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Healthy Relationships: Communicating Effectively with Friends, Family, and Significant Others
Lecture Outline
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Objectives
Discuss ways to improve communication skills and interpersonal interactions. Identify the characteristics of successful relationships, including how to maintain them and overcome common barriers. Explore similarities and differences between men and women in communication styles and decision making. Examine factors that are important in determining the success of an intimate relationship, and where to get help when a relationship has problems. Discuss actions that can improve interpersonal interactions. Examine factors that affect life decisions, such as whether to have children.
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Being Self-Nurturant
Accountability
Responsible for your own decisions, choices, and actions
Self-nurturance
Realistic appreciation of self-worth and ability
Establishing Friendships
What makes a good friendship?
Enjoyment Acceptance Respect Mutual assistance
Exclusiveness: giving the love relationship priority over all others Sexual desire: desiring physical intimacy and wanting to touch, hold, and engage in sexual activities with each other Giving the utmost: providing unlimited support when the other is in need, sometimes to the point of extreme sacrifice Being a champion or advocate: actively championing each others interests
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Figure 5.1
Self-esteem
Nonverbal Communication
Nonverbal communication includes all unwritten and unspoken messages, both intentional and unintentional.
Touch Gesture Interpersonal space Facial expressions Body language
Tone of voice
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Managing Conflict
Conflict is an emotional state that arises when the behavior of one person interferes with the behavior of another. Conflict-resolution strategies
Identify the problem or issues.
Generate several possible solutions. Decide on the best solution. Implement the solution. Follow up.
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Figure 5.3b
Picking Partners
Influenced by more than just chemical and psychological processes
Proximity Similarities Reciprocity
Physical attraction
Jealousy in Relationships
Jealousy is an aversive reaction evoked by a real or imagined relationship involving ones partner and a third person.
Overdependence on the relationship Severity of the threat
Committed Relationships
Marriage
Monogamy Serial monogamy Open relationship
Discussion Questions
1. Which of the brides do you think had the healthiest reaction? What do you think is the best way to deal with a negative event such as being left at the altar?
2. In what ways does communication support a relationship? What happens when communication falters, and what are strategies that can be used to overcome communication problems?
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Staying Single
Success in Relationships
Confronting couples issues
Changing gender roles: Modern society has very few gender-specific roles.
Sharing power: Dynamics between men and women changed as women began enjoying their own financial success. Unmet expectations: Not communicating our expectations can lead to disappointment and hurt.
Family history: Those with divorce in the family have a higher tolerance for divorce.
Children: Those with children often try to hang on to an unhealthy situation.
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Dependability
Faith
Behavior interpretation in the context of the relationship Like your partner Sexual intimacy Shared and cherished history
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