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Nands said: (Sat, Jun 19, 2010 05:22:03 PM)

No,Live-in relationship are not at all better than marriages because
in live in relationship there is no commitment.One person can leave
his/her partner any time.There is no life time assurance that ur
partner will always support u at any moment of life.It may happen
that ur partner is living wid u only because of some kind of
infatuation and after some time when that infatuation is over then
he/she can leave u.Bt in marriages there is a commitment and also
law of our country supports Marriages.they dont support live in
relationships.So if a person who is married to u leaves u or tries
to marry someone else then u can challenge him/her in court also.But
in live in relations u cant do so.So I beleive that live in
relations dont offer any guarranty but marrriages are like a bond or
commitment between 2 people and their families
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Siva said: (Wed, Jul 7, 2010 09:39:31 AM)

I think marriages are not good. Because both people left their
parents and relatives alone. especially, ladies have to suffer a lot
today due to boy's cruelness.
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Priya said: (Fri, Jul 16, 2010 11:16:22 AM)

In my point of view, Marriages are always better than any
relationship because your spouse is always for you.. He/she loves
you, liking to be with you, or do any things only because of u... No
one in the world can do for you except your partner.. And also dont
avoid your family or relation ..
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Azeez said: (Mon, Jul 19, 2010 02:23:40 PM)

Hai friends.. I think marriages are not good. because here i want to
say one good example.. suppose we want to buy one bike means.. fist
we analyse that bike characteristic and get details , which one is
better for us after that using . Suppose any one problem is
arriving,, we can change or claim for that. bt after marriage , no
chance for that. whatever happen,we will simply sacrifice our life.
In my point of view marriage life is like a jail life... life is one
so live it happily.... not slavely..
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Naga said: (Tue, Jul 20, 2010 03:35:44 PM)

My god.. I think this question is wrong unto our culture.. Really i
am sorry for this question.Our culture is only expressed by marriage
system!!
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Aman said: (Thu, Jul 22, 2010 07:19:16 PM)

No, the live in relation specially for india is not good.. as it
will destroy the culture or say the remaining culture we are left
with. It will empty us..
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Aman said: (Fri, Jul 23, 2010 10:31:14 AM)

@Azeez : well Azeez u wrote very well... but this can only be
applied to things.... because things are perfect to our work......
but human beings are never perfect....u will always find pros and
cons in any person..... u will never get any person who will be
having only positive points. so when you involved in marriage then
you come to know what responsibility is??? am agree with your point
that if somehow we got the person which we don't like at all.... for
that we have so many options like we can be strict to change the
behavior of your partner or we can have deep talks and one the
important thing we must always share what we like and what we don't
like... this is also applicable to open relations.
At last i want to say one thing... if you want satisfaction
throughout your life......then go for marriage not for open
relationship.. because these are nor persistent...and one more thing
,here for marriage we also have to do hard work for finding our best
buddy........you can also go in the marriage
market...(matrimonial)....like you go for bikes or cars...and i hope
you will one day get good one...all the best
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Ambrish said: (Sat, Jul 24, 2010 11:00:57 PM)

According to my point of view open relationship not good because..
this all things are adopt by the western culture...and the vale of
INDIA in all over the world only for the INDIAN TRADITION and
CULTURE ...... so we need to save our value and shine the world.....
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Vimal said: (Tue, Jul 27, 2010 02:09:24 AM)

As per me... i think the most important thing in any relationship is
the trust... and its not easy to form that thing ...secondly... the
compatability factor...means what better than it is if both the
partner can live together. If both the families have no prob. I
agree that such thing is not that much favorable in our country but
look at the other side also.
What if u marry someone...and later find out that u cant live under
one roof... it may lead to divorce or any such bad consequences...
So its better to check your compatability and i think the best way
is live in relationship...
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Kali said: (Thu, Jul 29, 2010 12:41:31 PM)

Well, if we want to figure out the problems then the problems are in
both. But i support the marriage system of our culture. Whether you
are accept or not. Marriage makes a person responsible towards his
family. He knows what he will have to do for their family.
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By Heart said: (Sun, Aug 1, 2010 10:11:33 PM)

