Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 9

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008

Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONS
VOL. 9

NARCOSIA Publishing ARAD COUNTY, MACEA 2008 3

CIP description of the Romanian National Library Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3 ISBN 978-973-88998-8-9

Urge to read, analyze and apply these meditations By reading and analyzing the meditations of AGC, by applying one or more thoughts we will find solutions that will help us: I. Discover: 1. qualities; 2. defects; 3. capabilities; 4. skills; 5. some opportunities to succeed in life; 6. finding a partner for life; 7. keeping our marriage; 8. discovering our feelings; 9. discovering our mistakes; 10. etc..
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II. To prevent some: 1. mistakes; 2. accidents; 3. divorces; 4. trouble; 5. bankruptcies; 6. failures; 7. conflicts; 8. etc.. III. Become: 1. more efficient; 2. happier; 3. more loved; 4. more honorable; 5. appreciated; 6. more respected; 7. more loved; 8. more organized;
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9. more optimistic; 10. more plan; 11. most active; 12. best; 13. fairer; 14. more humane; 15. more unselfish; 16. popular; 17. more famous; 18. etc.. IV. Come out of: 1. the state of lost hope; 2. the state of pessimism; 3. the state of despair; 4. the state of passivity; 5. the state of inactivity 6. etc.. V. Participate at:
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1. social life; 2. political life; 3. the activity of nonprofit organization 4. etc.. VI. Find more opportunities to meet favorable or more favorable conditions. VII. To let us change our lives more in better, to make it more beautiful. VIII. To expand our chances to find the right partner for life. IX. To let us realize and to
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maintain a happy marriage. X. To let us raise and educate our children better, to take more care of them. I am writing these meditations and adding these books, other publications and on the Internet, etc.. because we need them every day and it is necessary to apply them so that we each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and happy one. These meditations reflect a tiny part of reality, of what would be good to be present in real life and in human relations. I expect good news from you, good deeds that you have done influenced by the fact that you have
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read and applied one or more ideas to make your life more beautiful, more prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others. Each of us can become a positive new model for those around us thus participating in the creation of a better human society, of a more prosperous one, and a happier one. I would be very happy and excited if one or more ideas that you have read, help you in one way or another or make you happier, more prosperous, etc.. I wish you all health, happiness and the achieving of all things that you want. I expect your news, ideas, opinions, troubles and joys, etc..
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Sincerely, love and with much joy, I invite you to visit my site www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write to me at: agc.arad@yahoo.com

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel (AGC)

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1) Positive principles help us become more unselfish. 2) Positive principles help us contribute greatly to becoming more popular. 3) Sometimes some superstitions may hinder the achievement of effective co operations. 4) Sometimes some superstitions hinder the achievement of milestones. 5) The man whom you can not trust is dangerous. 6) The lying man, through his lies, enormously harms himself. 7) Hatred is extremely dangerous. 8) Revenge is extremely dangerous. 9) Evil sometimes leads to other harms.
