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WORTHY DREAMS
Mentoring Emerging Adults in Their Search for Meaning, Purpose, and Faith
By Sharon Daloz Parks
CHAPTER 1
EMERGING ADULTHOOD IN A CHANGING WORLD:
POTENTIAL & VULNERABILITY
“…I continue to watch young adults – both in North America and abroad –
reach for a place of belonging, integrity, and contribution that can anchor
meaningful hope in themselves and our shared future” (Parks, 2019, pp. 4-5).
“…the promise and vulnerability of emerging adulthood lie in the experience of the birth
of critical awareness and consequently in the dissolution and recomposition of the
meaning of self, other, world, and ‘God.’ In the process of human becoming, this task of
achieving critical thought and discerning its consequences for one’s sense of meaning
and purpose has enormous implications for the years of adulthood to follow. Emerging
adulthood is rightfully a time for asking big questions and crafting worthy dreams”
(Parks, 2019, pp. 9-10).
“We human beings are
unable to survive, and “But we don’t do it
certainly cannot thrive, “This mode of making
alone. The quality of this meaning includes (1)
unless we can make recomposition and its
meaning. If life is becoming critically
capacity to ground a aware of one’s own
perceived as utterly sense of purpose and a
random, fragmented, composing of reality,
worthy adulthood (2) self-consciously
and chaotic- depends in significant
meaningless-we suffer participating in an
measure on the ongoing dialogue
confusion, distress, hospitality, aspirations,
stagnation, and finally toward truth, and (3)
and commitment of cultivating a capacity
despair. The meaning adult culture as
we make orients our to respond-to act-in
mediated through both committed and
posture in the world and individuals and
determines our sense of satisfying ways.”
institutions.”
self and purpose.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 10) (Parks, 2019, p. 11) (Parks, 2019, p. 13)
“Within a distracted,
indifferent, or exploiting
culture, emerging “Restoring mentoring
adulthood may be as a vital social art and
“What kind of environment, squandered on dreams too a cultural force could
social milieu, and culture small to match the significantly revitalize
best serves the tasks of potential of the emerging our institutions and
those in the twenty- adult life. In the good provide the
something decade?” company of thoughtful intergenerational glue
mentors and mentoring to address some of our
communities, however, deepest and most
emerging adults can pervasive concerns.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 14)
navigate the complex
tasks at hand and (Parks, 2019, p. 15)
galvanize the power of
ongoing cultural renewal.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 15)
“This book offers a complex call-across all sectors of the new commons-
to those who would mentor the next generation.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 21)
“A central feature of the perspective offered here is that faith is integral to all human life. It
is a human universal; it shapes both personal and collective behavior…Faith is a dynamic
phenomenon that undergoes transformation across the whole life span, with the potential
for a particularly powerful transformation in the emerging adult years.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 27).
“To be at home within one’s self, place, community, and the cosmos is to feel
whole and centered in a way that yields a sense of power and participation”
(Parks, 2019, p. 51).
“Faith, then, is a quality of human living. At its best, it has taken the form of…a quiet
confidence and joy which enable one to feel at home in the universe. To be at home is to
be able to make meaning of one’s own life and one’s surroundings in a manner that
holds, regardless of what may happen at the level of immediate events. To be deeply at
home in this world is to dwell in a worthy faith” (Parks, 2019, p. 52).
”
them well and provide good home places along the way, they may
grace us all by becoming citizen-leaders, adults who can both belong
and distinguish themselves, connect and separate, venture and dwell. To
be good company, we need to understand the transformations in
thinking, feeling, and belonging that are embedded in the promise of
emerging adult lives”
(Parks, 2019, p. 76).
CHAPTER 4
IT MATTERS HOW WE THINK
“This newfound freedom to struggle for an identity and to take responsibility for it are
signals that an adolescent has crossed the threshold into emerging adulthood .”
(Parks, 2019, p. 92)
“…the most profound marker of the threshold of emerging adulthood is the capacity to
take self-aware responsibility for choosing the shape and path of one’s own fidelity.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 93)
“What this post- “Thus the emerging adult capacity for
adolescent-not-yet-full- critical thought also makes possible a
adult still needs to sense of the ideal. Emerging adults
accomplish is finding a can dream of a better world than that
home where the which they find around them. What’s
integrity, promise, and more, they long to play a role in
power of the emerging forming that world rather than simply
self can dwell in sync fitting into the real world as they
with the perceived presently find it.
realities of the social (Parks, 2019, p. 95)
world.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 94)
CHAPTER 5
IT ALL DEPENDS…
“For the emerging adult, community finds its most powerful form
in a mentoring community.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 132)
“A mentoring community offers hospitality to the potential of the emerging adult self,
poses challenging questions, and provides access
to worthy dreams of self and world.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 132)
“With abstract, hypothetical thought well established, and critical thought and
an interdependent sense of authority taking form, the emerging adult is ripe for
developing an informed passion for the ideal.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 148)
“The human being is most mature when the powers of imagination are fully awake,
alive to the deep motion of the universe and to the power of persons to participate in
this motion of life to create (and to distort) self and world.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 151)
Loder identifies five critical elements in the process of imagination as they bear
on human development, learning, and meaning-making. It is helpful to think of
them as five ‘moments’ within the act of imagination…” (Parks, 2019, p. 155).
“…good mentors play a vital role in stewarding the promise of a worthy future. As
emerging adults are beginning to think critically about self and world, mentors
provide crucial forms of recognition, support, and challenge.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 177)
“…every member of the faculty and administration-indeed all who serve the life of
the academy-have distinctive opportunities to meet emerging adults as they seek
place and purpose in a world that needs them.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 236)
“Many thoughtful professors are soberly aware that teaching and the life of the
academy has consequences that touch the whole life of a student.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 236)
“ “In manifold ways, higher education serves-consciously or
unconsciously-as a mentoring environment for the re-formation of
meaning, purpose, and faith. As higher education reconsiders its own
vocation in the life of today’s global commons, the invitation to step up
to the adaptive challenges of our time by serving both what can be
known and the one who knows is profound. It invites all of us to ask
bigger questions and to claim worthy dreams.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 237)
”
CHAPTER 10
CULTURE AS MENTOR
“Every culture serves as a mentoring environment, mediating expectations of adulthood
and the terms of faith. Culture as a word is closely linked with ‘cultivation.’ A culture is
composed of the forms of life by which a people cultivate and maintain a sense of
meaning, thus giving shape and significance to their experience.”
(Parks, 2019, pp. 238-239)
“There is evidence on every hand that emerging adult can hear and respond to
such questions. But as we have seen they are appropriately dependent on a
mentoring milieu that presents challenges they can rise to and wrestle with-a
mentoring culture that supports and enlivens rather than discourages and defeats
their best aspirations.” (Parks, 2019, p. 251)
“
“This kind of faithful alignment with the motion of life invites emerging
adults to imagine not only a job, a career, or a lifestyle. It also invites
them to claim Dreams that are the fruit of a deep sense of purpose and
vocation. It welcomes their participation in what some have spoken of as
the Great Work of our time.
To this end, it is said that the test of a culture is its capacity to nurture and
to receive its idealistic youth. In the interdependent cogwheeling of the
”
generations, the mentor needs the protégé as much as the protégé
needs the mentor, and the renewal of a mentoring culture takes place in
dialogue with the promise of the emerging adult-the promise of the
future.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 257)
CODA:
MENTORING COMMUNITIES
“At their best, religious faith communities can offer emerging adults a
micro experience of the new commons, mediating hope-not in terms of
guaranteed outcomes-but as a posture in the world informed by a
”
critically aware, exploratory, and worthy faith.”
(Parks, 2019, p. 295)
REFERENCE
Parks, S.D. (2019). Big questions, worthy dreams: Mentoring
emerging adults in their search for meaning, purpose,
and faith. Minneapolis, MN: Fortress Press.