ANAL SEX DOS & DON'TS While certainly not as taboo as it has been in the past, anal sex

is still a little outside the norm in the average bedroom. Strictly speaking, the anus was not designed for penetration, but when done right, but play can feel pretty amazing. If youre planning on putting anal on the sexual menu with your girlfriend, there are a few dos and don'ts to keep in mind so that both of you enjoy it. Dont do it if shes pregnant Anal sex is best avoided during pregnancy. The first reason to skip anal while shes with child is that hemorrhoids are a common side effect of pregnancy and could make anal sex very painful. Secondly, you dont want to risk an infection in her vagina if you happen to transfer bacteria from her anus to her vagina. The most important reason to not suggest having anal sex while shes experiencing the joys of pregnancy is that it will not score you any daddy points. Tell her you think pregnant women are sexy and do it the old-fashioned way. Do use a lot of lube Remember, the anus does not produce its own lubrication like the vagina does, so using plenty of silicone or water based lubricant is very important to creating a safe and comfortable experience for both of you. Some companies make lubes that they claim are designed specifically for anal penetration, but any lube will do as long as you use plenty of it. Using a thicker lube -- usually silicone --will ensure that your slipperiness will not evaporate before the deed is done. Dont use numbing creams There are a variety of numbing creams and gels available to decrease the sensation in her anus, and she may be tempted to use them if shes afraid of the pain. Not being able to feel the pain could be dangerous, though, since pain is your bodys way of telling you somethings wrong -- she could get seriously hurt without realizing it. Instead of numbing her out, prepare her with plenty of anal foreplay using your fingers, tongue and toys before the main event. Most importantly, make sure she is relaxed and comfortable. Do use protection You may think that wearing a condom for anal sex isnt necessary since she cant get pregnant, but the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) is actually more likely with anal penetration than with vaginal. The skin around the anal area is thinner and more susceptible to tiny cuts and tears, which allows STIs through. So unless youre 100% sure both of you are monogamous and disease-free, putting a condom on for anal sex is essential. Do let her set the pace Make sure you and your partner both enjoy the anal sex experience by letting her call the shots. How fast, how far and how hard are all things that should be up to her? You cant be as rough or enthusiastic

as you might be with vaginal intercourse -- at least not right away. Let her get used to it by going slow, and if she says stop, stop immediately, or she may decide anal is no longer an option. Dont penetrate elsewhere afterward Dont put your penis in her butt and then immediately penetrate another part of her body (i.e., vagina, mouth). You may have picked up bacteria at the back door that could cause infections elsewhere. Plus, its gross. Yes, porn girls love them some ATM, but unless your girl specifically asks for it, dont go there. There are rules for a reason It may seem like there are a whole lot of rules for something that should be fun, but they really are for your (and her) own good. Giving your girl a bad anal sex experience virtually obliterates your chances of ever doing it again. Make it good for both of you by following these important dos and donts of anal sex.

THE THIRD HOLE - ANAL SEX SIDE EFFECTS People were never been contented, they never get enough of anything, they go down from one hole down to another till they reach the third hole, seeking for more gratification. Im talking about anal sex or rectal intercourse refers to as sodomy, which is the filthiest man act towards woman. Recently its rapidly becoming a regular feature of hetero couples horizontal activities. The survey, released last year, showed that 38.2 percent of men between 20 and 39 and 32.6 percent of women ages 18 to 44 engage in heterosexual anal sex. Compare that with the CDCs 1992 National Health and Social Life survey, which found that only 25.6 percent of men 18 to 59 and 20.4 percent of women 18 to 59 indulged in it. In research studies shows that anal area is equipped with many erotic nerve endings that its why many hetero couples engage this form of penetration. While people are enjoying this new-found pleasure they are facing the greater hazardous effects and putting their health at risk every time they are engaging in this. Possible side effects from anal sex include: 1. Bleeding from tears in the anal skin, (the wall/ lining of can be torn and damage easily due to thrusting). 2. Leading cause of infection due to number of microorganism found elsewhere on the body, like UTI ( Urinary Tract Infections) very common to man and the easier transmission of sexually transmitted disease, Like HIV, Herpes, and other vaginal infections if you have anal sex before vaginal sex (not recommended), 3. Irritation of penile skin and infection if skin tears occur. Since the anal canal does not lubricate like the vagina with sexual stimulation. 4. Woman rectal muscle will be destroyed may cause her incontinence and prolong engaging to this dirty act can lead to fatal colon and rectal cancer due to vulnerability. 5. The genital warts and herpes can both occur in the anal area, and if anal warts extend into the rectum there is a higher chance of getting anal/rectal cancers. 6. Its not a safest sex alternative, theres possible of unwanted pregnancies because anal is just close to vagina. 7. It can increase the risk of HIV transmission, Hepatitis, Herpes, Escherichia Coli ( E. Coli) We learn this in school and there are other means to avoid this, like using more lubrication, condoms, careful thrusting and many more, but as a health care provider we dont recommend this form of intercourse. For the side effects are greater and it can result for more serious to fatal problems. So then why settle to the pleasure of what your third hole can give, when its your health is on the line? Bear in mind that our health is wealth. And we only have one life; once we got incurable diseases you would suffer a lifelong. Id never engage in any sexual activities in my life, I have my moral to preserved myself, I know that chastity and purity is the only priceless gift I have given to my hubby, But this is dichotomy, for others they dont mind for them its normal to have casual sex anytime. Whatever it is and however you want it, just do it the usual natural way not the very horrid sodomy way.

