Your Zodiac Sign Compatibility Guide

This is your celestial guide to love and relationships. Written for the Zodiac sign Aries, this book is designed to give you a solid understanding of how you relate to the other signs. The information contained herein contains secrets of astrology that have never been revealed outside professional circles. Now it is up to you to enjoy and utilize what was once known only by kings and queens.

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Your Zodiac Sign Compatibility Guide Introduction

Your personal guide to compatibility and love with all twelve signs of the Zodiac

Its said that a little knowledge is a dangerous thing, but when it comes to some aspects of life, especially the love-life, a little knowledge of Astrology can be very helpful. It's no wonder that despite our amazing developments in science and technology, the ancient craft of understanding the language of the stars still is practiced and used by millions around the globe. Astrology is still used for the selection of marriage partners in some parts of the world, India being a prime example. Very traditional families there choose mates for their children, and astrological compatibility is one of the main criteria for that choice. Most young people in India today, however, seek mates of their own choosing, and make their choices based on who they are attracted to. But does that mean Astrology is invalid in modern love-relationships? I think not! Tides of romance flow with the stars throughout the world, and interestingly enough, modern, popular Indian Astrology magazines devote a good number of pages to horoscope matching.

A little bit of history

In very ancient times, Astrology was only used for determining the fortunes of the king and the nation: personal horoscopes were virtually unknown. There was no special emphasis given to the Astrological month, or Sun-Sign, that we are used to working with today. In ancient Alexandria, around 300 BC, a revolution in Astrology began. Greek, Egyptian, Indian and Babylonian scholars developed the 12-sign Zodiac and the type of Astrology that we know today. They basically took the methods that were used to discover important omens that would affect the nation,

The Zodiac

and adapted them to find important omens for folks like you and me. For many centuries, if you did not have an accurate birth time, you were out of luck. Most people were unsure of the day they were born, and the calendar systems were confusing at best, and basically unknown outside the Church and its institutions. As timekeeping improved, and more people began to read, the Almanac became very popular. Astrology was a major component of the almanac, but was used to calculate planting, tides, weather and that sort of thing. British almanac-makers thought up the idea of just writing about the Zodiac signs at some point much later, and invented the form of popular Astrology we know and love to make their almanacs even more popular. As scholarly astrologers caught on, they began to change their way of looking at horoscopes, and a whole new style of Astrology evolved, which was welcomed in both the visible and invisible worlds. So arent we lucky from a way to make up for missing birth data and selling a few extra almanacs, we now have a complete method of Zodiacal Astrology! This is something that is so important for the love-life because a problem too many astrologers have is that they spend too much time looking at the trees to see the beauty of the forest. Horoscope charts have so many details that it is impossible to find someone who matches them all. That would be like having a separate brush for every shade of every color, and those brushes would only be available on certain days. Try to paint a picture under those conditions. The Zodiac signs, however, give us a kind of general view of the likes, dislikes and major motivations of an individual. Armed with this information, youre starting out with an advantage, which is a good idea of what you have in common with others and what you dont. Starting from there, it will be a little easier to explain why things went the way they did in the past, and easier to figure out how to avoid similar events in the future.

How do I know my sign?

Finding your Zodiac sign is as easy as pie well, eating one anyway. This is because all you really need to know is your birthday. Aries begins on the first day of Spring every year, but some years the signs might be a day off from their calendar date because of astronomical stuff, time zones and other things that you probably aren't interested in. If your birthday falls on one of the dates below, use an online service that makes Horoscopes to find out which sign you are actually in. Some people talk about a condition called on the cusp that says if you are born within 5 days of the signs changing, you have some characteristics of both signs. As to whether or not that's true is another story. The sign itself has many small divisions of varying size and quality. Planets that are Astrologically close to the Sun, such as Mercury and Venus could be in an adjacent sign and that may cause a person to identify more with a sign other than the Sun or birthday sign. Many people identify with their Moon sign more than the Sun sign, so dont believe all the stories you hear about cusps, retrogrades and other phenomena. Aries March 20th Taurus April 19th Gemini May 20th Cancer June 21st Leo July 22nd Virgo August 22nd Libra September 22nd Scorpio October 23rd Sagittarius November 22nd Capricorn December 21st Aquarius January 20th Pisces February 18th This sign list should be accurate for most of the 20th and early 21st century, but once again, if you fall right on one of the dates in the table, it is easy, these days, to find out exactly which sign you were born in.

Whats Your Sign?

Birthday Table

A bit about the Zodiac signs...

Once in a while, when the topic of conversation turns to Astrology, (and sometimes when it doesnt) there are those who may try to impress you with their knowledge of the subject. Let me give you a little hint: there are many more people that dont know what they are talking about than those who do when it comes to any metaphysical subject. Many a fast talker has captured the attention of a curious listener with completely false information. If you stop to read these couple of paragraphs carefully, your baloney meter will be charged up and ready to go, and no one will be able to con you with junk information again. How could you possibly trust someone who would attempt to pass off whatever sounds good as the truth of something as old as Astrology? The Zodiac Signs are arranged in two major groups. The first of these is called the Trigons or Triplicities, which later became known as the 4 elements. Fire Signs tend to be more impulsive, adventurous, bold and more demanding than the other signs. Aries, Leo and Sagittarius are the Fire Signs. Earth Signs tend to be more practical, reliable and stable than other signs. The hard-working Earth Signs are Taurus, Virgo and Capricorn. Air Signs are the most socially-oriented signs, and are known for their quick wit and easygoing nature. Gemini, Libra and Aquarius belong to this Trigon. Water Signs are more emotional than the others. They are empathetic and can be quite entertaining. Cancer, Scorpio and Pisces are the Water Signs. These Trigons, when seen on the Zodiac wheel, are positioned so that they form equilateral triangles. In ancient Astrology, one of the most important thing to know in order to analyze the horoscope properly was whether or not the person was born by day or night, because this told the astrologer

