Meetings Can Trick Your Emotions

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Meetings Can Trick Your Emotions

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Nov 18, 2019

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How can we avoid the false sense of positivity that can occur after meetings and how can we engage in the right kinds of meetings?

Released:

Nov 18, 2019

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Developer Tea exists to help driven developers connect to their ultimate purpose and excel at their work so that they can positively impact the people they influence. With over 13 million downloads to date, Developer Tea is a short podcast hosted by Jonathan Cutrell (@jcutrell), co-founder of Spec and developer at @Clearbit. We hope you'll take the topics from this podcast and continue the conversation, either online or in person with your peers. Twitter: @developertea :: Email: developertea@gmail.com

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Meetings Can Trick Your Emotions

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