I am completely against of live-in relationship because the most
important thing is there is no social thumbnail on it and no
gaurantty for your future life. your life can be destroyed if the
partner is fraud.
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 Vasila said: (Tue, Aug 3, 2010 02:57:48 PM)
Hi!!!! The entire concept of live -ins suits the western people and
we indian are far behind accepting these things. Yet the youth today
is of the opinion that Live Ins shall be helpful for them to
understand their partners. If it just to understand your partner
there are many other things like talking on phone, chatting or
spending sme quality time with them.
For understanding whether to live wit a person or not will we have
to go against our society. We being part and parcel of our society
should never mess up with such things. For any realtion to be
successful we will have to sacrifice a little so same is the same
with marriages also. But we people today dont wanna sacrifice
anything and wanna have fun too which is may things worse.
So what basically we should understand is its not like in live ins u
understand your partner which will add up for a successful marrigae.
Live ins dont make successful marriages but little compromise and
trust makes it. So the entire idea of live in relationship has to be
eradicated.
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Rakeshraju said: (Thu, Aug 19, 2010 09:37:16 PM)

I would like to say that marriages are better when compared to
living relationships. Because, Indian marriage system consists of
set of rules and regulations say register marriage or traditional
marriage. Where as, for living relationships there is no rules and
regulations and if any thing happens unpredictable in future, there
is no third party involvement. Also, now a days people are just
quiting themselves for small reasongs and especially this is more
with livings.
So guys i would say, go for nice traditional marriage and live your
life happily.
Nothing danger happens if you love your better-half after marriage.
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Aman said: (Mon, Aug 23, 2010 12:06:38 PM)

Hi friends, we cannot forecast that marriage is better or live in
relation for someone. Its depend our personal choice and apathy. If
both patner want to live together it doesn't affect are they married
or not, because they are assured to each other. I oppose the my
frinds who says in marriage we can't live our partner. If spouse
doesnot under stand each other it will create woe.
We can't say our culture does not allow this, as you know we are
going to be western so we should try to adopt it as early as
possible. If you talk about our culture it refrain the women
liberty.
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Sandeep Sharma said: (Thu, Aug 26, 2010 01:20:04 AM)
There are so many assumption people are keep in his\her mind that
living relationship is wrong or write but according to me every
thing's has some write or wrong points.
So wrong point to words live in relation ship that. You unable to
create a social relation's, back ground (family) support and some
time some or more economy problems are to be comes.
Which all problem's not yet come on arrange marriage. If you have
strong economy position then you can but not for longer time because
your mentality agree that men and women can free after some time if
they don't like to each other. If you are in live in relation ship
suppose you(women) got pregnant then after breaking the child future
are insecure. So you can better decide your better future.
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Shankar said: (Thu, Sep 9, 2010 12:44:50 PM)

Hi guys, somebody who is against live-in relationship has said that
the question is wrong but what I find is few people who support the
same are wrong because there is no logic in their points. I want to
say one thing to those who are supporting live-in
relationship"please be clear and logical. If your points which can't
be countered are logical then I'll support you people". But be
logical.
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Swati said: (Fri, Sep 10, 2010 06:16:20 PM)

This is not our culture at all. So why should we discuss on Western
culture?.
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Riya said: (Thu, Oct 21, 2010 01:02:40 PM)

See the real fact is that human's are social animal and they need
someone to love and pamper them. Many people say love happens only
once, but I completely disagree to this point, it is never so. There
is no point in telling that it is not our culture basically how long
can you keep your culture this closed way? Things are changing in
rapid space.
No one have time for each other every one is busy in their own life.
So why interfere in peoples life when they want in that way. And if
this is the way a boy and girl want to keep their relation then they
would be allowed. In other case also they would have all kind of
relations. So why just in front of others they should not go in a
live in thinking of their image in society.
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Jim said: (Sun, Nov 21, 2010 08:34:40 AM)

