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Phaedrus:
(1) Lysiass Speech: Sex without
passionate attachment as the ideal:
(231a-234d) argues that it is better to have
a love life with someone who is not in love
with you, because the strong emotions
associated with love cause pain and
unpleasantness between lovers, while
lovers who merely use one another for
pleasure wont suffer those disturbances.
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2) Socratess First Speech: An Argument Against Love
(237a-241d): Socrates argues that passionate love is bad for
the person in love, because it makes those who are in love
stupid and disgusting, and it is bad for the person who is
beloved because lovers love the beloved the way wolves love
lambs. (241a) A love will fear losing the beloved, and so will
want to keep her or him weak and dependant. So just as lambs
have reason to avoid the wolf, those who are loved by others
need to protect themselves and should probably flee. Socrates
implies, peculiarly, that indeed it is much safer to have a sexual
relationship when love is absent.
(Epicurus agreed!)
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(3) Socrates Second Speech: Love as divine
madness (244a-257c) There is no truth to
that story,that when a lover is available you
should give your favors to one who doesnt love
you instead, because he is in control of himself
while the lover has lost his head. That would
have been a fine thing to say if madness were
bad, pure and simple; but in fact the best
things we have come from madness, when it is
given as a gift of the God.