Meet The Twelve Signs

which of the Trigons, and therefore which of the planets would act as the main indicators of one's destiny. This was a method that was lost for some time, but recently revived by careful translations who are practitioners of the craft instead of uninterested historians. The other important set of ancient sign-groups was the Quadratures, or signs that marked off cardinal points from one another. These did not become as well known as the 4 elements of popular Astrology, but they were based on the recognition of the yearly phenomena of the Sun that we call the 4 seasons and one of the most important structures of ancient and esoteric Horoscopes. Cardinal Signs are the most dynamic, and get things moving, or force changes. The signs of this group are Aries, Cancer, Libra and Capricorn. Fixed Signs are the most stable, and settle things down, maintain them, or organize them. Taurus, Leo, Scorpio and Aquarius are the Fixed Signs. Common or Dual Signs are the most adaptable, having the nature of both the other groups. Gemini, Virgo, Sagittarius and Pisces form this group. There are many other types of relationships within the Zodiac signs, which have many purposes. But for your easy guide to compatibility, these two groupings are the most important.

It's all about geometry or is it?

The Greek authors were not only prolific writers and our best source of ancient Astrological lore, but they were quite obsessed with geometry. Almost any book you read about Astrology and relationships bases the compatibility rules solely on the Greek methods of dividing up the Zodiac in order to fit their geometric schemes. What they were doing was brilliant, but they werent doing it to create methods of determining chart compatibility.

The Olden Rules

They divided the circle of Zodiac signs by way of diameter (cutting it in half), Trigon (dividing the circle by three), tetragonally (dividing by four) and hexagon (division by six). The diametrical signs were, of course, those opposite one another. The Trigons were, as mentioned above, signs that formed even-sided triangles. The tetragonal signs all belong to the same Quadrature. The hexagonal relations are created by superimposing two opposing Trigons. OK, well what does this all mean? It used to be believed that the triangle was good compared to the square. If we look at any common Astrology guide, Fire and Air signs are said to be compatible with one another, as are Water and Earth signs. Take for example Cancer and Capricorn they are opposite one another, but their Trigons will overlap, making them part of a hexagon, supposedly a good configuration. Fire and Earth are considered incompatible, because using Aries as an example, two of the signs, Taurus and Virgo, are not in one of the above mentioned geometric relationships, and Capricorn is Squared to Aries, which is supposed to be difficult, but good planets here can be favorable for the career of an Aries this can get very frustrating. You should be ready to spot the flaws in some of this already. In the common system, Aries and Libra are considered compatible, yet they are diametrically opposed to one another, which is supposed to be bad luck relationship-wise. Virgo and Gemini should not get along according to the everyday method of chart matching, yet in the real world, people of these two signs seem to get along famously. In fact, it is often the Gemini that helps the Virgos career. Does this mean that Astrology is bogus? Hardly! It means that way too many pages of nonsense were printed by people who didn't have the experience to find out what compatibility is all about. It also means that these contradictory and unrealistic ideas need to be tossed it's time for some new rules.

Forget the math its all about people!

New rules that's what it's all about. In the old days, people thought of geometry as being more perfect somehow and closer to God than the human soul itself. Today we have the Internet, the iPod and international jet travel, but are still trying to base modern, fast-paced Astrological relationship advice on the rules made up by 17th century almanac printers miscopying ideas from ancient textbooks. Now you know something about the urban legends that have resulted from these mistakes, and the lines of baloney that people use on the assumption that if you fall for this, youll fall for anything. What I will do next is take you on a trip around the Zodiac and talk about how you relate to each of the signs, so that you can learn about what turns them on or off: what they are drawn to and what they run from. Once you have them figured out, youll have some new rules and new tools in place that may help you get a much clearer understanding of others, and turn what can be a minefield of unwanted problems into a fresh, green field of happiness, joy and love. Read your sign first, and make sure to play the Astrology games at the end. Above all...

The New Rules

Have Fun!!
Blessed Be

About Your Sign...

Gemini is the first of the dual signs of the Zodiac, and often the willing participant in astrological humor. We often say that Gemini people do and say everything in twos. We inquire about Geminis with statements like: how are they, or, do you know both of them? But Gemini does not seem to mind, being one of the most fun-loving signs of the Zodiac. Depicted as celestial twins, one a boxer, the other a musician, this constellational representation is what Gemini is like they are skilled with words and music, and with their hands. Gemini is known for its gift of gab, and the core feeling of Gemini is one of enthusiasm and youthfulness. All those expressions about being as old as you feel and young at heart are all Gemini-like expressions, and, in truth, many of the children of this constellation never really grow up. That's OK though, because it is often this Gemini energy that inspires a good deal of the fun that we have. Whereas many of the other signs have many humorists in their ranks, the childfriendly, word playing silliness of Gemini is in a class of its own. Just think of how many comedians used to come in pairs! Today, many of the people involved in children's TV and movie entertainment are born under this sign. It should be mentioned that the youth-orientation of your sign is not so much focused on age as it is on freshness, spontaneity and forward thinking. When most people start talking about the good old days you are likely to start thinking about millions dying from the lack of basic sanitation, or the washing of hands, or other simple things we take for granted in these modern times. The double nature of the sign does not mean that you have a multiple personality; it means that you always have an option

