallingford Rotary
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NEWS FROM WALLINGFORD PUBLIC LIBRARY:
LIBRARY HOURS
Monday through Friday 9:30 a.m. to 9:00 p.m.
Saturday 9:30 to 5:00 p.m.
Holiday Closings: December 24, 25, 26, January 1
Early closing on December 31st
203-265-6754
JOANNIE'S FOOD DRIVE In honor of "Joannie from Pringle," Joan Lewis, former WPL staff member, Wallingford
Public Library employees have organized a food drive to benefit Master's Manna. You may bring your donations of
non-perishable food items to the library through December. Please place them on the table at the top of the back stair-
way.
HOLIDAY SHOPPING?
YOUR AMAZON.COM PURCHASES CAN BENEFIT THE LIBRARY The holiday season is rapidly approaching.
By entering Amazon.com through the Library's website: www.wallingford.lioninc.org, the Library will receive a per-
centage of your total purchase. Your support is greatly appreciated. Happy Shopping!
HOLIDAY GIVING You can make the holidays special for a child in Wallingford by bringing new, or barely used,
children's books to the Children's Library for the town's Holiday for Giving program. Please bring unwrapped books to
the library by December 10.
NEW BOOK SELLER The Library's used bookstore, the Book Seller has moved to a new, much larger, location.
Look for the green striped awning behind the Library and stop by to browse the shelves full of hundreds of bargains:
children's books, videos, cds, fiction, nonfiction, and books for teens. Pick up a gift for a friend or a popular paperback
for your next vacation read!
Book Seller Fall Hours are:
Monday 10:00 a.m. to 6:00 p.m. Wednesday 1:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. Saturday 10:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m.
CAN YOU HELP US? The library is in need of two high school yearbooks for our collection. We are looking for the
Mark T. Sheehan High School 2007 and the Lyman Hall 1949 yearbooks. The nostalgic resources are great fun to
browse through, as well as to mine for reunion information. The library keeps the yearbooks in our Connecticut
Collection and may be used in the library. If should discover one of these volumes in your attic or closet, pleae bring it
in to the library's Information Desk. Thanks!
NEW HELP FOR JOB SEEKERS JOB NOW: Live Job Assistance Wallingford Public Library announces an excit-
ing new service for job seekers and career changers: JobNow. This unique online service gives job seekers on-demand
access to trained career coaches and job resources. JobNow's free professional services are available on any of our pub-
lic Internet computers; ask for more information at the Information Desk. Wallingford Library cardholders can also
access JobNow from home by linking to http://main.wallingford.clc.jobnow.brainfuse.com. Job seekers should register
for an account after using their Wallingford Library card to enter the site. JobNow is the first service of its kind to pro-
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CALLING ALL WWE FANS: WrestleMania Reading Challenge Now
through January 19, 2010
Contest gives Teens a Chance to Win a Trip to Wrestlemania XXVI in
Phoenix, Arizona!
"Reading prepares you for being a successful adult in the real world. I would-
n't be here today had it not been for reading." That's what ECW champion
Matt Hardy, MVP, said when asked why World Wrestling Entertainment
(WWE) is co-sponsoring the WrestleMania Reading Challenge.
Here's how the Challenge works:
* Teens in grades 5-12 sign up for the program at the library and receive a
WWE mini poster.
* Read 10 items, whether they're books, graphic novels, or manga.
* Turn in a completed reading log.
* Then design a bookmark which includes a slogan that promotes reading.
Wallingford Public Library staff will choose the best bookmark submitted
from each age group: grades 5-6, 7-8, and 9-12. Winners will receive a WWE
DVD. A panel of national judges will choose 21 finalists to go to Phoenix.
Once at WrestleMania the finalists will compete for the grand championship
by answering questions from Will Weaver (guest judge) and Jerri Spinelli
books. Sign up now at the library's Information Desk. For more information
please visit the library's web site at www.wallingford.lioninc.org or come in
for a visit.
Oh look, yet another Christmas TV special! How touching to have the mean-
ing of Christmas brought to us by cola, fast food, and beer.... Who'd have ever
guessed that product consumption, popular entertainment, and spirituality
would mix so harmoniously? ~Bill Watterson, Calvin & Hobbes

Holiday Sale
vide live career coaching from any computer with Internet access. Services available are live interview coaching, with
interview tips and resources; a resume lab with sample templates, along with resume analysis within 24 hours by a
JobNow expert; assistance with writing cover letters; and a career resource library that includes links to current job
openings locally and nationally, as well as career and personality assessment instruments.
ON DISPLAY! You may have noticed that there are several new book display units near the Information Desk. We are
delighted that now we can create pleasing displays of material we hope you will enjoy browsing through and checking Great selection of gifts
out. One of those displays is devoted to "Staff Picks". Here you will find books of all kinds that various staff members
have enjoyed and recommend. Take a look next time you are looking for something to read and are feeling adventur-
for the SPORTS FAN
ous!
ADAPTIVE COMPUTER TECHNOLOGY The Library now offers adaptive technology for our patrons with vision
in your life!
impairment. If you are interested in learning more, ask about the trackball mouse, large print keyboard, and iZoom
screen magnifier/reader. They are available in the Adult Computer area. We also have an Optelec video magnifier for
Order Now For The Holidays!
anyone wishing to manipulate the size of print while reading books, magazines, and newspapers. It is located by the Layaway Available!
Periodicals Area of the adult section.
CELL PHONE RECYCLING AND DON'T FORGET THE EYEGLASSES! Remember that you can bring in your Dart Teams Receive 10% OFF!
old cell phones for recycling. Drop them in the box near the copier across from the Circulation Desk. The Library 1371 East Main Street in Meriden
receives a percentage for each phone. Thanks! Eyeglasses can be recycled too. The Lions Club collects all the eyeglass-
es collected at the library.
203-440-2377
JUST FAX IT! In response to popular demand, we have installed a self-service public fax machine next Stop by and view our incredible selection!
to the photocopier by the Circulation Desk. It transmits faxes for $1.50 per page with

Holiday Savings Event!

