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Otsego County
United Ways Power
of the Purse, a memorable
evening featuring great food,
musical entertainment, silent and
live purse auctions, takes place
this coming Wednesday evening,
November 16th, from 5:30 to 9:30
pm at the Otsego Club and Resort
in Gaylord. Photo by Cindy Akans
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This coming Tuesday is opening day, and there are several
Buck Poles in the area where hunters can proudly display the
successful result of that opening day hunt, and maybe win a
great prize for their efforts.
Local musician Margaret Madagame performed at the
2010 Gaylord Memory Walk, Swim, Skate event. This
year the Candlelight Vigil will be held Friday evening,
November 11th, and the Walk, Swim, Skate will be held
at the Otsego County Sportsplex on Saturday,
November 12th from 9 am until noon.
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Power of the
Purse 2011
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This coming Tuesday is open-
ing day, which isnt telling hunters
eagerly anticipating the crack of
dawn on November 15th any-
thing they dont already know.
What they may not be aware of,
however, is the location of sever-
al Buck Poles in the area where
they can proudly display the suc-
cessful result of that opening day
hunt, and maybe win a great prize
for their efforts.
By Jim Akans
There are approximately 5.4 million
Americans living with Alzheimers dis-
ease, and it is estimated someone will
develop the disease every 69 seconds.
Even more alarmingly, reports reveal
SEE BECOME A CHAMPION PAGE 4A SEE BUCK POLE PAGE 4A
By Jim Akans
Friday, November 11th is Veterans Day, a date
designate each year honoring those who have
served and are serving our country in the military.
It is not a date that was arbitrarily set; rather, it
marks the occasion of an armistice that was called
on November 11 at 11 am in 1918, ending hostili-
ties between Allied nations and Germany during
World War I.
About the time the final treaty ending that terri-
ble conflict was signed the following June,
President Woodrow Wilson proclaimed the 11th
day of the 11 month to be Armistice Day, and many
communities hold memorial ceremonies at the
11th hour on this holiday. Armistice Day became
an official holiday in 1938, was given the name
Veterans Day in 1954, and while the date moved
around a bit during the early 1970s, it was re-
anchored to the 11th day of the 11th month by a
law signed by President Gerald Ford in 1975.
Please take time this Friday, November 11th, to
honor and recognize the service of those veterans
and active military personnel and if possible,
attend one of the many ceremonies being held in
Northern Lower Michigan communities com-
memorating this special day. And to those who
have or are serving; THANK YOU!
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By Jim Akans
Located just one block south of the heart of downtown Gaylord, the Alpine
Tavern & Eatery is a prime destination for area residents and visitors seeking an
absolutely delicious selection of casual American fare at very reasonable prices.
Opening their doors in June of 2007 as the Alpine Oven, and transforming into
the new Alpine Tavern & Eatery in 2010, this popular Gaylord destination has
become the spot in town where friends gather to enjoy delicious breakfasts,
lunches and dinners in a relaxed, open, family-friendly setting that also features
an outdoor patio during warm weather months.
Alpine Tavern & Eaterys menu features a tantalizing assortment of sandwich-
es, including the recently added slow roasted Beef Brisket and Tennessee Pull
Pork selections, specialty pizzas and homemade soups, including White Bean
Chicken Chili, Alpine Swiss Onion, Beef Barley and Rueben. The Alpine Tavern &
Eatery also offers an expanded menu that includes freshly prepared salads (they
even make their own dressings and sauces at Alpine Tavern), tasty appetizers
such as Portabella Cheese Strips, Panko Breaded Mozzarella Sticks and main
courses including hand cut New York Strip steak and Panko Encrusted Whitefish.
The pub-flavored atmosphere doesnt just look inviting, there are a full selec-
tion of beers, wines and spirits available. One of the more popular beers among
Alpine Tavern customers is Munich Dunkel, which is brewed in nearby
Frankenmuth, Michigan, and another recent addition to their draft selections is
the full-bodied, locally brewed Cheboygan Lighthouse ale.
The Alpine Tavern (Oven) was originally established
by partners Gary Kosch and Dan Bloomquist as a
light-fare oriented diner and carry-out alternative in
downtown Gaylord. The menu and service hours
were expanded to include breakfasts just a few
months after the restaurant opened. In late 2008,
familiar faces James and Colleen Hickey joined the
partnership team.
We enjoy being a part of a locally-owned and oper-
ated business here in Gaylord, states Colleen Hickey.
This is a very community-oriented place to live and
work, and the Alpine Tavern & Eatery, being a family-
owned operation, has become a part of that character.
We are very excited about the changes we have been
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By Jim Akans
Never mind deer camp, the most anticipated
November event for many Northern Lower Michigan
area women this coming week is the Otsego County
United Ways Power of the Purse, a memorable
evening featuring great food, musical entertain-
ment, silent and live purse auctions, and a whole lot
of camaraderie and fun. It all takes place this com-
ing Wednesday evening, November 16th, from 5:30
to 9:30 pm at the Otsego Club and Resort in Gaylord.
This has always been a very popular fundraising
event for the United Way, states Otsego County
United Way Executive Director, Lorraine Manary.
We will have a wide variety of beautiful and unique
purses to bid one, a delicious meal prepared from
the holiday menu at The Otsego Club, and speed
painting artist Martina Hahn will be creating a spe-
cial painting during the event that will be raffled to a
lucky winner.
Manary notes there will also be a new element to
this years Power of the Purse event; a special Wall of Wine
from which attendees can bid for one or more bottles of sea-
sonal cheer to take home for just $20 each.
The catch is, she points out, the bottles will be wrapped so
the bidder wont know what they are getting until they actually
unwrap them. Each will be valued at a minimum of $20, so it
will be an exciting surprise that is well worth the amount they
will be bidding.
And the proceeds from those bids, as well bids for the silent
and live auction items and a portion of the ticket price, will be
utilized to help fund the many community and agency pro-
grams the United Way supports all year long.
This is the major fundraising event we hold during our fall
campaign season, Lorraine Manary affirms. The United Way
works on many levels to support the building blocks for essen-
tial programs in our community, focusing on the areas of
health, education and income.
The 2011 Power of the Purse event is being sponsored by the
Solo io Institute for Anti-Agin and Rejuvenation, Paxton
Resources and Treetops Resort. Local realtor, Bill Blaker, will
once again serve as the charismatic auctioneer for the evening,
and Jim Akans and members of his band; Stormfront will be
playing live music prior to the start of the auction. Rumor has
is there may even be a few impressive cartwheels down the run-
way during the live auction event
Manary points out that tickets for the event, which are $40
per person, are going fast, and seating is limited. Those who
check out the Otsego County United Ways Facebook page may
even find a special deal still available on ticket purchases.
Dont go hunting in the cold outdoors, come hunt for a fabu-
lous purse and join the fun in the warm, elegant setting of the
Otsego Club on Wednesday evening, November 16th starting at
5:30 pm.
To reserve your spot, or for additional information, contact
Pam Beasinger at the Otsego County United Way at (989) 732-
8928 or email Pam@OtsegoUnitedWay.org.
G A Y L O R D
Power of the Purse is a fun-filled evening featuring a silent and live purse auction, benefiting agencies and programs served by
the Otsego County United Way.
A delicious
holiday meal
and desert
will be offered at
Power of the
Purse, specially
prepared by the
Otsego Club and
Resort culinary
staff.
Entertainment during Power of the Purse will include a live performance by
speed painter, Martina Hahn, and music by Jim Akans (right) and Rick
Graustein (left).
Photo by Cindy AkAns
Photo by Cindy AkAns
Photo by Cindy AkAns
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that as many as one in eight people 65 years and over have
been diagnosed with this terrible affliction, and it has earned
the rather unwelcome status of being the fifth leading cause of
death for those over 65.