and can recognize it when its needed. You have a flexibility that is nothing short of amazing, and are able to analyze and adapt quickly to situations when they arise, and these qualities give some fuel to that astrological old wives tale about the Gemini being of two minds. All you can do about their attempts to get inside your head is to keep one step ahead of them and hope they get over it as quickly as you do. If there is anything you need to get control over, Gemini, it is not your personality, it is your attitude about money. A good friend once told me that Gemini never saves for a rainy day in order to keep it from raining. Unless you are very lucky or have an essentially endless nest-egg, this is a philosophy that just wont work. It is a good thing, though, that partnership is so important for you. This way, you can have someone to be responsible with, rather than something youre responsible for. Gemini people usually enjoy exhibiting some skill or another, both at work and at play. Often as skilled with their hands as with their words, many musicians, famous or not are born under your sign. Being very social, you enjoy activities in which they interact with others. Consequently, they are more likely to be a part of a clique, crew or crowd than alone. Some astrologers say that your worst fear is the fear of being alone. Geminis planet is the swift Mercury, who makes a trip around the Sun about every 88 of our days. This is the reason that we have the Mercury Retrograde phenomena several times a year. Mercury is sometimes called the trickster, because of its role in the old mythologies, but is also known as the planet of knowledge and wisdom. Both of these characteristics are seen in your sign. One thing about Gemini few people know is that Gemini, despite the mentally acute and socially adept image, sometimes gets emotionally hurt by people not interacting with their sensitive side. When this happens, you may withdraw for a psychic recharge. Although youre right back out there in a short while, these periodic retreats are necessary for you. If you get the urge, every once and a while, to take a little time off to be

with the energies of the Earth, Sky and some peace and quiet, do so, its part of your nature. Gemini enjoys words, acted, spoken and sung. Not being a brooding listener, you may very well sing along with the radio or the iPod, or have many recordings to listen and learn with. Self expression is so important to Gemini people, that if work is not involved with communication in some way, you are likely to enjoy that side of life at home, or with friends.

How to Attract a Gemini... Attracting Another Gemini

There are two important rules for attracting another Gemini that should never be forgotten. Although you should know them well, here they are, in case you overlook them during your mental inventory. The first is never, ever go over boring details, and the second is don't be old-fashioned. Any Gemini, whether a mathematics professor or a truck driver, loves the art and skill of conversation. Your sign-mates also like having these conversations with those who are as willing to entertain them as much as they want to be entertained. Someone of few words, or one who keeps bringing up the same subject (especially if that subject is themselves) bores you for as long as it takes you to accidentally erase the number from their telephone. Gemini is also a very youth-oriented sign, but is not so much focused on age as you are on people being fresh, spontaneous, exciting and forward-thinking. When most people begin to talk about the good 'ol days you tend to muse about the millions that died from things that proper sanitation, or even washing the hands, would cure, or how a trip to South America from Europe could take months One other thing about Gemini you do not do well with possessive people. The idea of belonging, on a level beyond regular meetings of something that you share membership in, is almost alien to you. This does not mean you avoid commitment; you just don't get dwelling on the idea. Gemini has particular likes and dislikes that are not so much specific to each of the other Zodiac signs, but are more oriented towards the behaviors of others, and an individuals character and values. At the same time, relationships with a member of another Zodiac tribe may be more or less difficult than presented below. You may see, for instance, that you recognize a positive connection with someone, but on the whole, this person is your worst enemy. This can be because of the sign positions and relationships of the other planets that

make up the entire horoscope leaning towards the negative, while by way of the Zodiac sign there are some positives. On the other hand, you may see a trait in someone that you just cant stand, but feel a deep love and affection for that person, which would be, of course, the result of the entire horoscopes being very well matched, except for one little glitch in the system. Most of the time, things other than the Zodiac sign are workable, and we, as intelligent and social creatures, will figure out how to deal with the problems if the will is there. The best way to use this guide is to give yourself some time to reflect on each of the signs: also consider someone you know of another sign, and, from there, think about whether you tend to ignore the more difficult side of your relationship. These compatibility readings are based on typical attributes of a given sign, and cannot, by their very nature, apply to everyone, but they somehow magically carry a thread that connects all of us, in each sign, together, in strange and mysterious ways.

Gemini and the Signs of the Zodiac: Gemini and the Zodiac Signs
Now well learn a little about the compatibility between you and the other Zodiac signs, Gemini. You would be prepared to see things here that you wont see in any of the other Zodiac based compatibility books that youll find in stores. As you work your way through these, think about people you know and their signs, especially friends and family. This should help you develop the kind of strategy you need to get to yes faster than you ever thought possible.

Gemini + Aries...

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Gemini and Aries make an almost perfect team. Both signs share a love of salesmanship, but both are casual about the acquisition of money and power. This could explain why, despite the emotional (Aries) and mental (Gemini) energy you pour into your tasks, you are seldom as successful as they should be. When these two signs get together, there is very little that can hold your interest long enough for maturity to get in the way of your natural enthusiasm and independence. When you and Aries, get together, Gemini, you may notice that your desire for freedom from any kind of constraint has doubled. Separately or together, you both look and act young, and together are often mistaken for much younger people than you are. But this aging in reverse can also bring you, as a couple, to a state of childlike innocence, lovability, selfishness and thoughtlessness. At least one of you has to grow up. Both of you are honest, yet very good at convincing yourselves of the good points and ignoring the bad. While the Aries charges blindly forward, convinced of the impossibility of failure, the Gemini uses native logic to calculate and figure the way to success, but may miss out on the practical side of things. On the downside, Aries may get frustrated by your theorizing and lack of direct action, while you can come back with a reply that really hurts Aries. But these are usually the type of storms that dont last long. In love and business, this is a pair that is hard to separate.

