LEADERSHIP? Let’s start with the definition of Management vs. Leadership.
There are a lot of people who make the
distinction between management and leadership.
I think there is a big difference.
Here are some quotes about the differences.
This is from the 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John C. Maxwell.
Need to be needed vs. want to be
succeeded – in Maxwell’s Law of Legacy.
A leader’s lasting values is measured by
succession. He (Maxwell) tells the story of a plane crash where the CEO died.
Often when things like this happen, the
company falls apart, but in the case of McDonald’s CEO, the company thrived despite the loss of its leader.
People who hoard power are actually
insecure. What kind of characteristics do you think of, when you imagine a great leader?
Let’s write them on the board.
This concept ties in very well with the idea of servant leadership.
Has anyone heard of this term?
What is the definition of servant leadership?
There are many critics, but I would argue
that it is a matter of semantics (study of meanings) and not of the concept itself.
Servant Leadership as we know it today was
first introduced in 1970 by Robert Greenleaf.
Some would argue that it goes back to
biblical times, which is why spirituality is a strong focus. What is Servant Leadership? “The servant-leader is servant first… It begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first.” - Robert K. Greenleaf.
Servant leadership is a philosophy and set
of practices that enriches the lives of individuals, builds better organizations and ultimately creates a more just and caring world. THE NATURAL DESIRE “It begins with the natural feeling that one wants to serve, to serve first”.
THE CONSCIOUS CHOICE
“Then conscious choice brings one to aspire to lead…”
THE BEST TEST
“The best test, and difficult to administer, is: do those served grow as persons…” Do they, while being served, become healthier, wiser, freer, more autonomous, more likely themselves to become servants?
And, what is the effect on the least
privileged in society?
Will they benefit or at least not be further
deprived?“ A servant-leader focuses primarily on the growth and well-being of people and the communities to which they belong.
While traditional leadership generally involves
the accumulation and exercise of power by one at the “top of the pyramid,” servant leadership is different.
The servant-leader shares power, puts the
needs of others first and helps people develop and perform as highly as possible. THE INSTITUTION AS SERVANT
Robert Greenleaf recognized that
organizations as well as individuals could be servant-leaders.
Indeed, he had great faith that servant-
leader organizations could change the world. In his second major essay, The Institution as Servant, Greenleaf articulated what is often called the “credo.”
There he said: “This is my thesis: caring for
persons, the more able and the less able serving each other, is the rock upon which a good society is built. Whereas, until recently, caring was largely person to person, now most of it is mediated through institutions – often large, complex, powerful, impersonal; not always competent; sometimes corrupt. If a better society is to be built, one that is more just and more loving, one that provides greater creative opportunity for its people, then the most open course is to raise both the capacity to serve and
the very performance as servant of existing
major institutions by new regenerative forces operating within them.” THOUGHT LEADERS IN SERVANT LEADERSHIP
The servant leadership philosophy and
practices have been expressed in many ways and applied in many contexts. Some of the most well-known advocates of servant leadership include: Ken Blanchard, Stephen Covey, Peter Senge, M. Scott Peck, Margaret Wheatley, Ann McGee-Cooper & Duane Trammell, Larry Spears, and Kent Keith. 10 Characteristics of a Servant Leader
In 1970, Robert K. Greenleaf redefined the way
that we think about management.
His idea was dubbed “Servant Leadership” and
flips the traditional mode of management thinking and organizational structure completely upside down. The following is a list of 10 Qualities that Servant Leaders (and the organizations they serve) possess.
Do you have these qualities?
10 Characteristics of a Servant Leader 1. Listening 2. Empathy 3. Healing 4. Awareness 5. Persuasion 6. Conceptualization 7. Foresight 8. Stewardship 9. Commitment to the growth of people 10. Building Community 1. Listening.
Leaders have traditionally been valued for
their communication and decision-making skills.
While these are also important skills for the
servant-leader, they need to be reinforced by a deep commitment to listening intently to others. The servant-leader seeks to identify the will of a group and helps clarify that will.
He or she seeks to listen receptively to what
is being said.
