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A Doubleday book Published by Random House Australia Pty Ltd Level 3, 100 Pacific Highway, North Sydney NSW 2060 www.randomhouse.com.au First published by Doubleday in 2012 Copyright Jan Roberts 2012 The moral right of the author has been asserted. All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or transmitted by any person or entity, including internet search engines or retailers, in any form or by any means, electronic or mechanical, including photocopying (except under the statutory exceptions provisions of the Australian Copyright Act 1968), recording, scanning or by any information storage and retrieval system without the prior written permission of Random House Australia. In your kitchen recipes reproduced with kind permission from Pauline and David Nemeth. Addresses for companies within the Random House Group can be found at www.randomhouse.com.au/offices National Library of Australia Cataloguing-in-Publication Entry Roberts, Janette. Healthy parents, healthy baby / Jan Roberts. ISBN 978 1 74275 217 4 (pbk.) Conception. Pregnancy. Pregnant women Health and hygiene. 618.2 Cover photograph by Chris Ryan, Getty Images Cover design by Christabella Designs Internal design by Christabella Designs Typeset in Sabon 11/17 pt by Midland Typesetters, Australia Printed in Australia by Griffin Press, an accredited ISO AS/NZS 14001:2004 Environmental Management System printer The paper this book is printed on is certified against the Forest Stewardship Council Standards. Griffin Press holds FSC chain of custody certification SGS-COC-005088. FSC promotes environmentally responsible, socially beneficial and economically viable management of the worlds forests.
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NOT E T O R E A D E R S
In this book I refer to many self-help and some practitioner-guided treatments. If you are in any doubt about what you should do on your own or what requires professional assistance, be sure to seek help. When consulting a health professional, find one that is committed to a natural approach and ideally, one who has knowledge of preconception health care. Some of the nutritional supplements and nutraceuticals that I recommend are available from holistic and natural health practitioners and selected health food stores and pharmacies. If not, they are all readily available from Jans Picks on my website, www.flurishh.com. I have provided guidelines regarding general use, but always follow the dosage insert. There are risks involved in oversupplementing. If you have any specific concerns, you should consult a natural health practitioner. Finally, throughout this book, youll find your baby referred to as he. Indulge me its not a preference for male babies but rather a convention that I find easier to use in order to distinguish between mother and baby. Definitely no discrimination or sexism intended!
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PART 1:
What you need to know
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C H A PT E R 1
Before you conceive . . .
3. History tells us . . .
Preconception care is not a new idea even the ancient Greeks and Romans knew that it mattered.
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7. Get practical
Having a child will affect every aspect of your life, so you need to have a good idea of whats involved and what it will mean for you and your partner and your lives together.
8. Conceiving consciously
When conception takes place with conscious intent, its an excellent start.
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birth, congenital abnormalities, postnatal depression, breastfeeding failure, learning and behavioural problems, allergies and other issues are at record levels and are also on the rise. The following statistics show clearly that reproduction is compromised at every step along the way. What you see here is a very inauspicious beginning, with huge physical, mental, emotional and financial cost for individuals, families and carers, but also for health systems and society as a whole! 1 couple in 6 is infertile 1 woman in 4 will miscarry 1 baby in 10 is born prematurely 1 baby in 30 is born with a congenital abnormality 1 woman in 5 has a C-section 1 woman in 3 suffers from some degree of postnatal depression Only 1 woman in 10 breastfeeds beyond her childs first birthday 1 child in 10 has a learning or behavioural problem 1 child in 5 suffers from asthma There is an epidemic of children with subtle (and some not so subtle) metabolic, immune, neurological and digestive disorders But the evidence is also unequivocal most of these problems can be prevented when both partners are in excellent health before they conceive their child.
