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deceased experientially, and then forgives and resurrects the subject of the
fantasy.
Between Sessions. New anger is automatically experienced and verbally
expressed, thus abreacting it, by means of a paradoxical anger assignment.
The assignment enables the patient to both feel and verbally express new
anger without anxiety, thus ameliorating any depression remaining after the
first session and preventing its recurrence, preventing guilt, preventing grief,
preventing explosions, precluding sarcasm, and preventing both the con-
scious and unconscious acting-out of new/future anger.
The assignment is finite, and, in patients who practice it conscientiously
between sessions as they live at the Institute, can be completed in three to
four weeks, with variations in time depending on the age of the patient and
his previous experiences in verbal/insight therapies.
Penultimate Session. A positive self-image is experienced as the patient
defines himself experientially by means of a structured fantasy in which he is
placed in an isolated environment with nothing to draw upon but his inner
resources which, by this time, are strong and positive, and paradoxically
arrives at an experiential definition of his fundamental personality character-
istics.
Final Session (Fifth or Eighth). Intermediate anger is removed by structuring it
into a verbal format known as Structured Anger which is then expressed to
the object of the anger, first in fantasy in the office, then in the real world.
Intermediate anger recurs throughout life and frequent structuring becomes
a part of the new life-style of the patient.
PET has been developed for approximately five years. It has been used on
an unselected patient population of more than 192 patients in the neurotic,
psychotic, psychophysiological, personality disorder, chronic alcoholism,
homosexual, and drug abuse diagnostic categories. There have been seven
drop-outs in the middle of therapy, but there have been no failures in the
patients who have completed both the therapy and .the between-session
assignments. The drop-outs are ascribed to the acting out of displaced
aboriginal mother-anger towards the therapist before said anger could be
abreacted, which normally takes place in the third 6r fourth session.
There are complete tape recordings o f all sessions, including follow-up
sessions of many of these patients. During the follow-up sessions, patients
report significant positive changes in virtually every area of their lives,
including behavioral, ideational, and emotional, and express a feeling of
having been psychologically "reborn."
Treatment requires a total of 40 to 60 hours, with a follow-up session two
to three months after discharge. Six-month, one-year, and longer follow-ups
have also been recorded on tape. Minor variations in the duration of
treatment are related to the age of the patient, his ability to correctly perform
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Part One
Part One of PET coincides with the first session, which usually lasts 10 to 14
hours. During the first 5 hours or so, an extensive history is taken. Direct,
structured questions are asked in a nonthreatening manner about the
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think of something that has always frightened him, and to try to force himself
to be anxious about the image. In attempting to force anxiety, the patient
experiences none. Although therapy has not yet begun, this is done to show
the patient that the therapy will not be painful, and that the Anxiety Paradox
works. The Anxiety Paradox applies to all other emotions, which can not be
experienced by virtue of trying to force them. The patient is now guided
through 8 to 14 fantasies which deal with fairly universal fears as well as
patient-specific fears. The fantasies do not have to seem real to the patient,
nor do they have to relate to the patient's actual life situation, although in
the large majority of cases they do. During each fantasy, the patient is asked
to try to force his anxiety, and consequently, experiences none. The universal
fears with which the fantasies deal are death, cancer, rejection, failure (work
or career), expressing anger to a loved one, latent homosexuality, physical
torture, gang rape, guilt, being old and alone, death of a loved one (child,
parent, mate), extreme poverty, physical handicap such as blindness, public
speaking on an unfamiliar topic, impotence in men, and other universal
fears. In addition to universal fears, structured fantasies are given on patient-
specific fears, i.e., infidelity by a specific love-object, loss of a specific job,
etc. The patient does not experience anxiety during the fantasies. Each
fantasy takes two or three minutes. As the patient perceives each fantasy
without experiencing simultaneous anxiety , the specific fear portrayed in
the fantasy disappears. It is to be noted that we are talking about wide,
sweeping fears and not phobias. Moreover, at the end of the 8 to 14 fantasies,
even fears which have not been portrayed in the specific fantasies are gone,
since fear of anxiety, as distinct from anxiety itself, is hypothesized to be the
basis for all fears. This conclusion was demonstrated during the course of the
fear fantasies of PET.