This coming weekend, there are two events happening in
the Gaylord community, organized by the Gaylord Memory
Walk, Swim, Skate for Alzheimers Committee and the Otsego
County Commission on Aging, that provide an extraordinary
opportunity to honor those who have been stricken by
Alzheimers and show your support in helping the Alzheimers
Association move forward in the cause for care and in
research for a cure.
On Friday evening, November 11th, a Candlelight Vigil will
be held at the Alten Zimmer Dining Room on Grandview
Boulevard in Gaylord beginning at 6 pm. This touching cere-
mony honors those who suffer with Alzheimers, offers a
remembrance of those who have succumbed to the disease,
and recognizes the many caretakers who tend to the needs
and spirits of those afflicted by it.
On Saturday, November 12th, the 14th Annual Gaylord
Walk, Swim, Skate for Alzheimers will take place at the Otsego
County Sportsplex in Gaylord. The Alzheimers Associations
Memory Walk is the nations largest event for raising aware-
ness of and funding for the care and support of those afflicted
by Alzheimers, and for research that will someday lead to a
cure. This is the only event in Michigan that offers participants
the chance to skate or swim as part of the program.
Its easy to become a champion to help end Alzheimers and
participate in this event.
Simply visit the www.alz.org website and follow the Walk
link at the top of the page.
You can also register right at the event on Saturday.
Registration begins at 8:30 am, the Opening Ceremony will
begin at 9 am, and activities will start after the opening and
run until 11:30, when the Closing Ceremony will take place.
There will be a raffle drawing held during the Closing
Ceremony. Tickets are $20 each, a maximum 300 tickets will
be sold, with a grand prize of $1,000, first runner up is $300,
second runner up is $100, and there will be seven $50 prizes.
Tickets can be purchased (call the Otsego County
Commission on Aging at 989-732-1122 for info) up to and
including the morning of the event. All funds raised will help
with research and provide supportive services right here in
Northern Michigan.
Many volunteers assist to make the walk possible, and Max
Broock Realtors, Real Estate One, Johnstone & Johnstone,
Comfort Keepers, and Brookdale Senior Living have stepped
forward as the major sponsors for the walk. There will be sev-
eral vendors in the lobby area of the Otsego County Sportsplex
during the event, and local musician Jim Akans will provide
live music.
Please join the Candlelight Vigil on November 11th, and the
2011 Gaylord Walk, Swim, Skate for Alzheimers this November
12th and become a part of the effort the Alzheimers
Association is taking every day in the cause for care and
research for a cure.
Veterans Day Continued...
Become a champion
continued...
Buck Pole continued...
AtlAntA There will be a ceremony at the Veterans
Monument at 11 am on Friday.
CheboygAnOn Friday morning, there will be student
presentations and a guest speaker at Cheboygan High School
starting at 8:15 am, the public is invited. Chris Graham will be
the guest speaker, and there will be a reading of the Voices of
Democracy essay winner and music by the high school band.
Other ceremonies at area schools will include;
Thursday, November 10, 2011
Bishop Baraga School -10:00am - 10:45am
East Side School - 2:00 pm -2:30pm
Friday, November 11, 2011
Cornerstone Christian School - 9:15am - 9:45am
West Side School - 10:00am- 10:30am
Families are asked to remove flags and flag holders from the
veterans grave and store the flag holder for the winter to be
put back on the veterans grave in May of 2012.
Also, the Vietnam Veterans Chapter 274 Christmas for
Kids Toy Drive in progress. Drop off boxes are at Glens,
Dollar General and Walmart. Contact Tracy Heath, 231-445-
1029, if you know a family in need this Christmas or leave a
message at the Vietnam Veterans Chapter 274 their number
is 231-625-2902.
gAylord The Annual Gaylord Middle School program
will begin with coffee and doughnuts at 9 am, followed by the
student presentation. After the program, at 11 am, a ceremo-
ny at the Veterans memorial in front of the County
Courthouse. VFW Post 1518, The Eagles, Elks, Ladies Auxiliary,
the 4th Degree of the Knights of Columbus and Sheriff
McBride will all present wreaths at the service.
grAyling - The Crawford County Commission on Aging
& Senior Center would like to invite the public to join us for a
special Veterans Day program honoring all Veterans on Friday,
November 11th at 11:00 am. There will be patriotic music,
inspirational readings and all Veterans will be recognized.
The program will last about 1 hour with lunch following. All
Veterans will eat free. No registration necessary. For more
information, contact the Senior Center at (989) 348-7123.
indiAn river Events on Veterans Day, November 11th
will include;
8:45 am Wolverine Elementary School 5th grade breakfast
by the Wolverine American Legion and Indian River VFW
11:00 am Memorial Service at the Topinabee Cemetery at
the graveside of Sgt. Walter E. Hutchinson
4:30 6:30 pm Join with Pastor Bob Moody of Joy
Fellowship Church at the Cross in the Woods Family Center
for an Eat for Heat dinner with honors paid to our commu-
nitys military verterans
6:45 pm Candlelight Memoria Service at Cochoran-
Roberts Post 7439 VFW Indian River Ladies Auxiliary with
reading of the names listed on The Memorial Wall.
Refreshments to follow the ceremony provided by the
Cochran-Roberts Post 7439 VFW and Ladies Auxiliary
JohAnnesburg/lewiston - A Veterans Day
Ceremony will be held on Friday, November 11th at the
Johannesburg-Lewiston School. It is being put on by the VFW
and the American Legion. Breakfast will be served by the stu-
dents at 8:15 am and a presentation/ceremony will be held
afterward.
Petoskey - Veterans and their families are invited to a free
breakfast at the North Central Michigan College cafeteria on
Friday, November 11, from 8 a.m. until 11 a.m. The colleges
Student Veterans Association and Chase Bank are sponsoring
the event to show appreciation to our local veterans and their
families.
No reservations are necessary.
Boyne City - Boyne Coop True Value will be holding a Buck
Pole Contest Nov. 15-16. Register by 5:30 p.m. Nov. 14, at the
Coop, 113 S. Park St., Boyne City. The registration fee is $20,
and there will be prizes for the top scores for men, women,
youth and overall score. The Coop is donating 25% of the
proceeds to the Boyne City Food Pantry. Free hot dogs and
beverages will be served from 5 to 7 p.m. on Nov. 15 and 16.
Mancelona - Mancelona Chamber of Commerce plays
host to northern Michigan's oldest and most popular Buck
Pole, November 15 and 16, downtown Mancelona (at the
traffic light on US 131 at M-88). The contest opens at daylight
on November 15, and runs continuously until 7:00 p.m. on
November 16.
Hunters gather every year to share stories, photos and
enjoy the warming tent, food booths, bonfire and chances to
win great cash prizes. The buck pole also features a raffle
drawing with numerous prizes.
Lucky hunters are invited to register their deer at the buck
pole. For a $5 registration fee, theyll receive a cap, patch and
photo of themselves with their deer. The deer will be hung
on the buck pole and hang your deer on the pole the hunter
will have a chance to win a cash prize.
All registration money received goes into the "Lucky
Hunter" drawing. One name will be pulled out, and that
Lucky Hunter will receive all registration money, with a guar-
anteed minimum prize of $200, regardless of the size of the
deer!
Indian River - Northern Michigans Largest Buck Pole at
Pat & Garys Party Store #1 all day on November 15th. Pre reg-
istration is by closing time on the 14th at the store. There is
no cost to register. Everyone who registers and brings in a
buck will get a prize. The First Prize is a Kimber 8400 LA
Classic, 270 Winchester with Leopold 3-9 Scope. Second
prize is a Browning A-Bolt .308 Redfield 4-12 Scope. Third is
a Marlin .243 Sightron 3-9 Scope. There tons of other prizes,
over 100 prizes total, most donated by local businesses.
