Arnold L. De Guzman Jr.

IV-3

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People these days only stick to their routinary tasks. Individuals dedicate their entire life for work; philosophically saying they "live to work" not working in order to have a living. As the movie went on, I think Mitch had changed in terms on how he views life. Mitch was able to change his way of thinking. The turning point of this transformation was the time he actually decided to keep a promise to a friend. Through there, he was able to deviate from the status quo. It is through his journey that he found time to reflect on what really matters in life: a purpose. Both characters benefited from the Tuesday meetings. Though I think Mitch had its greater impact in his life. From the concept of living to his way of living, Mitch's world started to evolve. His life began to have a sense of direction leading to a path of fulfillment and satisfaction. He was able to appreciate precious or valuable things in his life: love and happiness. On the other hand, Morrie undergone series of realization. There was enlightenment through reminiscence. Morrie was able to use introspection, re-assessing the things that made Mitch's life rigid: fears (fear of change). Morrie served as a bridge or an instrument to Mitch as well as Mitch to Morrie. There was symbiosis: touching each others lives. "If you've found meaning in your life, you don't want to go back. You want to go forward". I find this quote to be true in relation with my own experience though subjectively, this may vary. Personally, I wouldn't want to go back because the past made us what and who we are now. I wouldn't change anything on what has transpired. Clinging to the past and the events of regr et will hinder our personal growth. Besides, these regrets still can be mended. It is up to us to strive and make ways for the near future we may have a resolution. Indeed, there may be times that temptation to go back to undo the things we regret would be a great opportunity or chance but it is because of that regrets that made us human, that made us learn. The concept of palliative care given to Morrie was shown in many ways. On the physical aspects, palliative was shown with the care delivered to Morrie either by his support system (family and friends) or by the health care providers (private nurse). Care rendered was very convenient for him because it was given in his comfort zone: his home. On the other aspects of palliative care, which includes emotional and psychological support, Morrie had many support. He had many companions, acquaintances and friends that visited him throughout his dying days. This people, which were part of his life, signifies that he in a way made a impact on the lives of others. Through different conversations and relationship, a sense of accomplishment was established. Finally, Morrie was able to find his meaning of his life, his purpose. Did you find yours?