what “SELF” mean The learner will be able to define what “PERSONALITY” mean Discuss different ways in measuring an individual’s personality Essen is 16 years of age and has been constantly problematic about her weight. She considers her weight and built as a great burden in her life as she thought that her classmates since grade school and high school have tagged her as “Fatty Essen”. She constantly was bullied for this so she had to cease from befriending anybody. She was resigned to this reality and even found herself ugly and dirty compared to her schoolmates. This concept about her looks prevented her from joining social events including their JS Prom. She would be very elusive to any attempt of any acquaintance who would converse with her. 1. How does Essen see herself?
2. Why is it that she does not want to make friends?
3. How do these issues affect her life as an
individual?
4. How do you think can such issue be resolved?
Philosophical terms – it is the being, which is the source of a person’s consciousness. The self is considered as an intangible entity that directs a person’s thoughts and actions. It is outside the physical realm of the person.
Is the essence of a person: his thoughts feelings and actions, experiences,
beliefs, values, principles, and relationships.
Defined as the individuality of a person which is subject of learning
experiences, varied emotions and thoughts Referred to as the set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts, and motives that identifies an individual. The essence of who we are and the embodiment of one’s physical, psychological, cognitive, affective, and spiritual self. Refers to the unique and relatively enduring set of behaviors, feelings, thoughts, and motives that characterize an individual (Feist and Rosenberg, 2012). Personality is influenced by both nature (heredity) and nurture (environment). There is no single gene that creates a trait. It is always a complex combination Personality can be explained in various ways according to different schools of thoughts and penness to Experience
– tendency to be original, have
broad interests, be open to a wide range of stimuli, be daring and take risks penness to Experience
H in openness to experience may
I be especially likely to take risks G and be innovative in their H planning and decision making penness to Experience
in this trait may be less prone
to take risks and be more conservative in their planning L O and decision making W C – tendency to be careful, scrupulous, and persevering C H I in this trait are G organized and H self-disciplined C in this trait lack L direction and O self-discipline W – tendency to experience positive emotions and moods and feel good about oneself and the rest of the world in extraversion tend H to be sociable, I affectionate, G outgoing and H friendly in extraversion tend to be less inclined toward L social interaction and O have a less positive W outlook – tendency to get along well with others H in this trait are I G likable, affectionate H and care about others In this trait may be distrustful, L unsympathetic, O uncooperative and W antagonistic – tendency to experience negative emotions and moods, feel distressed, and be critical of oneself and others H negative affectivity may often I feel angry and dissatisfied G and complain about their H own and others’ lack of progress in negative affectivity do not tend to experience many negative emotions L and moods and are less O pessimistic and critical W of themselves and others Observation Personality Tests 16 Personality Factors Myers-Briggs Type Indicator BarOn EQ: Is Emotions Profile Index Minnesota Multiphasic Personality Inventory 1. INTROSPECTION OR SELF- ANALYSIS
– this can be initiated by asking
a question that may be thought provoking thus leading to a series of sub questions and queries about the self. 2. KEEP A SELF-REFLECTIVE JOURNAL Positive self-reflection – is an analysis or assessment of the self while focusing on the strengths and the abilities, skills, potentials. This is to pay attention on the good side of the self to motivate the “SELF”. Negative self-reflection – is an analysis of the self based on the weaknesses, but most especially those failures so as to have an acceptance and further growth through of what the shortcoming of the individual are. 3. BE SELF-AWARE – this is a skill where we tune in to our feelings, thoughts and actions to understand how it affects us and the significant others in our life. It is necessary to “see one’s self” and not how others see us. What matters is how we regard ourselves and not how others regard us. 4. SELF-AFFIRMATION
– focuses more on your inner
strength and beauty. LOVE yourself 1. INTROSPECTION OR SELF- ANALYSIS