3. History tells us . . .
Preconception care is not a new idea even the ancient Greeks and Romans knew that it mattered. But while preconception health care has never been more important, its been around a while the ancient Greeks and
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Romans knew that alcohol, drunk before and around the time of conception, was damaging to the foetus. Both societies banned the drinking of alcohol by young women and newlyweds! Many tribal societies fed special diets to their young women (and young men) of child-bearing age. Back in the 1930s, American dentist Dr Weston Price studied communities from around the world and clearly established the link between consumption of a refined Western diet and compromised reproductive outcomes. In his classic work Nutrition and Physical Degeneration he also demonstrated increasingly compromised physical and mental health in every successive generation in those communities where white flour, sugar-containing products and chemically altered vegetable oils had replaced traditional diets. More on this in Eating for two? on page 53. The Great Dutch Famine or Hunger Winter as it was known, which lasted from October 1944 to May 1945, also provided fascinating insights. Numerous studies have shown that women exposed to the food shortages before and around the time of conception had poorer reproductive outcomes than the women who were subjected to food shortages only during their pregnancy. But thats not all. In a thesis entitled Obstetric performance of women after in utero exposure to the Dutch famine (194445) by L. H. Lumey from the Graduate School of Columbia University in 1988, the next generation was also shown to be compromised if the mother was in utero during the first trimester when her mother was exposed to food shortage. This introduces us to exciting new studies in epigenetics. Research in this field demonstrates that the effects of harmful physical and emotional traumas are carried down through generations, but whats really exciting is that the converse holds true: you and your partner can positively affect the health of not only your children, but your grandchildren and great-grandchildren! Having confidence that
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your healthy diet and lifestyle, toxicity- and stress-free environment, regular exercise and positive attitude are going to make a difference to the health of generations to come is a powerful motivator for ongoing commitment to the Healthy Parents, Healthy Baby Program. Read more about epigenetics on page 143. Of course, its worth keeping in mind that farmers have always ensured the optimal health of their livestock before breeding. Forgotten for ages by the human population, preconception health care is now regaining popularity for very good reasons. If we are to reverse the trend of increasingly compromised reproductive health and the trend towards chronic degenerative disease at a younger and younger age, we need to turn our attention back to the very beginning of the life cycle.
Professor Barkers work confirms that a great deal of chronic degenerative disease begins prior to conception and, consequently, we need to turn our attention there if we are to have any chance of
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optimal health throughout our lives and if we are to avoid serious decline at the other end. Professor Barkers work was pooh-poohed when he first published 30 years ago. After all, at the time cardiovascular disease was directly linked to high cholesterol, smoking, lack of exercise and high-stress lifestyles, not to birth weight. Professor Barker was finally awarded a CBE in the 2006 New Years Honours List the award recognising his pioneering medical research work on the links between low birth weight and the later development of disease. UK-based Foresight, Association for the Promotion of Preconceptual Care, established in 1978, has played a major role in my interest in this area. Foresights work, like Professor Barkers, has been groundbreaking and has involved the research of many eminent scientists from around the world. For those of you who like research, Foresight publications, each one containing hundreds of cited references, cover the topics of vitamins, trace elements, hormones, food additives, genetically modified (GM) foods, alcohol, smoking, cannabis, agrochemicals and heavy metals and their effects on reproduction. You might find these useful resources for a sceptical or reluctant partner.