Listening, coupled with regular periods of
reflection, is essential to the growth of the servant-leader. 2. Empathy. The servant-leader strives to understand and empathize with others.
People need to be accepted and recognized for
their special and unique spirits.
One assumes the good intentions of coworkers
and does not reject them as people, even if one finds it necessary to refuse to accept their behavior or performance. 3. Healing One of the great strengths of servant- leadership is the potential for healing one’s self and others. Many people have broken spirits and have suffered from a variety of emotional hurts. Although this is part of being human, servant-leaders recognize that they also have an opportunity to “help make whole” those with whom they come in contact. In “The Servant as Leader” Greenleaf writes:
“There is something subtle communicated to
one who is being served and led if implicit in the compact between servant-leader and led is the understanding that the search for wholeness is something they share.” 4. Awareness General awareness, and especially self- awareness, strengthens the servant-leader. Awareness also aids one in understanding issues involving ethics and values. It lends itself to being able to view most situations from a more integrated, holistic position. As Greenleaf observed: “Awareness is not a giver of solace–it is just the opposite.
It is a disturber and an awakener.
Able leaders are usually sharply awake and
reasonably disturbed.
They are not seekers after solace.
They have their own inner serenity.”
5. Persuasion
Another characteristic of servant-leaders is
a primary reliance on persuasion rather than positional authority in making decisions within an organization.
The servant-leader seeks to convince
others rather than coerce compliance. This particular element offers one of the clearest distinctions between the traditional authoritarian model and that of servant- leadership.
The servant-leader is effective at building
consensus within groups. 6. Conceptualization
Servant-leaders seek to nurture their
abilities to “dream great dreams.”
The ability to look at a problem (or an
organization) from a conceptualizing perspective means that one must think beyond day-to-day realities. For many managers this is a characteristic that requires discipline and practice.
Servant-leaders are called to seek a
delicate balance between conceptual thinking and a day-to-day focused approach. 7. Foresight Foresight is a characteristic that enables the servant-leader to understand the lessons from the past, the realities of the present, and the likely consequence of a decision for the future.
It is also deeply rooted within the intuitive mind.
Foresight remains a largely unexplored area in
leadership studies, but one most deserving of careful attention. 8. Stewardship
Peter Block has defined stewardship as
“holding something in trust for another.”
Robert Greenleaf ‘s view of all institutions
was one in which CEOs, staffs, and trustees all played significant roles in holding their institutions in trust for the greater good of society. Servant-leadership, like stewardship, assumes first and foremost a commitment to serving the needs of others.
It also emphasizes the use of openness
and persuasion rather than control. 9. Commitment to the growth of people
Servant-leaders believe that people have an
intrinsic value beyond their tangible contributions as workers.
As a result, the servant-leader is deeply committed
to the growth of each and every individual within the institution.
The servant-leader recognizes the tremendous
responsibility to do everything possible to nurture the growth of employees. 10. Building community The servant-leader senses that much has been lost in recent human history as a result of the shift from local communities to large institutions as the primary shaper of human lives. This awareness causes the servant-leader to seek to identify some means for building community among those who work within a given institution. Servant-leadership suggests that true community can be created among those who work in businesses and other institutions.
Greenleaf said: “All that is needed to rebuild
community as a viable life form for large numbers of people is for enough servant- leaders to show the way, not by mass movements, but by each servant-leader demonstrating his own unlimited liability for a quite specific community-related group.” 9 Qualities of the Servant Leader
Leading With Others in Mind
At first blush, you may think a servant
leader literally takes on the role of a servant.
Taken to an extreme, that definition would look
like this: A Leader’s Responsibility – Max DePree makes it seem so simple: “The first responsibility of a leader is to define reality. The last is to say thank you. In between, the leader is a servant.” As you pull into work, the leader meets you at your car, opens your door, and welcomes you to the office. Maybe the leader gets you coffee mid-morning and drops by in the afternoon to see if you need anything. When you need assistance on a project, or maybe just someone to do the grunt work, there your leader is, waiting for you.
No, that isn’t servant leadership.
“Servant leaders lead with others in mind.”