Prizes awarded after last bucks are brought in by 8 pm on
the 15th deadline
Mackinaw Outfitters Buck Pole in Mackinaw City. Buck
pole will be located in front of the store and will be open
from Tuesday, November 15th through Saturday, November
19th. Hours are Tuesday through Thursday, 9 am until 6 pm,
Friday from 9 am until 8 pm, and Saturday from 9 am until 5
pm. There is no registration required.
Prizes will be awarded at 5 pm on Saturday, and will
include; first youth, first male and first female to bring in a
buck. All bucks that are entered will be eligible for the grand
prize drawing on Saturday. Prizes are; First Place; $250 gift
certificate, Second Place; $100 gift certificate, Third Place;
$25 gift certificate.
Grayling Skips Sport Shop- 53rd Annual Buck Pole.
Awards will be given out Tuesday, November 15th &
Wednesday, November 16th at Skips Sports Shop. Get your
Orange Coat Round-Up Buttons early for only $2.00 (avail-
able at Skips Sports Shop, the Grayling Chamber and around
town). Helps support operationof the Grayling Buck Pole
(sponsored by the Camp Grayling Conservation Club).
Cash Awards for Bucks (may win in multiple categories):
First Deer Each Day, First 10 Deer Each Day, First Lady
Hunter Each Day, Youngest Hunter Each Day, Oldest Hunter
Each Day, Heaviest Buck Each Day & Biggest Rack Each Day
and SCOPED HUNTING RIFLE for Largest Scored Rack Over
Both Days.
Hillman - The Hillman Area Chamber of Commerce is
holding their 2011 Buck Pole Contest on November 15th and
16ht. There is no entry fee, though bucks must be shot with-
in 25 miles of the Hillman area. The Buck Pole will be open
from sunrise until 9 pm. Prizes will included; Largest Rack
Marlin 30.06 Rifle, Second Largest Rack (Head Mount or
$250), Heaviest Buck (skin, cut and wrap by Morrisons
Market), 2nd Heaviest Buck (Gift Certificate), First Buck Each
Day (Gift Certificate), Lady with Largest Rack (Gift Package
from Northern Styles), Next two to Hang on Buck Pole (Gift
Certificates).
Vanderbilt The 24th annual Buck Pole will ber hosted
Elkhorn Grill on November 15th from 7 am to 7:30 pm. First,
Second and Third cash prizes for widest inside spread plus
points. Weight is tiebreaker. Several other prizes for first
buck, youngest male and female hunter and biggest youth
buck (16 & under) ,oldest hunter and most non-typical rack.
Bonfire, hot dogs chili, hot chocolate and coffee starting
around 5 pm.
Onaway (chamber) 989-733-2874 The Onaway Chamber
of Commerce presents Chamber will their annual Big Buck
Contest on opening day, November 15th, from 10 am until 7
pm. Bucks must remain on the pole until 7 pm. Biggest
Bucks (points and spread) - First Prize is a full shoulder
mount (Leaton & Judys Taxidermy), Second is a NuWay Stove
and Third is a set of Bushnell Binoculars (Parrotts Outpost)
and Fourth is a $50 gift certificate to Red Oak Gunsmithing.
Other prizes will include; Oldest Hunter ($60 gift card
Dans Meat Processing), Biggest Buck Hunter under 16
years old ($25 gift card Parrotts Outpost), Biggest Buck
Woman Hunter ($25 gift card to Manzanas), and Youngest
Hunter (large pizza from Bobby Bs Pizza).
Lewiston ACE Hardware will Buck Pole on November
15th from daylight to dusk. Prizes to be determined.
Good luck to all hunters, and have a safe, enjoyable hunt.
NEMCSA - TEFAP (The Emergency Food Assistance Program)
USDA is an equal opportunity provider
Distribution: November 16th,
Wednesday 10:30 - 1pm at The United Way Building
ID- Michigan Drivers license or State ID card
Proof of Address
(NO P.O. Boxes accepted) (Utility bill will show service address)
You must sign an income declaration statement*
USDA Quarterly Surplus Food Distribution
For Low-Income Families and Seniors
Sign Up is Ongoing
United Way at 732-8929
Information Needed to apply:
Only ONE application per household!
If you have questions, or need more information, please contact:
Buck poles have been around for a long time, as demonstrated by this 1949 vintage shot of a group of
hunters before a buck pole in the Frederic area.
Courtesy Photo
Venus & Blue Jeans
offers gently used designer clothing,
accessories & home dcor items
By Jim Akans
Venus & Blue Jeans, launched by Cheryl Scheer in October
of 2009, is sort of a shabby chic boutique, primarily focusing
on consignment sales of upscale designer/brand name cloth-
ing items, from just a few years old to recently off the rack, dis-
played in a comfortable, easy to browse showroom on the
Westside of Gaylords downtown business district.
We have a wonderful assortment of name-brand clothing
and accessories, states Cheryl Scheer, often including Lucky
brand, Silver jeans, American Eagle, Abercrombie, Hollister
and Ralph Lauren. We encourage people to bring in their
designer and name brand items and consign them.
The selections at Venus & Blue Jeans also offer a wonderful
collection accessories such as purses, shoes and jewelry, as
well as a selection of home furnishings, jewelry and antiques.
The consignment arrangement at Venus & Blue Jeans is
refreshingly straightforward, offering a 50/50 split between
the shop and the consigner. Clothing items must be no more
than a few years old, clean, free of stains and in ready for the
rack conditions. Clothing is kept for 60 days, and is marked
down after 30 and 45 days. All consignment request must be
made by appointment
The atmosphere is friendly and upbeat, and there is plenty
of parking conveniently located right next to the shop.
Venus & Blue Jeans is open Monday through Friday from 11
am until 5:30 pm, and from 11 am until 4 pm on Saturday, is
located at 340 W. Main Street in Gaylord, and can be reached
at 989-731-2600.
The holiday spirit is rocking your way!
Winter is approaching and with that comes Staffords
Downtown Petoskey Holiday Parade on Saturday, November
26 at 10 am. The parade will follow the traditional route from
the high school, down Mitchell Street (on one side of the
boulevard only), to Petoskey, Lake and Howard, ending at the
Perry Hotel where children can have those all-important con-
versations with Santa and see his reindeer as well. Join us for
a time of family, friends, and fun!
Staffords Hospitality is the title sponsor of the parade. The
parade theme this year is Rock Around the Clock. Downtown
is looking for area businesses and organizations to create the
best float, walking ensemble, or musical entry with rock-n-roll
as inspiration. The clock portion of the theme can also be
used, especially for companies celebrating anniversaries, or
where it is appropriate.
Applications are online at www.petoskeydowntown.com.
Applications should be faxed to 231-439-6399 by close of busi-
ness November 21.
For more information on holiday events, contact
Downtown Events Coordinator, Kathy Bardins, at 231-487-
1188.
A turning point for our friends and neighbors in need has
arrived. Trained Call Specialists are now available to connect
people in Otsego County with services in their local commu-
nities, thanks to the launch of a new community information
and referral toll free service. Lorraine Manary, Otsego
County United Way Executive Director, shared: 1-888-636-
4211 is a free telephone number that connects callers with
resources, 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. People looking for
assistance can find it difficult to navigate the complicated
web of health and human service programs and often dont
know where to begin. Now, help is available by simply picking
up the phone and dialing this toll free number.
Manary added, any health and human service provider
who is curious about being included in the database or would
like to be listed can call the United Way or 2-1-1 and we will
provide you with a basic information form to complete. By
dialing 1-888-636-4211, callers will be connected with a
trained, caring professional who will assess their situation,
identify their needs and refer them to local resources who can
help. Individuals who need information on how to volunteer
or have items to donate to their community can also connect
by calling the same toll free number. The 2-1-1 Northeast
Michigan provides information and referral for:
- Basic Human Needs: food, clothing, shelter, utility assis-
tance, etc. - Physical and Mental Health: medical informa-
tion, crisis intervention services, support groups and coun-
seling, etc. - Support for Older Americans and People with
Disabilities: home health care, adult day care, independent
living, workforce training, Meals on Wheels, etc.
- Support for Children, Youth and Families: quality child-
care, early childhood programs, after-school programs, sum-
mer camps, mentoring, tutoring, etc. - Crisis Calls: suicidal
thoughts, domestic violence, Public Health Emergencies, etc.
As an outreach of 2-1-1 Northeast Michigan the agency is
offering residents of Otsego County the ability to GET CON-
NECTED and GET ANSWERS with the use of their toll free
number. Over the next several months, 2-1-1 Northeast
Michigan will continue to work toward achieving the neces-
sary approvals for providing coverage with its easier to
remember three digit phone number. Bringing this impor-
tant service to our region was very much a collaborative
effort. The Dow Chemical Company and Consumers Energy
are a leading force in bringing this service online in our
region. In addition, generous financial support has been
provided by: Otsego County Commissioners, Otsego County
United Way, GoodWill Industries, NEMCSA, Fox Farm
Consulting, and North Country Community Mental Health
For additional information, simply dial toll-free (888) 636-
4211, or visit our web site at: www.211nemichigan.org
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H I D D E N T R E A S U R E S
Offering gently used designer clothing, accessories & home dcor items,
Venus & Blue Jeans is located at 340 W. Main Street in Gaylord.
Photo by Jim AkAns
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BOYNE CITY
Challenge Mountain
Resale Shop
1158 S. M-75
Boyne City
231-582-5711
www.challengemtn.org
CHARLEVOIX
Consign Design
100 Van Pelt Pl., Charlevoix
231-237-9773
www.consigndesign.net
Bergmann Center
Resale Shop
8888 Ance Road
231-547-9624
www.bergmanncenter.org
Kellys Antiques &
Furniture Barn
06176 Old US 31 S., Charlevoix
231-547-0133
www.dkellyantiques.com
ELLSWORTH
Good Samaritan
Furniture & More Store
6517 Center St.
Downtown Ellsworth
231-588-2208
thegoodsam.org
FREDERIC
Pineview Military Surplus
7328 Old 27 North
Frederic
989-348-8300
GAYLORD
A-2-Z Resale
1829 Old 27 South,
Gaylord
989-732-9500
Goodwill Retail and
Donation Center
1361 Pineview Dr. (near Lowes)
Gaylord
989-705-1747
www.goodwillnmi.org
Great Rooms
Quality Pre-Owned Furniture
148 W. Main Street
Gaylord
989-745-5184
www.greatroomsgaylord.com
GAYLORD
Angels at Work
Resale
1523 S Otsego Ave.
Gaylord
989.448.8615
Venus & Blue Jeans
340 West Main St.
Gaylord
989-731-2600
www.venusandbluejeans.com
New Beginnings Thrift Shop
650 W Conway Rd.
Harbor Springs
231-348-2980
HARBOR SPRINGS
Habitat for
Humanity Restore
8460 M-119
Harbor Springs
231-347-8440
HARBOR SPRINGS
Quality Sports & Tools
Consignment
1221 W Conway Rd.
Harbor Springs
231-487-0152
www.qtsconsignments.com
INDIAN RIVER
Finders Keepers Antiques
& Consignment Shop
3639 S. Straits Hwy.
Indian River
231-238-5000
MANCELONA
Mancelona Food Pantry
& Resale Shop
201 N. Maple St.
Mancelona
231-587-9606
MIO
Strawberry Patch ReSale
Consignment
Downtown Mio
989-826-1503
ONAWAY
Second Chance Thrift Store
20420 State St., Onaway
989-733-9671
PETOSKEY
Challenge Mountain
Resale Shop
2429 US31 North, Petoskey
231-348-3195
www.challengemtn.org
Goodwill Retail and
Donation Center
1600 Anderson Road
Petoskey
231-348-6947
www.goodwillnmi.org
Hidden Treasures
Northern Michigan Treasure Hunters Guide to area
antique, consignment, resale and thrift shops
In the Rough, Professionally Painted
or Completely Restored
Over 7,000 sq. ft. of Furniture, Antiques & Goodies
06176 Old U.S. 31 South, Charlevoix, MI 49720
E-Mail: donkellyantiques@yahoo.com
FURNITURE BARN
(231) 547-0133 Cell (231) 881-0353
Web: dkellyantiques.com
CUSTOM & ANTIQUE
FURNITURE
Call for entries for
the Downtown
Petoskey Holiday
Parade
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service in Otsego County
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GAYLORD
Auditions for Escanaba
in da moonlight
Auditions for Escanaba in da
Moonlight will take place
November 10th at 7:30pm at
the Michaywe clubhouse. If
you have any questions
please feel free to call Chuck
Bump at 989-732-3617.
GAYLORD
FINAL WEEK to sign
up for Bear Basketball
3-6 Grade
Now in its 24th year, Bear
Basketball leagues will begin
soon. 3rd 6th grade boys
and girls League begins in
January. Player draft for team
selection will be held in Mid-
November. Final date to reg-
ister is November 17.
Registration Register on-line
at www.BearBasketball.org.
All games take place at the
Otsego County Community
Center, 315 S. Center St. Cost
is only $15. This is Northern
Michigans premier youth
basketball program and
includes more than 400
youth from all over Northern
Michigan. Boys and girls
grades 3-6 can sign up at the
Community Center.
GAYLORD
Community orchestra
rehearsal
The Gaylord Community
Orchestra has begun rehears-
ing for the Christmastime
Community Concert on Dec.
17. The string section is
rehearsing in the band room
at St. Mary School on N.
Otsego from 7-8:30pm each
Monday. The winds and per-
cussion will join these
rehearsals in a few weeks. For
info call Gary Waldo, 989-
619-3136 or Joanna Bozin
989-732-3080.
NORTHERN MICHIGAN
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including Gaylord, Petoskey,
Cheboygan, Grayling, Indian
River, Onaway, Mio,
Lewiston, Mancelona and all
surrounding towns. Contact
us at
Office@WeeklyChoice.com
or call 989-732-8160.
GRAYLING
Creative Classes
AuSable Artisan Village Art
Center is offering new cre-
ative classes throughout the
year. These classes are
offered by seasoned profes-
sional artists with something
to share! For more informa-
tion about the classes, please
visit www.artgalleryaav.org.
The AuSable Artisan Village
Art Center is located in
downtown Grayling at 219
Michigan Ave. in the old Ben
Franklin five and dime.
The class schedule for 2011
is:
November 12: Stan Prevosts
Walk on the WIDE side, a
lecture demonstration about
panoramic photography.
December 3: Metalwork
Jewelry (pendant) class with
Nancy Cornett.
December 10: Metalwork
Ornament class with Nancy
Cornett.
GRAYLING
Matter of Balance
Managing Concerns about
Falls Program every Monday
& Wednesday at 9-11am thru
November 30th at the
Grayling Senior Center. Many
older adults experience con-
cerns about falling & restrict
their activities. This program
is an award-winning pro-
gram designed to manage
falls & increase activity levels.
For more information or to
sign up, call 989-348-7123.
GAYLORD
Hunting for Actors
Auditions for Escanaba in da
Moonlight will take place
November 10th at 7:30pm at
the Michaywe clubhouse.
There are some great roles for
men between 30 and 60 years
old, and one womans part.
We welcome anyone who is
interested, whether they
have acting experience or
not. Wed especially like some
hunters to audition.
GRAYLING
AARP Driver Safety
Program
The Crawford County
Commission on Aging is
sponsoring the AARP Driver
Safety Program, a classroom
driver refresher course for
drivers aged 50 and older.
AARP developed this course
to help drivers improve their
skills and prevent crashes.
This course covers the age-
related physical changes in
perception and reaction
time, local driving problems
and rules of the road. The
certified AARP volunteer
instructors will be presenting
this course through a combi-
nation of group discussion
and videotapes. There are no
tests, and all participants
who complete the course will
receive a certificate of com-
pletion that may be eligible
for an automobile insurance
discount. The class will be
held in Grayling on
November 10 from 8:30am
until 4:30pm at the Crawford
County Commission on
Aging & Grayling Senior
Center at 308 Lawndale
Street. The fee for this course
is $10 payable to AARP. There
will not be a fee for Veterans.
For more information or to
register please call 989-348-
7123.
MACKINAW CITY
VA Clinic Dedication
ceremony
The Cheboygan County
Veterans Affairs Community
Based Outpatient Clinic
invites you to attend their
Dedication Ceremony on
Nov. 10. Ceremony begins at
1, refreshments served until
3pm. They are located at
14540 Mackinaw Highway
(the old Voyageurs Jubilee
Dinner Theater).
GAYLORD
Immunization clinic
Community Immunization
Clinic November 10 from
4pm to 7pm at Gaylord
Intermediate School
Cafeteria in Gaylord. All are
welcome! Please schedule an
appointment. Parents and
guardians, you must accom-
pany your children (17 and
younger). We can charge
Medicaid, Medicare, or pri-
vate health insurance pro-
grams for the immunization
charges. If you are uninsured,
we accept cash and checks
for immunizations (sorry, no
credit cards). Charge for flu
vaccine is $25; charge for
other vaccines vary. We do
not turn away anyone 18 or
younger for inability to pay
for required immunizations.
For more information and to
schedule an appointment,
call the Health Department
of Northwest Michigan to
schedule an appointment at
800-432-4121.
GAYLORD
Books are Fun
Sponsored by the Otsego
Memorial Hospital Auxiliary.
Nov. 10 from 9am to 4pm,
Nov. 11 from 7am to 2pm
held in the hospital class-
room. Lots of new books,
gifts and novelties all pro-
ceeds go towards the auxil-
iary's pledge to the hospital
ROSCOMMON
God of Carnage
Presented by the Rising
Phoenix Student Theatre
Company November 10th at
Noon and 7pm. Friday,
November 11th at 7pm at
Kirtland Center for the
Performing arts. God of
Carnage is a play by Yasmina
Reza. It is about two pairs of
parents, one of whose child
has hurt the other at a public
park, who meet to discuss
the matter in a civilized man-
ner. However, as the evening
goes on, the parents become
increasingly childish, result-
ing in the evening devolving
into chaos. God of Carnage
won the Tony for Best Play
in 2009. Order by phone at
989-275-6777.
GRAYLING
Flu shot clinic
The Crawford County
Commission on Aging &
Senior Center will be hosting
a Walgreens Flu Shot Clinic
on Friday, November 11th
from 3:00-5:00pm and again
on Friday, November 18th
from 3:00-5:00pm. *$0 out of
pocket cost fro Medicare Part
B recipients. Bring your
Medicare card or other insur-
ance card that covers the
shot. Non-insured seniors
will be charged $31.00 for the
shot. Please call 348-7123 for
an appointment.
GRAYLING
Veterans Day Program
The Crawford County
Commission on Aging &
Senior Center would like to
invite the public to join us for
a special Veterans Day pro-
gram honoring all Veterans
on Friday, November 11th at
11am. There will be patriotic
music, inspirational readings
and all Veterans will be rec-
ognized. The program will
last about 1 hour with lunch
following. All Veterans will
eat free. No registration nec-
essary. For more informa-
tion, contact the Senior
Center at (989) 348-7123.
GAYLORD
Free dinner for Vets
Marsh Ridge Resort under-
stands the dedications, com-
mitment & sacrifices that
Veterans make every day to
keep our nation free. To show
their appreciation, Marsh
Ridge Resort would like to
honor our Vets with a com-
plimentary dinner on
November 11th at Jacs Place;
with a purchase of a paid
meal. Reservations recom-
mended, 732-5552; Chef
Steven Rich, US Army & Sous
Chef Tom Corbin, US Army.
GAYLORD
Thank you soldiers
Soldiers say that a simple
Thank You means so much.
Say your THANK YOU by
helping support our overseas
Military. Saturday, November
12th, Zips 45th Parallel
Harley Davidson will be col-
lecting needed items to send
care packages to our soldiers
overseas, along with any
monetary donations to help
defray the shipping cost.
Write a letter or card of
appreciation for all that they
are doing for us and that we
have not forgotten them. Go
to our website
www.zips45thhd.com or stop
by & pick up a list of needed
items.
GRAYLING
Pancake supper
Community of Christ Church
in Grayling located at the
corner of N. Down River Rd
and Glenn St is holding a
Pancake Supper Nov 12 from
5pm to 7pm cost is by dona-
tion.
GRAYLING
Festival of Trees
November 12th 19th at the
Grayling Mini Mall -View
spectacularly decorated trees
during Festival of Trees.
Purchase tickets to win a
chance at winning your
favorite tree! Over 30 beauti-
ful trees decorated by local
businesses will be on display
in the Grayling Mini Mall
(next to Hallmark) from
Nov.12-19. Sponsored by the
Grayling Promotional
Association, an organization
that enthusiastically pro-
motes all the wonderful
things about the Grayling
area, the festival is its biggest
fundraiser.
GRAYLING
Stan Prevosts, Walk
on the WIDE side
Saturday, November 12th at
the AuSable Artisan Village
Art Center/Gallery -a lecture
demonstration about
panoramic photography. For
more information about this
& more classes offered at the
AAV, please visit www.art-
galleryaav.org.
PETOSKEY
Blissfest Fall Concert
Series presents
Ragbirds
A fusion of world rhythms
stirred with a Celtic fiddler's
bow. Tickets are $10 for
Blissfest Members; $15 for
Not-yet-members; Students
are half off. November 12,
8pm at Crooked Tree Arts
Center
GRAYLING
Low Cost Animal
Vaccination Clinic
Saturday, November 12th -
AuSable Valley Animal
Shelter in Grayling will hold a
low cost vaccination clinic
offering rabies vaccinations
for dogs and cats which will
be available for $14.00 each.
If your pet has had previous
shots, please bring your lat-
est certificate so that you can
get a 3 year vaccination.
Other booster shots will also
be available for $14.00 each.
No appointments are neces-
sary as this is a walk-in clinic.
2012 Crawford County dog
licenses will be available.
MACKINAW CITY
Holiday Expo
St. Anthony's CCW Holiday
Expo, 600 W. Central Avenue,
Saturday, November 12th
from 11am to 3pm. Free
admission, Door Prizes, Bake
Sale, Money Raffle.
Luncheon: Cream Turkey on
Biscuits, Cranberry Salad,
Dessert and Beverage $7 or
Chicken Noodle Soup,
Dessert and Beverage $5.