a credit or debit card, but does not receive faxes. Librarians at the Information Desk can help you get started.
DECEMBER COMPUTER CLASSES:
Excel 2007
Wednesday, December 16 2:00 p.m. to 3:30 p.m. Board Room
Join us to expand your spreadsheet knowledge with Excel 2007 Formulas & Functions. This hands-on class will cover
common business calculations and conditional formatting. Register in advance by calling 203-265-6754 or online at
www.wallingford.lioninc.org
PowerPoint
Thursday, December 17 10:00 a.m. to 11:30 a.m. Board Room
Build your digital presentation skills. You will create and modify a slideshow, as well as add graphics and automation at
this hands-on class. Register in advance by calling 203-265-6754 or online at www.wallingford.lioninc.org
COMPUTER TUTORING SESSIONS
Thursday evenings: 6:30 p.m. and 7:30 p.m.
Computer novices are encouraged to sign up to learn keyboard or mouse skills, word processing, Internet searching,
online job applications, or e-mail at these 1-on-1 sessions. Please contact the library to register or for more information.
WALLINGFORD PUBLIC LIBRARY FREE MOVIE EVENTS
$5.00 off 20% off
FRIDAY NIGHT FLICS: HARRY POTTER AND THE HALF-BLOOD PRINCE
Friday, December 11 6:30 p.m. Community Room Rated PG
any Bird any John
FRIDAY NIGHT FLICS: JULIE AND JULIA
Friday, December 18 6:30 p.m. Community Room Rated PG-13
SPECIAL PROGRAMS AND EVENTS AT WALLINGORD PUBLIC LIBRARY: All of our programs are free, all
Feeder over Deere
of the time!
Join the Discussion! Read the Book! Meet the Author!
$20.00 Toys
Please join us for any or all of our Book Discussion Programs and Author Events (and remember, a book signed by the Expires 12/31/09 Expires 12/31/09
author makes a perfect holiday gift!)
* Book Discussion: A Prayer for Owen Meany by John Irving, part of the Range of Realism: The Novel in the 19th and
20th Centuries book discussion series.
All are welcome to any or all of this four-part book discussion series co-sponsored by the Connecticut Humanities
20% off any 20% off
Council. Beginning in the 19th Century, the novel emerged as the pre-eminent literary form for portraying the wide
range of human possibilities to which we give the name realism. Using four different novels from the 19th and 20th
Breyer any in
Centuries, we will explore how realism is defined and treated within the different context of each story. Discussions
will be led by Marsha Bonsavage, a discussion facilitator for the Connecticut Humanities Council. Books are available Horses or stock Snow
from the Library's Information Desk. All discussions begin at 3:30 p.m. in the Collins Room. Select books will be dis-
cussed on the following dates:
December 9 A Prayer for Owen Meany by John Irving January 13 The House of Mirth by Edith Wharton
Accessories Shovels
February 10 Frankenstein by Mary Shelley This program is made possible by the Faustman Fund.
The Uncommon Reader by Alan Bennett. Expires 12/31/09 Expires 12/31/09
Thursday Night Book Club Discussion:Thursday, December 17 7:00 p.m. Collins Room Located 2 Miles Down Paddock Ave. from Burger King
When Queen Elizabeth's corgis stray into a mobile library parked near Buckingham Palace, the Queen feels duty bound
to borrow a book. This novella is a funny and superbly observed commentary on the Queen of England and the subver- Meriden
Hours: Mon-Fri 8:30-5:30; Sat. 8:30-5; Sun. 10-4
sive power of reading. Copies of the book are available from the library's Information Desk. Please join us for conver-
sation and refreshments. Our informal book discussion group meets on the third Thursday of each month. All are wel-
come, no registration is necessary. Library News Continued on Page 12
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PLANNING FOR THE FUTURE: ELDER LAW Thursday, December 10 2:00 p.m. Collins Room
Elder law includes living trusts, Medicaid, health care agents, powers of attorney and general estate planning. It can get
confusing and clarification is needed to plan responsibly for your future and the future of your family. Please join us
for an informative program presented by the local attorneys from Farrell Leslie & Grochowski.
SATURDAY MORNINGS WITH POETRY* Saturday, December 12 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.
*Note special location: Paul Mellon Art Center at Choate Rosemary Hall
This month our poetry group will gather at the Paul Mellon Art Center to reflect on the art showcased in the First
Annual Wallingford Artist Exhibition. Usually this group meets twice a month in the library's Board Room where fans
of poetry are welcome to read original poems and share their writing experiences with fellow poets. All teen and adult
poets and poetry lovers are welcome.
WOMEN ARTISTS Monday, December 14 6:30 p.m. Community Room
Join Maureen O'Shea and Linda Maier from the New Britain Museum of American Art for a program on prominent
American women artists from the 19th century through the present. This program features the lives and works of artists
Lily Martin Spencer, Harriet Frishmuth, Georgia O'Keeffe, Lee Krasner and Cindy Sherman, and more. All are wel-
come, advance registration is appreciated. Refreshments will be served. This program is co-sponsored by the American
Association of University Women.
GARDEN CLUB HOLIDAY TEA Tuesday, December 15 1:00 p.m. to 3:00 p.m. Community Room
Join us to celebrate the spirit of the season at a Holiday Tea, presented by the Wallingford Garden Club in cooperation
with the Wallingford Public Library. Enjoy delicious homemade treats as you marvel at the splendid display of holiday
decorations that adorn the walls of the Community Rooom. All of the decorations are designed and made by Garden
Club members. Bring your neighbors, family and friends to share the warmth and beauty of this traditional holiday tea
and learn more about the Garden Club from members of this 79-year-old community organization.
BEAUTIFUL VOICES, BEAUTIFUL HOLIDAY MUSIC Wednesday, December 16 7:00 p.m. Community Room
The library is delighted to present a special holiday celebration featuring some beautiful voices from Choate Rosemary
Hall's a cappella groups and Chamber Chorus. Program selections will be presented by the Maiyeros and the
Kaprophones (boys' groups), Lilith and the Whimawehs (girls' groups), and Stonatos, a coed student-faculty ensemble.
In addition to these student-run groups, Choate's select Chamber Chorus, directed by Ralph Valentine, will round out
the program. The Choate students and faculty are eager to share their voices and good cheer with all who attend and
all are welcome to this free program!
WALLINGFORD PUBLIC LIBRARY: TEEN ZONE
MOTHER-DAUGHTER BOOK CLUB
Wednesday, January 6: All of the Above by Shelley Pearsall 7:30 p.m. Board Room
The Mother-Daughter Book Club is a great way to meet new people, read the hottest new books, and spend some quali-
ty time together. The Wallingford group is the state's oldest; it has been in existence for almost 20 years! All teen girls
in grades 6 - 12 are invited to bring their mother or other adult female friend to read and discuss the book.
Refreshments are served and a great time is had by all. Sign up today!
HARRY POTTER WEEK FOR TEENS DECEMBER 7 - 12
Celebrate the magic of Harry Potter at the library! Look for the display in the Teen Area. Come to any or all of the
Harry Potter themed events.
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* Trivia Fun - Do you have a ton of HP factoids rattling around in your brain?
Well then, pick up some Harry Potter trivia questions in the Teen Area of the
library for your chance to win a prize!
*Harry Potter Wii Tournament Wednesday, December 9 6:30 p.m.
Community Room
All teens in grades 6 - 12 are welcome to participate in a Harry Potter and the
Half Blood Prince duel. Cast spells on enemies with your want (Wii remote).
Choose among Harry, Ron, Hermione, Luna, Ginny & Malfoy. Advance regis-
tration is required. Sign up in person, by phone, or online
(www.wallingford.lioninc.org)
*Harry Potter Movie Night: Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince (see
Friday Night Flicks) December 11 6:30 p.m. Community Room
*Life-Sized Chess Tournament Saturday, December 12 10:00 a.m.
Community Room
The Wallingford Chess Club, directed by Wayne Aguiar, is a great way to
learn how to play chess and meet new friends. The library's Community Room
will be transformed into a huge chess board just like the wizards use in Harry
Potter. Beginners are always welcome at any session. Open to all students in
grades K - 12. You may sign up online (www.wallingford.lioninc.org), in per-
son, or by phone.
STAR2 (Science, Space, Technology, Telescopes, Astronomy, Aviation,
Robotics, Rocketry) Saturday, December 12 1:00 p.m. to 4:00 p.m.
Community Room - The Wallingford STAR² Club, directed by Wayne Aguiar,
is a community-based and family-oriented organization open to the youth of
Wallingford. The purpose of STAR² is to excite students about science, math-
ematics, and technology. The club is divided into age appropriate groups and
themed stations. The special interest areas are: Robotics & Technology,
Rockets & Aviation, and Space & Astronomy. Students in grades K-3, 4-8,
and 9-12 work at each station for one hour. STAR² meets on the second
Saturday of each month in the Library's Community Room from 1:00-4:00.
Registration for each meeting is encouraged in order to assure that there are
enough materials. This free program is offered with the support of the
Wallingford Department of Youth and Social Services. A full schedule and
description of the club's activities are available on our web site. You may sign
up in person, by phone, or online. Please contact the Information Desk for
more details.
What you need to know.
Julian Padowicz, author of Mother and Me: Escape from Warsaw 1939 and
the sequel, A Ship in the Harbor spoke at Wallingford Public Library on
December 3. Mr Padowicz spoke of his excape from Nazi occupied Poland
and his perilous journeys and adventures that finally brought his mother and
him to the United States.
What you need to know.
Fall Work Parties
The Wallingford Land Trust had work party at Shookies Pond in October to
plant shrubs along the border area near Blossom Lane. The work party
included David Ellis, Matt Caruso, Joe McLaughlin and Ellie Tessmer who
brought the plants.
Plantings were done at the Orchard Glen Sign and Kiosk in November
with David Ellis, Ellie Tessmer, Matt Caruso, Robert Page, Ken and Caryl
Ryan, Chris Zacarelli, Carole Borsari and Rich Daniels with plants provid-
ed by Ellie Tessmer and Caryl Ryan.
For more information please contact David Ellis at 203-269-9779. Or
check the website at: www.wallingfordlandtrust.org.
Photo by Ellie Tessmer of Ken and Caryl Ryan planting at the kiosk with
president David Ellis

Wallingford issues reminder on clearing walks
Property owners, tenants or occupants responsible for the care of properties
with sidewalks, are required by Municipal Ordinance to protect and maintain
the sidewalk in a safe and convenient condition for use by the public.
This Municipal Ordinance also requires that snow and ice be removed
from the sidewalk following the end of the storm. In the event that the ice
can not be removed, the sidewalk shall be made as safe as possible, including
the placement of sand or other suitable deicing materials. Sidewalks must be
cleared of any snow or ice, within eighteen hours after the end of the storm.
If the storm ends at night, the deadline for cleaning the sidewalks is 18 hours
after sunrise. The cleared path must be a minimum of three feet wide.
Failure to comply with the provisions of this Ordinance can result in a fine
and also the actual costs for the Town to clear the sidewalk.
The Mayor has aked for everyone's cooperation on this important issue.
For the spirit of Christmas fulfils the greatest hunger of mankind.
~Loring A. Schuler
Celebrations
The Wallingford Family YMCA Dolphins Swim Team would like to con-
gratulate 4 of their swimmers who attained a National Top 16 Time in the
women's 11-12 year old Medley Relay. The relay team's time of 4:55.46
earned the team a 16th place postion out of all the YMCAs in the U.S.
Pictured from L to R are Claire Anderson, Brittany Driscoll, Amber Albe,
and Holly Driscoll.
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Take Time to Thank Others
This time of year the Wallingford Health Dept. office is very busy, especially with the added responsibility of the
H1N1 flu, seasonal flu, health surveys, grants, and not to mention our routine work load! I don't want to sound nega-
tive, it's just the opposite. I really want to focus on the incredible knowledgeable and patient folks who make it all
work and they do it with a positive attitude, the Staff of the Wallingford Health Dept.
Thank you Lucille for being flexible in your work hours to cover when no one else is here and for being truly a
wonderful resource for our residents; George and Wendy for investigating complaints and making sure our restaurants
are clean, safe and following the "rules"; Steve for accommodating our weekend and evening health dept needs (there
are many), Dr. Smith for your medical expertise; and last but not least Mary who is unfortunately home due to an acci-
dent but still in good spirits.
These are very busy times, be it at work or at home. It's important that we take a moment to rest now and then and
most important to be appreciative of all we have, including family, friends, co-workers and our military members
where ever they are serving. As we enter into the holiday rush, stop to say "Thank you", "Please" and "You're
Welcome". Kind words last longer than store bought gifts.
Have a healthy and happy season.
Eloise Hazelwood - Wallingford Director of Health
H1N1 Flu Vaccine Available at the Meriden Health Department
The Meriden Health Department is now offering both the injectable and nasal spray forms of the H1N1 flu vaccine at
no cost to Meriden residents.
Due to the limited supply of H1N1 flu vaccine, at this time the following vaccine formulations are restricted for the
following priority populations:
The nasal spray version (LAIV) of the vaccine contains a live, weakened influenza virus and should only be used for
healthy individuals 2-49 years of age who are not pregnant and those who fall into one of the current priority popula-
tions:
* Healthy children aged 2 years through 24 years of age
* Healthy household contacts and caregivers of infants less than 6 months of age
The inactivated, injectable H1N1 vaccine is available to:
* Pregnant women
* Household contacts and caregivers of infants less than 6 months of age
* All children ages 6 months through 6 years of age
* Children between the ages of 7 and 24 with high risk medical conditions
Please note that the injectable form of H1N1 vaccine is in short supply and should not be used in healthy persons
aged 2 years through 24 years if the nasal spray is available.
All children under the age of 10 will need two doses of the vaccine scheduled 4 weeks apart. The H1N1 vaccine is
only effective against the H1N1 virus and does not protect against seasonal influenza. Residents are encouraged to get
their seasonal flu shot, as well as the H1N1 vaccination as it becomes available for them.
H1N1 vaccines are given at the Meriden Health Department, 165 Miller Street. Please contact the Clinic office at
630-4234 if you have any questions. Residents can also call the H1N1 influenza hotline operated by the Connecticut
Department of Public Health at 1-800-830-9426 or view information on the Meriden Health Department's website,
www.meridenhealth.com.
MERIDEN-PRESCHOOL CLASSES WILL Be STARTING OUR WINTER
SESSION AT THE MERIDEN PUBLIC LIBRARY
Attention All Parents, Grandparents, and Caregivers: Get Out Of The House This Winter And Give Your Children The
Gift Of Early Literacy.
The Meriden Public Library's preschool classes teach creative expression, social skills, listening comprehension, and
the foundation for reading through letter and number recognition and vocabulary building. Registration for these FREE
programs begin the week of December 21st. All first time participants must show proof of age. Our winter session will
be starting the week of January 11th.
Programs will be as follows: On Mondays at 6:30 pm. we will be having a program for children in Kindergarten
through Grade 2 with stories and crafts.
Tuesdays at 10:30 am. is for children 2 years old-learning independence (with or without an adult), 11:15 am. for chil-
dren 3-4 years old, 1:15 pm. for children 3-4 years old, and at 6:30 pm. for children 3-4 years old.
Wednesdays at 10:30 am. for 2-3 years with a parent or caregiver, 11:15 am. for children 3-4 years old, and at 6:30 pm.
2 years with parent or caregiver.
We will also be featuring Early Literacy Programs for children under the age of 2 and their parent/caregiver on
Thursday mornings at 10:30 am. Join us for stories, finger plays, music and abundant social interaction. These pro-
grams will be on the following dates: January 7 & 21, February 4 & 18, March 5 & 18.
For more information please call us at (203) 630-6347.
Need a great holiday gift
for your Sportsman?
Hunting and Fishing
Licenses are now available at
the Wallingford Town Clerk’s
Office. Surprise that some-
one special in your life. To
purchase a license stop by
Room 108 in the Wallingford
Town Hall located at 45
South Main Street. We are
open Monday-Friday from
9am-5pm. If you have any
questions please call
203.294.2145.
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A Cup of Christmas Tea
By Barbara Sherburne
Photo by Vikram Nath
There is a simply wonderful book with that title written by Tom Hegg and
illustrated by Warren Hanson, published in 1982. It is actually a poem with
illustrations on almost every page, and although I cannot reproduce it here, I
am going to share some of what it is about. I was so taken by this poem that
one year I made audio cassettes for many friends and family members for
Christmas, and I got quite good at reciting it. The poem begins, "The log was
in the fireplace, all spiced and set to burn. At last, the yearly Christmas race
was in the clubhouse turn."
I don't know how many years ago I started saying to people on September
1st, "And now begins the race to Christmas." It seems to me that once
September comes, Christmas arrives shortly thereafter. The author of the poem
speaks about cards being in the mail and he has a month's reprieve before his
credit card bills catch up with him. I guess even in 1982 that was the case. He received a letter from his great aunt a
week before, and she invited him to visit her. "But if you find you have some time, how wonderful if we Could have a
little chat and share a cup of Christmas tea." He didn't want to go. She had had a mild stroke that had crippled her left
side, and he wanted to remember her as she once had been, vigorous and funny, and not crippled and old. He felt it
would be depressing to see her, but he was also feeling guilty, so he put his excuses aside, and headed out the door.
How many of us have put off visiting someone because it just seemed like too much of a bother, and boy, how boring it
would be? I've done it. There are times I have dreaded something so much that I could have convinced myself not to
go, and then wind up having a really good time.
So he drives from the suburbs to the older part of town, parks his car, and doesn't know how he got up to her door.
"I watched my hand rise up and press the button of the bell." And as he was waiting for her to come to the door, he
thinks about leaving. And then, "I heard the rattle of the china in the hutch against the wall. The triple beat of two feet
and a crutch came down the hall." She immediately took away his fears and invited him in with an upbeat sound to her
voice. Then he steps into her house decorated for Christmas and smelling of oranges, cinnamon, and pine. She even
had old Christmas cards displayed that he and his siblings had made as kids. They sat and talked about many things,
and she was positive and encouraging and still had a sense of humor. And then she went to brew the tea.
"I sat alone with feelings that I hadn't felt in years. I looked around at Christmas through a thick, hot blur of tears."
He looks around at all the things she arranged on the shelves, the candles, the holly, the ornaments on the tree, a plate
of homemade cookies on a table, and in thinking about his very real memories, he realizes that his great aunt, despite
her stroke and frailty, had kept Christmas deep within, and she embodied "the triumph of a soul."
This is the essence of this poem, I believe, keeping Christmas within, and not just on December 25th. I am sure that
you see the same things I see: People who are angry, unhappy, stressed out, bitter, and just generally miserable. When I
see a person with any of these traits in my job at the convenience store or elsewhere, I at least smile at them and try to
find something to compliment them about and get them to smile also, but it doesn't always work. Some people are just
determined to be miserable, such as Ebenezer Scrooge. I think we would have an almost ideal world if we were able to
carry Christmas in our hearts all the yearlong.
The more or less inevitable rush to Christmas is upon us, but wouldn't it be nice to slow it down, take time to visit
an elderly relative or friend, and just be kinder than necessary? Remember that quote? "Be kinder than necessary, for
everyone you meet is fighting some kind of battle." I wish people would carry that quote around with them, especially
in the car.
"She poured two cups. She smiled, and then she handed one to me, And then, we settled back and had a cup of
Christmas tea."
May you all be blessed with great health, a good job, much joy and happiness, and may you also share a cup of
Christmas tea with someone you love.
Barbara Sherburne barndt49@yahoo.com