The fantasies must be extremely exaggerated and presented in their most
grotesque form. Repeatedly, a patient is asked to try to force the experience of
anxiety in the face of these catastrophic fantasies. Thus, he experiences no
anxiety. This is implicit in the nature of paradox. After experiencing these 8
to 14 fantasies without simultaneous anxiety, a patient's sense of self is
drastically altered. Perhaps for the first time in conscious memory, he now
feels that he is in control of himself and his life. On a psychodynamic level,
he is now in control of anxiety (perhaps for the first time), by virtue of being
capable of not feeling anxiety at will. Thus, he no longer fears anxiety and
must no longer base his entire intrapsychic structure, emotional system,
human relationships, ideation, and behavior on the compulsion to avoid
emotional pain. This shift in control produces a strong sense of self, and is
responsible for the disappearance of symptoms.
A second phenomenon occurs after experiencing the 8 to 14 fantasies.
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the car of his life to see where he does not feel free to go, what turns he can't
make, what exits he can't get off at, what lanes he does not feel free to drive
in, what speed he is not free to drive at, etc. Patients reply that they feel free
to drive anywhere. The patient is told to ask his stomach if he now has
freedom, control, and responsibility for his own life for the first time, and he
replies that he does. The "box of his life" is then shown to him again and he
is asked if the old rules by which he guided his life still exist for him or if they
remained inside the box after he plummeted out--namely, he is asked if there
are any more "Musts, mustn'ts, shoulds, shouldn'ts, can'ts, ought to's,
oughtn'ts, dasn'ts," etc. Patients reply that the old rules of their lives no
longer apply. The patient is told to make a sincere effort to "lose" the key in
fantasy, to give it away to people who are dear to him and make them
number one and himself number two. The patient is told to pretend in
fantasy that he wakes up one day with total amnesia, in a hotel room with
strange clothing and no identification, that he has no recollection of what his
name and address are, and to walk over to a policeman and say he has
amnesia and needs help. He is told to make this fantasy extremely vivid. At
the height of the fantasy, the therapist asks the amnesic patient, "Are you
still Number One?" and the patient replies that he is. The therapist then
asks the patient if the " k e y " he has is in his " h e a d , " as a function of
memory. The patient replies that it is not, since he is still number one with
all memory gone. The therapist asks the patient where his " k e y " is located,
and patients reply, " I n my stomach."
Following these metaphors, the 30 to 50 fears on the list which were
elicited during the history are read back to the patient and he is told to listen
with his stomach to see if he still feels any of these fears. Patients report that
their fears are gone. The long list of the patient's problems is then read to
him, leaving out only those problems pertaining to anger and depression,
and the patient is asked if he has any problems left. Patients answer no. The
anger/depression problems are left out because Part One of the therapy
abreacts fear of emotional pain (hence fears and inner problems) but does
not yet abreact anger. However, between 40% and 60% of the patient's
previous depression does in fact go away during the fear fantasies, even
before the anger part of the therapy is begun and despite the fact that the
patient has not yet begun to do his anger assignment. This is ascribed to the
fact that the patient felt unrecognized anger (namely depression) at having
been at the mercy of all his fears throughout his life, and when the fears
disappear, as they do in the first session during the fear fantasies, a
substantial, and, to the patient, recognizable portion of his previous depres-
sion disappears as well, along with the disappearance of fears, fear of
emotional pain, and compulsion to avoid it, and along with the appearance
of his subjective, experiential feeling of being " N u m b e r O n e . "
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Part Two
The second part of PET is devoted to aboriginal, new, and intermediate anger.
As mentioned above, aboriginal anger is defined as anger directed towards
parents, stepparents, siblings, and love-objects (displaced aboriginal).The
state of being a child carries with it the state of total physical and emotional
dependence upon the parents, and it is impossible to feel dependent without
feeling angry towards the object of one's dependence. Although there are
certainly additional reasons for anger towards parents, (rejection, abuse,
abandonment, etc.), dependency-caused anger accounts for the fact that
extreme parent anger is re-experienced in this therapy even by patients who
report warm, loving, giving parents towards whom they are not aware of
feeling angry. Moreover, the parent, who usually largely denies his own
anger and is incapable of expressing it on an as-felt basis, expressing it only
in periodic explosions after it has already become cumulative, does not allow
the child to express his own anger; thus the child's anger at the parent
becomes cumulative. The vicious cycle of anger in the child producipg guilt
towards the parent, producing a need for punishment by the parent (more
anger), producing greater anger in the child and more guilt, etc., is thus
established. The child is taught, both directly and by example, the equation,
"Anger equals bad," and lives with this equation throughout his life.