There will be several vendors:
Rada Cutlery, Mary Kay
Cosmetics, North County
Wreaths/Garland, Women's
Club (books, jewelry, Lily of
the Valley Soap, Pampered
Chef, Miche Purses, General
Store, Soy Candles, Gift
Baskets, Mary Lou Peters
(notecards, paintings, etc.),
New and Used Books, CCW
Cookbooks, Thirty One
Products (totes, purses, wal-
lets, zipper pouches, etc.),
Tastefully Simple, Avon and
Quilting Supplies. Lots of
items for Christmas
GAYLORD
Walk to end
Alzheimer's
The Otsego County walk,
swim, skate takes place Nov.
12 from 9am - Noon at the
Otsego County Sportsplex.
Registration begins at 8:30am
or on-line at www.alz.org.
PETOSKEY
Fashion show
The Petoskey chapter of
Zonta International invites
the public to their 39th annu-
al Fashion Show on Saturday,
Nov. 12 from 11am to 2pm in
the Ovation Room at Odawa
Casino Resort. The Fashion
Show, aptly themed "Putting
on the Ritz," will highlight
the latest fall and winter
fashions from more than 25
retailers in the Petoskey area,
and include an elegant
lunch, entertainment, a
silent and live auction, a gift
basket raffle and goody bags
for all attendees. Each year,
the Petoskey chapter of
Zonta gives over $10,000 to
organizations that improve
the status of women and
girls. The Fashion Show is
one of two fundraisers each
year that provide that much
needed support. Tickets are
$40 each, and tables are
available in 8-tops and 10-
tops. Make your reservations
early by calling Kathy Bardins
at 231-487-1188 or email her
at mailto:kbardins@winter-
net.com.
INDIAN RIVER
Bringing your "A"
Game
Attend this workshop Nov.
12, 9:30am - Noon. General
Session 9:30 to 10:15;
Breakout Sessions 10:30
Noon. Conducted by Sam
Riggleman, nationally recog-
nized baseball coach. Open
to coaches, athletes & par-
ents in all youth and school
sports programs. Cost is $15.
Call 231-622-2223. Send reg-
istrations to BTS, Box 135,
Petoskey, 49770
GAYLORD
Give GACA a Piece of
Your Mind
The Gaylord Area Council for
the Arts (GACA) wants to
hear from you. In order to
provide programs in 2012
that are desirable to the com-
munity, GACA is conducting
a survey as part of its strate-
gic planning process. This
survey will only take 5 min-
utes to complete and is avail-
able on-line at www.survey-
monkey.com/s/63TNJ8G. If
you cannot complete it on
the internet, a hard copy of
the survey can be obtained at
the Gaylord Area Council for
the Arts at 125 East Main St
(T-F 11-3, Sat 11-1). For more
information or a copy of the
survey, please contact the
Gaylord Area Council for the
Arts at (989) 732-3242.
INDIAN RIVER
Baseball & Softball
skills clinic
Attend this workshop Nov.
12, 1-2:30pm. Conducted by
Sam Riggleman, nationally
recognized baseball coach.
Open to coaches, athletes &
parents in all youth and
school sports programs. Cost
is $15. Call 231-622-2223.
Send registrations to BTS,
Box 135, Petoskey, 49770
CHARLEVOIX
String concert
The Great Lakes Chamber
Orchestra presents "String
Music - Old and New" on
Sunday, November 13 at 4pm
in the unique setting of
Castle Farms in Charlevoix.
This concert features an
eclectic mix of works for
string orchestra, from
Mozart's Serenata Notturna,
K. 239 to William Walton's
music from the film: Henry V.
The program includes
Eclogue, a work for piano
and string orchestra featur-
ing pianist and GLCO Music
Director Matthew
Hazelwood, the Strauss
Pizzicato Polka, and Michi
Wincko's arrangement of La
Folia: Variations for String
Orchestra. Admission to this
program is advance ticket
sales, $14, through
Treatickets.com and $15 at
the door. Pre-Concert private
guided Historical Tours of
Castle Farms are available at
a reduced rate of $7 by calling
the GLCO office at 231-487-
0010 and making reserva-
tions. These tours will begin
at 2:30 p.m. Reserve seats will
be held for Tour Participants.
Students age 18 and under,
active military and people
with disabilities are admitted
free.
ALANSON
Hunters dinner
Alanson Church of the
Nazarene Food Pantry, help-
ing to serve the needs of the
community, feeds about 50
families a week. The Monday
November 14 hunters
fundraiser dinner, which
includes steak,
potatoes/gravy, green beans,
rolls, dessert and beverages,
will raise monies to support
this ministry. Ticket prices
are $10.00, and include a
chance to win a Remington
Model 770 Bolt Action 30-06
with Scope. Serving is from
5:00 p.m. to 6:30 p.m. The
drawing will be between 6:30
and 7:00 p.m. You do not
need to be present to win. If
you have any questions,
please call the church at 231-
548-5462.
GRAYLING
Chili cookoff
Join River House for their
First Chili Cook Off
Fundraiser to be held on
November 14 from 6-9pm at
The Ole Barn in Grayling.
Chili registration is $15,
please call 989-348-3169 to
register or for more informa-
tion.
GAYLORD
Snowmobile Trails
Council meeting
The Gaylord Area
Snowmobile Trails Council
will have their Kickoff
Meeting for the 2011-12 sea-
son on Nov. 11 at 8am at Bob
Evans Restaurant. All busi-
nesses that benefit from
snowmobile tourism are
encouraged to attend.
PETOSKEY
Athena Award
Nominees sought
Dave Kring Chevrolet-
Cadillac will present the
prestigious ATHENA Award
at this year's Petoskey
Chamber Breakfast of
Champions. This award is
presented to a woman who
has demonstrated excellence
in their business or profes-
sion, devoted time and ener-
gy to their community in a
meaningful way, and gener-
ously assisted women in
attaining their full potential.
You can contact the Petoskey
Chamber of Commerce for
an Athena Nomination form
at 231-347-4150.
Nominations will close at the
5pm of November 15th.
GRAYLING
53rd Annual Buck Pole
Awards will be given out
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Awards for Bucks (may win in
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GAYLORD
Power of the Purse
November 16th, 5:30 -
9:30pm at Otsego Club.
Power of the Purse is an
annual event demonstrating
the ability of women to have
fun while doing good work in
the community. Funds raised
during this event support the
work of United Way in
advancing the common good
by focusing community
investments in the areas of
Income, Education and
Health. It is a primary
fundraiser for the United Way
and contributes to reaching
our campaign goal each year.
Early Bird Tickets: $ 35. Call
989-732-8929. Nov. 1st -
16th, 2011 tickets: $40.
GRAYLING
Thanksgiving Dinner
The community is invited to
the Commission on Aging &
Senior Centers annual
Thanksgiving Dinner on
Thursday, November 17th
from 4-6pm. We will be serv-
ing Turkey, Stuffing, Mashed
Potatoes with Gravy, Green
Bean Casserole, Fruited-
Cranberry Mix and Pumpkin
Pie. The cost of the dinner is
$5.25 for those under 60 and
a suggested donation of
$2.50 for those over 60 years
of age. Dinner is open to the
public. The Senior Center is
located at 308 Lawndale St.
For more information call
(989) 348-7123.
PETOSKEY
Business after hours
November 17th, 5-7pm at the
Side Door Saloon
GRAYLING
Teen y Ology
Friday, November 18th at
6pm at Devereaux Library -
We are diggin up more bones
at this teen and tween
genealogy program that
exposes your familys past.
Join us for skeletons, snacks
and fun.
GRAYLING
Donate Christmas
lights
The Christmas Walk commit-
tee is looking for out door
Christmas tree lights and
Christmas decoration dona-
tions, so we can make this
Christmas Walk a Christmas
Wonderland. If you can help
us please contact Pam Barr at
989-344-6000.
PETOSKEY
Swing Dance Series
With the Up North Big Band
at North Central Michigan
College Cafeteria Room. Nov.