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10) Waste is extremely harmful. 11) Each family member should contribute as much as he can to prevent family violence in his family. 12) Many acts of family violence can be prevented through education in schools, universities, on the Internet, in the media, etc... 13) Arguments in a family make us not achieve our personal goals. 14) Repeated arguments between collaborators lead eventually, if not ceased, to the end of the cooperation. 15) The harmony between spouses helps and contributes greatly to maintaining a happy marriage. 16) The harmony between family members helps children achieve better results at school. 17) We are very harmful in our struggle to become as rich as others. We need and
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must develop our positive parse, to fill the other etc. so that we can get much further than if we try to become another person. 18) Reducing the exaggerated consumption of alcohol by as many people as possible has multiple positive effects on the development of the state. 19) Any act of aggression against a family member by another family member is illegal and can be punished by the law. 20) Mature love makes our life longer. 21) Mature love creates a lot of happiness. 22) Each of us is necessary to discover all our qualities and to grow as much as possible to increase our chances to maintain a happy marriage. 23) Employees who go drinking on the job are the first on the list of dismissals. Warning to amateurs. 24) Without dedication we can not
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maintain an effective cooperation. 25) Without dedication we can not maintain a mature love. 26) The actions of prevention help to prevent many inefficient operations. 27) Without patience a marriage is not long lasting and happy. 28) Self-control helps us make true friends. 29) Positive ideas help us keep our marriage happy. 30) Pride departs the proud ones from others. 31) In any action we act, we expand its effectiveness if we document everything better. 32) If we somehow have inhumane behavior it is necessary to change immediately to human behavior. 33) Effective behaviors help us expand opportunities to achieve positive personal
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goals. 34) Some successes are due only to the qualities and exceptional efforts of people without the participation of any favorable circumstances. 35) Some successes are due to favorable situations sometimes only by certain people that know how to use them. 36) Favorable situations are not known by everyone how to use, but only by some. 37) The solution to be lucky in life is to be perseverant, effective in what we do and to continuously document as fully as we can to know how and what to do to achieve what we want; surely we can have good luck if we adhere to the rules that get us what we want, that is success. I am by your side. 38) The bars activity is extremely important for society, but unfortunately, in many cases, incredibly, it does not have
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the quality that it should have in almost all the world. 39) Continuously, day by day, for as long as we live, we need to have personal goals to support education and selfeducation, raising children in order to achieve a harmonious personality. 40) Discipline, in everything we do, helps us prevent many failures. 41) The undisciplined one is always put first on the list of dismissals. 42) Principles help us become more efficient. 43) Compliance with the principles helps us achieve mature love. 44) Compliance with the principles helps us achieve true friends. 45) Compliance with the principles helps us greatly to achieve a happy marriage. 46) Employers should be supported,
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encouraged by states to develop their business, to improve, in order to give adequate salaries. 47) Education that is inadequate is the direct or indirect cause of most crimes. 48) Improper education greatly reduces the efficiency that we can achieve. 49) Our unsuitable education diminishes the number and quality of opportunities to achieve efficient co-developments. 50) Only effective actions help us achieve efficient co-developments. 51) Only effective actions help us achieve success. 52) The negative mentalities of those who have them make it very difficult to achieve personal goals. 53) The negative mentalities of those who have them make it very difficult to achieve effective co operations. 54) Responsibility helps us have many
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more opportunities to achieve personal goals. 55) Responsibility helps us have many more opportunities to become more effective. 56) The Internet helps us have many more opportunities to achieve effective co operations. 57) The worlds states have the obligation to regulate the registration on the Internet of court documents, of all acts of legal processes, files, everything that is public information, except for cases referred by law when the meetings are not public. 58) Some judges in some states are incredibly poor prepared. 59) Our happy marriage makes it more eager to live, to have a life without death. 60) A judge has many difficulties in achieving a justice quality act.
