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respecting kids as individuals, avoiding mindless comparisons and allowing plenty of room for each child to explore her interests.
Researchers have identified three main categories for multiples, based on their relationships with one another, that should be considered by parents & educators. Pat Preedy, Ph.D., is a Canadian educational research consultant for the Twin and Multiple Birth Society and is Chairman of the Council of Multiple Births. David Hay is an Australian professor and researcher on twins and multiples. Together, they created a Web site for parents and educators of multiples Two, Four, Six, Eight: Educating Twins, Triplets and More. In their work together, the researchers identified three primary categories of multiples Extreme Individuals, Mature Dependents, and Closely Coupled Multiples. They assert that parents and educators should consider where the children fall within these three categories as they decide how the children will be raised and how they will be handled in the school setting. The decision of whether or not to separate the children in classroom placement should also be made with these categories in mind.
instead to share the same social groups, and they like to dress and behave identically. These children are often unable to recognize their own image in a mirror, and see themselves as a combined unit rather than as an individual. They like to be called by a group name, i.e., "The Twins," and they seem to use a language of their own that others do not understand (a phenomenon called cryptophasia). In school, they will pace each other; if one multiple is moving slowly, the other will slow down to match her co-multiple's pace.
Certainly there is nothing to say that this decision cannot be reversed when the twins get older and are able to add their own thoughts to the decision. As teenagers, twins might very well welcome some time apart to develop individual identities even further. Research into separating twins in school is still unfortunately sparse and is of little use to parents of multiples. Until further studies are undertaken, parents should use discretion with regard to the decision on separating twins in school. Parents know better than anyone, a child's nature and what a child can handle emotionally. Sources: Banks, Ron. No Effect on Classroom Placement of Twins, Ceep.crc.uiuc.edu. The Clearing House on Early Education and Parenting, 2010 (accessed May 24, 2010). Nilsson, Johanna et al. Placement of Twins and Multiples in the Classroom: A Brief Survey of School Counselors Knowledge and Attitudes, Jsc.montana.edu, Unknown date (accessed May, 24, 2010). Polderman, T J C et al. No Effect of Classroom Sharing on Educational Achievement in Twins: a Prospective, Longitudinal Cohort Study, Jech.bmj.com, Journal of Epidemiology and Community Health, Jan. 2010 (accessed May 24, 2010).
Labelling one twin as confident or extroverted and the other as introverted or shy, may also cause much friction and rivalry.
Raising Twins
Parenting Tips to Treat Twin Siblings as Individuals
Parents of identical twins should think of them and treat them as unique individuals. Identical twins are interesting to look at. Most times, its hard for someone outside the family to tell them apart. Not surprisingly, many parents like to dress them alike or give them similar-sounding names because they make the twins look adorable.
However, child and parenting experts caution against that. Instead, parents should see and treat twins as two different individuals, and treat them that way so that they can enjoy a better and more independent future. Here are some parenting tips to raise happy twins.
from a very young age. Giving twins different sounding names, sending twins to different classes or schools, encouraging separate activities for twins and avoiding making comparison between the twins are useful strategies to encourage their individual sense of identity.
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