have previously experienced the distress of miscarriage, stillbirth, medical termination, malformation, unexplained infertility, postnatal depression and health problems in their child. In fact, in the initial study group of 367 couples, more than half had a previous problem or series of problems. But with comprehensive preconception care for all those couples, at the end of a two-year period Foresight had achieved remarkable results. The statistics speak for themselves . . . 89 per cent had a healthy baby 81 per cent of infertile couples had a baby No births occurred before 36 weeks No baby was lighter than 5 lb 3 oz. (2368 g) No miscarriages in the study group No perinatal deaths No malformations No baby was admitted to intensive care Just think carefully about what these results actually mean. Not merely 89 per cent of couples had a live, healthy baby, but there were no miscarriages (when in the normal population you might expect 85 in a group of the same size) or malformations (in the normal population you might expect 20 in a similar group). There were no premature or very low birth weight babies either, which is important in light of Professor Barkers findings! This study was first published in the Journal of Nutritional & Environmental Medicine in 1994 and was also scheduled to be published in the (very prestigious) Lancet. After months of procrastination, the Lancet editors declined to publish. Their reason? Lack of control group. Foresight argued in vain that the group acted as its own control (remember 59 per cent had a previous problem including infertility of up to ten years duration). Regarding the perceived lack
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of control group, I would argue that it is unethical to do nothing except suggest trying again to a couple with a history of recurrent miscarriage, a series of therapeutic terminations, a malformed baby or a child with learning or behavioural problems. Even when Foresight tripled the number of couples in their trial, there were only 3.5 per cent miscarriages, compared to somewhere between 25 and 30 per cent in the UK and a malformation rate of 0.47 per cent compared to 6 per cent in the general population. Those problems were identified as linked to specific toxic exposure or incomplete preconception preparation. Foresights program also achieved a healthy average birth weight and vastly improved success rate for those couples completing preconception care prior to IVF (which is sometimes still necessary if there are physical barriers to conception). When couples resorted to IVF, or other assisted reproductive technologies after completing their preconception preparation, the average success rate was 43.5 per cent compared to an expected rate of 22.6 per cent. In Australia, Francesca Naish, my original co-author in the Better Babies series and founder of the Jocelyn Centre, has helped thousands of couples to have a truly healthy baby. Her results further establish preconception health care as an absolutely fundamental health promotion measure.
Attitudes have changed significantly since I began promoting preconception health care, but there is still occasional reluctance on the part of the male partner to acknowledge his role in ensuring the physical and mental health of his offspring. Whatever the reasons for his reluctance, the evidence now points overwhelmingly to his equal contribution (some researchers in fact suggest it may be even greater than 50:50). Here are some of the significant findings: In 1938 only 0.5 per cent of men were considered to be functionally sterile. Today, it is estimated that between 5 and 12 per cent of men are infertile. Because sperm are smaller and constantly being formed they are actually more physically vulnerable to toxic exposure than a womans eggs. Cigarettes, alcohol and social drugs (even if only occasional) all have to go. This is just advance notice; youll learn exactly why in Chapter 6: Habits. Men are more frequently exposed to toxicity in the workplace, with this exposure linked to stillbirth, preterm birth, central nervous system defects and testicular cancer in their children. Leukaemia, asthma and respiratory and mental diseases have all been linked to the male. Wi-fi radiation has been demonstrated to affect sperm motility and causes damage to the DNA. New evidence links the high-fat diet of a father-to-be to obesity in his children (epigenetic/trans-generational effects). And gentlemen, this is just the tip of the iceberg. Now you really have no excuses for thinking this is just a program for the mum-to-be. Preconception might be the real first trimester, but its a trimester that you and your partner must share in equal measure.
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There are two reasons why those four months are so very important: 1. The egg is particularly susceptible to damage for about 100 days before ovulation; and 2. Sperm formation can take up to 116 days. Maybe you think this Healthy Parents, Healthy Baby Program is just for couples with problems? Then think again! This program is for anyone who might ever become a mum or a dad whether your pregnancy is just around the corner or several years down the track. Ever since my own positive experiences, Ive firmly believed that this program is not about dealing with issues such as infertility (even though its extremely effective in that area), but is something that all prospective parents should embrace. I encourage every one of you to give this the same time, loving care and attention to detail that you lavish on your wedding plans! Understanding that you have the health of the next generation in your hands is empowering but also brings great responsibility. Its up to you and its never too soon to get started. No matter how much you intellectualise the situation, Natures design for the propagation of the human species makes having babies much more of an emotional than a rational decision. Whether that emotional desire is hard-wired, a function of a ticking biological clock, plugged into hormonal cycles or to some bigger astrological blueprint is not the issue. But it happens. For years and years I said, I dont want babies Im having too much fun. Why muck up this fabulous hedonistic lifestyle with kids? . . . and so on. Then, without any rhyme or reason, in my mid-thirties I did a complete about-face and nobody was more surprised than me. I have to question the couples for whom a child becomes a completely rational, calculated, unemotional decision, little more
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than another acquisition or a tick on their achievement board . . . Education, travel, career, house, car, boat all done. Next on the list? A baby! Now back to work! That may sound harsh, but Ive seen it. Before embarking on your parenting journey, there are some things you need to consider carefully. Read on for more . . .
