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This alarming attitude of "command and control" sets the precedents which form what
commentary describes as "Ruthless" behaviour (defined by the Oxford English
dictionary as, 'having or showing no pity or compassion for others'). These attitudes
(caricatured in popular culture by the likes of Alan Sugar and Donald Trump) are
potentially the final throw-backs which connect the 'information economy' with the
'industrial'. In this sense, a mill-owner (for example) commonly held a psychological
axe over the heads of his workers (at all levels) which ingrained a fear for their jobs
should they not work as hard as the mill-owner required. Outside the mill, the attitude
of ruthlessness would typically have caused defensive behavioural patterns in the
partners and suppliers of the mill, fearing (often punitive) reprisals should they not
bow to the whim of their customer (this is seen, even today, as international
manufacturers are forced to take huge business risks fearing punitive actions from
large supermarket buyers).
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Prominent psychologist Brene Brown described, in her astonishing TED talk, how
"...connection is why we're here. It gives purpose and meaning to our lives. The
ability to feel connected is neurobiologically wired into us." In her research, she
explores some of the most fundamental facets of human emotion and found that
'Shame' (a fear of disconnection) was one of the most powerful drivers of human
behaviour; a driver linked closely to a sense of 'vulnerability'. Brene found that
emotionally 'successful' individuals, who had a deep sense of worthiness, also were
the ones with the courage to be authentic, the compassion to be kind (including to
themselves) and therefore were the ones who managed to successfully maintain more
emotional connections- they were authentic enough to let go of who they felt they
should be, and embraced who they are. She also observed that in modern life, one
tries to numb these vulnerabilities through a variety of means (meaning we are now
the most medicated, obese, and addicted population group in history). In a
commercial environment, the 'medication' can be delivered in the form of behaviour,
via aggression - giving the aggressor (the company boss, for example) a sense of
certainty in their environment, adopting the "I'm right, your wrong, shut up" stance,
and ignoring their effect on people, rather than embracing uncertainty and
vulnerability- which could, ironically, create much greater success for their
businesses.
If you look at the real superstar companies such as Google, Apple and Microsoft (to
name just three) you will see that management styles are more authentic. Rather than
assuming they know everything, they are honest about the skills gaps, filling them
with people who do know the answers. Rather than assuming that management are
the only people with ideas, they empower and engage their entire workforce, in a
collaborative manner- all the while providing a compassionate and kind working
environment. These ideas are almost the exact opposite of those which built
companies like General Motors and GE, but have, in a tenth of the time, delivered
companies which (in their relative infancy) have market capitalisations in excess of
USD 100bn.
To take paradigm from the social and political environment, you will see the same
factors are true. The artists, philosophers, influencers and politicians who have had
the greatest success and impact on society (albeit with a few exceptions due to
predominantly economic circumstances ) have always been authentic in their
emotional style, embracing their own imperfections and vulnerabilities, surrounding
themselves with people who can help them, and maintaining powerful emotional
connections with their audience, partners, and contemporaries.
Be Ruthless...
As Dale Carengie once said, "When dealing with people, remember you are not
dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion.”