 Attracting An Aries

How to Attract an Aries...

This can be a tricky matter, because Aries is usually the initiator of their relationships. You probably know that Aries is going to be a little hard to get into, and it is often difficult for them to accept kindness for fear of being indebted. This means that the I can take care of you approach is not a good play in this game. Aries is most likely to be attracted to people who have the same interests, but not necessarily the same profession. Its what you do when you break away from the daily routine that interests Aries. When they leave work, they like to move on. If you are someone who is considered unavailable to others for one reason or another, you are far more likely to attract the attention of an Aries. If you are interested in stepping outside your comfort zone, then you couldnt find a better coach than Aries who will show you just what you are capable of. The Aries will constantly come up with new ideas for you to enjoy If you are interested in an Aries who mentions a fondness for dancing, and you are not the new Fred Astaire, or at least willing to hire the first instructor you can find, don't even try to get away with a few cocktails or dinner and a movie. And above all, dont laugh at them. Your sense of humor is really fun to you and those around you, but the Aries ego is easily bruised, so take it easy on them.

Gemini + Taurus...

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If the Gemini is a lawyer, accountant or public relations person for a Taurean artist or scientist, then all is well and good. As far as love-matches are concerned though, this is one of the most difficult combinations in the Zodiac. On rare occasions, caused by the planets in the individual charts being particularly harmonious, they may be a workable couple until the Taurean

sense of honestly and loyalty is outraged by the Gemini antics. You tend to think that an extremely high level of activity and a steady stream of conversation is normal and natural, which is almost diametrically opposed to the Taurean relaxed and solid approach to life. Gemini is focused on play while Taurus is focused on work; in fact, Taurus finds enjoyment in things that Gemini thinks are a burden. The Taurean determination to stick with tried and true facts is seen as stubbornness and prejudice by the quick and adaptable Gemini. The Taurean seeks universal solutions, or at least structured methods, while the Gemini is likely to look for a different solution to fit every problem that comes along. Gemini loves the flexibility of credit and leasing, while Taurus considers saving and ownership the best approach to financial stability. Its probably not necessary to go any further to see that this combination is successful only in rare cases. As far as business partners are concerned, they can benefit from each others strengths. But in a romantic relationship, these two usually fall victim to each others weaknesses.

How to Attract a Taurus...

The basic rule for attracting a Taurus is not to wave the red flag, no matter what, and Taurus has three big ones. The first red flag is impracticality. Chances are you wont find a Taurus at new-age fairs, unless they are on the massage table. Their world is one of work and enjoying the fruits of their labors, and they will pursue both wholeheartedly. With Taurus, if it can't make money or give pleasure, they aren't interested. The second Taurean turn-off is superficiality. With comedy, they want to laugh themselves silly. With novels, they want to feel the passion of the tragic hero or heroine. They don't allow much drama and risk in their own lives, but they really enjoy it being portrayed on screen or in books. The third turn-off is a lack of involvement. Taurus is no fan of

Attracting A Taurus

busy, quick and noisy experiences; if you are interested in a Taurus, prepare to entertain and be entertained with dimmed lights, flavor, aroma, color: anything to help savor the sensory experience, including time. Taurus is about pleasure, so if you are about efficiency or chatting through rumors in the late hours of the evening, forget it. If you're out to catch a Taurus, make sure your outfit is well put together. That shows them you mean business, which is something they like. There are a number of other flags, but if you can manage to avoid these, the others are usually ignored by the Taurus, because they are willing to give a little room to anyone who can pass their big tests.

Gemini + Gemini...

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Sometimes you can get on each others nerves a bit, especially when your rhythms of rest and activity dont match. To have one of you in recharge mode while the other is not could be difficult. But Gemini people are often found paired with other Geminis, especially when social life is an important key to the relationship. Rapid changes of schedule and circumstance are taken as par for the course in Gemini life, so Gemini pairs tend to handle that aspect of their partners lives well. But when one needs to handle their own changes as well as those of their partner, things can get troublesome. Because this understanding and desire to give the partner some breathing room is something that all Gemini folks need, it is a natural relationship. But if the Moon or some other aspect of the natal chart is out of synch with that of the partner, jealousy and territorialism can turn an extremely busy but curiously ordered relationship into pure chaos. Even when this is the case, there is a satisfaction inherent in the connection between two Gemini folks that is rare to find in other Zodiac-sign pairings. You feel free to express yourself in this pairing, and there is plenty of sharing of jokes, word

games private jokes and signs, almost as if there were a secret language going on. Even if paired for work or research, two Geminis can be responsible for creative masterpieces, scientific breakthroughs or intellectual achievements, all amply coated with pure unadulterated fun.

Gemini + Cancer...

