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Lesson 7
Communication: The Method of Intimacy
Goals:
● To learn God's plan for communication within families
● To identify our communication behaviors that need to be “put off.”
● To “put on” Godly communication as a daily habit
Homework
● Complete the “Barriers to Communication” Worksheets individually
● Complete the “Agreements on Remedies” Worksheet together
Bibliography
“Weekend to Remember” conference manual. FamilyLife. 2006. Revised 10/05.
Swartley, RH and AL. “RIGHT START Mentors Manual.” 1993-2004. Section 2, CWB.
“Communication and Conflict Resolution”. Marriage and Family Counseling Audio Notebook.
Biblical Counseling Center, Arlington Heights, IL.
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I. Introduction
1. Unity (intimacy)
a) Ephesians 4:25: “Therefore, having laid aside falsehood, each one of you speak the
• You must let no unwholesome word come out of your mouth, but only what is
beneficial for the _______________ ________ of the one in need, that it may
feelings, in such a way that both parties are assured that they have been
understood.
2. With ears
3. With words
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A. We cannot ______ communicate.
B. Nonverbals include:
1. posture
2. gestures
3. eye contact
4. facial expressions
6. tone of voice
7. inflection
8. volume of voice
9. appearance—including grooming
10.touch
12.Actions
_________________.
as _____________________.
The spouse who can pretend to be happy when he is in fact very angry is deceptive. Don't
H. Giving of gifts, gleefully completing domestic responsibilities, and undivided attention are
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all forms of nonverbal communication. Use them generously!
3. God directs our lives through the written word (2 Peter 1:3-4)
4. The Word of God explores and exposes our souls (Heb 4:12-13)
6. Adam and Eve's words were corrupted by the Fall (Gen 3:12-13)
B. We only use words when we have established the right ____________________ through
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C. __________________ your words carefully.
V. Conflict Resolution
D. _________________________.
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