18, 7:30pm. Beginners are
welcome. Instruction starts
at 6:45pm. Dances are $10,
adult, $5, Under 18 and free
under 5. A great way to expe-
rience the magic of the 30's
and 40's big band sound and
the dance styles popularized
by the music. Lindy and jit-
terbug Dances styles are
taught as well as other ball-
room styles and the Up North
Big Band provides music
with an 18 piece Big Band.
The Blissfest Music
Organization present this
series as part of our commit-
ment to sharing cultural her-
itage and providing a great
way to socialize like folks
used to before T.V.
BAY VIEW
Many moods of
Christmas concert
Tickets are now on sale for
the 30th annual fall concert
of the Northern Michigan
Chorale, titled The Many
Moods of Christmas. Dates
for the two performances are
Nov. 18 at 7:30pm and Nov.
20 at 3:30pm. The concerts
will be performed at the John
M. Hall Auditorium in Bay
View. Adult tickets are $10 (18
years and older) and $7 for
students. Contact the
Petoskey Chamber of
Commerce office, The Pier in
Harbor Springs or Chorale
members. The ticket booth at
Hall Auditorium will also sell
tickets one hour prior to per-
formances. For ticket infor-
mation, contact Larry
Gerould at 231-838-1757 or
Janada Chingwa at 231-347-
1618.
GRAYLING
Volunteers wanted for
Museum
I am interested in finding
people who would like to
dress in their history period
clothes and visit the Grayling
Museum during the Grayling
Christmas Walk, Saturday,
November 19 between 3 pm
and 8 pm. We usually have
over 250 families; many chil-
dren visit the museum on
this evening and then after
their visit we have tradition-
ally given them cookies and
cider. I thought it would be so
nice if they could meet and
see some of these people
from ages past. I think the
children would gain so much
from this experience and it
would be fun for all. Please
contact me if you would be
interested in participating.
Thank you. Rose Mary
Nelson, 989-348-2985
GRAYLING
Be a part of the Parade
The Grayling Christmas Walk
committee is looking for peo-
ple who would like to be in
the Christmas Parade.
Saturday, November 19th at
5:30pm. Line up at 4:30pm
starting at the Court House.
Please contact Sue Cowan at
989-3444004
PETOSKEY
Christmas Holiday
Arts, Crafts and Gift
Show
Dozens of vendors will be
offering their one-of-a-kind,
quality gift and craft items
during the show Nov. 19, 9am
- 4pm at Community Center -
Emmet County Fair Grounds.
Admission is $1 or a donation
of a non-perishable food
item, with proceeds benefit-
ing Brother Dan's Food
Pantry, which serves
Northern Michigan.
Consessions will be available
from Brother Dan's as well.
GRAYLING
Christmas Walk
On Saturday, November 19th,
Uptown Grayling will be all
aglow and filled with the hol-
iday spirit when The
Christmas Walk welcomes
the Holiday Season.
Festivities include: Breakfast
with Santa (arts & crafts &
silent auction) at American
Legion at 9am-12noon.
Christmas Musical Show at
1pm at Rialto (by donation
only). A FREE Childrens
Christmas Movie at 3pm at
Rialto. Christmas Parade at
5pm on Michigan Ave. Live
Reindeer, Pony Rides &
Pictures with Santa at North
Country Corner all day.
Trolley rides available to take
you around town, to the
Festival of Trees and to
Northbound Outfitters from
3-8pm. Cookie decoration,
Christmas Stories & Crafts at
the Devereaux Library. Face
Painting at the Mercy
Hospital Window Shoppe.
Chili, hot dogs, nachos, hot
cocoa & coffee available at
North Country Corner.
Grayling Jr. Eagles will be
selling smores fixins in a bag
at North Country Corner and
a portable fire pit will be
available for toasting up
smores.
GAYLORD
Farmer's Market
The Gaylord Downtown
Farmer's Market is consid-
ered one of the finest mar-
kets in Northern Michigan!
Local farm producers sell
fresh fruits, vegetables,
baked goods, herbs and
much more! Every Saturday
thru Nov. 19, 10am 2pm.
GRAYLING
Meet the Artist
Wildlife Bronze Artist Roger
Smith at the Main Branch
Gallery from 3-8pm during
the Christmas Walk Nov. 19.
To preview his work, visit
www.mainbranchgallery.co
m.
PETOSKEY
Singles for Christ
Singles for Christ dinner
group for all area singles 50
years and older will meet
Saturday, November 19th at
6pm at the Odawa Casino for
a Buffet Meal. Later we will
have a game night at First
Presbyterian Church, 501 W.
Mitchell. Bring your own
beverage and a snack to pass.
Reservations required so
R.S.V.P. by calling Frieda at
231-347-5747 or e-mail frie-
da@compnor.com
GRAYLING
Toys for Tots
Toy donations for our
Christmas Help Program
may be dropped off at the
Christian Help Center or
placed in collection boxes
around town.
GRAYLING
Kids Coats & Socks
Wanted
New socks & new or gently
used coats are now being
accepted for children of all
ages. Donations may be
dropped off at the Christian
Help Center.
ROSCOMMON
Lakota Sioux Dance
Theatre
The Lakota Sioux Dance
Theatre has educated, enter-
tained and enlightened audi-
ences all over the world for
more than three decades.
The company communicates
the powerful messages and
resonance of dance and
songs in Plains Indian society
at the center of a living his-
tory and oral tradition in
American Indian society.
Featuring narratives, cre-
ation stories, original video
imagery and more than 20
traditional and sacred songs
and dances, the company
includes some of the most
highly acclaimed performers
of the Sioux Nation. See them
at Kirtland Center for the
Performing arts Nov. 19 at
7pm. Tickets are $20 and $16.
Order by phone at 989-275-
6777.
GRAYLING
Cash for Christmas
50/50 Raffle
To benefit the Crawford
County United Way and to
give YOU a chance to win
Christmas Shopping Money.
The more tickets sold, the
more the jackpot grows!
Minimum Prize: $200. Ticket
Prices, $1/ticket or 6 for $5.
Tickets available at 7-11 in
Grayling, from any CCUW
Board Member, or by calling
989-350-4462. Drawing will
be held Sunday, November
20 at noon at the Grayling
Mini Mall (2384 I-75 Bus
Loop, Grayling). Need not be
present to win. Help us help
others by buying your tickets
today.
EAST JORDAN
Christmas Art Sale
Jordan River Arts Council is
hosting an art sale Nov. 20 -
Dec. 18, 1-4pm. Opening
with Christmas treats and
music on Nov. 20
MANCELONA
Financial Institutions
workshop
Northwest Michigan
Community Action Agency
will be hosting workshop on
Banks and Financial
Institutions on November 22
from 6pm to 9pm, as part of a
free series of workshops on
financial fitness. The series
workshops are offered to the
general public for free at
NMCAA Head Start, 201 E.
State St. Attend all the six free
financial fitness workshops
and get your certificate of
completion! To register or to
find out about the future
workshops, please call 800-
443-5518.
GAYLORD
Sweater Drive
Otsego Memorial Hospital
has been designated as an
official drop off location for
the CMU Public Television
5th Annual Mister Rogers
Neighborhood Sweater
Drive. Community members
are encouraged to donate
new or gently-worn sweaters
to help keep each and every
one of our neighbors in the
community warm this fall
and winter season. Childrens
sweaters in particular are
needed. Partnering with
businesses in Central,
Northern and Southeast
Michigan, CMU Public
Broadcasting (WCMU) coor-
dinates the collection of
warm outerwear throughout
the months of October,
November and December.
Donated sweaters will be dis-
tributed to families who need
them by organizations in the
communities in which they
are collected. Sweaters col-
lected through Otsego
Memorial Hospital will be
distributed to members of
the community through The
Clothing Room in Gaylord.
