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Why do couples of same sex not
allowed to marry?
Why a need for marriage and spend a lot while we can live together without it?
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Insert flash!
Ika nga:
“Ang pag-ibig nga
naman, hahamakin
ang lahat, masunod
ka lamang”
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Indeed, there is something about
MARRIAGE and FAMILY LIFE!!!
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CHAPTER 1: Lesson 1
EMERGING REALITIES
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Ch. 1: Les. 1:
Marriage
Commonly referred to as “settling down”
(paglalagay sa tahimik)
Both secular and sacred reality
“natural human institution”
Both a “contract” and a “covenant”
Involves a DEEPLY personal affair between
two persons in love
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Ch. 1: Les. 1:
A “social institution” that exists interdependently
with community/state
Education
Economics
Property
Medical attention
Public decency
safety
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Activity:
The class is divided into A presentation of the group
groups. Discuss in the group discussion follows. through a
this question: What are presentation of a simple
today’s current threats to and short SKIT that shows
marriage and family life in the general idea of your
terms of: group discussion.
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Activity:
The class is divided into A presentation of the group
groups. Discuss in the group discussion follows.
this question: What are
today’s current threats to
marriage and family life in
terms of:
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CHAPTER 1: Lesson 2
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Ch. 1: Les. 2:
First Stop:
The story of
Adam and Eve
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Ch. 1: Les. 2:
The gift of sexuality
There are two
is God’s answer
accounts of
for man’s deep
Creation Story:
longing to be with
1. Priestly account
someone
(Gen. 1:1-31)
2. Yahwist tradition
(Gen. 2: 2-25)
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Ch. 1: Les. 2:
But as we all know, creation Consequences
story after all is not everything
beautiful. Sin enters with the fall include:
of Adam and Eve. Pain of childbirth
Lust
Their original communion Sweat of labor
was then ruptured… thus the
entry of consequences Sexual hierarchy
thereof: Gender conflict and
dominance
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CHAPTER 1: Lesson 3
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Ch. 1: Les. 3:
Ancient practices and
customs:
Women’s subordination to
men
Procreation as primary
function
It’s never been a surprise to Polygamy
know that the concept of Divorce as prerogative of
men
marriage has lost its real
meaning in the time of the Barrenness as disgrace
ancient Israel. concubinage
Levirate law – to marry the
wife of one’s dead brother
to continue lineage and
inheritance
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Ch. 1: Les. 3:
However, all is not lost in this Prophet Hosea was
period. The time of the commanded by God to
prophets provided a vision for
marriage as a COVENANT marry Gomer, a
prostitute. He obeyed
but Gomer still went
back to being a
Let’s see and know the love prostitute. He courted
story of Prophet Hosea and
Gomer? her in trying to win her
back. But the same
thing happens again…
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Ch. 1: Les. 3: It’s like the story of
Yahweh and His people.
There might have been
an improved concept of Yahweh’s forgiveness is
marriage, still tensions based upon love towards the
occurred: ever-unfaithful people of
Israel.
Patriarchal-genealogical
emphasis vs. prophetic
messianic This is the so-called:
“covenantal”
Pregnancy/childbearing
relationship that is
as source of dignity of
based on steadfast
conjugal union
growing love,
Jewish society regards balanced with
children as blessings strength of duty and
and signs of God’s favor sensitivity of kindness
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Ch. 1: Les. 3:
Hmmm…let’s see how far
have you learned the
Thus far, we have seen how lessons.
marriage as a concept and practice
has developed through time in the State some Filipino wedding
Old Testament. “A human reality practices when it comes to
that forms part of God’s salvific marriage/wedding and react
work.” But the journey is never on it personally considering
over. We’ll come to know that the its real meaning as originally
planned by God.
richness of marriage rests upon
Jesus Christ.
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CHAPTER 2: Lesson 4
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Ch. 2: Les. 4:
Actually, there’s only a On love
few of Jesus’ direct
assertions/teachings On Marriage
about marriage and Wedding Feast in
sexuality
Cana
Questions on Divorce
However, much can still Celibacy in the light
be regarded as lessons of Marriage
on marriage and related
matters as found in the
course of His ministry
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Ch. 2: Les. 4:
Jesus’ preaching on LOVE is
more of general than specific However, this same love to people
to married couples. in general should also the kind of
love that exists in marriage of two
people
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Ch. 2: Les. 4:
Jesus’ teaching on
“…They are no longer two
marriage is further but one body… what God
and more has united, man must not
extensively found in
Mt. 19:3-11
divide…”
No to divorce… Yes to
permanence of marital union
Marriage finds its redeeming
That’s when Pharisees value in Jesus as He brings it
came to ask Jesus
about the validity of back in the original plan of
“divorce” as practiced God
in the Old Testament. Union in love
Fruitfulness in procreative task
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Ch. 2: Les. 4:
Two properties of marriage:
Unity – excludes extra-marital relations or any
form of polygamy
Indissolubility – “no” to divorce and re-marriage
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Ch. 2: Les. 5:
While St. Paul has
written much about sex Ahhh… it’s his stand in
and marriage, there’s a two different things:
seeming ambivalence in marriage and single
some respect state of life
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Ch. 3: Les. 6-10:
Marriage as a Contract has
the following characteristics:
It is a love-covenant
Traits include love, sacrifice, forgiveness and faithfulness
A sacred relationship involving three persons:
husband, wife and God
Enriches the values of marriage:
Lastingness (demanded by nature of marital bond)
Faithfulness and fruitfulness (by nature of conjugal love)
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Ch. 3: Les. 6-10:
Marriage as a Covenant has
the following ends:
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Ch. 3: Les. 6-10:
Marriage as a Covenant has
the essential properties:
It has a sign-element
The couple’s mutual gift and acceptance of each other (marital
consent).
The “I do” to one another do not remain mere words. They signify a
lifetime and lifelong commitment.
It has the saving presence of Christ
Jesus is indispensable in the marital relationship
It is a saving grace
a.k.a “matrimonial grace” – provides strength and endurance for
couples especially in the most difficult times.
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Ch. 3: Les. 6-10:
“A valid marriage covenant,
consummated by sexual
intercourse is absolutely
indissoluble by any earthly
power.”
A marriage without
consummation is only “ratified.”
Just a note on “ratified If with conjugal act, “ratified and
and consummated” consummated”
marriage arising from the While the Church permits
notion of indissolubility of
marital bond
“physical separation” between
couples, they remain however
husband and wife, thus, not free
to remarry. 41
Ch. 3: Les. 6-10:
Marriage as a CELEBRATION
has the following characteristics: