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EFT Tool Kit
(Emotional Freedom Technique)
A Collection of Tools
and Techniques
for
Creating the
Life
You Really Want!
PJ Spur,CHt.
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EFT for the Self-Critical Voice
Say the following “Set up Sentences” while Tapping the Karate Chop Point
or Rubbing the Sore Spot in the crease where the Arm joins the Body.
Even though I have this voice and it criticizes me, I deeply and completely love
and accept myself.
Even though I hear this voice and it criticizes me, and I believe it, I deeply and
completely love and accept myself.
Even though I have this voice and I think it’s right about me, I deeply and
completely love and accept myself.
2. It criticizes me.
7. It bothers me.
8. It criticizes my life.
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Take a deep breath and continue tapping:
Say the following “Set up Sentences” while Tapping the Karate Chop Point
or Rubbing the Sore Spot in the crease where the Arm joins the Body.
Even if this voice is a younger part of me and it’s still in there, I deeply and
completely love and accept myself.
Even if this voice is a frightened little kid, I honor that voice and I deeply and
completely love and accept myself.
Even though I have this voice and I think it’s right about me, I’m open to the
possibility that it’s not telling the whole truth, and I deeply and completely love
and accept myself.
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Tap on all 10 Points on the Body:
This voice sounds like the criticism I heard when I was growing up.
Of course, I do.
It’s true.
Place RIGHT HAND over Heart Chakra. Tap the Gamut Point with Two
Fingers of the Left hand while saying:
Say the following “Set up Sentences” while Tapping the Karate Chop Point
or Rubbing the Sore Spot in the crease where the Arm joins the Body.
Even though I have this voice and it criticizes me, I can choose to let it go and
I love myself.
Even though I hear this voice and it sounds familiar somehow, I can choose to
release it and I love myself.
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Even though I hear this voice, I can choose to think and say loving thoughts to
myself and I love myself.
I choose peace.
Place RIGHT HAND over Heart Chakra. Tap the Gamut Point with Two
Fingers of the Left hand while saying:
I choose peace.
I choose peace.
I choose peace.
Source: Adapted from an audio with Judy Byrne via Tapping International
Tele-seminar, February 2010.
*While the section that follows is based on clearing thoughts from the “child” part of you, other feelings may come up,
such as a specific memory, or a specific person (other than Mom or Dad). If this happens, you may want to tap on those
specific feelings or memories, in addition to the verbiage shown.
Contact me for help with this EFT Script and other energy clearing techniques.
• "Even though I have these fears I cannot control, I deeply and profoundly love
and accept myself."
• "Even though there are things that terrify me, I deeply and profoundly love and
accept myself."
• "Even though I don't want to think about this ever, I deeply and profoundly love
and accept myself."
• If you want to tap a round for, "I don't want to do this at all and it's pointless and
nothing will change anyway and I'll never get over this because I'm such a loser "
then that's what you should be tapping for. Say this 3-5X and then move back up to
#2
3. Say a Reminder Phrase “These Fears” and Tap 5 to 7X on each of the 10 Tapping
You may create this Pyramid of Protection to start your day, to add
protection before going into a public place or to add additional safety
before interacting with people or situations you find unsettling or
troublesome or whom you may not know.
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“Dear God,
Negative can be people, things they say, stuff you see/hear on TV, etc.
Do your EFT-Self Love – AM Portion to set the tone for your day.
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3. Envision a blue light starting at the top of your bed, going down the
left side, around the bottom, coming back up the right side of the
bed and going over to the left corner. This blue light protects you.
6. Ask your guides and angels to bring you helpful dreams and allow
you to get your rest.
Next, Tap “pain in my right hip(or whatever)” 5 to 7 X at each of the 10 tapping points
Describe the pain: does it have a color or texture? (i.e., sticky and grey in color)
Now use this set up phrase: Even though I have this (color) and (type/adjective) pain hurting my
(body part), I choose to drain it away. Repeat 3 times
Tap “drain away” 5 to 7 times at each of the 10 points (while imagining it draining away)
How has the color or texture changed? (i.e., thicker and darker in color)
Now use this set up phrase: Even though I have this (color) and (type/adjective) pain hurting my
(body part), I apply heat to it so that it becomes thinner and can drain away easily. Repeat 3X
Tap “apply heat to it” 5 to 7 times at each of the 10 points (while imagining it being heated)
Even though I have this (color) and (type/adjective) pain hurting my ( body part), I now drain away
this remaining pain, easily and effectively. Repeat 3 times
Tap “drain away this pain” 5 to 7 times at each of the 10 points (imagine it draining away)
Take a deep breath and say “Peace” while holding one wrist with the opposite hand.
Other examples of set-up phrases for pain or dis-ease or physical conditions:
Even though this pain is terrible, I don't want to change. I am used to it and don't want to let go.
Even though I think that only the painkiller can provide me relief from terrible pain, taking the
homeopathic pills will prove to be equally effective for me.
Even though my Inflexibility does not want me to change and be well, I deeply and completely love,
forgive and accept myself.
Even though Inflexibility has been staging this scary drama where I suffer a great deal of pain and I
allowed myself to be conned, I deeply and completely love, forgive and accept myself.
Even though my pain and suffering serve me in some way that I don’t even understand, I deeply and
completely love and accept myself.
Even though the doctors have told me this is terminal (inoperable, hopeless, etc), I deeply and
completely love and accept myself.
Even though the doctors have told me this is terminal (inoperable, hopeless, etc), I choose to believe
in the power of healing and have faith in a future for me.
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Tap each of the points 5 to 7 times and say the phrase or sentence
10. Either to me
Tap each of the 10 points 5 to7 times, as you say the following:
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If you wake up in the middle of the night and think of something, write it down. It is an act of self
love for us to keep reminding ourselves of this important thing we have to do. That’s why we do
it! After years and years of doing this, we think about these things and obsess over them.
It is ALSO an act of self love to write it down, so you can let it go for now. So next time, you start
to obsess, WRITE IT DOWN! Or, ask your Higher Self to remind you later. Sweet dreams. . .
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The Three Thumps
PERFORM DAILY TO: - Boost Your Immune System
Here an adaptation of "The Three Thumps," part of Donna Eden's Five-Minute Daily
Routine in her book, "Energy Medicine." This quick exercise is beneficial to all of
us. You can practice it in the morning and for a quick pick-me-up whenever you
feel your energy "slump." It is especially important for anyone who has an
autoimmune disease—the thymus plays a vital role in the body's immune system.
If you cross your hands while thumping on the K-27 points, this has the
added benefit of emulating the body's energies crossing at the neck. Keep
thumping the K-27 points while taking three deep breaths (in through the
nose and out through the mouth).
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2) Thump the Thymus Gland
According to Dr. John Diamond, author of Life Energy, the thymus gland
controls the life energy of the body. The Greek word thymos actually means
"life energy!" This gland lies just beneath the upper part of the breastbone
in the middle of the chest, and it plays a vital role in the body's immune
system. Think of all the energy Tarzan had after he thumped his chest!
Repeat the affirmation "My life energy is high. I am full of love," while
thumping the thymus gland and taking three deep breaths.
These points are part of the lymph system, which aids the immune system
by removing toxins from the body.
The spleen neurolymphatic points are the depression between the 7th and
8th rib, just below the level of the breastbone (sternum). Find the points by
moving your hand beneath your breasts, straight under the nipples, then
move them down over the next rib. (These points are not under the
ribcage, that's going down too far).
If these points are really sore, stimulate them by rubbing and the soreness
should disappear in a few days. These points can be stimulated while taking
three deep breaths, and even longer --- for two or three minutes at a time.
(If the points are sore, it means you need this action, so continue doing this
daily!)
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"Even though I feel a deep sense of loss and longing, I deeply and completely love and
accept myself."
"Even though I miss my loved one, I deeply and completely love and accept myself."
“Even though I miss my old life and know it’ll never be the same, I and completely love
and accept myself."
"Even though I feel I’ll never recover, I deeply and completely love and accept myself."
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3. For Round 1, Tap each of the 10 Tapping Points and Say the Reminder Phrase
at each point:
“I miss my loved one” (can also insert Name of loved one)
OR “I miss what I used to have “ OR “I miss my old life”
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4. For Round 2, Tap each of the 10 Tapping Points and Say one of the
Choices Phrases at each point:
5. For Round 3, Tap each of the 10Tapping Points and ALTERNATE Saying
one of the Choices Phrases with one of the Negative Phrases at each point:
Now, assess how you feel. What is the number now? _____________
If necessary, do more tapping. If new feelings come up, do a complete round on the
new feeling(s)
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Gratitude
“The common meaning of gratitude is to be thankful for benefits received. While this is important, I
feel that the energy of gratitude is one of the most powerful attracting forces in the universe. A heart
filled with Thanksgiving, even when appearances tell us that we are mired in scarcity, conflict, and
affliction, moves us to a higher frequency in consciousness and we soon witness reality shining
through the illusion."
A gratitude journal helps you focus on what is really precious to you in your life and tells the Universe
“More please!”
Forgiveness
Many times, we find it hard to move forward or feel “stuck” because of past hurts we are carrying.
Forgiveness can really help with clearing these hurts. Remember, the forgiveness is for you, not the
guilty party. Not forgiving someone for something, thinking that you are holding them accountable
and punishing them is like drinking the poison yourself and thinking the other person will die.
Use EFT for Forgiveness to work through the forgiveness issues in your life. Writing a letter to the
offending party is also effective. Just don’t mail the letter! If the person is deceased, you can also go
into meditation and visualize yourself speaking with the person, one last time.
Journaling
Keeping a journal (which can be a spiral notebook, a pad of paper or a fancy, leather-bound volume)
helps you vent your feelings and track your progress. Writing is a great way to get out issues. You
might also see patterns and issues to tap on. When we let thoughts go around and around in our
heads, we don’t heal and release these feelings. Writing it down helps you to heal.
This is the basic strategy behind the EFT For Self Love – Morning and Evening Routine.
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EFT for GRATITUDE
If you want more in your life to be grateful for, focus on the appreciation
you already feel for what and who you have in your life.
Start by addressing the genuine mood or feeling state you feel right now,
then move into appreciation and gratitude.
After you have used EFT to relieve the sensation of chronic fear in your mind and body AND
your focus on the negative, move towards more positive and appreciative thoughts and statements:
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EYEBROW: I love feeling grateful
SIDE OF EYE: I choose to feel good no matter what
UNDER EYE: I feel appreciation for being alive
UNDER NOSE: I love who I am and how I feel
CHIN: I’m grateful for my life
COLLARBONE: I appreciate so much in my life
UNDER ARM: I’m grateful for the clarity in my life
HEAD: I love feeling so joyful
After this marathon of gratitude tapping, measure how you feel afterwards. You can then tap on any
new issues that pop up. These are the “yes, but . . .” feelings.
So, here’s all you need to attract success and abundance into your life:
(1) Law of Attraction (Like the Law of Gravity, you don’t have to understand it!)
(2) EFT (Use to zap and release negative feelings and issues in your life)
(3) An Attitude of Gratitude (Brings more of what you love into your life!)
The Gratitude List involves writing down on paper, once a day, all that you feel grateful for. Write it
out any time of day that feels right to you. If you write your list at night, it may keep you up because
some folks have a hard time settling down afterwards.
The Gratitude Walk is the act of reciting your gratitude list out loud, while you are walking outside in
nature, swinging your arms, breathing deeply and thanking the Universe for all the blessings in your
life. Both of these methods are thrilling. And don't forget to express your appreciation directly to
others. Doing so changes lives!
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Tap 7-10 times on each of the 10 points on the face and body, while repeating the Reminder Phrase: “he hurt me”
(for example . . . use your own words)
2. Forgive the offender for the harm their act has caused you.
Say 3X while rubbing the “Sore Spot” (or tapping the Karate Chop Point)
Even though what happened has caused me problems for ________years, that’s ok, I forgive him/her.
Tap 7-10 times on each of the 10 points on the face and body, while repeating the Reminder Phrase: “problems for 15
years” (for example . . . use your own words)
that’s okay, I was only reacting like most kids would. I forgive myself for ___________________
Tap 7-10 times on each of the 10 points on the face and body, while repeating the Reminder Phrase: “lying” or “hiding
from people” or “refusing to make friends with anyone” (for example…use your own words)
I forgive myself for allowing this _______________________ to interfere with my enjoyment of life for the last
__________ years. I’ve been doing the best I could do.
Tap 7-10 times on each of the 10 points on the face and body, while repeating the Reminder Phrase: “I forgive myself”
(for example, saying something else may be right for you) Review how you feel. You may want to repeat some
portions, or just tap on new feelings that come up.
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EFT and Ho’oponopono
Say 3X and Tap KC Point with dominant hand
KC: Even though I have something within me that
caused this situation, I deeply and completely love
and accept myself and this opportunity to heal.
Tap 10 Points:
TH: Whatever is in me that brought this into my life
EB: I see that I brought this into my life
SE: I am sorry
UE: I forgive myself
UN: I forgive the other person
CH: I am grateful for this
CB: I allow myself to heal
UA: I love myself
RIB: I choose to expand this love to everyone
involved Wrist: I send peace and love to everyone
involved
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2. Say the Set Up Phrase 3 X while rubbing the Sore Spot or Tapping the Karate Chop point:
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"Even though I feel really angry at Jack, I choose to feel calm and confident about what happened"
3. For Round 1, Tap each of the 10 Tapping Points and say the Reminder Phrase at each point:
4. For Round 2, tap each of the 10 Tapping Points and say the Choices Phrase at each point:
1 Top of head:
2 Eyebrow:
3 Side of Eye:
4 Under Eye:
5 Under Nose: “I choose to feel calm and confident”
6 Chin:
7 Collarbone:
8 Under Arm:
9 Rib:
10 Wrist
For Round 3, tap each of the 10 Tapping Points and alternate saying the Choices Phrase with
the Negative Phrase at each point:
Assess how you feel. If it is higher than 1 or 2, you may want to do another round. You always
want to end on a Positive Choice!
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Refusal Technique – Basic EFT
(Note: While this template deals with “anxiety,” you can modify this to deal with ANY issue, problem or pain.)
Tap Karate Chop Point and say 1 of these Sentences 3X or Each One 1X:
Even though I’ve been anxious for good reasons, and you keep wanting me to let go of
it, I accept who I am and how I feel about it…
Even though my anxiety serves some purpose for me, I just haven’t figured it out yet, I
accept who I am and how I feel about holding on to it…
Even though you make me feel wrong for having anxiety, I accept who I am and how I
react to situations in my life.
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Under Eye: I don’t know how to give it up
After giving yourself some air time, so to speak, to refuse to change, and giving a voice
to the threat of changing, there is more room for you to actually consider changing!!
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Tips for Success with EFT:
1. Make sure you are well hydrated. If you have been tapping and don’t feel you are
moving or shifting, drink some water. Also, drink plenty of water through-out the
day. Just like a massage or any other energy clearing work, EFT moves toxins and
debris from your body. The kidneys and lymph system helps with this and water is
essential to this process.
2. Tap on BOTH SIDES of the body. Not necessary, but if you feel led to do so, it will
move even more debris out of your system.
3. Tap your Karate Chop Points together for 15 to 20 seconds to reverse your body’s
polarity. Just like you can put batteries upside down in a device and the device won’t
work, your body can become “reversed.” Try it before every session.
4. Don’t worry if you are tapping on the EXACT spot. If you are in the general area, you
will be stimulating the point.
5. Be specific. The more specific you can be about your feeling, the better. Make
notes, as you go along, about other feelings that come up. Some people call this
“peeling the onion.” There are layers to our pain and hurt, just as there are layers to
our lives.
6. Set a clear intention before you begin. This acts to “set you up for success,” by
asserting what you want to accomplish. The “power of why” is also important. Why is
it important for you to release your fear, doubt, or limiting belief? How will you and
your life be different?
8. If you feel “stuck,” place your RIGHT hand over your heart and Tap on the Gamut
Point on THAT hand with your LEFT hand. Tap 10 to 20 times, and breathe deeply.
9. Be persistent. Persistence is a key to success with EFT. Just keep tapping and tap on
everything and you’ll see results.
10. Breathe. After a round of EFT, take a deep breath and assess how you feel. If you
have put a number to the intensity of your feeling, ask “what is it now?” Doing so
gives you a measuring device for the work you are doing.
11. Tap and Vent. Just tap on the 10 points and vent or whine about whatever or
whomever is bothering you. Tap until you feel better, start laughing or run out of
things to say.
12. If you have questions, e-mail me. Whether I’ve encountered it myself or with a
client, I may know how to address the very problem you are struggling with!