What you need to know.

8th Annual ¡Soy Unica! ¡Soy Latina! Community Celebration

A Huge Success….
Over 225 young women ages 9 – 18, their mothers/caregivers, and other
attendees participated in the eighth annual ¡Soy Unica! ¡Soy Latina! (I am
Unique! I am Latina!) Community Celebration on Saturday, October 17th
at Washington Middle School. The event presented education and infor-
mation on developing and maintaining healthy lifestyles while also build-
ing self-esteem. Guest speakers included Meriden Mayor Mike Rhode,
Assistant Vice Principal, Lincoln Middle School, Lysette Torres and State
Representative Cathy Abercrombie. The keynote speaker Ana Alfaro
encouraged the group to seek role models and to network with people. She
also challenged the young women to get an education.
The celebration also featured 12 community agencies as part of the well-
ness expo that distributed information to the attendees.
After lunch the girls and mothers/caregivers were treated to entertainment
by five-year-old Miguel Cardona, Jr. and his three-year-old sister Celine.
Other performances included local groups Xtreme Impact, Young Stars and
Unique Stylez. These dancers also taught their moves to participants of all
ages!
The day ended with door prizes from a large number of area businesses
and individuals. Special thanks to Matthew Fiderio for setting up his sound
system.
One participant wrote on her evaluation, “I think Soy Unica! Soy Latina!
is a really great program for all girls because they can come together and
just talk about anything. I’m looking forward to coming NEXT YEAR!!
THANKS.”
Major sponsorship for Soy Unica! Soy Latina! was provided by Cox
Communications and the James H. Napier Foundation. Other sponsors
included the Patricia Aubé Memorial Foundation, Cuno Foundation,
Rushford, Inc., and MidState Medical Center.
The Meriden and Wallingford Substance Abuse Council organized the
event, along with an organizing committee from various agencies.
The Meriden and Wallingford Substance Abuse Council is a regional action
council that provides community-based education and information to chil-
dren and adults on substance abuse, alcohol, tobacco, gambling, and other
addictive behaviors. For more information, contact Christelle Aubé at
MAWSAC at 203-294-3591or go to our website at www.mawsac.org
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NATURE AS A MIRROR The uniqueness of growth and harvesting of cranberries leads me to reflect
on the many different forms of plant life and their pattern of maturation. The
By Dorothy Gonick pine tree, the radish, the rose bush and grape vine each follows its set way of
CRANBERRIES growth; each different yet each characteristic of its own species. God must
Rooted in swampy bogs, have had fun creating all that surrounds us. Among our friends and associates
Uniquely growing vines we are aware that their life experiences have influenced their growth and out-
Bearing cranberries. look on life. We each have developed out own individual characteristics and
outlook on life; weathering the chilly times and expanding in the sunny sea-
The gleaming red of cranberries met my eyes as I sons, thus creating a diverse blend of humanity.
entered the local grocery last week. Thoughts of Our lives are enriched by our friends, family and the daily events that fill
Thanksgiving and Christmas feasts cheered me, and our lives.
tempered the chilly weather outside. Visions of
sauces, relishes, and varied cranberry desserts swam
through my thoughts. The glossy berries soon winked SANTA ON THE TROLLEY
up at me from the cart, ready to fulfill their destiny. Ride the trolley to visit with Santa! Each child receives a gift. Toy train lay-
These cranberries have had a unique growth period. outs to see and refreshments for all. Weekends starting November 28 through
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the woody vines may have been growing for over 100 10:30 am to 4:30 pm. The Shore Line Trolley Museum, 17 River St, East
years, yet still produce berries. The low-lying vines Haven. Adults $8, Seniors $6, Children (2-15) $4.
form a thick mat over the sandy bed, which may be flooded for harvesting. The berries will rise to the surface, then be
scooped into bags and shipped for processing into beverages, sauces or other tempting treats. Other cranberries will
not be flooded but harvested with scoops, then bagged and shipped for packaging, destined to supply grocery stores for
us, the consumers. WE BUY HOUSES CASH!
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Tiny fruits form and the cranberries are on the way toward maturity.