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It is not very often that this paring works out very well, and when it does, it is because of other configurations between the planets in the two horoscopes. The reason for these two having a hard time with each other is because of the individual perspectives on relationships. Cancer is the most protective and nurture oriented of the signs, and treasures house, home and family as their top priority. Gemini thinks of relationships as being fun, and some spend more time away from home than in it. Cancer is often too emotionally attached to the nurturing aspects of an intimate relationship to adapt to the Gemini's sociability. As a Gemini, you find social activity easy and fun and your friendliness can make most Cancer partners jealous, because they tend to be a little insecure about loyalty. Cancer may be the most emotional of the signs, and have the biggest mood swings: this is a difficult thing for you to cope with. At the same time, Cancer tends to think that you are wasting a lot of time and talent, and wants to help boost you up in some way, but they will almost always make matters worse. At the same time, the Cancer makes a perfect host or hostess to Gemini's gatherings. And you absolutely love how attentive the Cancer is to your needs and sometimes desires. But for the most part, the Cancer feels that they are expected to accept the Gemini and all that comes with them, but they get little in return.

How to Attract a Cancer...

You may not realize this unless you have made a careful reading of Astrology books, but when you whisper words like security, commitment, home and family into the ear of a Cancer, anything else in the sentence will disappear. The reason is that, despite their sometimes overbearing desire to take care of others, Cancer wants nothing more than for someone to take care of them. Give them the opportunity to show you how much they care by showing them how much you care. This is an important key to the Cancer's heart. Cancer can be somewhat needy when it comes to reassurance, so a habitual compliment or promise of total and unconditional love does them just right. But this will not work if you do not have the outward signs of taking care of yourself. Cancer is looking for someone who can take care of themselves too, and they seldom fall for those whose conversational skills exceed their financial ones. They are not materialistic, just somewhat security conscious. The most difficult area of relationship with a Cancer, is the persistent insecurity and worry that seems to guide their thought processes. Outside of those born under Scorpio or Pisces, people rarely understand why Cancers worry so much. Generally working hard to have all the things they want in the world, they never give up, as if every achievement hides another problem inside it. Yet the sense of history, the loyalty and the courage of Cancer is loved and admired throughout the Zodiac.

Attracting A Cancer

Gemini + Leo...
This is one of those really excellent pairings in the Zodiac, where Leo sees Gemini as a comrade, an advisor, a friend, and very often, someone they love deeply. The type of skills and social excellence and delight with life that Gemini

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possesses is not just useful to Leo, but also exciting. You will tend to use your abilities to support Leo, while Leo will always give you something to talk about and they will be happy to enjoy the conversation. It seems that there is a support relationship naturally existing between these signs, in which Gemini contributes technical or other expertise, while Leo provides warmth and stability. Sometimes you may find Leo a bit rigid, but you may not know that almost no one is as good at getting Leo to lighten up, which is something that Leo really appreciates. Leo will occasionally apply force to solving problems either the force of personality and connections, or actual physical force. This can happen in situations where you may see a different way of dealing with a problem, but they arent listening. Sometimes Leo may want to retreat into the entertaining comfort of home while you are planning for a social engagement, or you may be ready to go into one of your recharge phases, while Leo is not helping by trying to help. In other words, there are times and situations where trying to help may cause more of a problem than it solves, but on the whole, there are very few conflicts of interest between you. This is, indeed, a very good match.

How to Attract a Leo...

If you have your eye on a Leo, you need to keep in mind the image the way members of the royal court approach the throne. If you contradict them, or ignore their opinions early on in the game, youve lost. Try not to notice a frayed shoelace or out of place hair, because to make mention of something flawed about their appearance is a surefire way to cause them to lose all interest in you. One thing that will always unlock the heart of the Lion is flattery, but once Leos reach their teen years, they have had so many compliments that they might be suspicious. So you have to be subtle in the way you deliver them. When youve delivered your thinly disguised compliment, if the Leo says

Attracting A Leo

something like is that a compliment youve made it to the end zone. It doesn't really matter what you say next. Whether they hear yes or no, they know full well what just happened and are acknowledging the return of their interest. At the same time, Leo knows when others are sincere and when theyre not, so don't play games with this knowledge. They don't fool around, and you don't want an angry Lion on your hands. One thing is for sure, if they believe they can depend on you for more of the same, they are all in, as far as relationship goes. And once you have the Leos trust and loyalty, youll have to work really hard to lose it.

Gemini + Virgo...

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Heres a case where elemental compatibility does not amount to much; Air and Earth are not supposed to be compatible, but these two signs of Mercury, the planet of communication, usually do really well together. Both signs thrive on variety and activity, both love being both consumers and purveyors of information. Virgo appreciates the lightness and social competence of Gemini and Gemini appreciates the practical side of Virgo. There are flaws in this relationship, but not too many. Occasionally, the Virgo will treat a relationship with Gemini as a business proposition, while you may treat the relationship with Virgo as a domestic convenience. You both can become jealous quickly, which is more of a problem for Virgo. The good news is that there is a level of understanding through which you can handle most anything that comes up. Sometimes, you may think Virgo is a little too stuck, while Virgo may think you are too much of a risk-taker. But you do draw out their desire to have fun, which they forget from time to time. They on the other hand, draw out your desire for social activity, causing you to feel like a guide into uncharted

territory. In business this team is almost impeccable, as long as there is someone aggressive on their team, like maybe a Sagittarius or a Leo. In romance they do almost as well as Gemini and Libra, belying some of the old wives tales that are found in the books.

How to Attract a Virgo...