Servant leadership is a blend and balance between leader and servant.
You don’t lose leadership qualities when
becoming a servant leader. A servant leader is one who:
1. Values diverse opinions
A servant leader values everyone’s contributions and regularly seeks out opinions.
If you must parrot back the leader’s opinion,
you are not in a servant-led organization. Parrot Principle
Because of a lack of self-confidence, a fear of
job loss, or an extreme need for acceptance, it is easier to agree with the boss than to advance a different point of view.
“Servant leaders regularly seek out
opinions.” 2. Cultivates a culture of trust
People don’t meet at the water cooler to
gossip.
Pocket vetoes are rejected.
Have you ever been in a meeting when everyone is nodding and agreeing with a decision? As the meeting ends, it looks like the course is set. But it isn’t. The minute the meeting is over, someone whispers, “That’s never going to happen.” Outside the meeting room, the participants cluster secretly, saying that was a ridiculous meeting. “We’d never support that.” Instead of taking action, nothing is done. That’s what I call a pocket veto.
“Servant leaders cultivate a culture of trust.”
3. Develops other leaders. The replication factor is so important. It means teaching others to lead, providing opportunities for growth and demonstrating by example. That means the leader is not always leading, but instead giving up power and deputizing others to lead.
“Servant leaders give up power and deputize others
to lead.” -Skip Prichard 4. Helps people with life issues (not just work issues).
It’s important to offer opportunities for personal
development beyond the job.
Let’s say you run a company program to lose weight, or
lower personal debt, or a class on etiquette.
None of these may help an immediate corporate need,
but each may be important.
“Servant leaders care about people’s lives, not just
their jobs.” -Skip Prichard 5. Encourages The hallmark of a servant leader is encouragement.
And a true servant leader says, “Let’s go do it,”
not, “You go do it.” Imagine waking up one morning. You turn off the alarm clock and you see a little note. It’s from your spouse. It says, “You are the best! Thank you for a wonderful weekend. I’m the luckiest person alive to be married to you!” You check your email and there’s a note from someone who works with you. “I just wanted to drop you a note to say that your work on our project made all the difference. You really nailed it.” You drive to work and someone stops you and says, “I’m glad to see you. Just seeing you makes me feel good. Thanks for all you do for me.”
“The hallmark of a servant leader is
encouragement.” -Skip Prichard 6. Sells instead of tells A servant leader is the opposite of a dictator.
It’s a style all about persuading, not commanding.
“Servant leaders sell and persuade where others
command and control.” -Skip Prichard 7. Thinks “you,” not “me.”
There’s a selfless quality about a servant
leader.
Someone who is thinking only, “How does
this benefit me?” is disqualified.
“Servant leaders think ‘you’ not ‘me’.” -Skip
Prichard 8. Thinks long-term
A servant leader is thinking about the next
generation, the next leader, the next opportunity.
That means a tradeoff between what’s
important today versus tomorrow, and making choices to benefit the future.
“Servant leaders sacrifice some today to
develop more for tomorrow.” -Skip Prichard 9. Acts with humility
The leader doesn’t wear a title as a way to show
who’s in charge, doesn’t think he’s better than everyone else, and acts in a way to care for others.
She may, in fact, pick up the trash or clean up a
table.
Setting an example of service, the servant leader
understands that it is not about the leader, but about others. “Servant leaders act with humility.” -Skip Prichard
“A servant leader harmoniously blends
characteristics of leadership with service.” -Skip Prichard
“Don’t judge each day by the harvest you reap,
but by the seeds that you plant.” —Robert L Stevenson
The first responsibility of a leader is to define
reality. -Max DePree SERVANT LEADERSHIP GAME: What Matters Most
Ask a group of participants to write
down the names: of the five richest people in the world, the past five MVP of NBA or PBA Champion Teams, the five most popular actors and actresses in Philippine Showbiz, and five government leaders. Next, have them write down the names of teachers who helped them in school, heroes who inspired them, colleagues who coached or mentored them and friends who helped them. As a whole group, discuss which exercise was easier and why. The goal is to recognize that the people who make a difference are those who care, not those the media touts.