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AUTHORS BIOGRAPHY
Owusu Achamfour was raised in Worcester, Massachusetts, and is a Ghanaian-American. Growing up as a child, he lived in a conservative Christian family home, where the shaping of his values took place. He believes firmly in acceptance: accepting ones own self and accepting people as they are. Over the years, some of his hobbies have included volunteering in his local community, playing music on the keyboard, and playing sports.
OWUSU ACHAMFOUR
edited by
CHRISTIANA KIM
NOTE
As you read on, know that anything contained in the following pages inherits some risk to cause emotional and/or physical damage upon it being read or followed. This book is not a substitute for medical, legal, or any expert advice in no manner whatsoever; seek professional help if needed. Your discretion should be your guide when following any advice from this book. If you fail to do so, you may encounter peril at your own risk, and you are responsible for your own actions. If you are emotionally unstable or cant handle the information in this book, then dont read on. For ethical and privacy reasons, students shared their stories and quotations in anonymity. Unless you contributed material for this book, anything that bears resemblance to your own personal life is a matter of coincidence. Although the author and publisher have made every effort to ensure the accuracy and completeness of information contained in this book, we assume no responsibility for errors, inaccuracies, omissions, or any inconsistency herein. Any slights of people, places, or organizations are unintentional. Not all information contained herein reflects the authors personal beliefs, unless noted otherwise. Dont continue to read if you dont accept all the terms on this page.
INTRODUCTION
Page i Page ii Page v Page 1 Page 3 Page 25 Page 61 Page 63 Page 75 Page 105 Page 131 Page 133 Page 137 Page 141 Page 142 Page 144 Page 147 ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS MY ARGUMENT FOR THIS BOOK AUTHORS LETTER
APPENDIX
OWUSU TALKS ABOUT COLLEGE SEX GLOSSARY INDEX
This book is dedicated to My Family, My Friends, & All College Students across the United States of America.
ACKNOWLEDGMENTS (Shout-out)
I was behind the core idea of this book. However, I still have a lot of people to thank. I would like to thank all the students who gave me their permission to write their stories and to use their quotes. Although I came up with the subtitle for this book, a Brown University undergraduate, Ariel Caldwell, suggested that College Sex should be the title of the book. I would also like to thank Lisa Jeanne Graf, a graphic designer, for her dedication in designing the book cover. Christiana Kim, a copy editor for the University of Massachusetts Bostons independent student newspaper, served as the editor of this book. And at the end, I would like to thank my family and friends for their support.
So why is this book worth reading? You should continue to read for three main reasons: firstyou will be entertained, secondyou will gain a much bigger picture of the hooking up, hanging out, and relationship scene in college, and third you will learn something new that will help you make your own decisions. To elaborate on the first reason, this book has entertainment value. Even if you set aside the other two reasons, which have practical value, one of the main objectives of this book is to offer entertainment to college students. If you learn something valuable, then sweet. If not, read the narratives, the quotations, the group discussions, and the discussion questions for fun. The narratives and group discussions will make you laugh. The quotations and discussion questions will generate great debate topics. They will spark exciting conversations that will be sure to engage all your friends at the cafeteria table. To elaborate on the second reason, the stories will allow you to go beyond your personal experiences and share in those of others. You will find something to identify with, and you will realize that other college guys and girls are going through experiences similar to yours. To make an analogy, this book gives you some of the pieces to the jigsaw puzzle (hooking up, hanging out, and relationships on campus are a mystery) so you can put things together yourself and see more of the big picture. To elaborate on the third reason, this book can be helpful if you are puzzled by questions that you cant seem to grasp. For example, if you are trying to make a decision whether to hook up, to hang out, or to engage in a committed relationship while on campus, the stories and group discussions contained in here will undoubtedly provide you with differences in perspective that will help you make your own decision, one that is well
informed and best suited to your situation. I wrote this book because I sincerely think it is a good idea to document everyday courtship experiences in college. It can benefit college students and change lives instead of just letting them go to waste. I hope you see what Im saying. To sum up my argument for this book, it will entertain you, give you knowledge as you get to see the big picture, and in turn, you can make well informed decisions. All these three reasons show that no matter how you look at it, this book is needed. Well, enjoy reading College Sex as I enjoyed documenting it.
AUTHORS LETTER
Dear College Student: The college campus, as a courtship ground, is a place where many things are possible. As a college student myself, I hope that you will enjoy reading College Sex. Ultimately, the fun and enduring memories of hooking up, hanging out, and relationships in college are outside the pages of this book. They come from you having your own fun. In the future when you look back, you should not have any major regrets. Instead, you should be satisfied that starting from now, you lived your college life to the fullest. According to the students whom I spoke to, all the stories recounted in here are completely true. Best of Luck, Owusu Achamfour Author
CHAPTER 1
Hooking Up
YES
A physics professor had a saying that goes, Never buy a girl a drink unless you are hundred percent sure that youre gonna get laid. My friend went to a bar where he was checking out a girl. At the end, he told the girl that a physics professor said, Never buy a girl a drink unless you are hundred percent sure that youre gonna get laid. He then asked, Having said that, can I buy you a drink? And the girl replied, Yes.
LAVA LAMP
I was twenty-two years old and living in San Diego. I went down to a bar in Pacific Beach with my friends, where we ended up hooking up with some three girls who were all in college and lived together. They each had their own separate room, so we went to go handle our business. We went back to their place and started drinking. While we were in the middle of hooking up, the girl I was with decided she wanted to stop. She said that she couldnt do this. I agreed, Okay, no problem, since that was her decision. Eventually, we started back up again, and she said, No, no, no. I cant do this. After starting and stopping for a while, I became pissed. She had fallen asleep, so I got up to leave. I was angry, drunk, and decided to take her remotes, which I threw out of her window. I figured that I wasnt going to leave empty handed, so I grabbed her lava lamp on the way out the door. My friends met up with me in the car when they were done. While showing it to them, I said, Oh, look what I grabbed. I grabbed a lava lamp. My other friend said, Holy shit, me too. I grabbed a remote from her. We all thought the night had a funny ending.
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I was looking at the tip and shaft for more bruises caused by the zipper. My girlfriend was laughing at the whole ordeal of me holding my penis in my hand while driving. Soon enough, we gained company when we spotted an old couple a few feet ahead. I quickly put my penis back in my pants, so they wouldnt see it. I came to a gradual stop for them to cross the street. Then we drove off and returned to campus.