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Not that were condoning gambling in schools, but its hard to say theres anything wrong with a few spins of the dreidel at Hanukkah time. Seattle Jewish Community School second graders Edee, left, and Ella clearly enjoyed playing the game in the week before school let out for the holiday. Hanukkah began the evening of Dec. 20.
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On behalf of executive board of the Washington State Jewish Historical Society, thanks so much for the wonderful article about our recent program, Heroes Making History (Stories of the front, Dec. 9). The speakers truly represent the best of America, and we were honored to share their stories. But I did notice an important omission in your overview: The recipient of our annual Meta Buttnick award: Eugene Normand, Ph.D. We purposely decided that Sundays program was an appropriate time to recognize Gene, for he is a highly esteemed veteran, not just in service to the U.S. but to the society as well! As a self-effacing person, I doubt Gene would ever want to call much attention to himself. But I had the honor of serving side by side with him for more than three years, so I feel eminently qualified to do so. Under his tenure, our society achieved recognition throughout King County for excellence in programming (some of which he arranged himself before we hired executive director Lisa Kranseler). He may have been president, but no task was ever too small for him to perform himself his sense of humor tempered with strategic wisdom honed over a prestigious career at Boeing propelled us to ever-larger stages. Please join me in wishing him a hearty yasher koach for an award he so richly deserved! Betsy R. Schneier past president, Washington State Jewish Historical Society WRITE A LETTER TO THE EDITOR: We would love to hear from you! Our guide to writing a letter to the editor can be found at www.jtnews.net/index.php?/letters_guidelines.html, but please limit your letters to approximately 350 words. The deadline for the next issue is January 3. Future deadlines may be found online.
Rabbi Jonathan Singer, lower left, traveled to germany to participate in the ordination of the rabbis who are leading the growth of Jewish life in Eastern and Central Europe.
Jewish future. We are no longer an outlying community, looking to New York or Los Angeles for direction. We have visionary leaders, from those in our Jewish Federation who are developing a new way for all the community to come together and support each other to rabbis and teachers and scholars in our universities and thriving synagogues. This Jewish community is poised to become a significant center of Jewish life. What we still need, however, are busi-
ness visionaries and philanthropists to step forward and take their place as communal leaders to help to inspire the dynamic renewal of Jewish life both locally and nationally. We are blessed to have the wealthiest Jews in Jewish history living in this town captains of industry who have transformed how we communicate, how we make third places over a hot beverage, leaders in the distribution of goods. It is a situation not unlike what Isaac Meyer Wise, the founder of American Reform
Judaism, found in Cincinnati in the 1800s, then the Seattle of its day. He was able to convince Jewish leaders in the business community to support his vision of creating a transformative, progressive Judaism for America. Now we desperately need that kind of visionary commitment to step forward and fund a Jewish Gates Foundation in Seattle that could help us create the foundation of the New Jewish future, to support our synagogues and the work we are doing, to fund the rabbinical schools Reform, Orthodox, Conservative, Reconstructionist that serve all of our communities, to create centers of Jewish music and creativity, including a Center for Jewish Heritage here in this beautiful city. In our own ways all of us in the synagogue and non-profit Jewish communities strive to do this, but on a paltry budget, because our funding is limited. Just think what we could do to bring on the real Golden Age of this generation if we nurtured historic philanthropic leadership in this community that is so capable of producing it. I have been here for 17 years and have yet to meet those who would help us reach that next level but I am inspired by what I experienced in Germany. There I was reminded that the staff on the statue of Jewish life is beginning to become whole again and it is our privilege in this great Jewish city to be able to continue to strengthen it!
The whole thing is essentially a dysfunctional family drama. Renowned Seattle choreographer Donald Byrd, on his work that tells the story of the split between Abraham and Ishmael. See the story on page 14.
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Seattle dance legend Donald Byrd has been working with dancers in Jerusalem to create a bridge between Israelis and Palestinians.