Its not hard to attract a Virgo at all all you have to do is to find a way to make them feel useful. Let them know that you appreciate the knowledge and information they have to give, and even better, demonstrate that youve listened by putting their words into action. As an example, if you run into a Virgo, and youre wearing a color they recommended, youve got them. And please, dont think all Virgos are stick-in-the mud nerds. Think Keanu Reeves or Sean Connery or Cameron Diaz or Beyonce. And to go even further, take a look at a list of celebrity birthdays and see how many actors, models, athletes and other examples of the people that most others idolize and look up to are Virgos. Thats because they are experts at playing useful roles. Many Virgos are into self-cultivation, and this is likely to include diet and exercise. Virgo always sees room for improvement in themselves, and does not understand people who think they are already perfect. But if you want help doing something about the extra inch or pound, find a Virgo. The hallmark of this sign is the desire to help, and the need to feel useful. Virgos all seem to be talented at (or maybe obsessed with) constructive criticism, yet they despise anger and arguments. Whether they are health aficionados or not, Virgos really want to improve the lot of human beings, so if they cant go to work on the species as a whole, theyll go to work on you.

Attracting A Virgo

Gemini + Libra...

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Some folks say that Librans can never make up their minds, and Geminis are always changing theirs. That doesn't matter you two have so much fun together, others sometimes think you're an act. You could say that the Libra works to balance contradictions while the Gemini juggles them. No matter, the two of you just find each other irresistible. Needless to say, Libra is one of your best matches, because you allow each other the laughter, variety and the time to think things through that you rarely get from other signs. This can be a classic beauty and the brain combination, brought to you by the Libran charm. Libra can have you at hello if they want to, and even when the relationship is going poorly, they are able to be seductive enough to cause you to put problems on the back burner while they continue making their plans and doing their thing. At the same time, they look for someone to take charge and handle the busywork of the relationship, which you are usually ready and willing to do. Sometimes there is a hint of jealousy in any relationship with a Libra, but it seems to be far less pronounced with Gemini than any other sign. Both belonging to the Air element, the chemistry is right and the physical and mental rhythms usually match up well. This is the kind of relationship that makes for friendship and fun, as well as love.

Attracting A Libra

How to Attract a Libra...

There are several redeeming features about Libra that would make many people attracted to them: their smiles, their musical voices (this is a very common sign among poets and musicians of styles that require a lot of improvisation or setting moods), their enthusiasm, their fairness, and more often than not, their beauty. Sometimes these characteristics could outweigh the fact that they have such a hard time balancing the scales. But the best strategy for Libra is to have something about you they cant figure out. Be silent about something,

even if it doesnt exist. Even the idea that theres no mystery: what you see is what you get, will cause the Libras curiosity to turn on and start the mental processes that guides their hearts. Have fun, be playful, but get a sense of when the Libra thinks they know whats going on inside you, and clamp down. Then sit back and watch the fun. The other thing about Libra is their love of jewelry: whether they are male, female, straight, gay: even Libra cats wont try to pull off a pendant or charm on their collars. The men are seldom overstated about it, but you are more likely to see a Libra wearing school ring or gold chain than, say, a Virgo or a Capricorn. Youre not guaranteed of winning a Libra over by buying jewelry for them, but if you have a nice watch other piece to wear around a Libra, you should do so because it will catch their attention and increase their interest in you.

Gemini + Scorpio...

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Gemini always has a hard time with Scorpio, because of the massive adjustment necessary in their behavior. This will usually continue until you learn that the only way to get on with a Scorpio is to keep your opinions, analyses and extrapolations to yourself. In a business situation, this pair can be successful, because the Gemini can provide the data the Scorpio acts on. Scorpio will never give up or admit defeat, making debating a point, or negotiating through a problem, out of the question. Often they have pleasant, interesting and courteous personalities, but dont let that fool you this is a clash of both Triplicity and Quadrature, and therefore a very difficult relationship to work out. The worst danger in this relationship is that the Scorpio, with its caution and intensity, will try to rein in the fun loving nature of the Gemini, which is not at all desirable. And it is always

important for you to remember that if you do anything to hurt a Scorpio in any way, the Scorpio will never forget. Never. But the Scorpio embodies intense loyalty and the resolve never to compromise principles, and never give up; all traits that you can truly admire. You two signs planets are Mercury and Mars, the trickster and the warrior of the Solar System. There is an irritation between them thats often played out by characters in movies, where they may work out as sidekicks, but not lovers.

How to Attract a Scorpio...

Scorpio is a little hard to figure, because they seem like they are playing hard to get when they really arent. Most people sense the smoldering intensity of their emotions and feel a little intimidated by them. Dont let the Scorpio think that there is some kind of competition going on because they will immediately consider you as a competitor, and someone they are therefore against, rather than with. Scorpio keeps a calm and cool exterior that acts as a defensive layer. They maintain this firewall in order to give people the chance to get to know them before pursuing them romantically. With Scorpio, you really do want to know what you are getting into, and you want to let Scorpio know that you are not a threat to their independence: that you are independent as well. They seek partners who can handle the intense desires and passions they live with, not those who fall into apologies and insecurities when they kick it up a notch. Scorpio doesnt like complicated jokes (if you have to think about it, its not funny). Nor can they tolerate a lack of courage in themselves or others. If youre not ready to stand on the battlefield of life with them, they arent interested, and they really take that seriously. Dont try to fake devotion or loyalty, and remember, if you have the odd feeling that a Scorpio is seeing right through you, it means youre pretty intuitive, because they certainly can.

