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PRESENTS
INTRODUCTION
Sources of stress
Burnout
Concepts and techniques for managing general stress
effectively
How relationships with certain people can contribute to stress
Concepts and techniques for handling stressful relationships
CAVEAT
Stress
Our reaction to events (environmental or internal) that exceed
levels of stress
Can be experienced at practical levels or can be brought to
critical levels in two ways:
Cumulative Stress
Traumatic Stress
Stress
Traumatic
(short-term)
Cumulative
(long-term)
Fight or Flight
General Adaptation
Syndrome
Hormones
Resistance
Exhaustion
(coping)
(coping)
(burnout)
BURNOUT
Burnout
A state of mental and/or
BURNOUT
Forgetfulness
Persistent anxiety
Heart palpitations
pressure
Bruxism (grinding your
teeth at night)
Insomnia
(skipped beats)
Inability to concentrate
Headaches
Procrastination
Withdrawal
Cynical attitude
Resentfulness
Increased caffeine or
mornings
alcohol consumption
Apathy
STAGE 3: EXHAUSTION
Chronic headaches
depression
Chronic stomach or bowel
problems
Chronic mental fatigue
Chronic physical fatigue
society
The desire to move away
from friends, work, and
even family
Thoughts of committing
suicide
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STRESS MANAGEMENT
Emotionally-oriented
We do not have the ability to change the situation, but we can change our
interpretation of it (how we feel about it)
Acceptance-oriented
We do not have the ability to change the situation nor do we have emotional
control; survival-focus
ACTION-ORIENTED APPROACHES
Get a pet
Get a massage
Ask for help
Sing or write about your problems (emotionally express
(see handout)
Be realistic about how much you
can accomplish in a day
Structure your time and your day
to plan for the unexpected
Practice good time management
Dont sweat the small stuff (dont
spend dollar time on penny
projects)
Manage your money realistically
yourself!)
Choose your battles, differentiate between what you can
control and what you cant
Learn to say NO appropriately. Do know your limits and
dont limit your nos!
affirmation (these work best when specific, framed in presenttense, and have strong emotional content)
Use intelligentlydont be a Pollyanna
Emotional Analysis
Negative emotions are an early warning sign that something is
ACCEPTANCE-ORIENTED APPROACHES
ACTIVITY
MANAGING STRESS
BURNOUT IS PREVENTABLE
DEPRESSION
SYMPTOMS OF DEPRESSION
JUST DO IT
RELAXATION EXERCISES
RELAXATION EXERCISES
Imagery
Imagine a peaceful setting
Safe, peaceful, restful, beautiful, happy
Imaginary or a real location
Bring all your senses into the experience, one-by-one
stressors
Imagine performing a stressful, upcoming task well
Lowers anxiety
Mental practice for the real thing, so you often actually perform better!
RELAXATION TECHNIQUES
Meditation
Often stigmatized by bad stereotypes (e.g. as a mystic
RELAXATION EXERCISES
STRESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
STRESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
Your coworkers
Spouses
STRESSFUL RELATIONSHIPS
Stakeholder management
When you need structure
Active listening/Validating
When you need to slow down
ASSERTIVENESS DEFINED
Passive
Assertive
Aggressive
To dominate or
humiliate
ASSERTIVENESS
WHEN TO BE ASSERTIVE
important
You have a good chance of getting what you want
You are looking for a specific outcome and not just expressing
yourself
You have counted to 10 and have an appropriate response
The risks and/or consequences are realistic
Your actions will make a positive differenceyou would kick
yourself later if you didnt do something.
STAKEHOLDER MANAGEMENT
1. Identify your
stakeholders
2. Prioritize your
stakeholders
STAKEHOLDER MANAGEMENT
Prospective customers
Your family/friends
STAKEHOLDER MANAGEMENT
Prioritizing
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STAKEHOLDER MANAGEMENT
Key questions:
What financial or emotional interest do they have in the
STAKEHOLDER MANAGEMENT
LISTENING
ACTIVE LISTENING
ACTIVE LISTENING
overconnected)
You are not expected to take care of everyone at work
Its not the responsibility of the workplace to take care of you
Avoid giving personal meaning to everything, be less reactive
Stop asking questions and try to make more statements
Do not overly apologize (only regarding your errors)
Dont try to change peoplelisten more and talk less
THE END