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61) Altruism helps us create a happy marriage. 62) Altruism helps us achieve more easily more successes. 63) Using more effectively our time greatly increases our chances to achieve more and bigger successes. 64) Creative ideas help us get performance. 65) Effective thinking helps us achieve performance. 66) The more organized we are, the better chances we have to get performance. 67) Human communication greatly enhances and maintains our efficient codevelopment. 68) The Internet is the ideal means to develop as many human relationships as possible. 69) Most world members do very little
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and ineffective things to prevent the disregard of rights and fundamental freedoms. 70) Even in 2007 in the majority of the states of the world so many incredible breaches of fundamental rights and freedoms of humans are made every day, unfortunately. 71) All world members need to take all necessary and effective measures to stop immediately and effectively all disregards of rights and fundamental freedoms. 72) It is necessary and required for states to take effective measures to prevent the formation, maintenance and development of all human vices, because they create enormously negative effects, both for those who have them, and for the others unfortunately. 73) Each of us must act to prevent the formation, maintenance and development
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of vices, since they reduce the possibilities for us to achieve our personal goals. 74) Each of us can prevent the formation, maintenance and development of vices that will increase continuously, day by day, if we do not achieve this goal personally. 75) Preventing the bankruptcy of firms was necessary to start long before their establishment taking into account all necessary measures to prevent bankruptcies and provide real chances of survival after their creation; it is stopping us to set up companies if we dont find out that they have opportunities to survive. 76) Many bankruptcies can be prevented before establishing companies if those who want to establish companies wish to administer them themselves, they must document themselves and learn very well what is necessary to effectively
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manage a company of the type that they want to establish and administer. 77) Many who have bankrupted were also set up in a place where there were no commercial activities and then those who managed them did not know to attract enough customers not to go bankrupt. 78) The cases of the bankruptcies of firms are innumerable, some of which may be known that the company will go bankrupt, others come from external factors that can not be controlled generated by us, such as bankruptcy has unexpectedly unite customers and no one can collect money from them any more. 79) We can find our life partner anywhere we meet a woman, a man. 80) The more we meet more men or women the better chances we have to meet the right partner for life. An ideal place to meet them is the Internet being aware of
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the advantages, disadvantages and risks that it offers. Good luck! Persevere because I am sure you will be able to find the right partner for life. Good luck. 81) Our life has been given to us to live it not by mocking it or at the whim of chance, but designed, organized, planned, with good sense, hopes, with positive thoughts and actions, humanities, with love, with dealing only with what brings us well being and success. You will do it if you respect what must be respected. Good luck again. If we do otherwise we will have many troubles, failures, problems. 82) In life it is necessary and required to develop positive feelings just because they only do us and others good. 83) Negative feelings harm both us and the others. Beware not to form, maintain and develop them.
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84) Each of us has the strength and will, if we want, to prevent the happiness, maintaining and development of negative feelings because they are extremely harmful to us and others. 85) We are each responsible for our own mistakes. 86) Everyone is required to support the effects of their own mistakes and not try to do to bear others with them. 87) It is illegal to try to make others responsible for your own failures. 88) Reliability helps us very much, to have more opportunities to achieve timely and efficient personal goals. 89) Reliability helps us very much, to have more opportunities to achieve much more and greater successes. 90) Reliability helps us greatly to achieve a happy marriage. 91) We must always prevent getting to
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the state of despair. 92) The state of despair can be prevented. 93) Hopes prevent us from reaching the state of despair. 94) Even if we somehow got the state of despondency, we should not think about suicide, regardless of the situation, the best solution is not to commit suicide but to act to resolve the issues we can solve, so get out that state of despair and get rid of that absurd idea to commit suicide. 95) Some suicides are desperate acts arising from desperation, others are caused by some wrong ideas. 96) Efficient co-development helps us prevent a lot not to get to the state of despair. 97) Effective cooperation draws us out from the state of passivity and makes us more efficient.