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WALLINGFORD SENIOR CENTER The submission deadline for the January issue of THE PEOPLES PRESS is
December 29th. Don't forget to send your holiday greeting. Email your sto-
SOCIAL SINGLES Thursday, December 3, 6:00 PM
ries, news, celebrations and photos to andy@peoplespressnews.com. Sign up
Social Singles is an independent group of single men and women aged 60 to 74, who meet socially to enjoy a variety
to be a subscriber at www.peoplespressnews.com for updates, reminders and
of activities. Senior Center members are welcome to bring non-member friends. Social Singles meets on the first
special offers. If we can help in any way please call 203-235-9333.
Thursday of the month at 6:00 P.M., at the Senior Center, to plan activities. This month's meeting will have a holiday
flair! Please call for additional information and to make your reservation.
COPING WITH THE HOLIDAYS Monday, December 14, 10:30 AM What you need to know.
Do the holidays make you feel blue? Are you sad about losses in your life or do you have financial or other worries?
Irene O'Brien, Licensed Clinical Social Worker with the Visiting Nurse Association of Wallingford will offer ways to
cope with the stresses that holiday time can bring. Please sign up if you plan to attend.
CHRISTMAS PARTY with the LHHS CHORUS Tuesday, December 22, 10:30 AM
Come listen to the wonderful sounds of the Lyman Hall High School Chorus at our Christmas Party on December 22.
The students will perform selections from their winter concert and lead us in a carol-sing. You can also expect a few
Christmas surprises! Make plans to enjoy a special holiday meal following the celebration.
NEW YEAR'S PARTY @ ZANDRI'S STILLWOOD INN Wednesday, December 30, 1:00 - 4:00 PM
Let's dress up and go out to welcome in the New Year! A delicious dinner (featuring your choice of Roast Beef,
Stuffed Filet of Sole, or Stuffed Breast of Chicken), dancing music provided by the Stan Scott Band, and a cash bar
will ensure a wonderful celebration. Tickets, which are $25.00 for members and $28.00 for non-members, are on sale
through December 21. All are welcome - invite your friends!
MOBILE MAMMOGRAPHY VAN Monday, December 28
A mammogram is a vital step in a woman's overall preventive health care. Early detection is key in the fight against
breast cancer. The Yale Digital Mobile Mammography Van will be at the Wallingford Senior Center on December 28
from 8:30 AM to 2:30 PM. If you have not had your annual mammogram, call 688-6800 to schedule your appoint-
ment.
WSC GIFT CERTIFICATES AVAILABLE - Looking for that perfect holiday gift? Consider purchasing a
Wallingford Senior Center Gift Certificate for a family member or friend. Our gift certificates, which are available at
the front desk, may be used toward senior center classes, trips, special events, and Lake View Café meals.
Computer Learning Center of Wallingford The Wallingford Family YMCA Dolphin Swim Team recently held a two-
Registration Date: Tuesday, December 8, 9:30 AM-11:30 AM week long food drive in conjunction with Governor Rell's Connecticut Day
WALLINGFORD SENIOR CENTER HOLIDAY HOURS OF OPERATION of Caring and Compassion. The team brought in 268 non-perishable food
*December 24, Christmas Eve Day, Close at 1:00 PM items that were delivered to a local food pantry. Pictured is the Purple One
* December 25, Christmas Day, Closed practice group who managed to bring in 92 items!
* December 30, New Year's Party at Stillwood Inn, 1:00 to 4:00 PM (Center closes 1:00 p.m.)
* December 31, New Year's Eve Day, Close at 1:00 PM
*January 1, New Year's Eve Day, Closed
SOCIAL SERVICES IN ORDER TO SERVE YOU BETTER, PLEASE CALL TO SCHEDULE AN APPOINT-
MENT WITH THE SOCIAL WORKER, EILEEN FLYNN, AT 265 7753. THANK YOU.
LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP - THERE WILL BE NO LOW VISION SUPPORT GROUP IN DECEMBER.
VETERANS SERVICES Tuesday, December 22, 1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
George Messier, Veterans Services Officer for the Town of Wallingford, will be available to answer questions and assist
with benefit information. An appointment is required. Please call 265 7753.
ASK AN ATTORNEY Thursday, December 10, 1:00 p.m. - 2:30 p.m.
Attorney Daniel O. Tully of Kilbourne & Tully, PC will be available to give free legal advice to those who have ques-
tions or need some direction with legal issues. To schedule an appointment, please call 265-7753.
WANT TO MAKE A DIFFERENCE? INTERFAITH VOLUNTEER CAREGIVERS TRAINING
TUESDAY, DECEMBER 8, 1:00 - 3:00 p.m.
Do you have some time and would like to make a difference in a person's life? Many seniors have no family in the
area and are unable to get to doctors or shopping without someone to provide transportation. Other seniors who live
alone are isolated and would appreciate someone to visit with and provide some socialization. You could make a big
difference in their life just by offering a few hours to meet some of these needs. A training session will be provided by
Barbara Barlok, from Interfaith Volunteer Caregivers, on Tuesday, December 3. Please consider attending by register-
ing at 265 7753.
BENEFITS SCREENING Tuesday, December 15, 10:00 a.m. - 12:00 noon
Do you often wonder if you might be eligible for any State or Federal programs? Benefits QuickLINK is a free and
confidential program which can quickly screen for eligibility. Supporting Documents are not required, but please bring
the following information with you to your appointment: 1. Monthly income (social security, pension, dividends and
interest). 2. Monthly expenses (heating, fuel, gas, electricity, water, telephone, rent or mortgage payments and medical
expenses not covered by health insurance). 3. Asset information (savings, estimated value of home and car, life insur-
ance benefits). 4. A list of all current prescriptions. Registration required. Call 265 7753 now to schedule an appoint-
ment.
DO YOU RECEIVE A PENSION? IMPORTANT MESSAGE ABOUT PENSION WITHHOLDING
Pensioners do not qualify for the Making Work Pay Credit unless they have earned income. However, the new with-
holding tables apply to all taxpayers, including pensioners. The withholding tables decreased Federal Tax withholdings
on pensions, too. If you receive a pension, you may want to contact your accountant, tax preparer, go to your local
IRS Office or use the IRS.Gov for help. The IRS has a withholding calculator that pensioners and others can use to
make sure enough tax is being withheld from their pay.
HELP WITH SNOW REMOVAL - Need assistance with snow removal? The YOUTH JOB BANK of Wallingford's
Youth & Social Services Department can help. They will find a student from Wallingford to shovel snow for a fee you
negotiate directly with the student. You can call the JOB BANK to request assistance before it snows, this way a stu-
dent will be assigned to assist you prior to a snowfall. Please call 294 2175 to request a student or to get additional
information.
FOOD STAMP PROGRAM (SNAP) - The State Nutrition Assistance Program (SNAP) (formerly the Food Stamp
Program) has changed its eligibility criteria effective July 1, 2009. Income limits have been increased and there is no
asset limit when applying for this program.
oSingle Income: $1,669.00 month oCouple Income: $2,246.00 month
For more information or to schedule an appointment to apply for this program, please call Eileen Flynn, Social Worker Family Owned...Family Friendly!
at 265 7753.
MEDICARE SAVINGS PROGRAM - IMPORTANT CHANGES TO THE MEDICARE SAVINGS PROGRAM WE LOVE KIDS!
The Medicare Savings Program assists individuals who meet the income and asset guidelines to pay their Medicare
Part B premium. Effective October l, 2009 income limits greatly increased and there is no longer an asset limit for any
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Sheehan Hockey Vs. Lyman Hall Hockey
ALUMNI HOCKEY GAME SATURDAY, JANUARY 2nd - 5:30 PM AT
CHOATE ROSEMARY HALL
Proceeds to benefit ex-Sheehan Hockey Coach & Wallingford Firefighter
Rick Garrison's Fight Against Cancer
Monetary Donations Will Be Accepted at the Door --If you cannot attend
but would like to make a donation, contact Bill Capozzi at wcapozzi@com-
cast.net.
Sheehan vs. Lyman Hall High School Game immediately following at 7
PM. Tickets for this event are: $6.00/Adults & $4.00/Students to be pur-
chased at the door.
If you are interested in playing, please contact:
Vin DiGioia at sheehan@sheehanhockey.com for Sheehan Brian Weir at
brianweir16@comcast.net for Lyman Hall
I have always thought of Christmas time, when it has come round, as a good
time; a kind, forgiving, charitable time; the only time I know of, in the long
calendar of the year, when men and women seem by one consent to open
their shut-up hearts freely, and to think of people below them as if they really
were fellow passengers to the grave, and not another race of creatures bound
on other journeys. ~Charles Dickens
Christmas is a time when you get homesick - even when you're home.
~Carol Nelson
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CT ENERGY ASSISTANCE PROGRAM 2009-2010 HEATING SEASON
**IMPORTANT: Please note New Opportunities of Greater Meriden has 45 days from the date of application to send a
letter of certification to the individual. Please keep this in mind when considering when to schedule your appointment.
The Wallingford Senior Center is an intake site for Wallingford residents, age 60 and over. The program provides
financial assistance to income-eligible households to pay for a portion of their heating costs. Applications for deliver-
able fuel (oil and kerosene only) began Tuesday, September 8 and are ongoing. First day for fuel deliveries which can
be paid for by CEAP is November 1. Gas and electric customers can call beginning November 10 for an appointment.
Income limits are presently $30,485 for a single person and $39,865 for a couple. Asset limits also apply. Applications
are by appointment only. To schedule an appointment, call 265-7753.
DAILY ACTIVITIES FOR INDEPENDENCE PROGRAM
Do you have a loved one in need of socialization and guidance throughout the day? The Daily Activities for
Independence program is a small, structured, social-model day program designed for seniors age 60 and over. With
additional support of this type seniors can be highly active and independent. Program is open Monday through Friday
from 9:15 a.m. to 2:15 p.m. with transportation available for Wallingford residents. Contact Melinda Welch, DAI
Coordinator at 203-265-7753 Ext. 205 or e-mail mwelch@wlfdseniorctr.com.
VISIT our website at www.WLFDSENIORCTR.COM!
Wallingford Powder Puff
Where did the 2009 Wallingford's Powder Puff Senior Girls come from?
By: Maggie Griffin
The year was 1992, a year to remember. It was a year of tumult, a year of
change, a year in which we could rejoice…1992!
Washington beat Michigan 34-14 in the Rose Bowl; jockey Pat Day rode Lil
E. Tee to the winner's circle in the Kentucky Derby, and the Pittsburg Penguins
pirated home the Stanley Cup. The Toronto Blue Jays snatched the World Series
from the Atlanta Braves 4-2. The Washington Redskins won Super Bowl XXVI
over the Buffalo Bills.
In 1992, it was a year of dramatic change, a year of endurance, a year that the Class of 2010's Wallingford's Lyman
Hall High School and Sheehan High School Powder Puff Girls were born to play the 38th Annual Samaha Bowl on
November 25th, 2009.
A Wallingford Town tradition during the Thanksgiving Holiday since 1972, like all the events that took place the
year the Powder Puff Girls were born, this event is not only a tradition, but an event that grew throughout the years
where it brought unity between the two Wallingford High Schools, playing the all time American Sport of Football; and
the Boys get to Cheerlead.
Both teams from both High Schools in Wallingford, ready to play in a traditional rival game, learned the value of good
sportsmanship. As quoted from many of the team players, they all said the same; "It doesn't matter if we win or lose,
what's important is how we play the game and live to remember an experience that will last a life time".
Just imagine this all began in 1972. 20 years later these players were born in 1992 to play the 38th Annual Powder
Puff game in November of 2009, the year that the New York Yankees won the World Series for the 27th time.
Congratulations on a year to remember to Sheehan and Lyman Hall Powder Puff Teams, Class of 2010!
The Meriden Fire Department Local 1148
The Meriden Fire Department Local 1148 would like to wish everyone a SAFE and HAPPY Holiday Season. We know
this can be a difficult time for many people and that's why we want you to know there's help available to all who need
it. The United Way has an outreach program to assist those in need of food, shelter, child care, energy assistance, sui-
cide prevention, senior and veteran services and more. Your Meriden Firefighters' Local 1148 urges anyone in need of
help to dial 2-1-1, a toll free, multilingual, confidential, 24-hour hotline. You can also visit their website,
www.211ct.org, for more information.
December Events at the Augusta:
The Augusta Curtis Cultural Center is located on 175 East Main Street in Meriden.
Holiday Tree & Item Display Silent Auction will continue through and including Monday, Dec. 14th. Viewing times
are as follows: Dec. 4th(11-3), 5th(5-9), 7th(6-9), 8th(2-7), 9th(10-4), 10th(2-7),11th(11-3), 12th(6-9), 14th(10-8).
There is no admission to view the Holiday Display.
Carabase Training's Fit Body Boot Camp Every Tue. & Thursday through Dec. in the Community Room
If you are interested in joining this fitness training group phone Joe Carabase at 860-918-3057. Workout is taylored to
each individuals needs.
Casino Trip to Foxwoods/MGM Grand Trip to see Daniel Taylor perform in the finals of Talent show to be held at
the MGM Grand. Departing the Center at 10:00am, Tickets are $40.00 and include $10 in food coupons, busdriver
tip, busride, and $15 in gambling coupons. Bus will depart Casino at 5:45.
August Curtis Concert Band Holiday Concert will be held on Monday, Dec. 14th at 7:00pm. Tickets will be $5.00
and they will be performing their annual Holiday Program of many Holiday favorites. Join us the ACCB for a wonder-
ful Holiday event! This will also be the last opportunity to see the Holiday display at the Center and to bid on your
favorite item!
For more information on any of the above listed events or the ACCC's upcoming events visit the website at
www.curtisculturalcenter.org or call 203-639-2856. HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!
Reindeer Facts
While these animals may not be able to soar through the skies (without the help of the jolly fellow in red that is), there
are some interesting facts about reindeer to enjoy.
· Reindeer reside in the Arctic north. They can be found in North America, Asia and Europe.
· These animals are cousins of the caribou, which are larger than reindeer.
· Reindeer can pull a full sleigh at a speed of 12 to 15 miles per hour.
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It was a banner first year for Connecticut Votes for Animals (CVA), for which I am proud to say I am a member of the
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Susan Linker, CVA saw one of the first bills it lobbied passed and signed into law by Governor Jodi Rell on July 8th,
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The Puppy Lemon Law Bill will provide greater protection for consumers and animals sold in pet stores. This new
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law encourages the sale of healthy animals in several key ways. It increases the potential veterinary reimbursement
from $200 to $500 and allows this reimbursement for congenital defects without the need to return the animal. The Oldies and Goodies
law also increases the window for this reimbursement from 15 to 20 days.
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Connecticut Votes for Animals is a nonprofit, nonpartisan, 501(c)(4) organization, whose aim is to mobilize the pub-
lic to support animals through their political choices. It serves as the political arm of the state's animal protection
movement by advocating pro-animal policies and engaging public support for the passage of animal friendly laws and
opposition to proposals harmful to animals. CVA is Connecticut's only grass roots organization that gives animals a
voice in the Legislature. Members are provided with political "scorecards" so that they can make a difference at the
polls by electing animal friendly legislators.
Connecticut Votes for Animals educates the public regarding animal protection issues and safeguards the interests of
animals by making their well-being a priority for elected leaders. During this past legislative session, CVA tracked
over 20 bills, ranging from acts concerning humane education and the treatment of elephants to an act requiring court
ordered counseling for juveniles charged or convicted of animal cruelty. Most proposed bills do not become law, espe-
cially the first time they are raised.
In the last legislative session, CVA also lobbied to pass a bill to prevent the constant tethering of dogs, i.e., chaining
or confinement. The current law is vague and animal control officers are not able to enforce it. As a result, dogs in
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Bill required additional work.
With your assistance as a CVA member, a Tethering and Confinement Bill can be passed in the next legislative ses-
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mal cruelty law.
Next session, Connecticut Votes for Animals, with animal control officers and the ASPCA, will work to get the
Tethering and Confinement Bill passed. But it cannot be done without grass roots power. As the anthropologist
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The Yalesville Volunteer Fire Department is hosting