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From the Jewish Transcript, December 15, 1995 In a lot of ways, the Biennial of the Union for Reform Judaism, which completed this past Sunday in Washington, D.C., was like the Biennial that took place 16 years ago in Atlanta. Both conferences had a change in its top leadership: Rabbi Eric Yoffie, who was installed as president of what was then known as the Union of American Hebrew Congregations, gave his last convocation this year before turning the helm over to Rabbi Richard Jacobs. Also this year, President Barack Obama spoke, but in 1995 it was then-Vice President Al Gore, shown here with Temple De Hirsch Sinai Sisterhood president Carol Hoffman. Find more coverage on page 22.
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become adults. JWIs focus is on helping young girls and women achieve success in all areas of their lives, from money, to relationships, to leadership training. They hope to expand the program by adding tutors, but for now, by the end of 2011, they will have opened 38 childrens libraries in domestic violence programs around the country. Their eventual goal is to establish 100 libraries in battered womens and homeless shelters. JWIs partner in the project is Verizon Foundation, the philanthropic arm of Verizon Wireless, which has awarded more than $28 million in cash grants to domestic violence prevention and education programs across the U.S. Its HopeLine program recycles and refurbishes unused and donated mobile phones and gives them to domestic violence survivors for emergencies. Verizon Wireless employees from Washington State also donated 200 books to the libraries. I think I had the easy part, providing
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the funding, said Milt Doumit of the Verizon Foundation. My kids read so many of these books. Thats what youre giving
these kids an opportunity to escape. Mary Anne Dillon, the coordinator for the YWCA of Snohomish County, said she
is proud the agency has helped so many poor and homeless women since 1894. We have a $7 million budget, Dillon told JTNews. In all of 2010, the program helped 135 young people in violent homes. The program saw 118 children who are living in violent homes between January and October of 2011. Jo Jo Gaon, the domestic violence coordinator at the YWCA in Renton, believes the new library will provide happy memories for many of these children who are not as fortunate as he was, growing up with a grandmother who spent many happy hours reading to him by the fireplace. I was thinking about how blessed I was, Gaon said, and theres a lot more need. Penny Potter, a domestic violence advocate at the Lynnwood shelter, sees a brighter future for these families. It gives them the message that there are people in the community that care, she said, and its a wonderful place [for them] to do some bonding with Mom. Were hoping were going to change patterns.
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This year, 90 rabbis from around the U.S. and across the denominational spectrum applied for 23 spots to be Rabbis Without Borders. Two of them come from Washington State. Rabbi Beth Singer of Temple Beth Am in Seattle and Rabbi Seth Goldstein of Temple Beth Hatfiloh in Olympia were selected as 2011-2012 Rabbis Without Borders fellows. The yearlong program, a project of Clal, the National Jewish Center for Learning and Leadership, seeks to nurture rabbis as American religious leaders and to bring Jewish wisdom to a broader Jewish and non-Jewish public. It just struck me as a very intriguing idea, said Goldstein from one of the learning sessions in New York this week. It gives me new ways of thinking, and new tools. Singer admits she only had a vague idea of the program when she applied. She was also intrigued by the idea of the fellowship and wanted to work collaboratively on the process to figure out what Judaism might look like moving forward, as opposed to working with old models, she said. Her first challenge came from Clal president Rabbi Irwin Kula and his vision for American rabbis: For him, Rabbis Without Borders was the concept that traditionally, rabbis have spoken to their own communities. Judaism has gifts and wisdom, she said. He suggests that rabbis should be more out there in the who are searching for new places of meaning, she said. In 2008 a Pew study found that 50 percent of the population polled had changed its religious affiliation over binic voices to be speaking to the nation about healing and recovery, she said. I dont remember reading op-ed columns by rabbis in the New York Times or even in the Seattle Times. Weve been so conditioned to talk to our own communities and not to bother the rest of the community too much, she added. The fellows meet in New York four times a year, and each conference revolves around a different theme. The first meeting focused on the sociology of religious identity in America today; the second which took place this past weekend focused on the intersection of technology and religion, including social media and gaming; the third meeting will deal with politics and religion; and the fourth will center around positive psychology. What increases peoples happiness? asked Sirbu. The ideas generated from these conversations should influence how American rabbis approach Judaism in America moving forward. Goldstein remarked that the shape of Jewish life is changing: Its not about the traditional hierarchical structures, he said. Its now about groups. Its also about a new mindfulness, a
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Rabbis Beth Singer, left, and Seth goldstein at last weeks Clal meeting in New York.