What culture? I hate the fact that KAMASUTRA originated from India
but when we talk about sexuality, we start talking about 'holy'
culture. KAMASUTRA was our culture.
Now, my opinion is - let it be to your choice. If I like it or I met
with a situation where I had to live-in, don't judge me. I agree
with Riya. I am a modern man. I will have girl friends before
marriage. Sex is there in a relationship. The only difference in
live-in is we are staying together. Having said that, people in
live-in should be really have a strong opinion on what they want,
because there might be emotional attachments and heart breaks later
on. But even long term awesome relationships might develop even from
live-ins. So "live and let live" is my agenda.
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Fal said: (Mon, Dec 20, 2010 02:43:17 PM)

No. I dont agree with the concept of live in relationship. Though
you may sound me conservative butve indian are born and bought in
the culture where we give more importance to our custom, culture and
relation. we have seen or heard from our parent and grandparents
that they use to marry even though that had not seen each other also
but still the marriage was successful. Any relationship needs trust
and understanding and people go for live in relationship thinking
that they will be able to undertand each other but in livin you dont
have any security and it means a lot in any relationship . live in
relationship inderectly means no commitment , not ready to take any
responsibilites.
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Deepak Negi said: (Thu, Dec 23, 2010 09:22:40 PM)

Hey ! my friend jim how you can say that kamasutra is our culture
you are looking to only one side of it, you are not looking to the
richest culutre of the world where lord rama, lord krishna were
born. Still as compare to live in relationship or love marriges the
percentage of arrange marriges is far better this is only beacuse
arrange marrige give you security and trust, while in live ins we
have seen that couples broke over a minute dispute which can be
solved but is not so in arrange marriges.
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Vikram said: (Fri, Dec 24, 2010 06:33:24 PM)

According to me no not at all. As its just killing and spoiling our
Indian culture and heritage. This type of relationship spoils the
life of girls mainly as in future they becomes unable to decide what
they should do with their life. Should they marry and develop their
family or not ? if they marry will their life be as normal as it
should be.
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Jarold said: (Fri, Jan 7, 2011 11:47:20 AM)

Hi this is Jarold...I will go to marriage life..Because our wife

will care more about us than anyone..Other relationship means just
they will look us and say hai. But our wife will care more about us
and she will live for us.So marriage life is best than other
relationship.
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Gokul said: (Sat, Jan 8, 2011 04:45:36 PM)

Live in relationship has become todays trend. It is a fact that this

has stareted in India also. But it will never hav a value of a
married life. Married life is really a commitment you make with your
life partners. But in current world if you see marriage also has
become a live in relationship. It is like a ship, which can even
sink in between or it can reach the shore. If we see in both cases
we don't have any guarantee of the life.
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Deepak said: (Sun, Jan 9, 2011 06:14:39 AM)

Everything has its pros and cons. But according to me the advantages
of marriage are much more than those in live-in relationships. It is
not always necessary that two unknown individuals marry each other.
If one wants to understand the other person there are many other
ways rather than going in for live-in relationships. They can meet
each other regularly and speak their heart out. Only when they feel
comfortable should they marry. Thus, the security and commitment
from both parties can be assured in marriage as well as
disadvantages of live-in relationships can be done away with.
Marriages are better than live-in relationships.
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Rasika said: (Mon, Jan 10, 2011 08:28:15 PM)

i think so this live-in relation does not suits our cultural
heritage. only the married life will give us the full
comfortability. a live-in relation is like a ship without a radder.
only when he or she gets married they will understand the real life.
this life alone gives them life long support and security. this life
alone makes them to face the society boldly.
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Spk said: (Mon, Jan 10, 2011 10:48:25 PM)

i just want to comment on "Azeez said: (Mon, Jul 19, 2010 02:23:40
PM" . he's bike example
azeez think yourself as the bike , and someone bought u now that guy
is replacing u because u have some flows or defects. that time you r
not the subject n u become the object. if u r thinkin for others
,others will also think of u.
in india marriage is not always the love ,it's about understanding
and accepting others with there flows.one should peep in his own
mind ,before commenting on others. i think in live in relations such
respect will not be there. and so my support is to "marriage"
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Kirti said: (Wed, Jan 12, 2011 06:12:15 PM)