Aboriginal anger is implicit in the parent-child relationship in a two-
parent or a one-parent family. Aboriginal anger cannot be verbally expressed
as described above, and, therefore, becomes cumulative and must be dis-
placed. This displacement is directed towards peers, mates, authority figures,
and children. It does not have to be sex-specific. For example, anger toward
an authoritarian mother may be displaced onto a male supervisor. Younger
sibling anger is displaced onto peers, mates, and children. The reason that
aboriginal anger must be eliminated is that it is displaced, thus destructively
permeating most, if not all, human relationships.
Aboriginal anger is removed during a long (3 to 5 hours) structured
fantasy which consists of three parts: (1) physical violence in fantasy; (2) a
conversation between the therapist (who assumes the role of the deceased
subject of the fantasy) and the patient, in which the patient fantasizes
growing up as his own parent; and (3) forgiveness and resurrection of the
deceased by the patient. Each of the three parts of this fantasy consists of
certain fundamentals which must be accomplished by the therapist, and
which are described later in this paper. The content and specifics vary
slightly for each patient, based somewhat on the answers to a few standard
questions which are asked when the history is taken, but largely on what the
patient reveals during the fantasy. These questions asked during the history
concern the relationship between the patient and his parents, siblings, and
mate, and spceific details of the parents' own childhoods.
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that he continues to love the child even though, for example, the child does
" b a d " things.
point in the fantasy are what patients think have made them angry. It
becomes apparent that the actual reason for the anger is that the deceased
was angry with the patient. This therapy breaks into the cycle of anger that
exists between the patient and his parents, siblings, etc.
As the patient fantasizes, the therapist is inevitably fantisizing the same
fantasy to a certain extent, while at the same time narrating the structured
fantasy for the patient and at the same time speaking as the deceased parent.
This requires intense participation by the therapist in the aboriginal anger
fantasies; however, after a certain amount of clinical experience in doing
them, the therapist learns to rely on the accuracy of his own intuitiveness
(stomach) in conducting the aboriginal parent fantasies, and they become
easy and fun to do for both patient and therapist.
A special problem may occur when the patient's anger at the parent
results largely from guilt-provocation by the parent. It is to be noted that
this is anger resulting from guilt, a reversal of the usual dynamic of guilt
resulting from anger. These patients are often unaware of their parent anger
until the fantasy. This guilt is ameliorated during the aboriginal anger
fantasy, when the patient is made to feel blameless. This is accomplished by
the fantasy within the fantasy in which the patient visualizes his own child,
or imaginary child, doing something wrong, i.e., breaking a vase, and is
asked if the child is responsible for the parent's (patient's) unhappiness. The
patients respond that the child is not responsible (guilty). This abreacts
aboriginal guilt on the part of the patient.
The resurrection fantasy is much less structured than the earlier portions
of this fantasy. Patients are given freedom to resurrect in any way they wish,
and their changed feelings towards the subject of the fantasy are often
manifested symbolically in the resurrection fantasy, with many parents seen
as physically smaller than the patient, a manifestation of the patient's new
feeling of protectiveness (love) towards the parent.
After a five-minute break, the therapist tests the results of this fantasy.
The patient is asked to fantasize himself in the geographic location of the
now-resurrected deceased. He is asked what his feelings are as he looks at
this person. We have found that the feelings have changed dramatically, and
words of love are exchanged which are then acted out in real life. The results
are also tested by having the patient visualize people onto whom the
aboriginal anger has been displaced. With the patients who have experienced
the aboriginal anger fantasies, it has been found that they no longer feel the
displaced anger.
The aboriginal anger fantasy is completed for the mother, father, occa-
sional stepparents, if any, younger siblings, and 'loveobject,' in that order.
Anger towards older siblings is displaced from the parent and disappears
along with parent anger. In rare cases, an older sibling must also be killed
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and conversed with in fantasy, then forgiven and resurrected. The sibling
and love-object fantasies are basically the same as the parent fantasies, but
with some changes in the fundamentals for each.