public sphere, like Oprah, like people everybody listens to. Program director Rabbi Rebecca Sirbu explained that in present-day America, identities mix and change, and they would like rabbis to help people navigate those identities. If you look at whats going on in terms of religion in America there are people
time. Were living very much in a melting pot, Sirbu said. Singer, for example, noted the missed opportunity for Jewish religious leaders after September 11. Jews have so much historical experience with mass destruction. That would have been an appropriate time for rab-
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Kenny and Marleen Alhadeff are always happy to be honored, as they were Nov. 18, receiving the Outstanding Family Philanthropists award from the Association of Fundraising Professionals, Washington Chapter, for their work with the Foundation for Early Learning. On accepting the award, Kenny stressed to those gathered at the local Philanthropy Day luncheon and to me on the phone last week that they arent doing this alone. I know it sounds trite, he said, but we werent standing on a podium receiving an award, we were standing on the shoulders of our parents and in the
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work of so many people, said Jenna Barrett of the Foundation for Early Learning. As for their passion for early learning, Kenny says there are basic skills that parents can use with their children from birth to age 5 and all parents can learn them which pave the way for school success. Without them, by 1st grade theres already a separation, says Kenny, measured 12 years later by excessive high school dropout rates in Seattle and nationwide. The Granite Curling Club of Seattle is no secret and its not tucked away in some remote corner of town. It sits on N 130th Street, just east of Aurora
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Rabbi Jay Rosenbaum will be leading a trip to Israel this coming June 24July 2. This trip is for you if:
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shadow of our children. We are part of a legacy, a chain of giving. Its one of the reasons the couple recently changed the name of their foundation from Kenneth and Marleen Alhadeff Charitable Foundation to the Alhadeff Family Foundation. We felt strongly [that] our childrens involvement, and the generations that came before us, was so important that we changed the name, Kenny said. The Alhadeffs philanthropic reach is broad. They are passionate about the arts, the importance of philanthropy, drug and alcohol rehabilitation and social justice. They support a long list of organizations including Cascade Land Conservancy, The Childrens Museum, Senior Services, the University of Washington and Washington State University, Pacific Northwest Ballet, 5th Avenue Theater, Jewish Family Service, and The Northwest School for Hearing-Impaired Children. The work these two have done to contribute to the success of organizations all across our region touches the lives and
Avenue, and Seattle native Ariel KrasikGeiger says that as a kid he had driven by it thousands of times, just like many Seattle north-enders. (I certainly have, and just expressed surprise that theres curling outside of Canada, and let it go at that.) But Ari, now 25, had a different response. In 8th grade he decided to find out more and attended one of the clubs many open houses. It just clicked with me, he recalls. I just loved it, and had a natural affinity for this sport which requires a high level of strategy. He became a competitive junior curler, joining a team and competing at the state level, and he even went to nationals one year. Curling is a good workout, says Ari, who grew up in Congregation Beth Shalom, and as physically challenging as [what] you put into it. Its mentally challenging, too, and is often called chess on ice. He also admits that curlers have a good sense of humorwe know that its an obscure sport; we love it nonetheless.
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This month, the Jewish Federation received a very generous bequest from the estate of Dr. Charles and Lillian Kaplan, zl, long-time Seattle Jewish community leaders and philanthropists. They gave because there was a need, said Bob Kaplan, their son. They believed that being part of a community meant that one should give of their time, energy and their financial resources. According to their wishes, the Kaplans gift will support both the annual Community Campaign and provide scholarships for children and teens to attend Jewish overnight summer camps or teens and young adults to visit Israel. Jane Kaplan noted that her parents were truly committed to sharing their own good fortune. What was most important to them was the continuity of the Jewish community and Jewish education. And my dad had no hesitation about asking others to join
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Get in the habit of dancing, said 18th century Rabbi Nachman of Brezhlov. It will displace depression and dispel hardship. Weve given you 16 clues to get in that habit, each answered by a dance but its not clued as one. So TWIST might be clued as Orphan Oliver. Note the letter in each square where two dances meet, and reading down, youll get one more dance.