In my opinion live in relationship is not better than marriage. Like
science rules live in relationship applies to ideal world. But it
never has been the perfect and ideal. In live in rel. If one partner
betrays the other one the other will be helpless then. He/she can't
do anything about it. Marriages are the most secure method. It gives
you the right to speak against the partner who deceives. And it
supports our culture and makes life disciplined. One learns being
responsible.
So I support the marriage.
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Disha Agarwal said: (Thu, Jan 13, 2011 02:43:01 PM)

friends according to my point of view live -in relationships are

more better as compared to that of marriages because in live-in
relationship we get proper time to understand a person .and after
spending proper time with a person you can know that this person can
adjust with you or not .He or she is capable to understand you or
not and many more things like that .But in case of marriages you do
not have that option whether a person supports you or not love you
or not you have to be with that person because you have made a
comitment and a lawful relation. And rest depends or varies on a
person thinking that what type of person they actually need.
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Harsh Doshi said: (Mon, Jan 17, 2011 10:27:29 PM)

 As Vimal has said: A relationship works out on the trust factor.
Marriage or live-in-relationship both has its pros and cons. In
marriage you marry a person and settle down. It depends on the
partners how the relationship between them works out to. Many
marriages have happy endings and many dont even last for a month. It
is same in live-in-relationship as well. Both can either have happy
and sad endings. According to me the need for today in a country
like India is that we take the positives of both the cases. For eg:
A guy and a gal should meet officially in presence of their
families, and families should also try and give them comfortable
time and space to understand each other. They should spend some
quality time with each other to try and understand each other. Also
families should see to it that they should not force their children
to marry before the right age as it hampers the relationships as
many individuals are not matured enough to understand their
partners.
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Alivia said: (Fri, Jan 21, 2011 01:20:52 PM)

Well according to me marriage is better in any ways because in case

of live in relationship we give our partner a chance to avoid
responsibilities, we cant blame our partner if he or she leaves us
as they can neglect their partner legally, but the bond of marriage
is so strong that one bound to fall in love with his spouse even in
the case of arrange marriage, because marriage is such a great thing
when a couple starts to live together they must love each other, we
hear "happily married", do you hear "happily lived in an open
relationship" ever?not for our country atleast, girls of other
countries are strong enough to face reality or to overcome when her
partner cheats her but we can't move on so easily.
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Parveen said: (Fri, Jan 21, 2011 09:33:10 PM)

well,i think according to indian culture and customs the live in
relations lies no where and marriages are far far better.india is
having a name and fame all across the world and for this one of the
reason is india's unique cultre. but live in relations are like
stigma on the reputation of india.There is no guarantee and no
satisfaction in live in relations..
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Anupriya Singh said: (Sun, Jan 23, 2011 07:49:55 PM)

According to me live in relationship is much better than the
marriages because in marriages girls have to follow certain
responsibilities and there is an boundary line.in this boundary line
like girls have to respect the boys parents and sometime girls
sacrifices their life, job,parents everything.so these things are
not right for any girls.
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Kumar Ujjawal said: (Tue, Jan 25, 2011 12:31:49 AM)
well, i think live in relationship is being liked by those people
who are very much of western minded, want to stay away from
responsibility and go for only joy. marriage is a commitment to
remain with each other in every state of life and for that both of
them have to sacrifice and their sacrifice results in a happy
married life. unfortunately we are very fond showing ourselves
modern but can anyone of us kiss his girlfriend or boyfriend before
our parents??? no... because we are basically Indians, we know our
traditions. no one is perfect and one cannot get a person as per
his/her liking, one has to adjust. one who does not adjust, cannot
be successful in any walk of life, leave alone the marriage.
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Varun said: (Tue, Jan 25, 2011 09:38:17 AM)

