PREMARITAL SEX

By: Khalid Tandugon & Andrei James Capucion

Teen sex
Why they do this?
STDs
How to prevent this?
Why should we stop this?
Randomness (over 9000-ish)
A few facts about sex

What to expect in this

presentation?

Teen Sex

Over the past few years,

premarital sex has become
rampant
Teen girls think that their
boyfriend will leave them if they
dont, or teen boys because they
dont want to be the only virgin
in his social circle
It has become common, and
thinks its the status quo, and is
needed to do before leaving
school

Reasons for this?

1)Raging hormones

Hormones are chemical substances created by

a number of glands in our body
Hormones are responsible for the many
changes you undergo during puberty
Things like body change, height increase
(growth spurt), voice change, and a sense of
maturity
It also causes teens to have a sexual attraction
(depending on their sexual orientation

Hormones

2) Curiosity

Teens, as they start to reach maturity, seek to

find things that were before inaccessible to
them due to their young age
They tend to become more curious about the
world outside the house
They also tend to become more curious about
their social life, and their sexuality
Also, because of media nowadays (sexual
scenes in movies or porn), teens have started
to wonder what sex feels like

3)Sexual provocation in
Media

For teens with raging hormones and

curiosity, its somewhat hard to hold
back wanting to try it when
nowadays when almost everything
has sex in some way.

How can you avoid it

when nowadays:
When music has lyrics like
you just put your lips
together and just come real
close
Ill light you up
when I get inside!

I just had sex!

And it felt so good!

Total recall

When movies have scenes

like this

And even the internet has

them

Overly protected during childhood

Sexually abused/taught as a child
Lack of guidance of parents
Peer pressure
Love
Drugs, alcohol
Others

Other reasons:

Did you know?

Only a 13% percent of teens have sex
before the age of 15. But, by their 19th
birthday, 7 out of 10 teens have already
done it

TRIVIA!!!!!

Why premarital sex is

wrong?

Sex is like electricity. In the right uses, it

can give one great pleasure, and romantic
cement. But, if done in the wrong place, then
it can be psychologically damaging
Sex before marriage can cause a girl to feel
guilt, regret, and fear of pregnancy
Premarital sex can easily lead to STDs
Every break up with intimacy can be as
painful as a mini-divorce.
It risks having an illegitimate child

Did you know?

Teen girls with older partners tend to
be more sexually active, use less
contraceptives, and have a higher
chance of getting STDs or unwanted
pregnancies

TRIVIA!!!!!

Risks
{ It comes with a price

Because sex
has become so
mainstream
nowadays, its
so easy to get
infected by
STDs.

STD stands for Sexually transmitted

diseases
They are diseases that can only transfer
through an exchange of body fluids(saliva,
blood, semen, etc.)
Although you can get them though kissing,
or blood transfusion, or dirty needles, most
cases are through sexual activity

What is STD

Examples of STDs
HIV

Herpes

Scabies

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Chlamydia

Head
lice
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Herpes
A viral disease caused by the
Herpes simplex virus
Usually infects the site of
contact
But, in some cases, the
herpes virus may affect the
nervous system as well
Causes cold, red sores on
spot of contact

Cold sores over the infected area

Blisters that eventually erupt
Increased salivation
Bad breath
In rare cases: difficulty in swallowing,
hearing problems, and chills

Symptoms

Examples of STDs
HIV

Herpes

Scabies

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following slides
may contain
some very
disturbing
images. Viewer
discretion is
advised
Chlamydia

Head
lice
Moving on >

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HIV

Human
immunodeficiency
virus
The only type of
virus known to
attack
Lymphocytes: the
bodies natural
defence system

Fever
Fatigue
Aching muscles, swollen throat, joint pain
Headache
Skin rash
More frequent infection rates

Symptoms

Did you know?

Around 90% of the worlds
population have committed
premarital sex at least once in their
life

TRIVIA!!!!!