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What were really talking about when were talking about talking about anne Frank
Rivy PouPko kletenik JtNews Columnist
Dear Rivy, I just read Nathan Englanders short story in the latest New Yorker and I found something deeply disturbing about it. On one hand, I love to read and see Jewish things out there in the world. On the other hand, its almost too much. Im embarrassed we Jews dont come off smelling like roses, and I wonder: Does the whole world have to know all the ins and outs of our eccentricities? Thank goodness all Jews can at least identify with the Holocaust its something we all share. Who didnt grow up obsessed with Anne Frank? Its natural for the Shoah to be uppermost in our minds. Thoughts? Signed, Baby Boomer Englander brings together two girlhood friends, Lauren and Debbie, who attended a modern Yeshiva high school many years ago. Their paths took them in drastically different directions. Lauren, now Shoshana, has been living an ultra-Orthodox lifestyle in Israel with her husband Yerucham, formerly known as Mark, and their 10 children. Debbie took a turn to the left. No longer observant, she lives in Florida with her husband, and one son, Trevor. They have been brought together thanks to Facebook and a visit to an aging parent in South Florida. One thing leads to the next as the visit progresses. The two long-lost couples drink too much and then get high on Trevors secret marijuana stash. One minute they are exchanging family updates, the next dancing with exuberant abandonment in the rain until finally they enter into some pretty intense intimate conversations ultimately leading up to a dramatic revelation. Englander makes no secret of the fact that he has modeled this New Yorker offering after Raymond Carvers short story, What We Talk About When We Talk About Love, which is a tale of the inebriated intimate exchanges of two couples also leading up to some unexpected revelations. The reunion begins with the typical prickly points of contention between the observant and the secular: Kosher laws, dress standards, Israeli politics you get the drift. Englander, a true insider himself, growing up Orthodox in West Hempstead and attending day school, gets these nuances down pat. But do not be fooled. They are a smoke screen for the real issues that begin to emerge. The first is Jewish identity in this postHolocaust age of ours. On one hand, Debbie argues that There is such a thing as Jewish culture. One can live a culturally rich life. While on the other hand weve got the bombastic Yerucham contending with great verbosity and bravura: Judaism is a religion. And with religion comes ritual. Culture is nothing. Culture is some construction of the modern world. It is not fixedin Jerusalem, we dont need to busy ourselves with symbolic efforts to keep our memories in place. Because we live exactly as our parents lived before the war. Englander keeps it up the Holocaust pops up repeatedly like a bad game of Whack-a-Mole; the retirement home is like a D.P. camp with a billiards room, the retirees have numbers on their arms, the Mormons are posthumously baptizing the 6 million, there is a silent Holocaust in the highly assimilated America. And of course the subject would not be complete without Yerucham contending that Americans use the Holocaust as their only source of identity. If youre not emotionally drained enough by now, wait theres more: Lets go back to the title, What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank. After all the verbal sparring about lifestyles, the two couples end up in close quarters, locked tightly in the pantry, wondering about living in really close quarters, about going into hiding; about who would hide them if there was a need in the event of another Holocaust. This resurrects a maudlin game of the womens childhood: Would so-and-so hide them, would they hide each other? Would husband hide wife? Is it disturbing to see Jewish characters behaving like this drinking, smoking pot and ragging at each other? Is it painful to see Jews portrayed in such unappealing ways? Yes, but such is the path of fiction in our comfortable diaspora. Weve got volumes of lies that tell our truths, from Isaac Bashevis Singer to Phillip Roth. That ship has sailed. It is a rare contemporary portrayal of Jews that has us beaming ear to ear. But heres the upside: We will survive all of these depictions. In fact, we will thrive. Stories like this are a healthy palette upon which we can do some sorely needed soul searching. These are issues we all struggle with some of us on a daily basis. In what ways can we remember the Holocaust with respect and honor, learn from its lessons yet develop, nurture and grow a healthy Jewish identity for our children? Can anything compare with the intense experience of the Shoah? What are the ways to demonstrate ones love, short of literally giving up your life? That I will leave to you. But on the Jewish front, I suggest that the answer lies in balance and attention: The balance of ongoing, rich Jewish engagement along with joyous pride in our traditions, with authentic Torah experiences and lots of loving attention to how we transmit all of our history. Yes, the pain, but not to the exclusion of the pride.