Attracting A Scorpio

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Gemini and Sagittarius are one of those great matches in the Zodiac. The warmth of Sagittarius is something that you both need and want. You really feel special when you are around them, because their sense of adventure meshes perfectly with your sense of play. Sometimes, a little envy creeps into the situation, but that just makes the relationship a little more exciting. Sagittarius envies your coolness and poise (they can be a little clumsy at times), while you envy their enthusiasm and sincerity. Sagittarius usually has the stories that Gemini likes best, and you two really enjoy each others conversation in general. You are always amazed that Sagittarius is always on the go, and Sagittarius depends on you to keep them in tune with the social pulse. When Sagittarius shows up, most people ask how long are you staying?, while your question is what do you want to do? and you almost always have just the thing they really want to do in mind. If you are fond of one of the rare Sagittarians that is not living their vision, you are most likely the person who can push them to do so. And if you are one of the rare Gemini folks who has not found your own bliss, the Sagittarius probably has the map, guides and whatever else you need for your adventure in self-discovery, growth and love.

How to Attract a Sagittarius...

Sagittarius has two main priorities that they are internally programmed to abide by. The first is that they work hard to be really honest about who they are. The second is that they want to improve their lives, and will stop at nothing to make things better for themselves and those they love. What they believe in is really important to them. When it comes to achieving their goals, there is little they will allow to stand in their way, or hold them back, so dont do either. Dont pretend you are something or someone you are not, but

Attracting A Sagittarius

you think the Sagittarius will like. The only thing Sagittarius likes about pretenders is exposing them publicly and brutally. Another really big mistake is to think that Sagittarius interests are not as important as the happenings of the moment. Thats a real turn off for them. Never think that Sagittarius love of adventure can be satisfied by a book, a movie or some ethnic food if they want to go to Katmandu, they may very well have tickets, if they enjoy discussing philosophy, they are liable to have a famous author's telephone number or email address. If youre interested in the archer, its best that you have common interests with them. They are not the sit around and do whatever type of people. Once they have a target in sight, they wont rest until they hit it, and when they do, they call for the next target.

Gemini + Capricorn...

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Capricorn is noted for its brevity in the use of words, and likes these traits in others. Gemini, as you well know, considers conversation an art form, and is not interested in brevity as much as sentence-crafting or other demonstrations of verbal skill. As much as these two signs could learn from one another, Capricorn rarely has the time, and Gemini rarely has the patience. Many of the Capricorns positive traits, such as patience and persistence, are enviable to Gemini folks, and the Capricorn sometimes wishes that they could possess your flexibility and ease with expressing yourself. Nevertheless, there is almost a sense that trying to learn from each other in a casual relationship would be admitting character flaws, so it seldom works out that way. This is because the Gemini is usually quite happy as they are and the Capricorn does not consider Gemini a role model.

Capricorn is not prone to take relationships lightly, and many do not think of social life as fun. When they are ready to be part of a couple, the ideas of uncommitted or open relationship do not enter their minds. They are not prone to ruin an existing relationship over something that will injure their integrity, and if they are looking for a mate, they would prefer not to have to go through the messy business of dating and getting to know someone over and over. Dont try to change their minds either, because Capricorn is disinclined to keep the counsel of others.

How to Attract a Capricorn...

In love, Capricorn works by an interesting rule if they like you they give you the benefit of the doubt, and offer you the opportunity to expose the flaws in your character, while they keep a careful tally for the day they decide to pass judgment on the relationship. You cant make a move that the Capricorn wont enter into their ledger, but in your case, Capricorn has a sense of the meaning of your actions, no matter what they are on the surface, and tends to appreciate them. Capricorn is more of a no than a yes person, so it is easier to talk about what they dont like. They dont like indecision. When Capricorn takes time with a decision, they are weighing possibilities so they can make the most efficient move. Not being able to decide is a concept that the average Capricorn simply cannot grasp. Small talk and gossip are at the top of their enemies list. They are better than keeping secrets than Scorpio, and love their privacy. Capricorns are usually disciplined, so if you have something that you practice on a regular basis, whether its music or yoga or keeping up with your education, this is a sure inroad. Capricorn people generally like being adults. They face trouble squarely and responsibly: they will never whine or try to pretend to be capable of more than they feel comfortable doing. Never baby-talk or tease a Capricorn, that's a sure-fire way to be pointed in the direction of their heart's exit sign.

Attracting A Capricorn


Gemini + Aquarius...

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Gemini is probably the most curious sign of the Zodiac, while Aquarius is the most experimental this is only the first reason these signs work so well together in business and pleasure. In fact, both signs are of the Air element, and while Aquarius brings a level of seriousness and practicality to the relationship, Gemini fills it with laughter and variety. The two of you can really whip up a storm of excitement when working together to find out just how much fun can be had. There are times when you might find your Aquarian partner to be a bit stubborn, and insisting on how their way (no matter how untried or unproven it might be) is the best way. At the same time, the Aquarian might be irritated by your unpredictability, because they quickly become dependent on you, because of your ability to lift them out of boredom. Both signs tend to be rational and reasonable, but the Aquarian is so much more idealistic than other signs. You may find that charming, but it sometimes is hard for them to find a place where they feel like they fit. Your natural adaptability and flexibility makes a perfect match for them, because they always feel like you always make things OK. There is a level of deep understanding between you that makes for a happy, even if strange, compatibility.

How to Attract an Aquarius...