7. Get practical
Having a child will affect every aspect of your life, so you need to have a good idea of whats involved and what it will mean for you and your partner and your lives together. I can still hear my partner saying quite confidently that Our baby wont change anything. Yeah right, Al! When things unfold according to Natures plan, the extraordinary babyparent bond is so amazing, all-encompassing and far-reaching in its effects ditto the love and emotional changes that come with the baby that it will forever change what you consider important and what you do not. In addition to your joint commitment to healthier living, there are lots of other things to think about.
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me down this path! Keep in mind that your reasons for embracing the Healthy Parents, Healthy Baby Program are because you want your own experience to be the best it can possibly be in making that decision you also acknowledge that for many couples today, their reality is very different.
What about life as a single parent or in an alternative family? These choices present different challenges and a support network is absolutely essential! By giving some thought to all of these things, youll start to get a clearer picture of what parenting might mean for you.
Time
How do you currently spend your time? Can you imagine how you might spend your time differently if you had a child? Do you enjoy the time you spend with children? Few parents are prepared for the amount of time, love and energy that rearing a child requires. Being a parent means 24 hours a day, seven days a week for an indeterminate number of years, so good time management skills are essential. For a start, work out who will be responsible for child care (you, your partner, a professional nanny or a childcare centre). Recognise that you could well change your mind about child care once you are actually holding your baby in your arms (and I hope you will!), so you need to keep that eventuality in mind. Consider how youll juggle time at work, time with your child, and time alone or just with your partner.
Work
What are your career plans and goals? How much satisfaction and self-worth do you derive from working and earning your own living? Can you work from home or find suitable part-time work? Do you and your partner value the hours of unpaid work either of you would do at home caring for a child? What maternity and paternity benefits does your employer offer? Would a different employer give you more flexibility in your parenting roles? Find ways to meet your childs needs and your own career goals that also match your beliefs and values about good parenting. The prospect of leaving or slowing down your career may be daunting.
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However, having a baby will bring new feelings, thoughts and experiences into your life that you may not be able to imagine right now. Make mental space for a baby in your life. The ability to accept change wholeheartedly and positively will make your transition to parenthood much easier and more enjoyable.
Money
There is no one right way to organise your finances for having a child. Some people save until they feel they have enough financial security to support a family. Others simply go ahead and have a child, keep working and make ends meet. The bottom line is that having children costs money and you will have to factor this expense into your budget. (If you dont have a budget, then maybe its time to create one!) Ask friends who have children what it costs to raise a family. These costs will change teenagers cost more than babies. Look at your own expenditure over a month or a year and imagine how you would budget for a child. You should also make plenty of time to discuss your financial arrangements with your partner. Of course its possible (I actually think its desirable) to keep your initial costs to a bare minimum by purchasing only the real necessities and even these can often be bought second-hand or handed on from friends. It actually doesnt matter to your baby if his snuggly, his stroller, even his clothes and other must-haves have been pre-loved. My boys were both glamorously attired in designer hand-me-downs. Its not difficult to find someone only too willing to see their own childrens no-longer-needed items go to a good home! You may also change your priorities around money and material possessions. I question the value of expensive schooling, tuition, coaching, lessons and other essentials for your childs success, when the financial reality of being able to afford them keeps you in the workforce rather than at home with your child.
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inner strength; and family members often enjoy particularly close and supportive relationships. In summary, there are lots of things to ponder before you begin your parenting journey! If you dont think youre quite ready, dont let anyone pressure you into the decision. My partner would have been happy to start a family years before I said, Lets do it! His parents certainly never understood why I wasnt planning to provide them with grandchildren. But I know for certain Id have made a lousy mother if Id had my babies in my twenties. I guess my only tiny regret is that I really left it too late to have more than two and of course the age at which you start is just one more thing for you to think about . . .
