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INTER PERSONAL SKILLS
Interpersonal skills is
how people relate to
one another.
IPR is used often in
business contexts to
refer to the measure of
a person's ability to
operate within business
organizations through
social communication
and interactions.
DEFINITION
The mental and
communicative
algorithms applied
during social
communications
and interactions in
order to reach
certain effects or
results.
Interpersonal Skills
listening
using
Speaking feedback
conflict handling
questioning
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ESSENTIAL IP COMPETENCIES
Self awareness
Control
Motivation
Acknowledging the interests of
friends/co-workers
Communication skills
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Self Awareness
They suffer
silently.
Do not expect
return in money
My Family
Our families
have emerged
after trial and
tribulations of
various types –
financial,
psychological
or physical.
-- Thirukkural
The best Original source on Inter-
personal skills
DEVELOPING IP Skills
Developing Assertiveness
Accepting Responsibility
Managing Conflicts
Avoiding
Accommodating
Competing/Forcing
Collaborating
Compromising
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Factors Hampering
Interpersonal Interactions
Poor Listening
Emotional Arousal
Lack of Time
Differences in Attitude/
Values/beliefs
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Steps Toward
Changing
Behavior The New YOU!
BEHAVIOR
4. Unconscious Competence
3. Conscience Competence
2. Conscience Incompetence
1. Unconscious
Incompetence
Eric Berne and Transactional
Analysis
Transactional Analysis
A unified system of individual
and social psychiatry
Focuses on the individual but
also one’s relationship to
others
A model for explaining why and how:
People think like they do
People act like they do
People interact/communicate with
others
Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis
Transactional Analysis
People have three ego states: parent,
adult, child
Parent: when a person thinks, feels &
behaves in ways copied from his/her
parents
Child: thinking, feeling, behaving as
one did as a child
Adult: thoughts, feelings, or behaviors
that are a direct result of current
happenings
Key point: people shift in & out of these 21
Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis
P P
P
A
A
A
C
C C
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BASIC HUMAN EGO STATES
(PERSONALITY STATES)
A ADULT
OBJECTIVE, RATIONAL, ORIENTED
TOWARD PROBLEM SOLVING, DE-
(ADULT) EMPHASIZE EMOTION
MODIFIED BEHAVIOUR TO
CONFORM TO ADULT
ADAPTED CHILD EXPECTATIONS, MANUPULATIVE,
C NATURAL CHILD
SUMBISSIVE
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Types of Transactions
Complementary Transactions: Appropriate and
Expected Transactions indicating healthy
human relationships.
Communication takes place when transactions
are complementary. A stimulus invites a
response; this response becomes a stimulus
inviting further response and so on.
Complementary transaction between
supervisor & employee
Supervisor Employee
P
P
A A
C C
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Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis
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Eric Berne and Transactional Analysis
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Transactional Analysis Types
(II)
Crossed transaction
Supervisor Employee
P P
A A
C C
Supervisor Employee
P P
A A
C C
Supervisor Employee
P P
A A
C C
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(T.A.) Strokes
RECOGNITION DEGRADING
STROKES GIVEN FOR
AFFECTION RIDICULE WHAT YOU DO,
RATHER THAN FOR
REWARDS SCOLDING WHAT YOU ARE:
SYMPATHY PUNISHMENT
(5) PERFORMANCE
CONSOLATION DISCOUNTING ORIENTED
STROKES
SELF-SATISFACTION
FROM JOB WELL (6) ACCOMODATION &
DONE CONFORMITY
ORIENTED
STROKES
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Life Positions
Attitude toward Oneself
Negative Positive
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TA Life Positions
I’m not OK,
you’re OK ME
‘I wish I could do
it as well as
•you do’
CHILD-TO-ADULT EGO YOU
STATE ACTIVATED.
• FEELINGS OF INFERIORITY;
• HERO WORSHIP;
• LOOKING FOR PARENT
SUBSTITUTES.
• SEEKS DOMINANCE FROM
OTHERS.
TA Life Positions
I’m OK, you’re
not OK ME
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Building Positive
Relationship
Use of Praise
Be specific
Praise progress
Sincere
Don’t overdo
Timing
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Past
Ouch!
Experiences
Ouch!
Ouch! Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch!
Ouch! Ouch!
Dealing with Criticism
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Steps Involved
Planning
Impersonal Relationship
Building
Exchanging Task-Related
Information
Persuasion
Agreement
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Managing Conflict Styles
Compromising
style
Aggressive
Avoiding Forcing behavior
style style
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Tactful Conversations