According to my views with the help of open relationship we know
each other perfectly what he/she likes what they dislike which is
necessary in future life.What he thinks about her and what she
thinks about him.After know each other than they go for a marriage
and that is the perfect time for a marriage.A long share of a people
in our country takes wrong means of open relationship.
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Malli said: (Fri, Jan 28, 2011 04:30:40 PM)

Good morning friends my name is mallikharjuna, I would like to say
few word about marriage I proudly say that our Indian customs is
very good about the marriage in our India the relation between wife
and husband is very good but some country it is not good I will give
one example that if a person say to him I don't say my person
properties no one then you ask really you will not your wife also
then he replied that my wife is my body. This is our Indian custom
thanque.
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Saurabh said: (Sun, Jan 30, 2011 01:57:52 AM)

HI.........FRIENDS,In my point of view, i think marriage is better

than relationship,bcz whenever u get married with someone than
automatically a family will be created where u can find peace,love
everything.Also a commitment will be formed in which we should be
honest towards our partner.Another thing is u get a huge support of
ur relatives in any kind of bad situation,and also our culture is
not allowing us in doing so.
So MY dear friends i m totally agree with the marriage in place of
live-in-Relationship.
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Ankit Tiwari said: (Tue, Feb 1, 2011 08:48:13 PM)

i think live in relationship is better bcoz dere is no case of dowry
which is a major problem in our country due to which many gals lost
there lives.bt i can be made bst if some limitations are provided by
d government!in live in relationship man and women both have equal
responsibilities .like both have to share every thing.we can think
for utopain in live in relationship.if we have to make our country
developed and controlled populated then this way can be used!in
marraige we have to reproduce but it is not neccesary in live in
relationship it is not neccesary.
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Radhika said: (Tue, Feb 1, 2011 08:58:33 PM)

I would say, that what matters is your relation with your partner.
Be it a love marriage, arrange marriage or a live-in relation.If
there is trust, loyalty and commitment in any relation, it will last
long for years! Live-in relations can lead to Marriages, may be like
marriages made in heaven! So i would conclude Live-in relations
aren't bad at all!
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Swadesh said: (Fri, Feb 4, 2011 02:05:33 PM)

Hi friends, I am swadesh from bhubaneswar. I totally against in
live-in relation because India is a cultural country. It's culture
is very old. Indian does not belive live in relation. Indian belive
marrage life. Because marrage life is a happy life. It is treated as
heaven relationship.
But in westren culture does belive live in relation. They change
his\her life partner randdomly. In our culture marrage life is life
long but his culture relation is like a pleasure. They broke his
relation at one moment also. In our marrage life affection
occure&our family is like a heaven place. So don't follow westren
culture, in our culture understanding is there I. E both belive's
with each other&if some problem aries they solve it good way. In
some case after marrage they broke his relation this is not a good
signal of our culture.
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Yugandhar said: (Fri, Feb 4, 2011 02:32:28 PM)

Well, if I say that live-in is good, m sure many of you are gonna
dislike my comment...
(The main point behind this question is to recruit you by checking
your sence of humour & this question is not asked for anyone's
feedback for giving a message to the people... So give a diplomatic
answer so that you can make the impression on the HR.)
I completelly agreed with Radhika's last comment..
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Yugandhar said: (Fri, Feb 4, 2011 02:34:41 PM)

 Well, if I say that live-in is good, m sure many of you are gonna
dislike my comment...
(The main point behind this question is to recruit you by checking
your sence of humour & this question is not asked for anyone's
feedback for giving a message to the people... So give a diplomatic
answer so that you can make the impression on the HR.)
I completelly agreed with Radhika's last comment..
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Vicky said: (Sat, Feb 5, 2011 04:02:09 PM)

If I say that live-in is good, Im sure many of you are gonna dislike
my comment.
(The main point behind this question is to recruit you by checking
your sense of humour & this question is not asked for anyone's
feedback for giving a message to the people. So give a diplomatic
answer so that you can make the impression on the HR. )
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