The Hikmah Of Poliginy

Marriage
Many people are satiesfied with doing Poligamy
before marriage. They lost it to their girlfriends, not
to their wifes. So many people are becoming
"Divorce agents," but they resist Poliginy. So too with
people who might be able to do Islamic Poligiy but
their knowledge do reach the perfectness of it.
Poliandri will cause sickness, but not with Poliginy.
Poligamy did not come from Islam, Poliginy did.
Rasulullah said that in Poliginy are forbidden to marry
two sisters at once and also forbidden to marry her
auntie.

1. Not the idea of choosing 1 after feeling the

best of all women over 1 shot.
2. Not the idea of “not marrying with
woman,” because of becoming a celebrity, but
instead to “marry the fans,” so that you could
make many women happy.
3. Makes man more mature in Din, and
enhancing the ability to lead people.
4. After the husband feel the pleasure created
from Poliginy, he will create better leadership in
his life and this make his life better.
5. Man learn by leading the women where
man will use his intellect and justice in his
Poliginy marriage.
6. Poliginy marriage praises Allahu Ta’ala and
Islam
7. In Islam there is this idea that man must
marry minimum 2 wifes. That man is for 2
women to 4. And firstly that must be marry is an
orphan:

QS.An Nisa (4):3. If ye fear that ye shall not be

able to deal justly with the orphans marry
women of your choice two or three or four; but if
ye fear that ye shall not be able to deal justly
(with them) then only one or (a captive) that
your right
hands possess. That will be more suitable to
prevent you from doing injustice.
8. Verse in Al Qur’an about Poliginy:

An Nisa(4):129 Ye are never able to be fair and

just as between women even if it is your ardent
desire: but turn not away (from a woman)
 altogether so as to leave her (as it were)
hanging (in the air). If ye come to a friendly
understanding and practice self-restraint Allah is
Oft-Forgiving Most Merciful.
9. When a man marry women he will find that
in women, the characteristics that will lessen his
arrogance as a man, because he needs them as
in this verse:
QS.Ar Rum(30):21 And among His Signs is
this that He created for you mates from among
yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquillity with
them and He has put love and mercy between
your (hearts); verily in that are Signs for those
who reflect.
10. Because 1 man needs 2 women till 4 and
becoming loyal to them, while women only need
1 man and becoming loyal to him.
11. The idea of splitting love doesn’t exist in Islam,
because Islam does not allow twosome,
threesome or foursome.
12. Islam really teach husband to do Jima’ only
when his wife is pure, not when she is on Haid
and Nifas. And allows the husband to do that by
every ways, as long as it is still on the hole for
child birth.
13.The solution for men who have a special liking
to women. Rasulullah said “Women are married
because of 4,… marry those because of her
religion.”
Choose women as your wifes, those who have
good Akhlaq and sound Aqidah.