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A skill through which one can express ones rights and feelings without hurting others to the extent possible
PASSIVE
Ignores ones own rights and feelings Respects others rights and feelings
AGGRESSIVE
Respects only ones own rights and feelings Ignores others rights and feelings
ASSERTIVE
Respects ones own rights and feelings Respects others rights and feelings also
PASSIVE BEHAVIOUR
Giving in to others requests and putting pressure on oneself Saying `Yes when one wants to say `No
Fear of disapproval
Fear of criticism Out of politeness To avoid conflicts Unskilled in being assertive
Loss of confidence and feeling of low worth Gets hurt and does not use ones full potential Feels angry and frustrated Loses control in relationships Allows others to manipulate Feels miserable and doesnt know why Never fulfills ones own legitimate needs
AGGRESSIVE BEHAVIOUR
Forcing others to do what you want and ignoring their feelings Saying No in a hostile and sarcastic manner
To demonstrate power
To release anger To manipulate others
ASSERTIVE BEHAVIOUR
Feeling comfortable in expressing ones needs and feelings Being able to say `No without affecting the relationship
Feel confident about themselves Have respect for others hence avoid hurting others Feel in control of situations Honest to self and others
YOUR RIGHTS
You have the right to do anything, as long as it does not hurt others maintain your dignity, if you feel you are being manipulated
make a request to the other person and realize that the other person has the right to say `No
Look at other in his eye Speak in a clear firm voice Stand / sit up erect Use natural gestures