2. To stop negative energy, imagine a line going from My Heart Chakra to the other
Person’s Heart Chakra. Put a filter in between Me and the other Person, kind of like
a coffee filter.
3. If a person is taking your energy, ask Their Higher Self to give them MORE energy.
i. Negative Entities
iv. Even positive thoughts that are not for My Highest Good
vi. Ground Me
5. For removing Entities, imagine a net. Throw it on the entity and pull it off. Allow it to
fly into Outer Space.
6. If you sense Negative Energy or Negative Emotions,
CROSS YOUR ARMS over your Heart & Solar Plexus to
further protect yourself.
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Remember: It’s usually easier to say, “Gotta go right now,” and leave a situation than have
to “clean up” later from a really negative person or their negative story telling.
2) Visualize it cleansing all of the negative and dirty energy from your body and
your energy field and see it draining down deep into the earth
The power of this simple technique should not be underestimated! As energy Empaths,
we pick up negative energy from our environment and other people every single day. By
"negative energy" we mean low frequency energetic debris. Heavy debris in your energy
field lowers your overall frequency significantly - which also reduces your consciousness
and leads to more negative emotions and behaviors. Cleaning this energy out instantly
increases your energetic frequency and thus raises your consciousness. This evokes
more positive feelings and makes it easier for you to choose thoughts and behaviors
that are aligned with divine principle!
Use this technique multiple times every day, and before you go to bed.
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The cords are hollow tubes, and energy runs back and forth between the attached
persons. These are fear-based cords, which are always unhealthy and based upon
dysfunction. They have nothing to do with the love or the healthy part of the relation-
ship. Cutting cords isn't abandoning or divorcing a person; it's releasing the unhealthy
part of the relationship. Etheric cords are also unrelated to the silver cord, which
attaches the soul to the body. The love and silver cord can't be accidentally severed.
Let's say that you have a cord attached to a friend or relative who's feeling depressed or
needy. That person will begin draining energy from you, like siphoning fuel at a gas
station. You'll feel tired without knowing why. No amount of caffeine, exercise, or sleep
will be able to revive your energy if the source is etheric-cord draining. I firmly believe
that chronic fatigue syndrome stems from people being drained of energy through etheric
cords. Many people I've worked with have regained their energy levels just through using
this simple method of cutting cords.
If the person you're etherically attached to becomes angry, their anger energy will come
tumbling through the etheric cords, straight into your body and chakras. This can result
in physical pain that seems to have no cause, and which is unresponsive to treatment.
People who are professional helpers, such as teachers, counselors, and healers, often
have a lot of cords attached to their students and patients. (The same is true with
individuals who are always helping needy friends and relatives.)
So it's important to cut cords after every session of helping someone, or whenever you
feel physical pain or lethargy without any apparent reason. Cords can grow back if the
relationship resumes with fear mingled in it. New cords are thinner, though, so less
energy can be drained from you or tossed at you.
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Michael carries a sword that cuts all attachments to negativity. Simply think the thought,
“Archangel Michael, I call upon you now. Please cut the cords of fear that are draining
my energy and vitality.” Sit quietly while he cuts your cords. He'll send healing energy
through the severed cords to both you and the other person.
Sensitive people will feel bodily and air-pressure changes as Michael cuts the cords,
followed by increased energy and a reduction or cessation of pain.
Michael can only cut cords if you're willing to let go of old resentments that are
associated with the person to whom you're attached. If you're holding on to anger or
unforgiveness, the cord won't cut. In these cases, as you use the method described above
where you call upon Michael, also add the following as you think about the person: I am
willing to trade all pain for peace. I ask for peace to replace any pain now.
In addition to the two methods above, I recommend going through this step. Think of
these specific individuals one by one and hold the intention of cutting cords of fear
associated with them: mother; father; siblings; and past or present lovers. These are the
specific relationships that most often yield cords associated with physical pain.
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You can use this method on yourself or another. Make sure that your back isn't touching
anything, such as a chair. Lean forward or lie on your side or front.
Call upon Archangels Raphael and Michael to surround you, and then breathe in and out
very deeply. Sometimes when people are angry at themselves or someone else, they send
anger energy that can harden into a form that imbeds itself inside of bodies. At times,
we curse ourselves or another, unconsciously or consciously.
