DualitySexualAlchemy

Thegreatestsecretofalltimeistheuseofthemaleandfemaleenergiestoperformwhatis sometimesknownashighmagic.Becauseofthepuritanethicthatdominatedsocietyinthepast deathwasoftentheresultofrevealingtoomuch.Itishopedtoday'ssocietywillbemoretolerant ofthissacredmystery. Inchapteroneweexploredthenormalstagesofmaleegodevelopment.Egodevelopmentand spiritualgrowthproceededthroughaseriesofstagesorstepsculminatinginatypeofawareness beyondmentalawarenessthathasbeencalledCosmicConsciousness. Thisisthedirectperceptionofselfevidenttruthandthearchetypalnatureofexistence.This pathofdevelopmenthasalsobeentermedthemysticalpath.Itisdriventhroughprayerand meditation. Inchaptertwowetooktheoppositeandsuggesteditmayrepresentthenormalstagesof femaleegodevelopment.Inretrospectwecanseethispathrepresentsbiologicalstagesof developmentwithemphasisonthreedistinctphaseseachfemalemayprogressthrough.These arethestagesofmaid,motherandcrone.Theyaredrivenbybiologicalfactors.Family, relationshipsandserviceareveryimportant. Thesetwooppositepathsbothappearreasonableandlogicalandweareconfrontedwith paradox.Bothviewsextendfromthelowestlevelsofawarenesstothehighestlevelsof awareness.Botharenaturaloppositesoftheother. Classicbookslike"MenarefromMars;WomenarefromVenus"givefurtherevidencethat malesandfemalesdoexperiencelifedifferently.Iwillgosofarastoclaimthatmaleswill defaulttoaspiritual/intellectualviewoflivingwhilebeingintenselydrawntoward sensual/biologicalexperiences.Maleswillbedrawntothefemalepathandexperienceitbriefly buttheycannotsustaincontactwithit. Femaleswillbeintenselydrawntoaspiritual/intellectualviewoflivingbutdefaultto sensual/biologicalexperiences.Theywillbedrawntothemalepathandexperienceitbrieflybut cannotsustaincontactwithit.Theywilllooseinterestinconstantheadtripping. Anotherfactorofinterestisthatalmostanyfemalecanexperiencethecompleterangeofego developmentthroughdating,pregnancy,childbirth,andmenopause.Somefemalesmaybemore successfulthanothersbuttheyallreachthepinnacleandregaintheirconnectionwithGoddess. Thisisaholisticpath. Themalepathisquitedifferentinthatmanymalesarenotabletoprogressupthestepstothe higherlevelsofegodevelopment.Theyremainstuckatuncompletedstagesfortheirentirelives. Progresstothenextstageisnotalloweduntilthecurrentstageismastered.Thisisalinearpath. Weformrelationshipswiththeoppositesextohelpusgrowasindividualsandaslove partners.Thedynamicenergyexchangebetweenthesetwopathspropelustobecomewhole. Inthischapterwewillformconnectionsbetweenthetwoviewsthatreflectpersonal experienceandhelpbalanceourinnermaleandfemaleaspects.Thedegreeformatisnotusedin thischapter.Insteadthemaleandfemaleareseenasinteractingwitheachotherattenseparate levels. Thesimilaritybetweenthischapterandsuchpracticesas"drawingdownthemoon"are noteworthy.

