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OVERVIEW

What is Value?

Evolutionary Answer (0:50)

Competence 3:40

Health/Fitness/Aesthetics 8:53

Social Feedback (Power & Popularity) 12:02

What Shows Value?

 Game Answer (13:31)
Social Proof (Actual & Implied) 13:41

“Knowing the Dance” (Good Game) 17:27

Fashion/Style/Gym 19:50

Life Facts Conveyed “by Accident” 21:28

Frame Control (Proactive & Responsive) 26:43

Assumed frame and shit test passing

Comfort
(33:14)

AKA making your value relevant & attainable (34:32)

How to Build Comfort: Spend more time together without discomfort:

✓ Avoid bad surprises and red flags (35:36)
✓ Present a consistent story (36:43)
✓ Have a positive, win/win motive—not conveying a negative agenda (38:52)
✓ Be relatable—she’s more comfortable if she understands (familiar facts and
associations) (39:21)

Example
Vegas Social Proof Set 40:38
Field Reports

Improv Comedy Model Set 43:10

Industry Night Pull 46:14

 Q&A

• How do you convey value through text only? (55:25)

• Is there a way to always build connection rather than relying on luck (i.e. hoping
that you and the girl will have a common hobby)? (57:45)
• How do you thrive in a primarily female environment? (1:00:09)
• Is being high value something that you are or something that you do? (1:00:53)
• What are the different types of frames you implement most? How can we
practice them? (1:03:35)
• What are good stories to convey I’m non-judgmental, discreet, and other values
that make her chase me? (1:04:45)
• How do you know when you’ve displayed enough value and need to build more
comfort? (1:06:10)
• How do you convey value subtly to busy, career-oriented girls? (1:07:23)
• What are good things to have in your house that display high value? (1:10:10)

EXERCISES

1. Prepare high-value answers (50:05)

Write down the five most common questions girls ask you, as well as your high-
value answers to them.

2. Prepare and tell high-value stories (52:30)

Part A: Think of (or create) three stories that convey you in an attractive light.

Part B: Tell your stories in your next few game sessions.

Tip: Concise stories are preferred.