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What Is Love?
What is this thing
called love? Can
passionate love
endure? If not, what
can replace it?
Passionate Love
We have ways to measure
aggression, altruism, prejudice, and
likingbut how do we measure
love?
Psychologist Robert Sternberg
(1998) views love as a triangle
consisting of three components:
passion, intimacy, and
commitment.
passionate love
A state of intense longing for
union with another.
Passionate lovers are absorbed
in each other, feel ecstatic at
attaining their partners love,
and are disconsolate on losing it.
Social Relations
Passionate love is what you feel
when you not only love someone
but also are in love with him or
her.
A THEORY OF PASSIONATE
LOVE
An emotion involves both body and
mindboth arousal and the way we
interpret and label that arousal.
Companionate Love
Although passionate love burns
hot, it eventually simmers down.
If a close relationship is to
endure, it will settle to a steadier
but still warm afterglow that
Hatfield calls companionate
love.
Unlike the wild emotions of
passionate love, companionate
companionate love
The affection we feel for those
with whom our lives are deeply
intertwined.
Unlike passionate love,
companionate love can last a
lifetime
Attachment
Love is a biological
imperative. We are social
creatures, destined to bond
with others.
Our need to belong is
adaptive.
ATTACHMENT
STYLES
Secure Attachment
- Attachments rooted in trust and
marked by intimacy.
- About 7 in 10 infants, and nearly
that many adults, exhibit secure
attachment
Preoccupied Attachment
- Attachments marked by a sense of
ones own unworthiness and
anxiety, ambivalence, and
possessiveness.
- People with the preoccupied
attachment style (also called
anxious-ambivalent ) have positive
expectations of others but a sense
of their own unworthiness.
Dismissive Attachment
- An avoidant relationship style
marked by distrust of others.
Fearful Attachment
- An avoidant relationship style
marked by fear of rejection.
EQUITY
- A condition in which the
outcomes people receive from a
relationship are proportional to
what they contribute to it. Note:
Equitable outcomes neednt
always be equal outcomes.
LONG-TERM EQUITY
long-term relationship are
unconcerned with short-term equity.
Margaret Clark and Judson Mills
(1979, 1993; Clark, 1984, 1986)
have argued that people even take
pains to avoid calculating any
exchange benefits.
Thank you!