 Themanandwomanagreetoworktogetherasaninseparableteamtoaccomplishtheir desiredgoals.Sincetheyaremeetingprimarilyonthementalplaneitisvitaltheyhaveasmany interestsincommonaspossible.Thesecommoninterestswillhelptobridgethevastspiritual gapthatwillfacethemlaterintheworkandstrengthentheirsenseofpurpose.Theyaredrawn togetherthroughamagneticattractioncalledlove.Romanticloverelationshipsaresacred. Combinedtheirenergyismagickal. Themanshouldhaveaveryidealisticandspiritualnature.Hewillbeusingmaleenergyasa catalysttoliftherspiritualnaturetothosespiritualheightswhereshecancontacttheGoddess within. WhenthiscontactismadeshebecomestheGoddessandbytransforminghisgeneratedenergy causesittomanifestobjectivelyashealingenergyorshedirectsitforstatedmagicalobjectives. Hehasthesurplusenergysheneedstoachievehergoals.Alonehisenergyiswildand undirected.Togethertheycanachievemiracles. Usingthemaleandfemaleenergiescorrectlyisaformoftantricsexmagic.Thismayormay notinvolvesexororgasm.Whatisrequiredisforeplayandsexualtensionthatisprolongeduntil intensesexual,emotional,andspiritualenergiesaregeneratedbetweenthem. Throughphysicalcontacttheseenergiesmergeintoherauraandstabilize.Iftheyarefully clothedholdinghandstogetherwillallowthisexchangeofenergiestotakeplace.Inessenceany typeofmale/femaleinteractionwillcreatesparks.Thisisthesparkofsexualexcitement. Inmagicalworksincerityofpurposeisimportant,notritual.Whateverisdonemustbe originalandmeaningfultothemalone.Itmustinspireemotionsandarousetheirdesires.To performthistypeofsexualalchemytakestime.Mentallyandemotionallyexploreeachother stepbystep.Therearetensteps. Eachofthefollowingobjectivesmustbemasteredcompletelybeforegoingontothenext. Eachobjectivedescribesthemaleandfemaleresponseasthemalegeneratesspiritualenergyand invokestheGoddesswithinher.Thesestepsarethetwopreviouschapterscombinedasthey describetheromanticinteractionbetweentwopeopleinlove. Therearetenstagesorobjectivesthatrelationshipsprogressthroughundernormalconditions. Seeifyoucanrecognizethesefirstfive. 1.Inthisfirstobjectivethemalestrugglestobebothbodyandspirit.Hestrivestobecomeone withtheChristspiritwithinhimwhilestillmaintaininganawarenessofhisphysicalbody. HelooksatherandrecognizestheGoddess.Heseesherasaspiritualbeingplacingherona pedestalandmentallykneelsbeforeher.Hehasexpectationsandstandardsforherthatareso highonlyaGoddesscouldfulfillthem.Hedoesnotfeelworthyofherlove.Shefeelshisenergy comingintoherauraandbody. MentallysheidentifieswiththespiritualGoddesswithinherandopensherselftoembracehis energy.ThisistrueGoddesslove.Sheactsthroughinstinctandrecognizeswhatsensationshis energyproducesinherphysicalbody. Alloptionsareexplored.Sheallowsthis.Shelovesherselfandthewholeworld.Sheaccepts hisworshipofher.SheistheGoddess.Hislovemakesherfeellovable. 2.Inthissecondobjectiveshebecomestheidealforhimashegetstoknowherbetter.Mentally

hetriestounderstandher.Sheisbeyondlogicandreason. Allanswersmerelybringmorequestions.Sheisagreatmystery.Sheisgood,sheisevil,she islife,sheisdeath,sheissin,sheissalvation,sheisillusion,sheisreality. Hisintellectisinadequateandhetriestointuitivelyunderstandherinstead.Heisina completeintellectualfogandathermercy.Wordscan'texpresshisfeelingstowardher. Herbodyrejoiceswitheagerness.Everythingisright.SheisaphysicalGoddess.Herbody obeyshermind.shefeelsstabilityandpeace.Shehasnoexpectationsofhimatall.Everythingis newandfresh.Allisfulfillment. Shefeelshisenergyinfluencehersensually.Heremotionsarebecomingaroused.Thereis greatjoyandfreedominexploringthesenewsensations.Sheidentifiesmoreandmorewithher bodyassheseesitseffectonhim.Herbodycannotbewrong.Itcandealwithanythingthat comesalong.Heiswrappedaroundherlittlefinger.Sheusesherbodydeliberatelytoget reactionsfromhim.Sheusesbodylanguage. 3.Hebeginstotrusthisintuitionaboveotherthings.SheistheGoddessandheisinlove.There isnooneelseforhimoreverwillbe.SheishisGoddess.Heiscontenttobaskinherradiance, tomerelybeclosetoher.Heneverfelthecouldfindsomeonethatwassorightforhim.It'slike afairytaledream.Hewantstohavesexwithher.Herenergymakeshisentirebodyshiver. Hernewbodyawarenessisstrangeandshefeelstimid,shy,anduncertain.Shefeelsweakand powerlesscomparedtohim.Theveryforceoftheemotionsheisgeneratingthreatento overwhelmher. Insteadofreachingspiritualheightstheforceofhisemotionsisplungingherdownthesteep inclineintosensualmaterialism.Recklesslyandjoyouslysheforsakesallspiritualvaluesandlets ittakeherwhereitwill.ThisisalsopartofbeingaGoddess.Shewantstohavesexwithhim. 4.Hefindsjoyandpeaceindaydreamingabouther.Heletshisimaginationrunwildashe exploresfantasyafterfantasy.Hisdaydreamsbecomemorerealthansheis.Itiswhatshe spirituallyrepresentsthatheisinlovewith.HetriestodrawthisGoddessdownintoherphysical bodywithhisimagination.WhentheyhavesexheismakinglovetotheGoddessandnottoher. Shefeelsapprehensionandsorrowathersuddenexposuretotheintensityofhisemotions.Heis nowgeneratingtangiblepsychicforceandshemustacceptitandtransformit.Thisforceatfirst seemshostileandthreatening.Itstirsheremotionswildly.Thisisherfirsteyeopeningexposure totheforcesthatcanbegeneratedthisway. Itisbothterrifyingandexciting.Howcanhehavesomuchenergy?Itistoomuchforherso shetriestochannelhisenergyupwardtotheGoddess.Sexisnotwhatshethoughtiswouldbe andsheinstinctivelyfeelsthatsomethingisnotrightabouthowhefeelsabouther.Hedoesn't reallyknowher. 5.Herealizessheisholdingbackandhavingdifficultieswithhisenergy.Heturnshisvast creativeenergiesexclusivelytowarddevelopingatypeofenergyshecanworkwith.Through trialanderrorheexaminesthenatureoftheenergyheissendingher.Heperfectsandrefines eachtypeofenergyuntilhecansendeachtypetoheratwill.Physicalsexentrapsbothofthem andshebecomespregnant. Sheistotallyoverwhelmedbythevarietiesandforceoftheenergiesheissending.Thisisa