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98) Participation in social actions helps us understand much better people. 99) Participation in social actions helps us find the right partner for life. 100) In all countries the number and quality of nonprofit organizations, NGOs must grow very much and continuously as they may contribute greatly to solving many problems in each country of the world. 101) In the world that exists on the Internet, in books, newspapers, media, databases and other information media there are enormously many positive ideas, helpful to people, to states but unfortunately many are not used by anyone, others are used by a tiny number of people as opposed to the number that could use and apply them. 102) Even if you get to the state of despair, it is needed and necessary not to
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think anything about suicide because life was given to us to live not to commit suicide. 103) Even if we reached a desperate situation we can get rid of it easily mostly because it is written that we live better, not worse, because we have the qualities necessary for this but we should use them effectively. 104) Will and perseverance will help us get rid of desperation. 105) Effective cooperation helps us very much to prevent the situation of despair. 106) The more effective actions we do are the more chances we have to prevent the situation from reaching despair. 107) The more we develop our intellectual, the more likely we will not get to the situation of despair. 108) The more we develop mentally the more opportunities we have not to get to
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the situation of despair. 109) As we have greater abilities to create more opportunities we do not get to situations of despair. 110) We can make our life a lot more beautiful as we have an education most appropriate for us to achieve it. 111) Hopes make us more confident in ourselves. 112) As we have more experience which helps us achieve personal goals all the more confidence we will have in a better future. 113) Morale should be kept constantly, every day, for as long as we live, at its best. 114) Good morale helps us very much to achieve an increasing efficiency. 115) Good morale helps us very much to achieve personal goals. 116) Good morale contributes greatly to
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maintaining a happy marriage. 117) Good morale helps us very much to obtain records. 118) Good morale helps us greatly to achieve more and greater successes. 119) Good morale helps us greatly to achieve effective co operations. 120) If we do not have a good morale, we can shape it by ourselves. 121) The more experience we have, the better chance we have to achieve an optimal morale. 122) Good morale greatly increases our chances of not reaching the situation of despair. 123) Good morale greatly increases the ability to keep one's temper in any situation. 124) Psychological balance helps us very much not to get in a situation of despair. 125) Psychological balance helps us very
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much and our ability to persevere. 126) Psychological balance helps us greatly expand our effectiveness continuously. 127) Psychological balance helps to prevent arguments. 128) Psychological balance helps achieve a more beautiful life. 129) Mental balance can be maintained once achieved through a proper diet, education, perseverance, exercises, will, etc. 130) We can have a positive thinking unless we do not have it, through a proper diet, education, intellectual exercises, perseverance, experience, desire, exercise, etc... 131) Artfulness helps us to discover ruses, but after the discovery they could be extremely harmful depending on the seriousness of the illegal actions made and
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the size of their negative effects. 132) Artfulness is not worth achieving because it is an offense. 133) We do not have the right to do artfulness as it is an offense and may be even a crime if it meets the conditions to be an offense. 134) The value of an artfulness is zero and can not be compared with a positive gesture as it would have little value, because subtlety has value zero, may not create value, something positive, but only something negative, and it has only negative effects. 135) Lies sometimes have very short lives, never even completely done and they are discovered, and other times some lies have short or longer lives, but ultimately all can be found if there is any interest for them to be discovered. 136) Human mind is diabolical, it can do
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positive deeds and incredible ones but unfortunately the facts may be enormously negative as well. So be careful, the man can do what an angel does, but he can also do something that the devil does. 137) Cheerfulness can be formed. 138) Cheerfulness can be maintained. 139) We maintain cheerfulness, as it contributes to maintaining mental balance. 140) Cheerfulness can not be achieved if you do not have a proper diet, education, intellectual exercise, perseverance, will, exercise, a system of values which we believe in and that we respect, business dynamism, social relations, friends, mature love, or a happy marriage. 141) Cheerfulness brings us to be in shape. 142) Cheerfulness helps us a lot to achieve mental balance, if we do not have it.
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143) Cheerfulness helps us achieve mature love. 144) Cheerfulness helps us a lot to maintain friendship. 145) Cheerfulness makes us be more attractive. 146) Cheerfulness helps us get rid of stress. 147) Enthusiasm helps us get rid of stress. 148) Cheerfulness helps us make life more pleasant. 149) Reliability makes us be more appreciated. 150) Reliability makes us be invulnerable. 151) Maintaining proper measures continuously every day, for as long as we live should be a personal goal. 152) Weariness creates many mistakes. 153) Weariness creates failures.
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154) We can prevent weariness. 155) Weariness can be prevented through proper diet, education, positive behavior balanced intellectual exercise, perseverance, will, exercise, a value system that we believe in and that we respect, business dynamism, social relations, friends, mature love, a happy marriage, adequate rest when necessary, appropriate sleep, entertainment, etc. 156) It is required to have as a personal goal the prevention of chronic fatigue, continually, day by day, for as long as we live. 157) In 2007 there still is in most countries much malformation, which unfortunately are not at least recognized as abnormal but on the contrary, the abnormalities are considered normal and what is incredible is normally considered abnormal.