Rivy Poupko Kletenik is an internationally renowned educator and Head of School at the Seattle Hebrew Academy. If you have a question thats been tickling your brain, send Rivy an e-mail at rivy.poupko.kletenik@gmail.com.
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Dear Rivy, I just finished reading Nathan Englanders story in the latest issue of The New Yorker. I think its spot on. We may be religious or we may be secular, but the issue of our generation is that we lack total direction. We are floundering in the aftermath of the Holocaust. Is our only unifying point fear of persecution? Im sick of it Judaism is more than Holocaust, pogrom and inquisition. Young Jews are searching for a new vibrancy kudos to the author for having the courage to say what needed to be said! We need to stop being paranoid. The world is not out to get us. What do you think? Signed, Millennial That was quite the short story to evoke such drastically different responses. Lets take this from the top. Like many, I first came to know Nathan Englander when his award-winning collection of short stories, For Relief of Unbearable Urges, came out in 1999. I loved the collection though a number of stories were admittedly a bit too close for comfort. He brilliantly captures the authentic voices of both men and women and the observant and the secular. In his story, What We Talk About When We Talk About Anne Frank,
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In 2008, choreographer Donald Byrd, in one of his many collaborations with the Jewish community, created Mirror of Memory for the arts organization Music of Remembrance.
at creating a project based in Israel. Four years ago, the Tony Award nominee was disillusioned by the process of getting Palestinians and Israelis together, when he worked on a piece based on a phrase by Israeli author Amos Oz. Visa issues prevented the Palestinian dancer from participating, but Byrd says hes not so nave this time.
At the beginning of his stay in Jerusalem, Byrd conducted auditions at Machol Shalem and chose one Arab-Israeli and three Jewish-Israeli dancers Shaden Abu al-Asal, Anat Yaffe, Irad Matzkiach and Or Avishai who have been working with him on his new piece. This time around, Byrd explains that he decided to use the Abraham-Ishmael nar-
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does believe that art can communicate to people differently than political discourse and can help provide another way of looking at things. Byrd has nothing but praise for his dancers and for the Israeli dance scene in general. The Batsheva Dance Company and Ohad Naharin are great companies on the international scene, he says, and the Suzanne Dellal Dance Center in Tel Aviv is a place Byrd would like to emulate in Seattle. Byrd is due back in Seattle at the beginning of January with plans to bring some of his new Israeli dance colleagues to the Pacific Northwest. I think its important to create dia-
logue about what artists are doing in Israel, he says. He also hopes to find a way for Spectrum Company dancers to come to Israel to take part in a dance festival in the future. The Foundation for Jewish Culture initiated the concept of the American Academy in Jerusalem to promote intercultural dialogue between artists and professionals whose talents could specifically benefit Jerusalem. Elise Bernhardt, President and CEO of the foundation, said, We are confident that this program will provide a significant contribution to the local Jerusalem cultural landscape, facilitating relationships between Jerusalemites, Jerusalems new and seasoned cultural institutions and the fellows.
December 26 at 7:30 p.m. Woody Allen and his new Orleans Jazz Band Concert No need to talk to your analyst; this should be a night of good fun. Woody Allen and his band have been jamming for 35 years, and their repertoire comprises more than 1,200 songs in the styles of spiritual, hymn, blues, march and rag. Even with a four-figure song set, the band runs on spontaneity: They never know what number Woody or band director Eddy Davis will call out. At the Paramount Theatre, 911 Pine St., Seattle. For more information and to purchase tickets visit stgpresents.org or call 877-784-4849.