Our 8th Annual
FILL A FIRE TRUCK WITH TOYS Event
All toys and proceeds will be donated to and distributed by the Wallingford Holiday For Giving Committee.
Please bring new unwrapped toys to the Yalesville Volunteer Fire Station at
143 Hope Hill Road, Yalesville.
Friday December 11 from 4-8PM
Saturday December 12 from 8AM-4PM
We have the BEST Birthday Parties!
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There is a remarkable breakdown of taste and intelligence at Christmastime.
Mature, responsible grown men wear neckties made of holly leaves and drink
alcoholic beverages with raw egg yolks and cottage cheese in them.
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WALLINGFORD SELECTED FOR STATEWIDE POLICY CHANGE
INITIATIVE TO REVERESE CHILDHOOD OBESITY EPIDEMIC
One of 16 Communities to join YMCA of the USA's Statewide Pioneering Healthier Communities
The Wallingford Family YMCA Joins a national movement to promote healthier options statewide
YMCA of the USA, the national resource office for the nation's 2,686 YMCAs, announced that Wallingford, CT has
been selected as one of 16 communities in three states to build a statewide network for reducing childhood obesity
through its Activate America®: Statewide Pioneering Healthier Communities (PHC) initiative. Y-USA will draw on its
successful community-level PHC model, applying its experiences and existing networks of State Alliances to support
policy, environmental and systems changes statewide.
Through Pioneering Healthier Communities, launched six years ago, local YMCAs serve as "convenors," bringing
together high-level representatives from the government, non-profit, and private sectors to drive meaningful change in
each of their communities. PHC focuses on collaborative engagement with community leaders, how environments
influence health and well-being, and the role that public policy plays in sustaining change. The Wallingford Family
YMCA applied for this program, and was selected after competitive review process. As of this summer, there are 138
communities participating in Y-USA's Healthier Communities Initiatives.
The Robert Wood Johnson Foundation (RWJF) recently committed $6.8 million over five years to support the
expansion of Y-USA's PHC initiative. Sixteen communities in Connecticut, Kentucky and Tennessee are the first group
funded by RWJF, with communities in three more states to be selected in 2010. The Activate Wallingford team will
receive funding over a two year period to cover training and seed the implementation of a community action plan.
"The Pioneering Healthier Communities' team-based approach allows communities to provide a cohesive response to
the lifestyle challenges facing our nation," said Neil Nicoll, president and chief executive officer, YMCA of the USA.
"By connecting the leaders who can affect change, communities are helping to make healthy behaviors an easier
choice, not just the healthier choice. These improved opportunities for physical activity and healthy eating are laying a
foundation to help reduce the risk of chronic diseases that have taken such a serious toll on our community members."
According to Nicoll, reducing childhood obesity will require the combination of policy and environmental changes.
Therefore, the impetus is enormous for organizing at the local and state levels to develop policy strategies that will
affect communities that are heaviest burdened by the epidemic.
The Activate Wallingford team consists of community partners John Gawlak, Director of Parks and Recreation,
Craig Turner, Director of Youth and Social Services, Mayor William Dickinson, Superintendant of Schools Salvatore
Menzo, State Representative Mary Muchinsky, Jim Ieronimo, Executive Director of the United Way of

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Meriden/Wallingford, Lynn Faria, Community Relations for Midstate Hospital, Elouise Hazelwood, Director of Health,
Larry Wood, Executive Director of Benhaven School, Blanca Santana, Executive Director of the Spanish Community
of Wallingford, Peter Struble, Town of Wallingford Fire Chief, Mark Graham, YMCA Health & Wellness Director, and
Sean Doherty, Executive Director of the Wallingford Family YMCA.
Home Comfort Fuel The effective transition of the local PHC model into statewide policy impact will require the coordination and coop-
eration of many agencies and groups. At the state level, the State of Connecticut Alliance will engage a team of state
policy-makers and leaders to examine existing policies and practices regarding childhood obesity, and to propose a
state action plan to respond to the public health challenges of obesity, physical inactivity and poor nutrition. The
statewide stakeholder team will work in partnership with the community leadership teams in Connecticut to ensure that
each community action plan supports statewide efforts.
Locally, Wallingford has sent its lead members from its PHC team, called coaches, to attend a Coaches Meeting in
September 2009 in Washington, D.C., learning methods and strategies for building and facilitating community leader-
ship teams. The complete leadership will return to Washington, D.C. in February 2010 for a conference at which it will
learn strategies for policy and environmental change from the nation's leading experts in physical activity, nutrition and
building healthy environments.
For more information about this initiative please contact Sean Doherty, Wallingford Family YMCA, 269-4497 or
sdoherty@wallingfordymca.org. You can also find more information about Pioneering Healthier Communities by
going to www.ymca.net/activateamerica.

SANTA CLAUS AND THE LITTLE JEWISH GIRL UPSTAIRS

Her name was Veronica O'Rourke. We were children together, long ago. And anything that is reminiscent of
Christmas, from a paper napkin with his nibs, Santa Claus, on it, a popcorn ball, a package tied with red ribbon, the
smell of pine needles, the merest suggestion of the season, brings back the whole lovely memory of the days when I
was five years old and Veronica and her family reminded Santa Claus not to forget the little Jewish girl upstairs. Yes,
Veronica and her entire family, her mother and father, her aunts, her uncle with the motorcycle, very kind elderly ladies
Quality Service...Affordable Price who loved children, who spent a long time helping them make their selections.
What fun we had when Veronica came upstairs with her mother during Hannukah, which occurred around the

203-235-2561 Christmas season. My mom served potato pancakes wiith confectionary sugar and apple sauce and sour cream. Our
mothers had coffee but Veronica and I had tea and milk. Oh, how grown-up we felt! Then we played the dreidel
games (Dreidel means top.) There were wonderful prizes. Veronica won a fake fur coat and muff for Big Doll which
my mother had made. My prize was a quilted carriage cover for my yellow wicker doll carriage. I remember shivering
with excitement and jumping up and down with my little friend.
Before our guests went home, mother lighted the Hanukah candles--the menorah, she carefully explained, contained
eight little Hanukah candles, and the shamas, and the holiday of Hanukah.
Some Jewish children received a little present each of the eight days of Hanukah. But in my house, Mom promised
to do special things, such as baking chocolate cake with chocolate frosting, stopping at Loft's for an ice cream soda,
where I had my hair cut in the big department store down town. Or getting a nickel for five little penny dolls sold by
the Behrendt sisters, for that was so impressive. All of the O'Rourkes, bless their hearts, put in a good word for me
with Santa. And do you know, he never forgot me.
One year I got my iron. What an unforgettable present. Just like mother's, only I could carry it all by myself.
Another year it was a little painted metal tea set. Veronica and I played together many happy hours in our special
place. Our piano had been delivered in a wooden box, shaped exactly like an upright piano. This was an ideal play-
room for two very little girls.
I remember the daily tea parties we had there, with water for tea, served in my little metal Christmas tea set, the
cups holding a thimble full, but so good with the Johnny cake Veronica contributed. Veronica brought several dolls and
Peace, joy, happiness, love… mine were always present. And we talked to them as if they were human. To us, they were.
My little brown baby doll was a favorite. She sat in the little high chair, a present from Santa Claus who was tipped
May the holiday season shower you and off by the O'Rourkes. My Indian doll in full costume sat on a shoe box turned upside down. The little sailor doll was a
your loved ones with many blessings! darling, too. And just as cuddly as the others. Veronica had a smaller family, in numbers, that is, but her big doll wore
clothes about size four. There were probably others in Veronica's family, but Big Doll is the only one that my memory
We deeply appreciate your support can project.
as customers and friends. Our utensils, or silverware, consisted of toothpicks. And our serving dishes, little enameled pans, given to us by
Mr. Halper, who lived on the third floor. He sold them in larger sizes but used these as samples. We got the obsolete.
Thanks, and Happy Holidays! I don't suppose I could enter it at this stage of my life, but what wouldn't I give for a glimpse of our special place,
Veronica's and mine, with all our furnishings in tact--the shoe box sofa, the little high chair that Santa Claus delivered
himself while I was sleeping, the enamel pans, the toothpicks, the johnny cake, the gorgeous tea set. They're all gone
now, of course, but in my memory they're as vivid as can be. And vivid also, is the memory of Veronica and all my
O'Rourkes, who never forgot at Christmastime, to remind Santa Claus about the little Jewish girl upstairs.
Selma Panthauer
Nov. 27, 1912--Oct, 31, 1992