Its a little difficult to talk about attracting an Aquarius, because, more often than not, the Aquarius is the one doing the attracting. You might find yourself in the grip of Aquarian charms before you realize that youre interested in them. Trying to explain or understand your feelings about them is something like asking how to get to the street you're already

Attracting An

Aquarius

on. If you are interested in an Aquarius, its a good idea to frequent places where people involved in the arts, ecological and social justice activism, politics, cultural organizations, various types of recovery and support groups, and social clubs: anywhere people hang out in groups that have a specific interest. Aquarius is not too much of a joiner, but loves being with people, especially those with whom they have something in common. Aquarians are usually quite interested in metaphysics or the paranormal as well, but are more likely to be part of a group than a solo investigator. Most know that Aquarians can be a bit eccentric, having odd or unusual habits or hobbies, and can sometimes be a little absentminded. If they forget a date or a name, dont take it personally, its not about their feelings toward you. Being obsessed with uniqueness and originality, they do not mind experimenting within the privacy of their intimate encounters, and may even encourage it. If you have your heart set on an Aquarius, you should keep an open mind and be ready for fun and excitement that youve never experienced before.

Gemini + Pisces...

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Compared to other signs, Gemini people find Pisces to be unreliable, unpredictable, and often baffling. No matter how clearly you explain processes and ideas, Pisces appears to listen, and then proceeds to do whatever they feel like. Another difficulty is that you tend not to fall for, or get caught up in Pisces games, and that makes them feel uncomfortable. If Pisces and Gemini make it to the couple stage, it stops being fun for the Gemini when it starts being fun for the Pisces. Because of Pisces attractive and seductively sensual behavior and appearance, people pretend to be attentive in hopes of winning them over. When Pisces begins to suspect a lack of sincerity, they can become angry and vindictive, at

least until they are packed and gone for good. Whereas you will generally approach a difficult problem from the standpoint of reasoning their way out of it, Pisces may initially panic, and then try to guess the best solution. Whereas you will most likely rely on evidence and reason, Pisces will rely on the feeling that everything will turn out OK. You may take risks based on odds calculated so fast it seems like psychic comprehension, but Pisces takes risks based on faith and actual psychic impressions. Often, the fact that you can deal with emotional dramas without getting caught up in them unnerves Pisces, and without the elemental compatibility, it is very difficult for you to grasp each others motives.

How to Attract a Pisces...

Many Pisceans have a tough time with relationships, because they really need a good listener. Most of the people who would be really good for Pisces either dont fit their vision of a perfect mate, or dont have the time enjoy the Pisces rambling on through their colorful discourse on their dramas. Those who do enjoy the Piscean fantasy may have a hard time dealing with Pisces ever-changing moods. On top of that, it may be difficult for many of the sign-types to see Pisces flexibility as other than an undercurrent of disloyalty, which it really is not. Pisces is usually attractive or even seductively sensual in their behavior and appearance, and people will pretend to be paying attention in hopes of getting close to them. They tend to have the advantage where looks matter, but tend to rely on them too much. If Pisces believes theyre not your number one priority, they can become angry and vindictive, at least until they are packed and gone for good. If you are interested in a Pisces, you must understand that they need reassurance and are afraid of being betrayed. Never make a promise to a Pisces that you cannot keep, because if this happens, you will lose their trust, and to lose their trust is to lose them. Although they are quite intuitive,

Attracting A Pisces

they have a hard time seeing the facts of a situation when their emotions are involved. Often they wont run from trouble, because they dont mind being enemies to those who have hurt them.

There you have it This is your guide to romance among the Zodiac Signs. Of course, this is not a complete textbook on the subject, but if you add a little knowledge of human nature, and a sprinkling of common sense, youll be way ahead of the curve as far as the little books you can find here and there are concerned. In the world of Astrology, there are several ways to study relationships in detail, including the various techniques of Synastry (chart comparison), Composite Charts, the Kuta system of India, the Mercury method, Harmonics, Horary Astrology and many other methods too numerous to mention. All of these require study and information that may not be available at that moment when you overhear the person you have your eye on say I'm a Libra or someone asks you what's your sign? And take my word for it when I tell you that all that knowledge doesnt beat the power of the Ah-Ha moment you have when you realize that so-and-so is a Gemini and that explains why While the information in this eBook cannot help you foresee a synastric opposition between Saturn and Mars that may cause problems in a month or two, or won't enable you to fascinate your new lover with the intricate details of their inner life together as revealed by the complete horoscope, it will give you some guidelines by which you might find it easier to negotiate possible sticking points in relationships at both work and play.

Conclusion

Things to do Heres an invitation to play games astrologers play...

Fun & Games

Flashcards Use a dozen index cards to write the names of

the signs on one side, and copy the text that compares your sign to theirs on the other. Carry them around in a notebook or

purse and notice how the people you encounter react to you as you talk with them at work and elsewhere. It's a lot of fun.

The Hidden You Ask an astrologer to tell you what your

Moon Sign and your Rising Sign are. Make flashcards for those signs. You may find out that the person you are interested in is connected to you by way of Moon Sign or Rising Sign, and sometimes, that works even better!

Friends and Foes This game also requires a complete

horoscope, but if you don't know your birth time, you can still play. Find the signs where Venus and Jupiter are found in your chart. Although you may not see your connection with them from your Star Sign, people born in these signs may very well be good friends, supporters or allies. Also, during the time of year those signs and their opposites are active, you could be luckier than you are during other parts of the year. Now do the same with Mars and Saturn. There signs will usually identify those who will challenge or resist you in some way. The sign of Mars may also show someone with whom you have physical complications like completion. The sign of Saturn could be an authority figure, or someone who holds you back. During the times of the year when these signs are active, you will probably face more challenges than usual. When playing these games, keep an open mind. The next thing you know, you'll be guessing people's signs and telling them about their good and bad times. It's not that much of a stretch more and more people are picking up on the open secrets of Astrology every year!

Well, that's it! Now you're a wizard at Relationship Astrology! I hope you've found a whole new way to bring some fun into your life!

Good Luck!

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