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Ari continues to curl, more on a social level, with the guys he grew up playing with. His busy school schedule doesnt allow the level of practice required to compete. The graduate of Occidental College is in the process of applying to graduate school in mechanical engineering and completing his prerequisites for that program. He has a handyman business as well, and he stays in shape at a CrossFit gym. The club still has open houses and doubters are particularly welcome. Information is online at www.curlingseattle.org.
Its time to say goodbye to My Miekos Minyan. Thats what I call my workout companions who
show up at that Northend Seattle gym on weekday mornings. Sometimes there are enough of us (a liberal minyan) to daven shacharit say our morning prayers. No, Im not going anywhere, but Miekos is under new ownership, and once the old signs come down, Vision Quest Minyan wont have quite the same ring. Heres a shout out to some of the self-employed, part-time, flextime, work-from-home, and homemakers who are getting to the gym: Debbie Dick Shuster, Steve Katz, Elizabeth Davis, Elizabeth Braverman, Phillip Levin, Mitchell Hymowitz (also a curler!), Rhona Feldman, Amee Sherer, Michael Sherer, Marcy Porus-Gottlieb, Karen Iglitzin, and apologies to anyone I missed.
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It was a full house in the gym at the Stroum Jewish Communitys Hanukkah under the Stars party on Dec. 17. The kids band The Not-Its performed, with lead singer Sarah Shannon here entertaining the troops.
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To generate community interest, Jewish studies programs at most universities use the standard model of lectures followed by a question-and-answer session. This is another format, and so I think its a new way of thinking about how Jewish Studies can contribute to the broader conversation about issues related to Jewish life, Pianko said. In addition, he said, by having these videos accessible to students, it can be a good recruitment tool for the program. These are great kinds of talks that we can share with students on Facebook and on our website, and students will recognize faculty and hopefully get engaged in a topic, Pianko said. The videos will be viewable on the programs new Jewdub blog site, which will go live early next year. If theres one place where Sam Perlin, director of Camp Solomon Schechter in Olympia, felt his camp needed improvement, it was in the arts. Thats why hes excited about the $3,750 the camp received to build an artist-in-residence program. Its going to be a vehicle thats going to kick-start a new direction that Schechters going to go, in that we are going to be more focused on the arts, Perlin said. Im excited about the product that Ill be able to put out there. This pilot year will bring in five art-
ists from the Puget Sound region that will focus mainly on visual arts in particular pottery, since the camp recently installed a kiln. Camp staff is looking at the possibility of including drama and performance as well. Hopefully some training occurs, not only to my campers, but to my staff, so we can keep it going in subsequent years, Perlin said. After camp, after college, and into the wider world, many Jews leave behind their Jewish identity. But as they choose a mate, they may reassess that decision, yet have no idea how to find a way back into Jewish life. Thats where the $3,480 to Temple De Hirsch Sinai for its JLife program comes in. We recognize that we do a great job about teaching lifecycle events: The wedding, the baby naming, the brit milah in sixth and seventh grade, said Rabbi Aaron Meyer of TDHS. But, he added, thats the last place you want to be learning about weddings, the baby namings, and brit milah. So come summer, Meyer and Rabbi Yohanna Kinberg of Temple Bnai Torah will teach four classes, two on the wedding traditions and two on the birth traditions. Were really trying to hold these outside of traditional venues, in a place that there is no barrier to entry, whether its the local Starbucks or some exciting place in both Seattle and Bellevue, Meyer said.