Isn't it funny that at Christmas something in you gets so lonely for - I don't know what exactly, but it's something that
694 Old you don't mind so much not having at other times. ~Kate L. Bosher
Colony Rd., I sometimes think we expect too much of Christmas Day. We try to crowd into it the long arrears of kindliness and
Meriden humanity of the whole year. As for me, I like to take my Christmas a little at a time, all through the year. And thus I
drift along into the holidays - let them overtake me unexpectedly - waking up some find morning and suddenly saying
203-237-4379 to myself: "Why, this is Christmas Day!" ~David Grayson
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INTRODUCTION TO SPRING BOARD Healthy Eating Tips for Holiday Parties & Dinners
DIVING 'Tis the season for holiday parties, fruit cake, and eggnog! We all tend to overindulge during the holidays, hoping our
New Year's Resolutions last long enough to wipe out all the overeating and lack of physical activity that happened over
SATURDAY, DECEMBER 12, 2009 SHEEHAN POOL 3-4:30PM
the last month or so. Follow these tips from the Meriden Health Department to enjoy the holidays and still button your
This 1 ½ hour workshop will present the basics of springboard diving. There
pants come January 1, 2010!
will be demonstrations by current high school divers. Basic approach and
1. Focus on weight maintenance vs. weight loss during the holidays. If you are currently overweight and want to lose
entries will be taught and all participants will have the opportunity to practice
weight, this is not the best time to do it. Maintenance of your present weight is a big enough challenge during the holi-
each skill.
day season.
The workshop will be conducted by Margie Rodgers, Cheshire H.S. Diving
2. Plan on NOT dieting after the New Year. Anticipation of food restriction sets you up for binge-type eating over the
Coach. There will be a certified lifeguard on duty.
holidays ("after all, if I'm never going let myself eat this again after Jan. 1st, I might as well eat as much as possible
Participants must be able to swim at a Guppy level or Purple 1.
now!") Besides, restrictive diets don't work in the long run. They increase your loss of lean body mass vs. fat, slow
Participants must be 7-13 years old and able to do a standing dive off the
down your metabolism, increase anxiety, depression, food preoccupation, and binge eating, and make weight re-gain
deck. Registration is at the Wallingford Family YMCA or 203 269 4497.
more likely.
Space will be limited to 12 participants.
3. Be physically active every day. Often, our busy holiday schedules bump us off our exercise routines. Physical activi-
YMCA Members: $20 Community Participants: $30 www.walling-
ty, especially aerobic activities (like brisk walking, jogging, bicycling, and swimming) can help relieve stress, regulate
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appetite, and burn up extra calories from holiday eating. The Meriden Health Department has a limited number of
pedometers to help you keep up (or start) your walking routine during the holiday months. Please call the Community
$ CASH PAID FOR $ Health Education office at 203-630-4238 for more information.
4. Eat a light snack before going to holiday parties. It is not a good idea to arrive at a party famished. Not only are you
more likely to overeat, but you are also less likely to resist the temptation of eating the higher fat and higher calorie
Toyotas, Hondas, Nissan, Suzukis, foods. Eating off of a small plate, or even a napkin, can help control portion sizes.
Subarus, Geo - Any Condition. 5. Make a plan. Think about where you will be, who you will be with, what foods will be available, what foods are
really special to you (that you really want to eat) versus those that you could probably do without, what are your per-
Running or not crashed and burned. sonal triggers to overeat and how can you minimize them. Once you've thought about all of these things, make a plan
of action. It's much easier to deal with a difficult social eating situation if you've already planned for it.
Other makes and models - 6. Take steps to avoid recreational eating. While some foods are more calorie-dense than others, no food will make you
gain weight unless you eat too much of it. At parties and holiday dinners, we tend to eat (or keep eating) beyond our
Motorcycles, ATVs and more. body's physical hunger simply because food is there and eating is a "social thing." To avoid recreational eating, con-
Call 203-600-4431 sciously make one plate of the foods you really want. Eat it slowly--enjoying and savoring every tasty bite. Then, when
you're done, pop a mint or stick of gum in your mouth, get a tall glass of water and sip on it throughout the night, or
position yourself away from the buffet table or food trays to keep yourself from overeating.
7. Reduce the fat in holiday recipes. There are plenty of low fat and low calorie substitutes that are amazingly tasty. Try
Do You Suffer From... using applesauce in place of oil in your favorite holiday breads; use egg substitutes in place of whole eggs; try plain
nonfat yogurt in place of sour cream. Magazines and the internet are great resources for reduced calorie and reduced fat
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holiday recipes. Give them a try, and share your cooking creations with friends and family.
Neck *Irritability / Mood Swings 8. Choose your beverages wisely. Alcohol is high in calories. Liquors, sweet wines and sweet mixed drinks contain
Shoulders *Digestive Troubles 150-450 calories per glass. By contrast, water and diet sodas are calorie-free. If you choose to drink, select light wines
Lower Back *Headaches and beers, and use non-alcoholic mixers such as water and diet soda. Limit your intake to 1 or 2 alcoholic drinks per
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*Allergies / Sinus Problems 9. Enjoy good friends and family. Although food can be a big part of the season, it doesn't have to be the focus.
Try Chiropractic! Holidays are a time to reunite with good friends and family, to share laughter and cheer, to celebrate and to give thanks.
Focus more on these other holiday pleasures, in addition to the tastes of holiday foods. The important thing to remem-
North Colony ber is balance and moderation. It's OK to eat too much once in a while. Just relax, enjoy the holidays, and remember
what the season is all about.
Chiropractic & 10. Maintain perspective: Overeating one day won't make or break your eating plan. And it certainly won't make you
Don’t Suffer with Rehabilitation Center gain weight! It takes days and days of overeating to gain weight. If you over-indulge at a holiday meal, put it behind
you. Return to your usual eating plan the next day without guilt or despair.
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Dr. Timothy S. Pepin Holiday Gift Fair At Temple B’nai Abraham
Help You!
1245 S. Broad Street Chiropractic Physician
Meriden, CT—November 18, 2009—It’s time to shop for Chanukah gifts at Temple B’nai Abraham’s Holiday Gift Fair
Wallingford See How Chiropractic Sunday December 6th and Sunday December 13th from 9:30 a.m. to 12:30 p.m, at 127 East Main Street, Meriden. We
have everything you need for family and friends: cards, cd’s, candles, creative crafts, fun toys, kitchen items, cool mez-
203-949-2225 Can Help You! zuzahs for kids, menorahs, adorable stuffed chanukah bears, and much more. Gift wrapping is available. For
more information, please call (203) 235-2581.

About Temple B’nai Abraham

Temple B'nai Abraham is a Conservative synagogue which provides religious, educational and social programming for
all age groups in a warm, extended family atmosphere. Services are egalitarian, and feature congregational singing. All
are welcome.

COME AND JOIN US

Bring an ornament to put on the tree.....Combined Service ( English & Hungarian) at 10am on December 20, 2009 at
the Evangelical & Reformed U.C.C. 105 So Cherry St. Wallingford,
Decorating the Christmas Tree and singing Christmas Carols followed by a Delicious Luncheon at noon.
Donation $10.00
Call Esther for more information 203-269-2708