Examples of STDs
HIV

Herpes

Scabies

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following slides
may contain
some very
disturbing
images. Viewer
discretion is
advised
Chlamydia

Head
lice
Moving on >

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Scabies

Also known as
the 7 year itch
Is caused by the
mite sacroptes
Scabiei, a parasite
The mite buries
into the skin of its
host, causing
extreme itch

Itchiness
Redness
Appearance of multiple red sores
around

Symptoms

Examples of STDs
HIV

Herpes

Scabies

Warning: The
following slides
may contain
some very
disturbing
images. Viewer
discretion is
advised
Chlamydia

Head
lice
Moving on >

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Chlamydia

One of the most

common STD in
the world
Its a bacteria that
causes genital and
eye infection
May be
transmitted
through oral,
vaginal, or anal

Examples of STDs
HIV

Herpes

Scabies

Warning: The
following slides
may contain
some very
disturbing
images. Viewer
discretion is
advised
Chlamydia

Head
lice
Moving on >

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Pubic Lice

Are often
called crabs
Are like hair
lice, but they
tend to live
in eyelashes
and pubic
hair

Control

Nowadays, Birth control(or contraceptive)

methods provide guaranteed safety from
unwanted pregnancies, or transmission of
STDs. And, things like abortion pills add to
the confidence level of teens that they wont
get pregnant, or suffer any long term
consequences, and enjoy the pleasure of it
all.

Birth control
methods used
nowadays

1) Condoms

Birth control method that is placed

on a mans erect penis or a womans
vagina to stop and/or prevents
ejaculated sperm from entering
sexual partner
Has a 97% chance of effectiveness
when used properly, and 95% when
improperly

2)The pill

The pill, or the combined oral

contraceptive
Is an oral contraceptive taken every
day for an entire month, and is
proven to decrease fertility rate
99.9% success rate if done properly,
95% when not done properly

Pullin out method: (96% success)

Abstinence method: (100% success rate)
Timing method (91-99% success rate)
Bahala Nalang method( 15% success
rate)

Other choices

Did you know?

50% of people who are
currently HIV positive are
between the ages of 15 and
24

TRIVIA!!!!!

How not to commit

premarital sex

1) Remember to stick with

your decision

23:1-6 (Quran)

The believers must

(eventually) win
through,-
Those who humble
themselves in their
prayers;
Who avoid vain talk;
Who are active in deeds
of charity;
Who abstain from sex,
Except with those joined
to them in the marriage
bond, or whom their right
hands possess,- for they
are free from blame,

1 Corinthians 7:7-9
(Bible)
(7)I wish that all men
were as I am. But each
man has his own gift
from God; one has this
gift, another has that.
(8)Now to the
unmarried and the
widows I say: It is good
for them to stay
unmarried, as I am.
(9)But if they cannot
control themselves, they
should marry, for it is
better to marry than to
burn with passion.

2) Avoid temptation

If you are in a serious relationship with someone, its

best to stay along with friends, especially during places
where you can do it
Avoid being alone, since passion and the heat of the
moment can cloud your judgment.
Learn to set yourself with limits in your relationship,
and learn how to say no when he/shes going too far.
Remember, a few minutes of pleasure can lead to a life
time of regret

3) Learn to love with your

heart and brain

You shouldnt let passion of the moment

cloud your judgment, and ruing your future
If the person your dating wants you to
have sex or he/she will leave you, leave
him. They arent worth it, and they only
love your body, and not you as a whole

50% of people who are currently HIV

positive are between the ages of 15 and 24
Condoms only reduce the risk of
contracting HIV by 85%
50.6% of Filipinos aged 14-19 had
experienced sex
Sex isnt about recreation. Its about recreation

More facts about Sex

To sum it all up

Say NO to temptation

Take precautionary
measures

And use your brain as

well with your heart

Try out all the other fun

things in life!

END!!!!!