The money will be used in part to find non-conventional means to get the word out, since posting a notice in a synagogue bulletin is obviously not going to reach their target market. Were not shooting for any one congregation, or affiliated or non-affiliated, he said. Were really just going for whomever this information might be practical at this time of their lives. These agencies received grants as well: Hazon, a national environmental organization that will launch its cross-country bicycle ride in Seattle next September, received $5,000 for a one-day pre-ride that shows off the city on two wheels. The AJC Seattle Jewish Film Festival received $2,000 to continue its expansion to show a handful of films year-round beyond its traditional 10 days in spring. $2,500 for an afterschool program at the Stroum Jewish Community Center will engage kids in learning musical instruments and songwriting, in a Jewish context. The Washington State Jewish Historical Society received $4,700 to fund a researcher for Instant Replay: Featuring Washington State Jews in Sports. The Drash: Northwest Mosaic annual literary journal received $1,000 to expand its readings by Jewish poets and writers to all over the state. Temple Beth El received $5,000 to engage a strengths-based planning consultant to assist the Tacoma synagogues
strategic planning committee. BBYO received $1,000 to help bring Jewish middle schoolers from North Seattle and Kitsap County to local youth group events. Also on the Kitsap Peninsula, Congregation Beth Hatikvah received $3,460 to enhance its religious school. The Friendship Circle received $5,000 for its Bnai Mitzvah program to help 6th and 7th graders volunteer within their communities. Hillel at the University of Washington will expand its Passover offerings with $1,500 to celebrate the Sephardic/North African Maimouna festival. Jewish Family Service will expand its Family Life Education with $3,000 for online offerings for people unable to come to events or sessions. The Kavana Cooperatives Holiday Prep and Practice series received $3,100 to teach adults about holiday ritual. The Torah Day School of Seattle received $4,980 to launch a physical education program. The Washington State Holocaust Education Resource Center, in conjunction with Temple De Hirsch Sinai, received $3,530 to teach age-appropriate courses on the Holocaust for 6th graders. The Northwest Yeshiva High School received $5,000 for its production of Life in a Jar, a play about Irene Sandler, who saved 2,500 children from the Warsaw ghetto.
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new set of lenses, he added. Were obviously changing how we relate. So what will happen to the traditional structure of the American synagogue as social networking changes the relational model? They augment each other, Goldstein said. Theyre not replacements for each other. You just cant find everything you need online, Sirbu said. You still need an expert to turn to, to parse the information. Thats the role I think the rabbi can fill.
Neither Singer nor Goldstein envisions becoming the next Shmuley Boteach or rabbi to the stars, however. When am I going to get the time to be an American spiritual leader? asked Singer. Managing a 930-family congregation is a lot of work, she said. No one really needs to know Rabbi Beth Singer, she said, but they do need to know about being made in the divine image, how that works in society, and how it speaks to Jews and non-Jews. The takeaway from this program will be different for every rabbi, which is Rabbis Without
Borders intent, but that also makes it difficult to define. We dont have a blueprint, said Sirbu. Instead we say, You must do something in line with your vision for your rabbinate. The organization, therefore, speaks to the values of pluralism and positivity, and it encourages rabbis to meet individuals where they are. Were really hoping to rebrand rabbis, Sirbu said, so people see rabbis as great resources.
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NATIONAL HARBOR, Md. (JTA) The metaphors abound. To Rabbi Rick Jacobs, the next president of the Union for Reform Judaism, its a gas station. To Rabbi Eric Yoffie, the outgoing president, its an anchor. To Stephen Sacks, the incoming chairman of Reforms board, its a supermarket. Theyre all talking about the Reform synagogue, and they all agree on one thing: Its not a place you can find very many Reform Jews from post-Bar/Bat Mitzvah age through their 30s. Synagogues need to think differently about how to reach them. I think its always been a challenge, but theres more awareness of it now, said Rabbi Elissa Koppel, 39, of Temple Beth El in Hillsborough, N.J. Reform activists and leaders cite several reasons for the disaffection of young Jews: The difficulty of competing for young peoples attention given the distractions of the modern world; the ethos of individualism in American life; a growing preference for virtual social networks over physical ones; parents who emphasize soccer practice over Jewish tradition; a declining sense of obligation to belong to communal institutions. And then, of course, theres the deterrent of