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158) It is necessary and imperative that each of us, regardless of what country we are from to set as a continuous personal goal for as long as we live day by day to act with more efficiency, to all join forces on this earth to establish normality where there are abnormalities as soon as possible and avoid the establishment of abnormality instead of normality. 159) The existence of abnormal instead of normality has multiple, diversified, negative short-term and long term effects on all people around the world. 160) All the people on this earth have sufficient resources through their huge resources, by unity, solidarity, co operation, co-development, perseverance, will, work, Internet, media, etc. to install itself in a record time in many places and situations, abnormalities instead of the normal. Get started now as you will
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always succeed because you are an invincible force, you can replace abnormalities with normal situations and places. Persevere until you succeed and if needed continually ask for the help of other citizens of the planet that you will be joined by incredibly many of them. Good luck. I am sure you will succeed. 161) Weariness greatly reduces our efficiency. 162) Weariness greatly reduces our ability to create. 163) Weariness can produce very big misfortunes if we act when we are tired. 164) When you are tired it is necessary to stop any activity and to do what you can to recover better and faster. Good luck. 165) Inadequate education is a major cause of the very many crimes. 166) By conducting a proper education states can prevent many crimes.
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167) They can prevent many crimes by taking effective measures to prevent crime for each type of crime. 168) Measures to prevent crime do not only reduce prison terms and large punishments with imprisonment, there are much more effective measures from all points of view including a citizen who spends large amounts of money because of the inefficient legal system based only on prison terms. 169) Not even in 2007 the majority of states do not apply the most effective measures to prevent crime, unfortunately, but apply only primitive and inefficient methods of punishment through prison. 170) It is necessary to immediately take the necessary measures to achieve an efficient education suitable to be able to prevent crime very much by this method, which consists in carrying out an effective
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education appropriate to make people not to want to commit crimes. 171) The states investment in an effective education that is against the obedience of the law is worth the effort, because if it is very effective with highquality care it produces positive multiple and diverse effects recuperating the investments plus a large profit if you analyze in terms of financial efficiency the investment. 172) States should be concerned about citizens especially for an efficient education suitable to all intents and purposes that meet real needs of education of people and society so that both needs are effectively met. 173) Appropriate effective education that meets human needs and the needs of society is very important both for people and for society, but, unfortunately, even in
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2007, many states do not have an effective education that meets the appropriate requirements and education needs of people and society. 174) A woman is a fastidious being that we all want to have, whom we understand, with whom to achieve a real mature love and a happy marriage with happy children. 175) Most women and men want a happy marriage, but unfortunately they do too little, they give too little time, too little attention to achieve and to maintain it. If, instead, they do all that is necessary to achieve and maintain a happy marriage, they will surely make it. We wish you success confident that you will be able to build and maintain a happy marriage. Good luck again. 176) In 2007, in most people in the world most behaviors are selfish behaviors unfortunately, they are very harmful ones
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because such behaviors are concerned with in particular, the interests of their own persons, irrespective of the fact that they often harm other people and in some exceptional cases people even die, or have huge damages. 177) Selfish behavior should be replaced with ego altruist behavior in most cases. 178) Ego altruist behavior is a behavior that takes into account both the interests of the personal self, and those of others, acting to satisfy both, for a harmonious cohabitation for itself and for the other. 179) A man who acts continuously, day by day to become even more organized has a lot more chances to achieve successes. 180) An effective man has much more chances to achieve perfection. 181) The ability to react with understanding helps us achieve our
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personal goals. 182) Only positive ideas can contribute to achieving our personal objectives. 183) An industrious man who knows how to manage his personal time efficiently increases his chances of achieving a beautiful life. 184) The efficient management of our personal time can be learned. 185) People who have a greater ability of taking higher calculated risks have much more chances of achieving outstanding performances. 186) People who, in most situations, have the ability to apply their ideas have much more chances of achieving their personal goals. 187) People who also have spiritual values have increased chances of achieving more friendships. 188) The desire to succeed in life helps