Be willing to let go of and lift any anger energy from your body. Release any daggers,
arrows, swords, or other sharp or painful objects from your back or other areas. As these
daggers and other objects now lift from your body, you may be surprised to learn who
sent them to you. Be willing to send those people your forgiveness, to the best of your
ability, as a way to heal yourself even further. Keep lifting the objects out of your entire
body, letting go of them completely. All curses will now be lifted completely, in all
directions of time.
Raphael will now cover you in a liquid green healing gel, which immediately heals away
any former incisions. As you heal, Michael covers you in a shield of purple rubber, which
ensures that any further attacks bounce away from you. As they do so, they're
transmuted into love and returned to the sender, in order to heal that person.
You're now completely cleared and protected. Thank Raphael and Michael for your
healing.
Be still and witness as your mind reveals to you examples of how this turnaround is true. Those examples
might look like:
b. He understood me last week when he laughed at the joke I was telling him.
c. He understood me yesterday when I told him I really needed to get away with friends.
He even stayed home with the kids.
Another turnaround is “I don’t understand me.” Again, find at least three genuine, specific examples of times
that you have not understood yourself.
A third turnaround is ”I don’t understand Paul.” Relax, close your eyes, and with an open mind witness as the
images and feelings within you begin to show you, example by example, of where you have not understood
Paul. Be very gentle and thorough.
Each turnaround is an opportunity to experience the opposite of what you originally believed.
1.Out for lunch with younger daughter, Susan, and she didn’t like her pizza. Said it tasted “weird.” She sent it
back and got a cheese pizza. It bothered me that she did this. Why can’t she just eat the pizza she got?
Pretty revealing, in terms of the whole “put your order in with the Universe” idea, which I always struggle with.
Feelings of “not deserving what I want” or “what if I screw up and order the wrong thing?” usually come up. I
feel a huge shift on this.
2. I called my Husband. He doesn’t answer. He never answers his cell phone! I get really pissed.
He does answer my calls. (You probably can think of 3 examples for this)
Do I hear my own calls? How do I fail to hear my own calls? Cries for help? Messages from my body?
This helped me see how I often dismiss my needs and wants and put others first. So, I really resent it when
people don’t respond to my “calls,” because I don’t respond to MY own messages, intuition, etc.
3. I sit by a coffeemaker in my office and am expected to make coffee for the 5 people I support. There are
about 15 other people who use the coffeemaker and NONE OF THEM EVER MAKES COFFEE!!! I am SO
Upset.
4. My sister invited our other sister to a play in San Antonio. They didn’t invite me. I feel really hurt and left
out.
They shouldn’t include me. (I could also come up with 3 examples of times they DID invite me)
5. This morning, I was running out the door and went back to say something to Luke. He said, “Baby, I’m
trying to get ready here and you keep interrupting me!”
Well, I fumed to the car and thought to myself, “He doesn’t have time for me!” Then, as soon as it came in, I
thought of “The Work” and did my turnaround:
Luke DOES have time for me. (Can you think of 2-3 times when this WAS True?)
I don’t have time for Luke.
I DO have time for Luke (Again, think of examples)
I don’t have time for myself. Ooooooh!
How am I not honoring myself? What comes up when I ask this question? (Think of 2 or 3 examples)
Remember: A projection is ALWAYS about ME! Never about the other person. The other person is
a MIRROR who only projects the hurt, anger, fear, etc., that I am feeling. This is how MY SOUL communicates with me.
“As I began living my turnarounds, I noticed that I was everything I called you. You were merely my
projection. Now, instead of trying to change the world around me (this didn't work), I can put the thoughts on
paper, investigate them, turn them around, and find that I am the very thing I thought you were. In the
moment I see you as selfish, I am selfish (deciding how you should be). In the moment I see you as unkind, I
am unkind. If I believe you should stop waging war, I am waging war on you (or myself!) in my mind.”
The turnarounds are your prescription for happiness. Live the medicine you have been prescribing for
others. The world is waiting for just one person to live it. You're the one.
So the next time you want to give advice to someone, the next time you think someone else SHOULD or
SHOULDN”T do something, do a turnaround! Take time to TURNAROUND each situation and mine for pure
GOLD.
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