GAYLORD
Holiday Farmer's
Market
Fresh pies and items for that
Holiday Dinner! Michigan
farm producers sell fresh
fruits, vegetables, baked
goods, herbs and much
more! Nov. 23, 10am - 2pm
under the pavilion down-
town.
GAYLORD
Turkey Trot
The first Thanksgiving Turkey
Trot will be held Thursday,
Nov. 24, and will benefit the
Friendship Housing Center.
The 5k run and one-mile fun
run/walk will begin at 9 a.m.
Thanksgiving Day at the
Gaylord Regional Airport ter-
minal. Entry fees are $30 for
the 5k run or walk (including
T-shirt), $15 for the one-mile
run/walk and $10 for kids
under 12 years of age. T-
shirts will be available for
$15. Pre-registration will take
place from 5 to 7pm
Wednesday, Nov. 23, at the
airport terminal. Race-day
registration will be at 8am
Thursday, Nov. 24, also at the
terminal. Find more at the
race's listing at www.run-
michigan.com. For more
information, contact Marilyn
Kaczanowski at 989-732-5960.
GAYLORD
Community
Thanksgiving Dinner
Join your neighbors at the
community Thanksgiving
dinner Nov. 24 At St. Mary
cathedral parish hall for a
free Thanksgiving dinner.
Fellowship begins at 2pm,
dinner at 3pm. All food and
beverages are furnished. If
you would like to help serve,
donate or attend please call
Joe or Julie Koprowicz at 989-
732-2119.
CHARLEVOIX
Community Tree
Lighting
Join the community of
Charlevoix for their annual
tree lighting ceremony Nov.
25 in downtown
PETOSKEY
Alan Gerber
Nov. 26, Crooked Tree Arts
Center, 8 pm. Shows are $15
advance, $10 members
advance, $20/$15 door,
$20/$15 reserved, students
price. Advanced tickets avail-
able at Crooked Tree, Grain
Train, Petoskey Chamber and
Blissfest.
PETOSKEY
Stafford's Downtown
Holiday Parade
Help the holidays march into
Downtown Petoskey with the
Stafford's Downtown
Petoskey Holiday Parade on
Saturday, November 26 at 10
am. Stafford's Hospitality
hosts this daytime parade
that swoops into downtown
carrying holiday excitement.
This fun event includes
marching bands, floats by
local businesses, marching
characters, and much more.
The parade is wrapped up by
its most popular participant,
Santa Claus. After the parade,
he will greet children on the
Veranda at Stafford's Perry
Hotel and listen to all of their
Christmas wishes.
GAYLORD
Holiday Arts & Crafts
Fair and Fundraiser
Otsego Christian School will
be hosting their 1st Annual
Holiday Arts and Crafts Fair
on Saturday, November 26
from 10am to 4pm. We want
to invite all crafters of hand-
made items to call us at (989)
732-8333 or email us at
khawkins@ocsgaylord.org for
an application or for more
information. This is a
fundraiser for our school,
and we are very excited about
opening up the school for a
great craft show such as this!
MACKINAW CITY
Spirit of Christmas
Dinner
Audie's Restaurant in
Mackinaw City and The
Northland Players' singing
group the Northland
Noteables present the Spirit
of Christmas Dinner,
Monday, Tuesday &
Wednesday, November 28th,
29th & 30th. Call 231-436-
5744 for reservations.
MANCELONA
Plumbing workshop
Northwest Michigan
Community Action Agency
will be hosting a workshop
on Plumbing on November
29 from 6pm to 9pm, as part
of Home Maintenance work-
shops. The free workshop is
offered to the general public
for free at, NMCAA Head
Start, 201 E. State St. To regis-
ter or to find out about the
future workshops, please call
800-443-5518.
GAYLORD
Extreevanganza
Plan to attend
Extreevanganza 2011 spon-
sored by the Otsego County
Community Foundation at
Otsego Club & Resort Dec. 2
at 6pm. Please consider
donating a tree, wreath or
item for the silent or live auc-
tion. For info call 989-731-
0597 or e-mail dana@otsego-
foundation.org.
GRAYLING
Line
dancing
The Crawford County
Commission on Aging has
restarted its Line Dancing
classes again this fall. The
free classes for are facilitated
by Ann Doty. The group prac-
tices weekly on Wednesdays
at 10am. No dance experi-
ence is needed to attend
these classes and no sign up
is necessary. For more infor-
mation, contact the Senior
Center at (989) 348-7123
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Q: My son and his wife seem to
argue a lot, usually over minor
stuff. Is this natural for young cou-
ples these days?
Jim: Disagreements happen in mar-
riage, whether it's over where to go for
dinner or something more serious like
budgeting or the in-laws. Every situa-
tion is different, but if you feel your son
and his wife are arguing too much, you
might encourage them to talk to a pas-
tor or marriage counselor.
That said, here are some general
guidelines for resolving conflict in mar-
riage, courtesy of authors Ron Blue and
Jeremy White:
1. Stick to the problem at hand. Don't
bring up past issues or accuse your
spouse of "always" or "never" behaving
a certain way.
2. Get on the same side of the fence.
Don't think about "my way" or "your
way." Work toward a solution that repre-
sents "our way."
3. Identify the core issue. Get to the
heart of the problem, not just the symp-
toms.
4. Don't be a mind reader. Don't try to
interpret your spouse's thoughts or
motives; instead, ask direct questions.
5. If you haven't reached a consensus
by bedtime, agree to resume the discus-
sion the next day. Bitterness can take
root in your marriage if you leave things
unresolved.
6. Avoid character assassination. No
matter how strongly you disagree,
attacking your spouse's personality or
character is never acceptable.
7. Never forget that your relationship
with your spouse is far more important
than winning or being "right."
8. Remember that love keeps no
record of wrongs. Be quick to forgive,
quick to admit your own mistakes, and
quick to move on from the conflict.
That's great advice. We'd recommend
it for any married couple that wants to
reach a peaceful resolution when dis-
agreement rears its head.
** ** **
Q: I heard a marriage expert say
that men want to be asked for
help. I'm newly married and pretty
much used to doing things for
myself. So, when the garbage
needs to be taken care of, do I ask
my husband, "Would you please
take out the garbage?" Or just do
it myself? I really don't know when
to ask for help...
Juli: You're a wise woman to be asking
this question as a newlywed. Many
wives don't ask for help and end up
resenting the fact that "I have to do
everything around the house!" While
men love to come to their wife's rescue,
they hate to be nagged or criticized.
As a newly married, independ-
ent woman, it's going to be natural for
you to treat your husband as a friend as
you both self-sufficiently go through life
together. The beauty of marriage is that
you learn to become interdependent --
he depends on you for some things and
you depend on him for others.
To start fostering that kind of
healthy interdependence, choose a few
things that you want his help with. I'd
encourage you to pick things he's natu-
rally better at than you are.
For example, my husband is far
more organized than I am, so I ask him
to help me with things that require
organization. He's also physically
stronger than I am -- so when it comes
to lifting heavy objects or cleaning out
the garage, I genuinely need help. Your
husband can also help by giving advice
or a unique perspective to a decision or
difficult situation.
Most importantly, value the
contribution he makes -- whether it's
helping with household
chores or giving you advice.
Remember, if you want your
husband to be a hero, you've
got to be willing to need his
help.
** ** **
Jim Daly is president of Focus on
the Family, host of the Focus on the
Family radio program, and a hus-
band and father of two.
Dr. Juli Slattery is a licensed psy-
chologist, co-host of Focus on the
Family, author of several books,
and a wife and mother of three.
Submit your questions to:
ask@FocusOnTheFamily.com
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