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'Tis the Season for Health Care
On December 10th, Meriden Children First Initiative is hosting what it hopes
to be the last ever pasta fundraiser needed to help a deserving person bank-
rupted by astronomical health care bills and our broken health care system.
The pasta fundraiser will be held on Thursday December 10th, 6:00 p.m. at
Hanover Elementary School in South Meriden. Proceeds to benefit Deb
Hunsinger, former owner of Deb's Deli in South Meriden. Deb has lost her
home and business due to astronomical health care bills for cancer treatment
and lack of insurance.
We'll talk about how through state and federal health care reform, people
can get affordable quality health care so no one needs fundraisers to help pay
medical bills, and patients can focus on healing instead of bills.
Presenters will include Representative Christopher Donovan, Speaker of
the Connecticut House of Representatives, and Juan Figueroa, President of the
Universal Health Care Foundation of Connecticut.
There is no charge for the dinner, please make a donation instead. Please
RSVP by calling Marissa Cardona at 203-815-5680, Joan Goodman at 203-
815-0355, or Barbara Cockfield at 203-815-5758.
Mistletoe Origins
Mistletoe is a plant that has a long history of use. It dates back to the ancient
Druids who saw the plant as a sign of peace and goodwill. Warring parties
would actually temporarily cease battle upon seeing mistletoe. Perhaps mistle-
toe is best known for love and fertility. In some European cultures, a kiss
under mistletoe is a proposal of marriage.
Celebrations
Congratulations to Platt High School's Junior Varsity Volleyball Team on a
great season.
They were 17-1 during regular season and undefeated champions during JV
Tournament play held at New Britain High School. Team members: Kim
Arthur, Nicole Carbone, Louise Carroza, Vincenza DiDomnico, Jessica
Gaj, Sammy Garlock, Erin O'Neil, Jill Pascale, Rachael Riello, Lindsey
Santiago, Jayme Standish, Mamisha Trimmier. JV Coach: Erica Priebe,
Head Coach: Lou Gianacopolos, and Assistant Coach Emily LaBissoniere
The Most Amazing Story
By Dorothy Gonick
Friends, I have the most amazing story to tell about what happened to us at our Inn recently while we were so rushed
with all the travelers coming to register for the census that Rome had ordered. One day I was so very weary because so
many families filled our Inn to overflowing. I had given our last mat and blanket to a family to use in a corner of the
common room and told Stephen we could not possibly take in anyone else, when a couple arrived with the woman rid-
ing on a donkey. I saw that the young woman was almost ready to give birth and realized our noisy, crowded inn was
certainly no place for birthing, but we thought of the stable where it is quiet with hay to rest upon. I gave Stephen my
shawl to spread over the hay and he led them to the stable. While he was attending their donkey, Joseph the husband,
spread hay into a thick mat and my shawl became the coverlet for his wife, Mary, to rest upon. When I came into the
stable, Mary gave me the sweetest smile and I was glad to serve them some fishcakes, bread, and a handful of dates.
Joseph blessed the meal and thanked us for the food and a place to rest their weary bodies, so we left them with a small
oil lamp and went back to our Inn, for we too were very weary.
In the nighttime, singing voices and footsteps on the roadway awakened us. We ventured out as shepherds came
toward us asking us if we knew where the newborn babe in the manger was. At first we thought they were crazy but
then turned to look in our starlit stable and were astonished to see Mary's newborn baby wrapped in swaddling cloths
and cradled in her arms.
The shepherds went in, knelt down and worshipped this tiny infant. We watched and listened to them tell Joseph
and Mary about angels visiting with the news that our long-awaited Savior was born, and being told to search for him
in a stable. They said a chorus of angels then sang, "Glory to God in the highest and peace to men of good will." The
glory of God in our stable was overpowering and we dropped to our knees in wonder that this prophecy was fulfilled in
our village.
Stephen and I feel so blessed to have sheltered them in our humble stable. Blessed Mary and Joseph met our gaze
with smiles of thankfulness for the kindness shown them in their hour of need. We felt that our simple gift of shelter
and nourishment had become a most blessed gift, especially since it was done in our weariness. We asked God's bless-
ing to be with them, with hope of seeing this long-awaited Savior again in days to come.
Wallingford Public Library Children's Library Presents December Programs
Holiday for Giving
You can make the holidays special for a child in Wallingford by bringing new, or barely used, children's books to the
Library for the town's Holiday for Giving Program. Please bring unwrapped books to the Library by December 10th.
The Following is a list of FREE programs available at the Wallingford Public Library this December. In keeping with
the spirit of the season however, we ask that you try to bring a non-perishable food donation each time you attend a
program if possible. The food will go to a local food pantry.
Happy Hanukkah! Thursday, December 17th at 4:30 p.m. In the Children's Program Room
Come celebrate Hanukkah through story, song and craft at the Wallingford Public Library. This program will be pre-
sented by Risa Walter of the Jewish Community Center of Greater New Haven. Sign up for this program begins on
Monday, November 9th.
Christmas by the Fire Wednesday, December 16th 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. In the Children's Library at the Wallingford Public
Library
Join us by the light of the fire in the Children's Library where we will share Christmas stories and songs.
This is a drop-in program and all are welcome.
Films for Kids Friday, December 18th at 10:30 a.m. and 1:30 p.m.
The following films will be shown in the Children's Program Room at the Wallingford Public Library.
Great Joy Too Many Tamales In the Month of Kisleve
This is a drop-in program and all are welcome.
Take Kwon Do Tournament Winners
The tournament was held at the University of Mass: Lowell, on November
8th. Richard Ans' 5th annual International Championship. Shown in the
photo are Joseph Gervasi (11) who won a Bonze medal in high jump 6ft
2in. in boys ages 11-13 and a Silver medal in board breaking, boys ages 11-
13. Also Daniel Gervasi (8) who won a Silver medal in Black/White form
boys ages 8-10, a Gold medal in high jump 5ft. 8inc - boys 8-10 and 4th
place good sportsmen medal sparing boys ages 8-10.
They attend Cho's Champion Taekwondo, 970 N. Colony Road in
Wallingford.
I also want to congratulate Kyleigh Knoob of Meriden, Daniel Deberry
and Katherine Kelly/ Watson both of Wallingford on their wins.
HOLIDAY LIGHTS ON THE TROLLEY
Enjoy a cozy, heated trolley ride while viewing holiday light displays.. Weekends starting November 28 through
December 20 at The Shore Line Trolley Museum. Evening hours: Sat and Sun 6:00 pm to 9:00 pm. . The Shore Line
Trolley Museum, 17 River St, East Haven. Adults $8, Seniors $6, Children (2-15) $4.
For additional information contact The Shore Line Trolley Museum at 203-467-6927 or www.bera.org.
Mark T. Sheehan High School
Wallingford, Connecticut
Sheehan seniors, Leann Bickford, Janet Early, Elizabeth Kadow, Michael Kadow, Laura Kinkead, Seth Ravid, and Tori
Sheldon, have been named commended students in the 2010 National Merit Scholarship Program. This honor is in
recognition for their exceptional academic promise as demonstrated by their performance on the Preliminary
SAT/National Merit Scholarship Qualifying Test. Commended students represent the top five percent of more than 1.5
million students who took the test.
The Church does not superstitiously observe days, merely as days, but as memorials of important facts. Christmas
might be kept as well upon one day of the year as another; but there should be a stated day for commemorating the
birth of our Saviour, because there is danger that what may be done on any day, will be neglected. ~Samuel Johnson
If "ifs" and "buts" were candy and nuts, wouldn't it be a Merry Christmas? ~Don Meredith
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always sitting in the back seat?" Ah, so many questions. Your mind wanders again…
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beckoning your Student, you think back, your mind wanders… "Leaving him 12 years ago fake-crying at day care in
the morning was 'a piece of cake' compared with this…" and you wait for that moment when the discussions begin.
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2009 Food Drive by Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts in Southington,

Wallingford, Meriden, North Haven and Hamden Exceeds Previous Year's
Totals
Cub Scouts and Boy Scouts from Sleeping Giant District (Southington, Wallingford, Meriden, North Haven and
Hamden) recently collected over 35,980 pounds of non-perishable food items as part of their 21st annual "Scouting for
Food" program to collect food for the needy. This community service project is also part of the activities to celebrate
the 100th anniversary of Boy Scouts of America.
"This was an incredible year!" said Garry Desjardins, chairperson for the event. "Last year the District total was
about 26,343 pounds. Scouts in Meriden, Southington and Wallingford increased the amount collected by 3000 pounds
in each of these towns."
Scouts distributed notices to homes in their area and then picked up the donations the following weekend. Boy
Scouts and their families sorted the food by categories at central collection sites. All food collected was donated to a
local town food bank. The receiving organizations are Southington - Bread for Life; Wallingford - Master's Manna
Food Pantry; Meriden - Salvation Army; North Haven - North. Haven Food Pantry and Hamden - Hamden Food &
Fuel Bank. Forty Cub Scout and Boy Scout units and over 540 people volunteered for this community service project.
Participating in this annual food drive is part of the Sleeping Giant District's commitment to the Good Turn for
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The Path of Self-Transformation WALLINGFORD JUNIOR WOMAN'S CLUB

By Jennifer Jenkins
We all have the power to transform ourselves as the divine creative spirit is instilled within our souls. It is the aware-
ness and belief of this power that helps set us free from the limitations we have imposed upon ourselves. Once we
become aware of these self-imposed thoughts, we can begin to transform our thoughts about ourselves and our lives in
a more positive light. Of course, the hardest part is making the decision to do so and sticking with that decision, which
requires effort and self-discipline. But, once made, your life will never be the same.
It may sound trite, but by changing our thoughts we do change our lives. It's amazing how the simplest affirmations
we can say and/or write down for our selves can work their power in our lives. For instance, by saying, "I am smart
and capable," helps one to believe in one's self, which is one of the essential keys to self-transformation.
Listening to the divine voice within is another key to self-transformation. When we quiet our minds to meditate and
let go of all the chaotic and negative thoughts, we can tune into who we really are. We can pray for guidance and true
understanding of our potential and then stop and listen, which is the heart of meditation - heartfelt communion with the
divine.
Once we truly become aware of who we really are and what we want to create in our lives, we can set goals to
accomplish this. I often find that by setting realistic goals, and sometimes even small ones, helps to build confidence
in myself and my dreams. By setting simple goals and realistic deadlines to accomplish them, we all can embark on a
firm path to achieving these goals.
Remember when you embark on this transformational path that you are never alone. We all have Angels around us
and who are there to help us. All we have to do is ask for their help, and it is given. You see, they, are in our corner to
work toward fulfilling our highest potential. So, if, for instance, you feel it is your mission in life to become an inspi-
rational speaker, you can ask your Angels for help in accomplishing this. Of course, the more specific you are in your
requests, the easier it is for the Angels to help you, as set forth in the following example:
"My dear Angels, please help me to connect with individuals and organizations that will play an instrumental role on
my path to becoming a powerful inspirational speaker to help motivate people transform their lives for the better."
By applying these personal and spiritual tools, one can positively transform one's life. It begins with a simple deci-
sion, a decision that can profoundly change your life and, by ripple effect, the lives of others.
ANNOUNCES "LUNCH WITH SANTA"
Santa Claus will make a special visit to town for lunch with families at the
Wallingford Junior Woman's Club's "Lunch with Santa" at the Wallingford
Parks and Recreation Department on Sunday, December 13, from 12 p.m. to
2 p.m.
Lunch will include pizza, drinks, and doughnuts. There will be time for
children to visit with Santa Claus. Families must bring their own cameras to
take photos. Reservations for "Lunch with Santa" are required, and can be
made by contacting Jaime Bowen, Membership, at 203-294-0017.
The Wallingford Junior Woman's Club (WJWC) is a non-profit civic and
community service organization open to any Wallingford woman. WJWC's
diverse membership includes single women, stay-at-home moms, profession-
als, and retirees with a desire to improve the Wallingford community through
volunteering their time and talents. The club provides members with oppor-
tunities for personal enrichments, and to improve leadership skills and form
new and lasting friendships.
WJWC was incorporated in 1954 and is a 501(c) (3) tax-exempt organization,
and a member of the Connecticut Junior Women, Inc. www.cjw.org. WJWC
projects include the annual Townwide Spelling Bee; the Children's Game
Area at Celebrate Wallingford; co-sponsoring Candidate's Forum with the
League of Women Voters; adopting a local family during the holidays; Cell
Phones for Soldiers; the new Little Miss & Mister WJWC announces "Lunch
with Santa"
What you need to know.

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If you go to this web site, www.LetsSayThanks.com you can pick out a thank you card and Xerox will print it and it
will be sent to a soldier that is currently serving in Iraq . You can't pick out who gets it, but it will go to a member of
the armed services.
How AMAZING it would be if we could get everyone we know to send one!!! It is FREE and it only takes a second.
Wouldn't it be wonderful if the soldiers received a bunch of these? Whether you are for or against the war, our sol-
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This takes just 10 seconds and it's a wonderful way to say thank you. Please take the time and please take the time to
pass it on for others to do. We can never say enough thank you's.

