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He thrice won the Escorts Book Award for the best management book of
the year.
COURTESY TOWARDS ALL:-
HELP OTHERS:-
People appreciate a boss who is straight and honest with them. They
will never respect a clever, slippery leader who does not keep his word. If
a boss is completely honest and fair, his people will be willing to put up
with a lot of his shortcomings- and every boss has some.
There are always lots of people with different and strong opinions. But
they usually manage to live peacefully side by side and without any
trouble. Suppose you do not agree with somebody, so what? Why be
unpleasant and argue about it. Everyone has a right to his own opinions
and beliefs. It is a waste of time and energy arguing to bring them to your
point of view. Let them keep their point of view and you keep yours.
Arguing is useless and never succeeds in winning people over. It only
creates tensions.
LISTEN TO COMPLAINTS:-
When a person complaints for the first time or tenth time, listen patiently
and attentively. Some times all a man really wants a little more attention.
His complaint may be entirely unreasonable but do not brush it off. Nod
your head and say “Is that so” The listener will be most impressed
because nobody wants to think he is unreasonable especially if he is
unreasonable. How often one gets excited over little matters and makes
an issue out of them.. Sometimes it is best to leave things alone and not
make an issue out of things unless it is absolutely essential and we just
have to do it. Human beings are emotional and excitable. Give them time
to cool off and to save face.
A sense of humour is a fine thing. But be careful not to overdo it. Some
people are sensitive and just can not take it. In such cases, humour
becomes ridicule. In dealing with people it is essential to have a sense of
humour. By sense of humour, we mean having a sense of proportion and
the courage to smile. It is ability to take care of yourself and your
problems with a grain of salt. The ability to smile at yourself and the
world as well.
GIVE A GENTLE PUSH UPWARDS :-
NO MISTAKES, NO INITIATIVE:-
When something is going wrong, investigate, ask, don’t accuse. Give the
men a chance to tell his side of story. Like this, he will be far more willing
to recognize and accept responsibility for his mistakes. Try to avoid
mistakes happening at all. It takes far less time and effort to prevent
mistakes from happening than it does to correct them.
PROBLEMS WILL OCCUR- :-
Problems will occur especially when you are dealing with people.
Therefore, a good manager should make a habit of acquainting himself
the thoughts and ideas of the people who work for him. He should
encourage them to say what they think. In this way, the management
will have continuous and accurate information on attitude and opinions
of its employees.
If you do this, and do this sincerely, people won’t be offended at all when
you don’t agree with them. It is an open minded approach and
encourages others to be open minded too. You will be surprised how
often most of us tend to fly off the handle. But this is something which
we must try to avoid at all costs. Anything done in anger will always lead
to bad results. Keep your personal feelings and prejudices right out of
picture that is the secret of getting along with people successfully and
takes a lot of self control. The fellow who is good at controlling others
must first learn to control himself.
Doing the same job day in day out doesn’t necessarily mean that it is
most efficient way of getting things done. People aren’t like machines.
Many of them get tired of doing the same thing over and over again with
the result that they do it badly. Good manager is to take the boredom
away from a job and make it more interesting. He can delegate, ask for
suggestions, contact people and get people to use their brains. All this
helps to take away boredom.
WHY ARGUE? TRY TO UNDERSTAND:-
Have you noticed that the people who are really smart rarely get into
arguments. They have learnt that arguments are a complete waste of
time . The best way of settling differences is to show other fellow that you
understand his point of view. Stress the point on which you agree with
him and than quietly and calmly point out where you can’t agree. Never
flatly contradict him. Even if you know he is wrong, never act as if he is
obviously ought to agree with you. Never, get into an argument. Even
with the best lawyer in the world, you won’t be able to convince him that
black is not white if he does not want to be convinced.
When we make a mistake, most of us are scared and try to wriggle out.
But why not admit a mistake? We can’t be right all the time: A man who
is right only 60 per cent of time can be a tremendous success- if he is
quick to correct his mistakes the rest of time. If there is no mistake there
is no initiative. Not to admit a mistake is plain foolishness. You’d be
surprised but people respect a man who is quite open about his own
mistakes.
That’s what they do in Japan, and that’s why they are so successful.
They settle things face to face and on spot. No separate offices. No long
memos. To obtain the best results when dealing with people, do it in
person. If you can’t see a man in person, telephone him. A phone call is
more personal and persuasive than a letter.
THE WISE BOSS IS A FRIEND:-
The main function of a leader is to help his people to produce more. That
surely is main job of every boss- to help his people to do a better job:
through guidance, interest and appreciation. The boss’s efficiency is not
measured by the work he does himself, but by what his people have
done. That’s why it’s so essential for a boss to know how to handle
people and get them to do their best.