New anger is anger that is experienced for the first time (not Cumulative). It
is treated with a paradoxical anger assignment, which enables the patient to
experience and verbally express both new anger and future anger (new/
future anger). The assignment is carried out between psychotherapy sessions
while the patient is in residence at the Institute. It is paradoxical and consists
of two parts :
1. The patient tries to force himself, whether alone or with people, not to
feel anger. The patient is not to wait for an anger-provoking situation to do
the assignment, but to try continuously not to feel anger, by force. Since this
is a paradoxical assignment, the patient experiences anger. The anger he
experiences is new anger.
2. When the patient feels the anger as a result of trying to force himself not
to feel it, he is to force himself not to want to express it. Again, since this is a
paradoxical assignment, the patient wants to express the anger, and expresses
it freely and without guilt, as a result of both the anger assignment and the
inner freedom resulting from the first session.
The assignments are monitored daily by the therapist by means of a
system of written reporting of numbers which are tabulated daily by the
patient and observed by both himself and the therapist, showing his progress.
Successful completion of the paradoxical anger assignment gives the patient
freedom to relieve new anger by expressing it verbally, which he does
automatically and effortlessly. Anger is now a good emotion, and the equation
learned in childhood is erased. New/future anger does not accumulate,
because it is experienced instantly and simultaneously expressed verbally.
Intermediate anger is handled in the final session. This is done to prevent
patients from confusing the types of verbal responses which occur during the
anger assignment (spontaneous responses) and the structuring of intermedi-
ate anger (a cognitive activity which the patient does in fantasy, then acts
out in the real world).
Intermediate anger is not displaced anger but anger remaining in ongoing
relationships after the displaced aboriginal anger has been removed. At this
point in the therapy, aboriginal anger and displaced aboriginal anger have
been removed by the aboriginal anger fantasies, and new anger is being
experienced and expressed as a result of the anger assignment. Moreover,
changes in the self (ego) which occurred during the first sessiofa of P E T have
given the patient control over the expression of the new anger. A patient is
now free to express new anger if he chooses to do so, or not to express it if he
chooses not to do so. Should he choose not to express it in an ongoing
relationship, new anger becomes intermediate anger.
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whether that person feels good or bad, to which the patient replies, "He feels
bad." The therapist then has the patient fantasize expressing his own anger
verbally (in loud, angry tones) to the person at whom he feels anger and to
signal the therapist when his verbal tirade is completed. At the signal, the
therapist immediately asks the patient, "Does he (the recipient) feel better
or worse?" Patients answer, " H e feels better." This is the patient's first
experiential discovery that the verbalization of anger provides relief not only
to himself but to the recipient of his anger.
Preparation continues as the therapist illustrates a second way in which
verbalization is necessary in intermediate anger. The patient is asked to tap
his experiential (stomach) response to the following three statements made
by the therapist: (1) you (the patient) did something rotten; (2) you said
something rotten; (3) you are rotten. Patients respond that Statement 3
makes them "feel terrible." Under questioning by the therapist, the patient
reveals that Statements 1 and 2 do not "feel" bad because they are reversible,
correctable, and explainable, while Statement 3 "feels" irreversible. The
patient is again asked to fantasize a person who he senses is angry at him,
but who has not expressed it verbally, and is asked whether he experiences
Statements 1, 2, or 3. The patient replies Statement 3--that is to say, he
"feels" he is rotten. Subsequent questions by the therapist elicit from the
patient that when anger is present, but not expressed, it is sensed, but that
when it is sensed but not verbally expressed, it makes him feel the anger is
unspeakable (viz., Statement 3), because it is not spoken. If a person is angry
because of what he has said or done, the patient feels it can be undone or
unsaid. If, on the other hand, a person is angry because of what he is, his
situation feels hopeless. Verbalization of what the person has done or said, as
in Part Three of the structuring, allows the patient (and the recipient of his
anger) to reverse, correct, and explain what he has done or said, and the
subject of the anger no longer experiences Statement 3. In this manner the
patient experientially (and correctly) concludes that if he expresses his anger
verbally he is providing relief for the subject of his anger, rather than
alienating him. This usually represents a direct reversal of his previous
feelings about the verbal expression of anger, and contributes greatly to his
experiential certainty that "anger equals good," gained in the first part of
therapy through the anger assignment.