totallynewexperienceandshebecomesafraidofloosingherselfcompletelyinthiswildvortex ofrawsensual,emotional,andspiritualforces. Eventhoughshetriestobecarefulshefindsherselfbeingdraggeddeeperanddeeperintohis wildenergiesandshecan'tescape.Sheisloosingcontrol.Heisbeginningtodominateher.Then shebecomespregnant. 6.Atthispointitistimeforhimtoslackoffandforgetaboutromanceforawhile.Heshouldjust enjoyhercompanyandsharesocialactivitieswithher.Theyaregoingtohaveachildtogether. Sensualpursuitsarefun.Asheturnsthepowerdownsherelaxesandtheybothturntoalifeof totalhedonismandenjoyment.Sheenjoyshiscompanyandneedshisenergybutonlyalittleata time. Afterawhileshecraveslargerandlargerdosesofhisrawenergy.Shelearnshowtodealwith iteffectively.Itbeginstogiveherpowerandenergyandshecanreturnsomeofitbacktohimin anewform. 7.Hethinksseriouslyaboutformingapermanentrelationshipwithher.Hepourshisenergyand vigorouttoherwithanintensitythatbordersoninsanitybecauseitissostrong. Asshereceiveshisenergyshebecomescompletelyselfcentered.Thisistheonlywayshecan effectivelydirecttheforcesheisgenerating.Shehastobeintotalcontrol,therecanbeno weakness.Sheusesherwilltofocushisenergytowardthosethingsshedesires. 8.Asshetakestotalcontrolhebeginstosuspectshedoesn'tlovehim,thatsheisjustusinghim togetwhatshewants.Whataboutthethingshewants?Hehastofightthesedoubtsandbe patientwithheratthistime.Allsheseemstocareaboutisthechild. Theentireworldspreadsoutbeforeher.Shecancarveoutofitwhatevershewill.Shecanuse himandhisenergiesasshewishestoachieveherdream.Thereisnomentalhesitationor uncertainty.Shegoesfortheachievementofherdream.Sheishavingababy! 9.Heseemstobeonlyaservanttoherbutthenheremembersthatiswhathewantedtobe.She istheGoddess.Hewantedtobuildherdreamforherandnowsheisusinghisenergytodojust that!Workingtogethertheyarebothachievingthosethingstheywishedfor.Thisisthe beginningofhighmagic.Theyaremakingafamily. SheistheGoddess,aforceofnature,unstoppable.Sheperceivesthekarmicneedfor excitement,thrills,andvitality.Sheknowswhentosupporthimandwhentobitchathimtoget himfiredupenoughtodosomething.Shegiveshiminspirationandtakesfromhimwhatshe needs. 10.Blindedbyhisloveforherhesacrificeshimself.Heprojectseverythinghehasandisinto her.Heisfreeofallpersonaldesiresandplungesintospiritualdeathandrebirth. Sheacceptshissacrifice.Sheembracesallthatheisandresolvestomakehimcompleteinall things.Itwilltakeallofherpowertocompletelycontainhisexpansiveenergiesbutshe sacrificeseverythingsheistodothis.

11.Theymerge.Theyareone.Theyareasingleunit,anewbeing.Therearenobarriersbetween them.Theyhavebecomeonesoulandonefamily. 12.Theirentirepersonaluniverseisnowrecreatedonalllevelsintheirimage.Allisrealized,all iscomplete.