That’s what you will have to do, when things go wrong. There is always
temptation to find out who is responsible and give him a piece of your
mind. But this doesn’t do much good, except to relieve your own feelings
and aggravate somebody else’s. When something goes wrong, hold your
fire. First find out why it happened. When people do poor work, there is
usually a reason. When you find cause, attack the reason, not the man
himself.
Most people are afraid to admit that they do not understand. As a result
you don’t even realize that they haven’t got your message until everything
is all messed up. One way to be sure that your meaning has gone home
is to ask your listener to repeat the message back to you in his own
words. Like that, you can be sure that you are both on the right
wavelength and that your listener understand your message and not his
own interpretation of it. Be more careful with your instructions. Check
back in early stages of the job to make absolutely sure that it’s going
properly.
UNDERSTAND YOUR CASE:-
These phrases are most effective way of getting your ideas accepted. Soft
pedal your opinions. Use phrases like these and you will find people
more willing to listen and less quick to bristle. Even when you know you
are right, it’s important to show that you have an open mind and this
encourages others to accept your decision, but there is no law which
says that people have to agree with your thinking.
For emergency use only- try force. If we seem to talk a lot about a
friendly and constructive approach, it’s because we believe that we can
always get better work out of people by making them want to do good
work, than by trying to force it out of them. Some times, however, this
approach doesn’t seem to work. In such cases, take the matter up
bluntly and directly with the person in question. If a man doesn’t
respond to a constructive approach, face the issue and find out why. Try
to straighten him out without resorting to punishment and penalties.
Failing that, get rid of him as soon as you can. You’ll have a healthier
organization if you do so.
Give the man on the spot as much authority as you possibly can.
Experience has proved time and again that not only will he live up your
trust but that the work will be done far better, and you will hardly ever
be let down.
One is bound to succeed in the end if one keeps on at it! It doesn’t matter
how many times you fail. Remember what happened to Robert Bruce of
Scotland. It is not the brilliant fellow that gets on in the long run, but the
fellow that has the capacity and the patience for going at it again and
again and not giving up. Who was it who said that, Genius is one percent
inspiration and ninety nine percent perspiration.
THE WELFARE OF YOUR STAFF COMES FIRST – ALWAYS.
And it was just a little touch. But he’ll think of her for days on end.
That’s all very well, but you’ll be astonished at what a big difference such
little touches make in one’s day to day life. If one of your men looks
unwell, ask him about it. If he takes leave to look after his ill wife, find
out how she is when he comes back. If he walks with a limp, enquire how
it happened. Ask about his daughter’s progress at school. Good human
relations do not normally take up much effort But how very often
otherwise experienced and clever managers entirely ignore such an
approach.
DOWN WITH SYCOPHANTS:-
One of the biggest dangers for the average executive is the yes -man
type subordinates: the subordinate who is always buttering up the
boss. A good executive needs men around him who have the strength
to give dissenting opinions. He must be able to see through the yes-
man and shoe-licker as quickly as possible. Otherwise they are bound
to land him in trouble. It is so easy for a busy executive to jump to
wrong conclusions. That is why it is important for an executive to
have independent thinking men around him- so that they can correct
him
A good executive must have courage to say ‘no’. And this could be one
of his most difficult tasks, because he is under enormous pressure.
Everyone always wants something from him- his friends, his relations,
and people in high positions. He will have to exercise all his self-
control to resist such requests.
People tend to work the way they feel. Their productivity depends to a
large extent on their frame of mind. A good supervisor gets to be an
expert in spotting people who have trouble at home. He knows its lot
smarter to help a man get his personal problems off his chest than to
let him spoil a day’s work. Under such circumstances, scolding the
person and tearing a strip off him can do only harm.
TALK STRAIGHT:-
No matter how unpleasant the task, be direct. Don’t let anyone get the
idea that you are going behind his back on anything. Put your cards
on the table and keep them there in plain straight. Don’t avoid
questions, hide facts, or try to evade an issue by clever tricks. Avoid
cleverness as you would the plough; otherwise people won’t trust you.
As the boss, the best possible impression you can give your staff is
that you are sincere and fair. The fellow who thinks he can fool people
indefinitely is fooling himself.
IN MOMENT OF CRISIS REMAIN COOL:-
People get their most of impressions through eyes; not their ears. If
you want to sell an idea- or even a sense of discipline to people who
work for you- you have to set a personal example. The minute you try
to sell them something you don’t really believe in, something you don’t
practice yourself, you have got a job on your hands. There’s no
question about it. If you want results you have surely got to set an
example yourself.
THROUGH MISTAKES TO SUCCESS:-
That’s really what experience means. A fellow might work in the same
organization for say 20 years, but it might be one year repeated 20
times. He learns nothing. But with another fellow, every year is an
additional year’s learning. Every mistake he makes, he notes down,
thinks about it and thinks again about it. Why did the things go
wrong? How could it have been prevented? If you do this often
enough, there’s no stopping you. The sky is the limit. Mistakes can be
your most effective teacher.
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