Reform synagogues themselves. The standard model is not working for the younger generation, said Rabbi Larry Sernovitz, 39, of Old York Temple Beth Am in Abington, Pa., near Philadelphia. A lot of programming is based on the 50s and 60s set one size fits all. But American Jews have become more assimilated and are moving away from organized synagogue life. The Reform movement is facing a host of challenges, in particular the economic downturn. But Reform leaders say their greatest hurdle is figuring out how to engage young Jews, most of whom leave Reform synagogues with the last hora of the Bar/ Bat Mitzvah party, as Jacobs puts it. One need look no further than Yoffies own children, whom he talked about in his Shabbat sermon at the Reform biennial conference held Dec. 14-18 at a hotel just outside Washington, D.C. His daughter, Adina, attends a Modern Orthodox shul, and his son Adam, 28, finds temple boring and doesnt go much at all, according to Yoffie. They agree on what they dont want, Yoffie said. They dont want their synagogue to be the synagogue of their youth. In a time of decreasing affiliation with communal Jewish institutions across the denominational spectrum, concern is growing in the Reform movement that unlike previous generations, the young Jews leaving Reform synagogues now will never return. A newer trend indicates that fewer and fewer Jews will even join for their children, Jacobs said in his Dec. 18 biennial address. Of all the movements, Reform Jews lead the way and this aint a happy one we lead the way in leaving when childhood education is over. In an interview with JTA, Jacobs added, If we dont start thinking differently about youth, its certainly not a bright and rosy future. The bleak prognosis for the movement was belied by a biennial that many participants described as the most energetic they had ever attended. Ive felt inspired by this conference, said Jonah Kaplan, 25, of Springfield, Mo. My belief in the movement has been reaffirmed. Its important to get some Yiddishkeit and Jewish vigor and Jewish identity, and be surrounded by people like me who share the same passion for Judaism that I do. Nearly 6,000 people attended the biennial, making it the biggest Reform conference in history. It featured speeches by President Obama, House Majority Leader Eric Cantor and Israeli Defense Minister Ehud Barak, among others. It also was the last biennial with Yoffie at the helm. Jacobs, who has been the rabbi at the Westchester Reform Temple in Scarsdale, N.Y., will take over as president in January after 16 years of Yoffies leadership. Sessions at the five-day conference covered everything from Yoga Shalom: The Embodiment of Prayer to Is America Abandoning Church-State Separation? Implications for the Jewish Community. The conference was a mix of old and new, reflecting some of the changes made by the movement over the last generation and some it has not made. The weekday prayer services consisted of participatory singing, guitar playing and even storytelling and meditation part of a revolution in Reform prayer led by the late singersongwriter Debbie Friedman. But the Shabbat morning service was more formal and operatic, sending some congregants into the hallways to chat. Yoffie over the years has tried to make Torah a renewed focus of the movement, pushing for more Jewish study, Shabbat observance, the adoption of some kind of Jewish dietary ethos and the practice of mitzvot. To some degree the push has taken hold, though not always in step with traditional Jewish practice. Were not a halachic movement and we dont profess to be, Yoffie told JTA. We now have a Reform Judaism that is in a certain sense more traditional. Were also more radical. We live with the contradiction. The question for the Reform movement isnt how close or far it can get from halachah, or Jewish law, but whether it can interest the 80 percent of Reform Jews who stay away from the synagogue for two or three decades after their Bar or Bat Mitzvah. Jacobs says that if young people arent going to come to the synagogue, the movement will just have to bring the synagogue to them. How that is to be done is not exactly clear. Jacobs, whose own temple hired a rabbinic intern to work outside the synagogue to engage people in Jewish life, is starting by launching a campaign for youth engagement and going on a listening tour to learn about innovative and successful models. Rabbi Jonathan Hecht, 51, of Temple Chaverim in Plainview, N.Y., says the movement has to move away from synagogues being Bar Mitzvah factories what Jacobs called a gas station to fill up the next generation with Jewish gas and what Sacks called a supermarket where Reform Jews come to purchase services. We are at fault for creating a model based on You come to synagogue when your kids are in third grade and youre out in eighth grade, Hecht said, lamenting that kids see Reform Judaism as something you do at one time in your life, like college. Its a question, he said, of resources. Are we willing to add more camps, more full-time youth workers? Hecht asked. Where are we putting our efforts?
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