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us make more friends. 189) Life is a lot more beautiful when we efficiently manage our time. 190) Our responsibility helps us prevent many possible conflicts. 191) People with common sense are also fair. 192) A man who has self control has more chances to achieve true friendships. 193) People with tact have much more chances to achieve more successes. 194) Polite people must be respected. 195) Cooperative people have greater chances to achieve more efficient co operations. 196) Selfishness harms us a lot. 197) Life is a lot more beautiful when you are selfless. 198) A great desire to succeed helps us achieve more friendships. 199) An efficient human communication
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helps us a lot to achieve our personal goals. 200) An efficient human communication helps us a lot to achieve effective co operations. 201) Positive actions prevent many negative actions. 202) When you are in love you have different feelings. 203) A man who loves and who is loved by the person he loves has more chances to achieve a happy marriage. 204) No one can describe the true happiness lived by that person who loves and who is loved by the person he loves. 205) Tolerance between two lovers contributes a lot to maintaining a true mature love. 206) When you are in love and loved by the woman you love you live more intensely.
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207) True mature love makes lovers be more flexible with each other. 208) True mature love is not maintained by itself but only by loving and being loved by the person you love. 209) It is worth to spend the necessary time to maintain true mature love. 210) Positive thinking can help us a lot to achieve a happy life.

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About the author and his ideas Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know someone. Often, the person on whom you stopped is difficult to decipher. That is not the case of Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean. From the first moment I knew and he got my attention. I recognized him immediately from the descriptions made by his colleagues: "One small, with white haired man with many books and newspapers in his hand, they said. My curiosity pushed me to address him, cheerful, open; he began to talk to me as if we knew each other for years. A person opened both to dialogue as well as current jokes. I got to know him
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even better when we met at Club Central. A nice company as long as you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future plans are. Plans that are repeated endlessly become a burden for the people around him. Not because it would be something wrong in what he says but through their very repeatability. On several occasions I have read some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine "Freedom in Thought". By their simplicity and the fact that they expresses absolute truths, for those who do not take seriously the writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean they may seem indeed to read seriously what to write, I bet they will find
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among the apparently simple lines, a message equal to a person who has suffered enormously because of human and system injustices. The cry of a man eager for more, eager for simplicity, for the truth and for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect world. If even 10% of what he writes would be put into practice by us, then certainly we would set ourselves and with others at the same time. Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into practice what he writes, which means that he really believes it. With an analytical style impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a few lines and penetrates into the
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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is venturing into an area still unexplored in specialized literature. Specialized topics are part of the absolute truths that each of us have deep within our being, so acknowledged, so obvious, so natural that no one has ventured to put them on paper. But surely there will be many who, after reading and rereading these absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean stand out besides putting on paper a well-known truth, is that it also leads to problem solving. It is a promising start in an area of astute competition and often an unscrupulous one.
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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean and may these meditations help as many people as possible. Do not give up, continue on the path that you have chosen and maybe in the nearer or further future the world will be at least 5% as you want it to be. Do not give up ... We ... only a few, I must admit, we are beside you. SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD Graduate of the Academy of Theater and Film Former journalist of the national newspapers and Romania Libera, Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's Paul of Romanias adviser a businessman resident in Italy
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Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean Writer (66 books written in English, 66 in Romanian,7 edited) born 03rd.11.1954, in Macea, Arad County, Email: agc.arad@yahoo.com www.ardeleancornel.eu
I have known the economist Cornel Ardelean for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the thought of some who did not believe in his ideas, innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is indeed a good economist by founding the first small enterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the post-communist age. I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise above his time if he wishes to and if he has the potential to do it. SABIN BODEA President of the Writers League of Romania Arad Branch

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