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Distances
Intimate Zone
Only those who are emotionally close to that person are permitted
to enter it.
This includes lovers, parents, spouse, children, close friends and
relatives
Personal Zone
we stand from others at cocktail parties, office parties, social
functions and friendly gatherings.
Social Zone
We stand at this distance from strangers, the plumber or carpenter
doing repairs around our home, the postman, the local shopkeeper,
the new employee at work and people whom we do not know very
well.
Public Zone
Conversation Distance
Palm Gestures
Submissive Palm Position
Dominant Palm Position
Aggressive Palm Position
Shaking Hands
Glove Handshake
The politicians handshake. The initiator tries to give the
receiver the impression that he is trustworthy and honest,
but when this technique is used on a person he has just
met, it has the reverse effect. The receiver feels
suspicious and cautious about the initiators intentions.
The glove should only be used with people to whom the
Elbow Grasp
The shoulder hold and the upper arm grip enter the
receivers close intimate zone and may involve actual
body contact. They should be used only between people
who experience a close emotional bond at the time of
the handshake
The person would be more difficult to handle when the hands are
held high, than he would be with the person whom hands resting
on the desk position. Like all negative gestures, some action needs
to be taken to unlock the persons fingers to expose the palms and
the front of the body, or the hostile attitude will remain
Research by Nierenberg and Calero on the hands-clenched position brought
them to the conclusion that this was a frustration gesture, signaling that the
person was holding back a negative attitude
Steepling Hands
Thumb Displays
Genuine
interest
shown when the hand is on the cheek, not used as a
head support
in Stroking Gestures
Pain in Neck Gesture - A person who uses this when lying usually avoids your gaze
and looks down. This gesture is also used as a signal of frustration or anger and, when
this is the case, the hand slaps the back of the neck first and then begins to rub the neck.
Forgetfulness Gesture - The slapping of the head communicates forgetfulness, the
person signals how he feels about you or the situation by the position used when he
slaps his hand on his head, either the forehead or the neck. If he slaps his forehead he
signals that he is not intimidated by your having mentioned his forgetfulness, but when
he slaps the back of his neck. He non-verbally tells you that you are literally a pain-inthe-neck for pointing out his error.
The standard arm-cross gesture is a universal gesture signifying the same defensive
or negative attitude almost everywhere. It is commonly seen when a person is among
strangers in public meetings, queues, cafeterias, elevators or anywhere that people feel
uncertain or insecure
Head Gestures
Neutral Head Position - The position taken by the person who has a
neutral attitude about what he is hearing. The head usually remains still and
may occasionally give small nods.
Interested Head Position - When the head tilts to one side it shows that
interest has developed.
Disapproval Head Position - When the head is down, it signals that the
attitude is negative and even judgmental. Critical evaluation clusters are
normally made with the head down and, unless you can get the persons
Readiness Gestures
The individual is seen standing with the
hands-on-hips pose, for this is one of the
most common gestures used by man to
communicate an aggressive attitude.
Some observers have labeled this
gesture 'readiness' which in the right
context is correct, but the basic meaning
is aggression.
Male-Male
Aggression Gestur
Two men sizing each other up, using the characteristic hands-onhips and thumbs-in-belt gestures.
Considering that they are both turned at an angle away from each
other and the lower halves of their bodies are relaxed, it would be
reasonable to assume that these two males are unconsciously
evaluating each other and that an attack is unlikely.
Their conversation may be casual or friendly but a completely relaxed
atmosphere will not exist until their hands-on-hips gestures cease
and open palm gestures are used.
Territorial Gestures
People lean against other
people or objects to show a
territorial claim to that object
or person. Leaning can also
be used as a method, of
dominance or intimidation
when
the
object
being
leaned
on
belongs
to
someone else.
For example, if you are
going to take a photograph
of a friend and his new car,
boat, home or other personal
belonging, you will inevitably
find that he leans against his
newly acquired property,
putting his foot on it or his
arm around it. When he
Ownership Gestures
This 'carbon copying' is a means by which one person tells the other that
he is in agreement with his ideas and attitudes. By this method, one is nonverbally saying to the other, 'As you can see, I think the same as you, so I
will copy your posture and gestures.'
If an employer wishes to develop an immediate rapport and create a
relaxed atmosphere with an employee, he need only copy the
employee's posture to achieve this end. Similarly, an up-and-coming
employee may be seen copying his boss's gestures in an attempt to show
agreement. Using this knowledge, it is possible to influence a face-to-face
encounter by copying the positive gestures and postures of the other
person. This has the effect of putting the other person in a receptive and
Historically, lowering the height of one's body in front of another person has
been used as a means of establishing superior/subordinate relationships. We refer to
a member of Royalty as 'Your Highness', whereas individuals who commit
unsavory acts are called 'low'.
Let us examine the non-verbal aspects of the situation in which you have been
speeding in your car and are stopped by the policeman. In the situation,
Contd..
1.) The policeman approaches your vehicle, and a drivers usual reaction is to remain in the
car, wind the window down and make excuses for having exceeded the speed limit.
2.) By remaining in your car, you create a barrier between yourself and the policeman.
3.) Under these circumstances the police officer is obviously in a superior position to you, this
type of behaviour only serves to make things go from bad to worse and your chances of being
booked are increased.
Contd..
When intimacy
formed by their
degrees. A man
ploy, as well as
play for her.
To accept his approach, she need only orient her torso angle
to 0 degrees and allow him to enter her territory
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