Wallingford Optical Kiwanis of Wallingford

Diane Mintich Installs New Officers & Recognizes Kiwanian of the Year
Congratulations to Jan Donahue, President, Kiwanis Club! Joining her
Licensed Optician, team are:
Diane DeLibero, Secretary; Toni Walker, Secretary; John O'Brien,
A.B.O. & N.C.L.E. Treasurer and Charlie Flynn Treasurer. In addition - board of directors
Certified include: Cindy Semrau, Kelly Morrison, Bill Cook, Tim Wall.
Congratulations to Kelly Morrison - Kiwanian of the Year! Kelly has been
James Comeau instrumental with the organization and success of the Annual Turkey Trot
Road Race as well as the Kiwanis liaison to the Cook Hill K-Kids.
Licensed Optician, Kiwanis meets the 2nd and 4th Wednesday nights from 6-7:30 at KT
Baxter's Restaurant. For more information call Cindy @ 269-9891. Join us!
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From Our Home

To Yours...
wishing you and your family
a truly festive season filled Charles Uznanski Trail at Orchard Glen

with lots of love, laughter

The Wallingford Land Trust has named the main trail at Orchard Glen in
honor of Charlie
Uznanski who has been instrumental in many WLT projects at various
and celebration. sites. He has been a Board member for many years and was steward of
many Land Trust sites. Family members who came to the dedication were
his wife Helen, son Richie and his wife Sue, daughter Sue Zoni and her
husband David, grandsons Dan and Will Uznanski. Land Trust members
attending were president David Ellis, vice president Debby Voelker, Caryl
and Ken Ryan, Robert Page, Carol Borsari, Mary Heffernon, Joyce
Kowalczyk as well as Kathy Granucci of Quinnipiac River Linear Trail and
volunteer Matt Caruso. This trail includes a woodland walk with wildflow-
ers, birds and streams. Orchard Glen can be accessed from Barnes Road
North at cul-de-sac.
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Old Man Announcing The Book Seller

By Chris Randolph The Book Seller is a wonderful new book store at the Wallingford Public
"Old man look at my life, I'm a lot like you were." Just one simple line from the Neil Young song, "Old Man," from his Library. Gently used books, CDs, DVDs, videos and other materials are
Harvest album. I look back at the seventies and the promise I made to myself that this would not be the case. It was available for children, young adults, and adults. For the month of December,
wrong of me to think that, but such is the ignorance of youth. It was an interesting time with the Vietnam War and the all holiday items are two for the price of one. In January, we will be having
rebellion against past generations in full force. our "snow day special" offering paperback books at 3 for $1.00, a great time
My father was a good man. He cared about others. He befriended all those he met, and even if he disagreed with to stock up for winter! The store is located in back of the library, look for the
them, he kept it to himself and focused on what they agreed on. Why he became a target for my rebellion is clear to me green awning. Hours are Mondays 10:00 to 6:00, Wednesdays 1:00 to 8:00
now - he was an easy target. He often hid from the world. The moments that he went out and showed his positive side and Saturdays 10:00 to 2:00. Book donations are taken upstairs during
were rare. It was almost as if he had to recover for a while, rebuild his confidence, and then he could face the world library hours, or large donations can be taken on Tuesdays and Thursdays.
again. This cycle is what I promised myself I would not do. I never attacked him directly, except to push him out of For information, call the library at 203-265-6754.
these hiding periods he had.
He also was obsessive/compulsive. He would check the front door to the house 10 times before he could leave. This
compulsive checking and rechecking always happened while I was waiting frustrated in the car. The frustration grew 10
fold as I got older and his OC increased, as well. I remember quite clearly how checking the front door became check-
ing all the doors in until he could finally go to the car, and shortly after he would leave again to double check if the
stove had been turned off. There are times I laugh about this. There are times I cry about this. What could I have done
for him? How could I have helped him more? Normal reactions I suppose. Ones that all of us go through when faced
with any type of problem a loved one faces or is challenged with. Now I realize that there is nothing I could have done.
He had his demons as we all have.
Like him, I now focus on the positive that we shared. His love of people. His gregarious nature. His charity. Mostly
it was his ability to communicate with children that I strive for the most. Even in his darkest hours he was liberated by
his grandchildren, and it was so beautiful to see the smiles that he brought to their faces.
Our relationship grew much better over time. I began to understand both his problems and my own. I never stopped
pushing him, though. When he did not want to attend a family event, I sometimes would wait till I forced him to come
with me. Sometimes this worked and sometimes it didn't. I don't regret those efforts at the end of his life as he changed
into the gregarious man once he finally did arrive.
I am still traumatized by the very ending of his life, though. The pain and suffering he felt against a losing battle
with Melanoma. The anger I felt towards him for not getting it checked as recommended after he had a successful The Maryheart
surgery to remove his first case of it. I thought that his obvious lack of care for his health was just another way of hid-
ing again. Maybe death would be the best way to end the suffering he faced his whole life. Crusaders
The time came when I had enough and forced him to go to the hospital. The disease had come back of course, just as
I knew it would. It had spread far into his body. Again, when offered with the hope of an extensive program to fight the Bookstore
disease, he refused. The trips became more frequent to the hospital, as his lungs would often fill with fluid. I still
remember the traumatizing moments for me. He was so ill and his lungs had filled again. I rented a wheelchair and Catholic Books * Religious Items
insisted on bringing him to the hospital - again. He refused to be seen in a wheelchair when he left the house. So he
made me check 5 times to be sure that no neighbors were out. He had become so week that I had to carry him to the Gifts * Church Goods
car. The anger that showed on his face was piercing. He made me stop the car before I drove off, he looked at the
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understood. I stayed day and night as did most of my family, especially my Mom. Mom would climb into bed with him
when night came and hold him close. He surprised even the staff of the Hospice as he clung onto life even when he no
longer spoke and was no longer coherent.
I knew he was afraid of death at the end. I remember my last words to him: "It's alright Dad. It's a beautiful place Only The
you are going to. Your loved ones are waiting for you. Just let go. Let go of the pain and find peace." I walked out of
his area for a moment as the nurse came in to clean him and change his bedding. Seconds later came that last horrible
rattling breath and he was gone. I know I am left to deal with those last months, and I try the best I can. It's funny
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By Bill Mercuri
"Okay, everyone. Time to eat!" These are the much-anticipated words my cousins and I have looked forward to every
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Violet; with her sisters Madeline and Rose, together they have always been known to us all as "the aunts."
The aunts gave birth to a family holiday tradition, which we have come to call the annual niece and nephew dinner.
While I've never asked any of them why they decided that it would be a good idea for them to bring together 18 or so
of their brothers' and sisters' children and their spouses once a year for an afternoon of family fellowship, I have a theo-
ry.
There has always been a very strong and loving bond among the aunts and all of us cousins. I include the husbands
and wives as part of our direct relationship because this family is so close that there can be no distinction. The rela-
tionship that the aunts have always had with us goes well beyond the obligatory birthday card or Christmas present.
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These extraordinary women immersed themselves into our lives and were active participants in our childhoods and as
we became young adults. They helped mold us into the people we are today. As we grew up and started lives and fam-
ilies of our own, the cousins drifted a bit apart and didn't see each other as much, if at all, during the year. The aunts,
in their usual selfless manner, wanted to see us all together at least once a year to catch up with one another and share
life's ups and downs. And, while this certainly isn't their motivation, it provides us all a chance to express our thanks
and love for these special ladies.
This mini family reunion is carried out in the usual aunts' fashion meaning that everything is carried out with
extreme care right down to the smallest detail. There is no mistaking that this event is about the affection that they
have for their family. There are handwritten invitations and individually wrapped favors at each place setting.
Homemade ravioli and meatballs and wine served in a small carafe highlight the meal. Auntie Rose's world famous
dessert and fresh perked coffee serves as a reminder for us to save room. "Come on, eat! We've got plenty. Bill, you'll
have more, right? Sure, you'll have more!" The wine flows much like the Sinatra and Bing Crosby coming from the
old-style radio sitting on the shelf in the kitchen where it's always rested.
As the afternoon progresses, I become absorbed in the picture of which I'm very fortunate to be a part. I look around
the small but comfortable room and think of the many rich memories we all have of this house. I take in this scene with
all of my senses. I see smiles and hear laughter. There's no bickering or hard feelings. I feel the warmth of what a gen-
uinely loving and caring family is; and I can taste the wonderful food, not only that which is before us but all of the
meals we've enjoyed here over the years. Most memorable are gramma's Sunday macaroni lunches after church, com-
plete with fresh Bonazinga bread. GIONFRIDDO’S
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fullest and in many ways are people for others, bringing light to the lives of the many they touch throughout the year.
So from all of us to you, aunts Vi, Mal, Faith and Rose, much love and thanks for all that you have meant to us and
continue to mean to us and our families, now and always. Boun Natale!
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For centuries men have kept an appointment with Christmas. Christmas
means fellowship, feasting, giving and receiving, a time of good cheer, home.
~W.J. Ronald Tucker
Even as an adult I find it difficult to sleep on Christmas Eve. Yuletide excite-
ment is a potent caffeine, no matter your age. ~Carrie Latet
Does Anyone Have A Box Truck?
All of us at Master's Manna continue to pray for a 10 - 14 foot box truck which is desperately needed for food pick ups
at the Connecticut Food Bank. It is very difficult to coordinate these tasks as efficiently as we'd like to without a Truck.
Masters Manna serve's the Communities of Wallingford ,and 10 other Communities in the area.The Pantry is open 3
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Friday's .You will be contributing in helping others in need in these hard times ahead.

MOCKTAILS & MORE

With the holidays quickly approaching, it's time to entertain. Are you looking for a special drink or appetizer that
everyone can enjoy? The Meriden and Wallingford Substance Abuse Council has their annual MOCKTAILS &
MORE booklet ready with all new recipes to add to your holiday parties. All of the drink recipes are alcohol free and
have been contributed by local friends and colleagues of the Council.
For a free copy of the booklet you can call 203-294-3591 or email mawsac@aol.com. The recipes are on the
MAWSAC website at www.mawsac.org. The Council reminds our friends that if you drink this holiday season, drink
responsibly and make this a healthy and safe time for everyone.
Here are a few recipes you can try:
HOT CHICKEN SALAD
3 cups cooked chicken, diced
¾ tsp. salt
1 ¼ cups mayonnaise
2 ¼ tbsp. Onion, chopped
3 tbsp. Lemon juice
¾ cups almonds, sliced

DRUM LESSONS
3 cups celery, diced
1 cup cheese, grated
2 cups potato chips, crushed
Attention Parents I give your Mix all ingredients, except cheese and potato chips. Place in baking dish, top with cheese and potato chips. Bake for
10 minutes or so in a 450 degree oven. This is a very flexible dish and amounts can be increased or
child focus & confidence! decreased.
NOTE: With a salad and hot rolls, it makes a very satisfying meal and can be made ahead and refrigerated and popped
Students are welcome from beginner to advanced by into the oven when needed.
Jon Peckman, author of the nationally renowned MOLDED CRANBERRY WALDORF SALAD
2 cups hot water
book “Picture Yourself Drumming.” Lessons are 1 large pkg. Lemon Jello
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Call 203.537.4112 or visit ½ tsp. salt
2 cups chopped apples
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1/2 cup nuts, broken (Walnuts, Pecans)
Mayonnaise for garnish, Optional
Dissolve gelatin in water; add cranberry juice and salt; chill until partially set; stir in apples, celery and nuts; pour into
2 quart mold. Chill until set.
NOTE: For a fluffy dressing for fruit salad, blend 1 cup of softened vanilla ice cream with 3 tablespoons of mayon-
naise.
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