ANAL SEX DOES IT HAS SIDE EFFECTS? There is a very large misconception that anal sex is only enjoyed by gay men. As a result of this misconception, any heterosexual man who is curious or knows he desires anal play, may be depriving oneself out of fear that others will think that he must really be gay or have homosexual tendencies. That could not be farther from the truth! Millions of heterosexual women and men love to partake in anal play. By anal play, I mean rimming, having a finger up the *** while youre getting a *******, inserting butt plugs, dildos, holding a vibrator around the opening, or rubbing the opening with your finger. And this area of the body should not be ignored when one is indulging. This is a very sensitive area that when given the proper attention, can bring one to a new world of ecstasy. Now, you must be careful when partaking in such an activity, because the membranes that line the anal cavity are so very delicate. Make sure that the area is well lubricated. A special product designed for anal use (and is one of my absolute favorites) is Doc Johnson's Anal Lube. Now, for you anal virgins, you dont need to penetrate on the first go round. Use your fingers to massage, rub and tickle the area. The key is to start slow, be patient and try to relax. Remember this is supposed to be an enjoyable activity. Communication is absolutely essential with your partner. Let him or her know what feels good and when he or she can go further. Once you reach a comfortable point, you may try a little penetration. If you use your fingers, please make sure that you take all safe sex precautions: finger cots, latex gloves, etc.) If you know your partner well and dont feel theres a need, then make sure your fingernails are well groomed and free from any rough edges that may scrape or cut this delicate lining. The best things to use, and the safest for the inexperienced, are the many rubber insertion devices that are made for this purpose. There are many kits for beginners. Oh, just another safety note. If you decide to use a device not specifically meant for anal penetration, make sure it has a wide end on it so that the object cant slip into the entire cavity. (Unfortunately, it has been known to happen.) Be smart, use common sense and youll be okay. I cant stress the importance of communicating this desire with your partner. You never know, maybe your partner is just as interested as you and youll both be on your way to a new world of sexual encounters. And for all those who have been approached with the situation and have been turned away by it, I can guarantee its been out of ignorance. So many people out there believe it is taboo to partake in such an act. Those seeking more info should watch Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex For Women or Nina Hartley's Guide to Anal Sex. Share this knowledge with your partner. Understanding may lead to giving it a shot. I hope this article has helped you in understanding what a wonderful addition anal play can be to your sex life. Remember sex is even more fun when its really dirty! MISCONCEPTIONS: Does anal sex hurt? There is absolutely no reason why anal sex should be a painful or traumatic experience. It has been said that many of us carry a lot of tension in our lower bodies, making the anus

an even more sensitive an area. Anal play can relieve some of this tension. If you stay in tune with your body, during this type of play, you can actually develop muscle leading to more intense orgasms. A warm bath may help to relax not only the area, but your whole being as well. If for any reason, you do begin to feel pain, restrain from inserting any further, wait a moment and slowly pull out. But if you take it slow, you should have no problem. Is there any special cleansing I should do before having anal sex? If you or your partner is very concerned about hygiene, a small enema can be used. It is important to only use lukewarm water because if the water is too hot or too cold it could damage the lining or cause painful cramps. Remember, if you give yourself an enema, give yourself some time to release the liquid. Some people need half an hour, others need much longer. But if you do want to give yourself an enema, make sure you know what youre doing. Does anal sex cause hemorrhoids or incontinence? No, this is just an folk tale. Hemorrhoids are usually the result of a poor diet, constipation or diarrhea. After any kind of anal penetration, your anus will feel very wet and not as tight as normal, but it will feel normal by morning. In the morning, you shouldnt feel any different. Are there any techniques to make anal penetration go smoothly? As I said before, constant communication with your partner and patience is very important. Some people find it easier to masturbate or have their partner also stimulate their genitals at the same time. There are no rules, do what feels good. Anal penetration isnt something you do first. If youre just beginning, engage in the foreplay you like and are comfortable with and slowly move into anal play. Youll find its much easier to get into if youre already well excited.