8. Conceiving consciously
When conception takes place with conscious intent, its an excellent start. Its time! Youve done the work, youve actively avoided all those unhealthy lifestyle and environmental factors, your diet has never been better, youve been taking your supplements . . . Youve also done some great groundwork in establishing new social networks and youre firmly committed to being a full-time mum or dad for a while. You know that both you and your partner are physically, mentally and emotionally as ready as you can be for this baby youre about to conceive! Youve been charting your cycle, taking your temperature, noticing how your cervical mucus changes and today youre absolutely certain that youre ovulating. Drum roll . . . Light the candles, play the music, dim the lights! This is the love-making that youve anticipated for so long. Youve both looked forward to conceiving consciously and being able to welcome your childs existence from its very earliest moments. Youre feeling confident that this act of love will lead to the conception of your baby.
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Since the charting of your cycle is now second nature, you know that all your preparation has paid off when your temperature is still elevated after 20 days. The baby that youve waited for so long is currently about the size of an apple pip, but you also know that its beginnings have been as healthy as they can possibly be and that you can anticipate a pregnancy and birth that reflect the care youve taken. Your delight in the conception of your baby is overwhelming, and you both know that your months of preconception care were well worthwhile. If youre a single mum, or if youre otherwise undertaking this momentous journey courtesy of donor sperm, donor egg or some combination other than the original, you can make a similar ritual of a conception attempt. While the sperm or egg donor may be unknown to you, honour their participation in the creation of your baby and ask for their love and support in spirit.
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Avoid single nutrients such as folic acid, which should always be taken in combination with other vitamins from the B-complex group. (More details on all these recommendations in Chapter 3: Eat.) Begin an exercise program. Moderate, aerobic and musclebuilding exercise improves the delivery of nutrients. Flexibility exercises, stretching and yoga are important too. Remember your pelvic floor exercises once youre pregnant. (More details on all these recommendations in Chapter 4: Do.) Reduce stress and maintain a positive attitude. Practise affirmations and visualisations. Imagine all toxicity leaving your body, replaced by an abundance of vital nutrients. Imagine your healthy body nurturing a healthy baby. Maintain a strong belief in your ability to positively affect your fertility and pregnancy outcome! (More details on all these recommendations in Chapter 5: Think.) Avoid cigarettes, alcohol, caffeine and other drugs. Drink at least 2 litres of purified water daily. This helps get rid of the toxicity that can adversely affect the health of eggs and sperm. Use alternative contraception to the Pill. (More details on all these recommendations in Chapter 6: Habits.) Avoid environmental toxicity reduce your use of chemicalladen products (at work and home). Your bathroom, kitchen and laundry cupboards can be major sources of chemicals and other toxins. Read labels. Limit exposure to electromagnetic radiation. (More details on all these recommendations in Chapter 7: Surrounds.)
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Play the game at www.flurishh.com. Not only is it fun, but it will help you create your beautiful healthy baby in the real world.
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Screen for Chlamydia (tested from cervix or blood antibodies to show pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) or dormant past infections), Ureaplasma urealyticum, Mycoplasmas, anaerobic bacteria, group B Haemolytic streptococci, Streptococci millerii, Staphylococcus aureus, Gardnerella vaginalis, Enterococcus, Haemophilus influenza, Klebsiella, E. coli and Candida. After the initial investigations, your practitioner will know which of the following treatments are appropriate for you. But this doesnt mean its now out of your hands all the treatments will be most effective when fully supported by your own efforts, which should be continued (but may need reviewing in line with your own specific issues). Ensure healthy function of the gut Restore hormone balance Improve sperm health Detoxify (especially heavy metals) Treat any malabsorption problems Get rid of any chronic infections Educate about Natural Fertility Management Reduce reliance on pharmaceuticals Your trained practitioner will not only implement and guide you through these protocols, but will also give you the green light when its okay to attempt conception.
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