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ADOPTION AND RELATED RESOURCES BENEFITS OF A SUPPORT GROUP GROUP HABITS AND NORMS PARENT GROUPS POSITIVELY AFFECT MEMBERS (ARTICLE) PARTICIPANT QUESTIONNAIRE POSITIVE ADOPTION LANGUAGE QUESTIONS FOR POTENTIAL BOARD MEMBERS RESEARCH ON VALUE OF SUPPORT GROUPS RESOURCES STEPS TO DELEGATE EFFECTIVELY VALUE OF ADOPTION GROUPS (ARTICLE) GUIDE TO STARTING A SUPPORT GROUP GUIDE TO ORGANIZING A RESPITE NIGHT DISCUSSION HANDOUTS TRAINING CERTIFICATE (EXAMPLE) SUPPORT GROUP TOPIC SURVEY
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f ro n t a l l o b e
c o n t ro l s t h i n k i n g, planning and reasoning processes
ocipital lobe
b r a i ns v i s i o n c e n t e r
temporal lobe
processes hearing and some language
limbic system
re s p o n s i b l e fo r p ro c e s s i n g emotions
3 Ye a r O l d C h i l d r e n brain stem
basic survival functions ( b re a t h i n g, h e a r t b e a t ) , fi r s t p a r t t o d e v e l o p
cerebellum
c o n t ro l s re fl e x i ve a n d i nvo l u n t a r y m o ve m e n t s
normal
extreme neglect A b r a h a m M a s l o w s H i e a r c hy o f N e e d s
What are we told are the basic needs of human beings? Because our children have experienced neglect, abuse or abandonment on some level...are there basic needs different and/or more complex?
What are some differences you dont see physically but you have witnessed relationally or developmentally with your kids? Why is it difficult for us (particularly fathers) to accept that more than provision is needed to care for these children? How does a brain grow? a relationship? a child? What kinds of experiences are appropriate to strengthen your specific childs mental health? How do you personally overcome that shift in thinking to provide that kind of parenting?
copyright Embrace 2011
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transition to adoption
exploring the final 90 days of relational and practical details in a foster care adoption
only you can decide what is right for your family and if your family is a good fit for that child. you need to understand that adoption is not long term foster care and some things are going to change and some things are going to remain the same. if you havent already, you will receive all the binders CPS has on your child to review.
deciding to adopt
what if a relative is chosen?...what if we change our mind?... what if we have legal standing to intervene?...does it always take 90 days?
the Presentation
you should have negotiated your subsidy agreement prior to your presentation date however this is the final step you take with CPS where you finalize name changes and sign lots and lots of paperwork...kinda like when you buy a house. unless you are adopting on National Adoption Day in November...expect this to be somewhat anti-climactic. Take lots of pictures but dont try and throw a party that night. Just enjoy that youre almost done with all the craziness and paperwork.
finalizing in court
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Islander 1% Unknown or of children adopted from Mixed Race 8% foreign countries by American American families are trans-racial Indian 1%
Suggested Reading:
Hispanic 15%
Brothers & Sisters in Adoption Is black culture what I see on MTV? Should popular media shape who I am? Or how I feel in my skin? I think black culture is learned by Arleta James by being bounced on the knee of my black grandmother after Sunday W.I.S.E. Up! Powerbook lunch. And if the lessons learned there are good for BLACK children, by Marilyn Schoettle they are good for ALL children. - Aaron Chowning, Adult Transracial Adoptee
-Gina Samuels, an associate professor in the School of Social Service Administration at University of Chicago, has focused her research on identity development among trans-racial adoptees.
aspects of culture
art FOOD music
language
literature
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holidays
GAMES religion
clothing
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The purpose of MEPA-IEP is to remove the barriers to permanency facing the many children involved in the child be adopted; facilitate the recruitment and retention of foster and adoptive parents who can meet the particular needs of children waiting to be placed; eliminate discrimination on the basis of the race, color, or national origin 38 of the child or the prospective parent.
copyright 2011 Embrace Waiting Children Inc.
h o w t o t a l k t o yo u r b i o l o g i c a l k i d s a b o u t b e i n g a fo s t e r / a d o p t i ve f a m i l y
a biological perspective
What are some ways we already best for our children and families across the cacy is a proactive defense to do what isadvocate for our children and families? board.