The verbal structuring consists of four parts:
Part Three
The third part of P E T is devoted to what may be termed self-image, self-
confidence, self-esteem, or self-respect. This portion of the therapy is to be
distinguished from the experiential change in ego strength that occurred in
the first session. The thrust of this portion of the therapy is to enable the
patient to define his personality experientially. A technique is employed
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which allows the patient to feel himself in isolation, in fantasy, and arrive at
a fairly complete experiential definition of himself without depending on
anyone except himself and his inner resources.
This part of P E T involves a very long (8 to 12 hours) paradoxical fantasy
in which the patient is asked to fantasize that he is on a tropical island with
only the usual flora and fauna and a monkey. The patient experiences this
long fantasy in which he paradoxically arrives at between 15 and 40
personality characteristics, inner feelings, and qualities described below.
Since these are derived experientially, they become a permanent part of the
patient's self-definition. As the list is built by the patient (with guidance
from the therapist), the therapist writes down each characteristic and the list
is repeated as each quality is added to it. The means that some lists are
repeated from the beginning 25 or 30 times.
The fantasy begins by having the patient close his eyes and imagine that
he is shipwrecked on an island with no hope of rescue. Paradoxically, the
therapist asks the patient to look inside himself at the vacuum that is there.
The therapist suggests paradoxically that the patient is not even " h u m a n . "
The patient is asked to try to experience not being human and to force himself
not to feel human. Since the paradox works, the patient feels human and
experientially knows what this means. The therapist then moves on to other
qualities such as manliness, womanliness, intelligence, compassion, inner
freedom, etc. Again, the paradox is employed and the patient experiences the
quality. In this manner a list is built. During each activity which takes place
on the island, the patient must describe in exact detail what he has done.
Thus, the qualities are demonstrated by the patient before they are labeled. In
this way, the therapist does not take the word of the patient for any quality
or characteristic.
After the list is completed, the patient is asked to fantasize being in
solitary confinement in the dark with only a rat for a companion, in order to
make it as terrible for him as possible. The list is repeated to him and he is
asked if he has experientially (stomach) retained each quality. Most patients
retain all but one or two qualities. The patient is then transferred back to the
island and given several chances to repeat the list from his stomach, as
distinct from repeating it from memory, which is in the head. Most patients
repeat all but one or two minor qualities.
In the fantasy, a helicopter appears and rescues the patient and the fantasy
ends. After the patient opens his eyes, he is asked a series of questions :
1. Did I tell you the qualities that you have, or did you tell me?
2. Did I take your word for it, or did you have to prove it?
3. To whom did you prove it?
4. Do you think you will ever forget the list?
5. Is it necessary to remember the list? (It is not.)
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Summary
A new technique of psychotherapy based on a new concept of psychody-
namics, Paradoxical Experiential Therapy, has been used successfully with
more than 192 unselected patients over a period of five years. The therapy is
short-term (40 to 60 hours), but is not behavioral in scope, thus permitting
unlimited applicability. Therapeutic results, documented by tape recordings
of all patient sessions, have been: achieved in many different diagnostic
categories. Results appear to be long-lasting. The therapy is not aversive in
nature, and patients experience no anxiety.
The therapy employs structured fantasies, but is different from other
fantasy therapies in that these fantasies are accompanied by feelings which
are instantly paradoxical to the fantasy content, i.e., an anxiety-provoking
fantasy accompanied by a feeling of total calm. The thrust of the paradox
employed is that it is impossible to experience any emotion (i.e., anger,
anxiety, guilt, grief, etc.) by trying to force oneself to experience it. Long-
lasting changes are reported in ego-strength, self-esteem, depression, guilt,
cumulative anger, and in other, specific symptoms without symptom-directed
therapy.
The therapy taps the patient's experiential self by directing his awareness
to his intuitive feelings and intuitive knowledge, and by making it possible
for him to volitionally receive such intuitive knowledge without meditation.
No suggestion, hypnosis, medication, verbal insights, negative conditioning,
or other artifacts are employed. As a result of the intensely enhanced ego-
strength which takes place upon beginning the therapy, symptoms disappear
without symptom-specific therapy. Although motivation is an important
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