Educating Family and Friends Working with School Districts and Early Childhood Intervention
Who is the spokesperson of your family? How does the other spouse encourage, con rm or support? Where are the hardest places to advocate?
Church Neighborhood School Work CPS/Court Government
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Certificate of Training
2 hours credit
co ee shop
moms
Coffee Shop Moms is a support group for foster and adoptive mothers. Topics of discussion vary monthly and relate to parenting, child development, foster parenting and adoption. Meetings are lead by licensed foster or adoptive parents, specialists in specific fields relating to child development, and Embrace staff. Date/Time: ______________________________ Location: La Madeline, McKinney TX Awarded To: _____________________________ Awarded By: _____________________________ Denise Kendrick, Director of Development denise@embracetexas.org
Certificate of Training
2 hours credit
co ee shop
moms
Coffee Shop Moms is a support group for foster and adoptive mothers. Topics of discussion vary monthly and relate to parenting, child development, foster parenting and adoption. Meetings are lead by licensed foster or adoptive parents, specialists in specific fields relating to child development, and Embrace staff. Date/Time: ______________________________ Location: La Madeline, McKinney TX Awarded To: _____________________________ Awarded By: _____________________________ Denise Kendrick, Director of Development denise@embracetexas.org
Certificate of Training
2 hours credit
co ee shop
moms
Coffee Shop Moms is a support group for foster and adoptive mothers. Topics of discussion vary monthly and relate to parenting, child development, foster parenting and adoption. Meetings are lead by licensed foster or adoptive parents, specialists in specific fields relating to child development, and Embrace staff. Date/Time: ______________________________ Location: La Madeline, McKinney TX Awarded To: _____________________________ Awarded By: _____________________________ Denise Kendrick, Director of Development denise@embracetexas.org
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Please put a check by 3-5 topics below you would like to learn more about. We will collect your input and try to bring the most highly requested topics to your support group. If you have a topic or speaker you wish to suggest [not listed below] please feel free to write it in on the bottom line. ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ The Honeymoon is Over: Adoptive life 1,2 or 3 years later Advocacy at the State Level Always Prepared: How to be ready for your foster placements Kinship by Design: The history of child placing in America STOP YELLING! (working towards a quieter home) Photography for Mommies (Forget JCPenny, you can shoot great pics!) Celebrating Your Childs Culture/Heritage How Your Church Can Care For Orphans Where did I come from? Answers for Adopted Children Aged Out of Foster Care: A young adult shares her story ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ Open Adoption Success How to Tutor Your Child at Home Helping Adoptive Siblings Bond Respite & Relief Care Options Getting Your Spouse On Board Intro to International Adoption Success for Blended Families Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Adoption: Biblical Perspectives Public, Private, Home... School Options
other: *NEW! Starting in May we will invite one mom to share a little about their foster or adoptive journey before we begin the informational portion of our group. If you would like to share, please send an email to Denise at denise@embracetexas.org or call (214)354-6776.
Please put a check by 3-5 topics below you would like to learn more about. We will collect your input and try to bring the most highly requested topics to your support group. If you have a topic or speaker you wish to suggest [not listed below] please feel free to write it in on the bottom line. ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ The Honeymoon is Over: Adoptive life 1,2 or 3 years later Advocacy at the State Level Always Prepared: How to be ready for your foster placements Kinship by Design: The history of child placing in America STOP YELLING! (working towards a quieter home) Photography for Mommies (Forget JCPenny, you can shoot great pics!) Celebrating Your Childs Culture/Heritage How Your Church Can Care For Orphans Where did I come from? Answers for Adopted Children Aged Out of Foster Care: A young adult shares her story ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ ___ Open Adoption Success How to Tutor Your Child at Home Helping Adoptive Siblings Bond Respite & Relief Care Options Getting Your Spouse On Board Intro to International Adoption Success for Blended Families Fetal Alcohol Syndrome Adoption: Biblical Perspectives Public, Private, Home... School Options
other: *NEW! Starting in May we will invite one mom to share a little about their foster or adoptive journey before we begin the informational portion of our group. If you would like to share, please send an email to Denise at denise@embracetexas.org or call (214)354-6776.
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